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Ralf ragnick is the scam of the century.. thank God is out.. motivation is zero for. This gye..

Heroes..

iraqi war is still hunting this man down in his old age.....

jackals:
I'm a beautiful woman in my 30s (33 precisely) with a good career and a budding startup in the make-up business. I'm also very humble and I'm one that appreciate the little things a man do. Recently, I got linked to a guy who just came back from the US and have the intention of settling down just like me. He's successful and very respectful the First time we met, and I was already looking forward to something meaningful with him.

Last week Sunday, he took me out. When I got back home, I noticed I've embarrassed myself too much by literally throwing myself at him. I withdrew and form busy by not responding to his texts and calls for two days. WhatsApp message read but not replied.

On Tuesday, I noticed he didn't message me for the whole day. But I became bothered. Up till now, he has not called me nor message me. I didn't want things to be like this, I just didn't want it to be like I'm desperate of his attention.

Is he that he has moved on or not really interested

Young lady. from today always use common sense when dealing with men.. In other words relate the dealing to pratical affairs of life.. eg.. work interviews
Consider dates as job interview…and high quality men as top jobs..
Question ? would you keep chevron waiting if you are given a job offer..clearly no.. think that way with a man and if you keep them waiting for too long the offer would be withdrawn.. with this u would get more success with quality men..
More reason you see most promiscuous girls getting married quickly.. because they have a business mind.
always look at a high quality man you like as a high quality job you want..
You say you are a make up artist clearly you do business transaction, simple common sense.. deal with men that way.. put your business sense when dealing with men.. example man ask for sex.. ask for commitment.. with men nothing goes for nothing..same as business..
And if it’s time you want talk about it.. let him know you are not ready now and respond positively everywhere else.. apart from the sex until you are ready.all this things is a sign of a matured adult…men wants a martured adult as a wife… not an emotional adult..
I know you girls are emotional.. but always have an after thought and use common sense by relating dealing with men with pratical things men are pratical humans and more understanding with communication.. infact…communicate in a professional manner he will get it.. Selah..

Young lady. from today always use common sense when dealing with men.. In other words relate the dealing to pratical affairs of life.. eg.. work interviews
Consider dates as job interview…and high quality men as top jobs..
Question ? would you keep chevron waiting if you are given a job offer..clearly no.. think that way with a man and if you keep them waiting for too long the offer would be withdrawn.. with this u would get more success with quality men..
More reason you see most promiscuous girls getting married quickly.. because they have a business mind.
always look at a high quality man you like as a high quality job you want..
You say you are a make up artist clearly you do business transaction, simple common sense.. deal with men that way.. put your business sense when dealing with men.. example man ask for sex.. ask for commitment.. with men nothing goes for nothing..same as business..
And if it’s time you want talk about it.. let him know you are not ready now and respond positively everywhere else.. apart from the sex until you are ready.all this things is a sign of a matured adult…men wants a matured adult as a wife… not an emotional adult..
I know you girls are emotional.. but always have an after thought and use common sense by relating dealing with men with practical things men are pratical humans and more understanding with communication.. infact…communicate in a professional manner he will get it.. Selah..

You have been hypnotize with kayamata.. no shag am again ooo.. all you need is break the covenant of the shagging u already did with her.. just pray a prayer like this by saying I break every shaging covenant I have with this lady call her name..
come back and thank me later it works like magic..

waoh that was quick he had an interview on skyport lastweek about paul pogba next transfer..
very sad one....rip to the family.

Kobojunkie:
Interesting take!

Meh u follow this take.. you are in big trouble oo..
Relationship should be mutual ooo..

People forget attraction is both way.. but I discovered that in Africa we tend to think it’s all on the man to love a woman and keep doing things to pay for the love of the woman..
And this is usually a disaster.. you are dating a lady she’s playing hard to get yet she as someone else who she loves but do not care about her.. so when that one is not available any more.. the available becomes the desired… and u think ohh I have her now.. nahhh.. u are the option..and option would usually remain option.. unless God is involved..

chaii ... see what happens when you get involve with a RAZZ woman...
the gye no get money again... but u clearly stated he pays for all your tickets etc..if you can lie then who is believe you now...

well history shows people can cultivate an habit and patterns in relationships....
that's why background checks are necessary.
well you got yours...
so at least you know the answer of the exams before you start am.
so play it as it suits you. all the best.

