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BluIvy: Thanks girl for atleast not pretending not to understand what is going on here as many people do but prefer to attack the victim and make her the evil one.

Why do people think of killing when soneone says revenge. He did not kill her but hurt her. She also want to hurt him emotionally like he hurt her.

By the way I think it will nice to see his downfall. He made his bed and now he is about to lie on it. ............

He hasn't got a heart! He betrayed his own wife, how much more her! All she can do is humiliate him. She has been 'pus*s-yduped' and cannot undo that! She needs to forgive him, forgive herself, ask God to forgive and heal her, and move on.

BluIvy: I will not argue with that, totally true. So its all to hell from here right? According to your poetic justice? Ncccccccccc, Christians and their anger induced by their "hollier than thou" attitude. I bet you do not sin and have never sinned. Cast all the stones for I doubt we will find another sinless soul out there except you. Pile' em up sister, hurry you have a lot of work to do.

'Holier than thou attitude'? My anger? I merely stated the obvious; Trangress God's rules and reap the rewards. That is how it works! I am not a saint, I am not without sin but I speak the truth according to God's word! When will women of God learn to not compromise God's standards in an attempt to get a man's heart? The man you betray God for WILL disappoint you, hence the reason why we should strive to honour God. A born-again xtian wants to marry and chooses not to lay the foundation of her marriage in line with God's word? We get chastened when do what we know what we ought not to do.

I haven't judged her or sentenced her to hell; My opinions on her conduct are in line with the word of God. You will agree that I had nothing to do with the man's disrespectful treatment of her! She lay her pearls before a swine who trampled upon them (Bible says not to give your pearls to swine, not me)! She would not be as hurt if she had kept her legs crossed. When will we learn? We can learn by listening to God or by letting treacherous man teach us.

I apologize for any inconvenience my outspokeness may have caused you but you will need to take your grievance to God who wrote the rules.

honeric01: The parents nko?

some of them were forced by their parents and this is a global thing. just read the article.

The 'demand' for underage wives is the root cause of the problem here. No demand, no need for supply! I agree that the selfish parents are guilty of not protecting their children from r*a-p*e. Tackle the root and the problem will of child marriage will go away or be significantly reduced!

ambrosini593: Kindly upload

Why? Are you the Church Fashion Police?

lupey: ................................................I'm proud of mine anyday,anytime and I can share it to the whole world cos I'm beautiful,bold and raised by a single parent!!!

.....Happy Mothers' day to a very deserving mother and all others like her all over the world!

All over the world, the remaining layers of godliness and sanity are being peeled away layer by layer ... and they then turn round and blame God - the one they believe does not exist BTW! God have mercy on us!

DailyNews: Is it against the Nigerian law for a single guy who of course isn't married to adopt a baby? If it is legally accepted, pls can u help with the following information:

1. What are the legal requirements to adopt a baby in Nigeria?

2. Where can one find a legally recognised hospital or organization to adopt a baby without being seen as a criminal or baby-robber? If possible, give out contacts

3. Pls share any helpful info to assist a single guy wishing to embark on this project of child adoption, thanks in anticipation of your informative responses

I remember looking up the rules sometime ago. Pointers below:

As a single person, you must be at least 21 years older than the child you want to adopt; and you can't adopt a child of the opposite sex. You'll have to google to find the rest.

maclatunji: The reason why justice is highly unlikely to be served is not because it is too late- far from it. It is because we live in a hypocrital world and society. Many of the men who will advise the poor girl's parents would have at one point or the other had carnal knowledge of a woman against her will and many women who have been forcefully had won't speak out about it.

It is these kind of people that will come and tell the girl and her parents: 'you can't lock up the father of your daughter's unborn child, he will still be needed in future.'

You are right, Mac! So sad!

babyosisi: Imani you sound exactly like me when I had this discussion with my husband early yesterday morning.
The marriage stopped being a marriage many many years ago,it is increasingly getting worse and my greatest fear is that this woman may go mental with all the stress.
_{God forbid}
The man not only has his own bedroom,he also has his own phone line,his own pots and pans and cooks his own meals.

I too am a Christian and believe in Christian principles but this one one has gone beyond patience and longsuffering.

Terrible. She needs to have a frank talk with him about