From all the information you gave it’s clear she is out to blackmail you with the pregnancy as there is no pregnancy a typical Nigerian girl sees an expertriat and sees dollar bills be smart… if your mind tells you it’s fake belive your instinct..
If I where you abandon her..and move on..

He should definately as resign on that night..
This lad failed badly… history wouldn’t judge him well as a coach.. having failed to take us to 2 World Cup.2006 and 2022.

Omo the Americans simply forgot that the Russian is a fellow world power….and if they decide to run with not relying on the dollars then other countries will align with them..and that spells doom for the us dollar

mehn, when one model works everyone would start adopting it...
the world could be resetting now... us dollar hmmm.

Legendary evra

Philip94:
I have been married for almost a year but my marriage has been 30% sweet and mostly 70% bitter because I have an unforgiven wife who is ONLY concerned about what I said and did wrong but NEVER concern about what I did right.

She gets offended easily, keeps malice and gives me silent treatment at home. I've had private conversation with her MORE THAN 10 TIMES on how to find a lasting solution to wherever issues she has with me instead of her constant fault finding and malice. Despite my effort, all seems like a waste coz there is no positive change at all.

Lately, MY LEGALLY MARRIED WIFE TOLD ME THAT SHE NO LONGER FEEL CONNECTED AND FEEL LOVE FOR ME ANY MORE.

I asked her to tell me one or more reason why she said that but her response was NOTHING. She's practically creating space between us. She does her thing alone and does not carry me along in any thing and she wants same from me.

She is doing everything to make the marriage stop while I have been the one sustaining and making the marriage work out. Her parents are not helping matters coz they are not giving me listening ears and have a way of supporting their daughter by twisting whatever I say to suite them.

B4 we got married, we had quarrel and misunderstandings as other couples do and said abusive words to ourselves which we settled b4 our wedding day and I assume we have forgiven and forgotten about it. But with the look of things, my wife is tied to the past and will keep remembering what I said and did wrong in the past and she allows the past deed affect our present.

Sadly, her unforgiving attitude and never ending resentment is badly affecting our marriage presently. I have tried everything possible within my capacity to rekindle back her love for me & for the sake of our marriage and 3 months baby boy. I suggested that we go out to a cool place just the two of us alone but her response is NO. She even said I can go out and have sex with anyone that she doesn't want SEX for now.

NOTE: I am the one paying all the bills at home coz she's presently jobless. Yet, I am not complaining. She is not stressed up as some may think coz there are helpers at home taking care of her and the baby. Please! What can I do to put a stop to this shit. It's affecting my emotion and psychology.

uncle when a woman is fed up there is nothing you can do about it...
r kelly sang a song on that...
bros do nothing..
let her have her wish...
you deserve to be happy.... with the remaining part you have left to live in this life.
don't worry at all about it...and don't let her see you panic...
give her a divorce if that's what she want...
and move on...
but make sure this time you marry someone that loves you not who you love alone..
attraction is and should always be a 2 way thing.
all the best....

well the woman clearly use the old trick in the book for the gentle man....
say whatever to marry him. And change after.
well if i was the lad i would make a big case now... otherwise this would continue into the future.

GOVERNORS are literary like god ... when they are in office and you could be deluded to believe you can never be prosecuted... because you have immunity... well if you always remember the immunity would disappear when you leave office...
you would be careful with what you do.

In January, the Home Office said there was no public evidence to prove that Nigeria had over 50 per cent speakers of the English Language to be included in its Majority English Speaking Country (MESC) list.

that is an interesting fact ... most graduate can not even comprehend or understand English language...

Well that’s what happen with war.. ask Syrian… Libya and Iraqis how there country was set back..

bros if the word of the SEER says she would eventually come back to her senses...let it come to pass now..
move on.. some people are meanth to be Judas. even if Jesus preach to them they would still have to learn the hard way.

well i wanted to talk about having a pause in your relationship but i think it is past...
i would address the issue of the present..
well i don't know how old she is... but i assume she should be in her mid 20.... well i don't think she's a bad person.
i think she is simply confuse and she acting majorly on ignorant
well when it comes to attitude pattern in relationship. Meaning who to do this and that.. all that could be lectured into her...
i would advice you go for a relationship counselling before you propose...if things don't change you move on...
does that mean she a bad person... NO...
WELL it just means at this point in life you both are not a good fit for each other...
relationship counselling would help both you and your future partner...as there are somethings you need to work on too yourself...EG
there is nothing wrong in sharing responsibility in the home tooo...

If person carry gun u no dey obey him command… Russian get nuclear weapon… ooo it just take a button and things go spoil for Europe.. ask Japan wey American throw nukes for there land.. they still suffer from it till date..

chaii which kind boxers be that.... but the lady should be questioned too as tp how she could remain with a man with that kind of dirty thingy

attack is from Kiev that is currently controlled by the Ukraine government... not russians

well the new weapons making a difference... kudus to the Nigerian military and also the president for his commitment..

FavourWrites:
Please help me Nairalander! Do I have a medical problem? Why do I forget things a lot?

Here’s the thing, I am someone who forgets things a lot. This may not sound like a big deal to you, but this problem is ruining the relationship I have with people.

There’ll be times when my friends would call telling me to do stuff for them, and the next day when we meet and they ask for the feedback, I’ll be there looking stupid because I didn’t remember them calling me at all. This is a problem because most times they think I faking the fact that I failed to remember.

I’ll be nineteen in a few months but I’m seriously worried for myself. I’m the kind of person who buys about three PEN every single day because I always forget where I dropped the last ones.

Don’t get me wrong, I do well in school, I currently have a 4.8 CGPA. The things I’m taught in school always seem to stick in my head, but every other thing doesn’t.

I have lost a lot of valuable friends because of this. Yes! It’s that bad.

There was a time I had a huge quarrel with a toxic friend, we ended up breaking up our friendship. But when the next semester began, I started wondering why she wasn’t talking to me. I tried approaching her but she ignored me.

I didn’t understand her behavior until the day I was flipping through my diary where I read that I had quarreled with her.

Please, I need help! My mum complains a lot about my behavior! Do I have a medical condition?

This problem is so bad that I had to buy a bracelet that connects my phone to my hand because I have lost count of how many times my phone slipped out of my hands.
If not for the sound that my phone makes when it hits the floor, I never would have known that it slipped off my hands.

I can’t write all of the experiences I’ve had, but please I need help! I’m tired of carrying a book Jotter/planner around, and I’m tired of setting an alarm for something small like “TAKE THE CUP BACK TO THE KITCHEN".

HELP ME!

Well.. I don’t think there is any thing to worry about.it could be a case we’re u don’t tend to put attention to things that are not important.. well take time to meditate on 2 Timothy 1:17.. “For God hath not given us the spirit of fear; but of power, and of love, and of a sound mind.”
and always say to your self the later part of the verse.. that ‘I have a sound mind… I have a retentive mind/memory I remember everything I am told.. add every other word to it.. to fit what you want.. if you do this for 3 months you will be amazed at the result..NB : Also read some other translation to help your declarations..

TheFacelessMan:
Lol. You have been watching too much Hollywood.

I can quite easily get you more than 5 Nairaland articles of couples dying in similar fashion.

The most likely reason is an accumulation of carbon monoxide in the car from putting on the AC because of faulty wiring.

Nigerians has no fingerprint database, so why would a killer waste precious time that would get him caught while staging a scene?

Bola Ige, Kudirat Abiola and Funsho Williams are prominent VIPs who got brutally murdered when it would have even benefited the killers to stage their deaths as accidents.

It's morbidly amusing when a cobbler with 8 kids hangs himself and you see people here spewing conspiracy theories about killers staging the scene.

Carbon monoxide is odourless and colourless by the way... you drift off into a sleep of no return. Happened in incidents where generator was switched on in poorly ventilated areas.

You think all of these couples were killed by master assassins ?

https://www.nairaland.com/5013256/man-woman-found-dead-inside

https://www.nairaland.com/6867804/married-man-bride-to-be-found-dead

EXACTLY MY TOUGHT CARBON MONOXIDE..

Rip to him complete sport was the internet of the street then…. I remember him very well then in okota..

because being good is not enough to make a relationship work.. you have to understand and learn human phycology.. mainly because there are laws to everything in life including relationship and you have to be on the right side of the laws of the relationship for it to favour you.
example just because you are a good person does not mean you would drive a motor vehicle successfully CAPITAL NO... you have to learn how to drive.
and you are ultimately responsible for this. GOD might have created you nice/good .. .but let that be the foundation you build everything else on... always follow this quotes below

Be strong, but not rude; Be kind, but not weak; Be bold, but not bully; Be humble, but not timid; Be proud, but not arrogant.”

NB- LIFE IS A MIX BUNCH (good bad ugly).. so you have to learn the ropes to navigate through life..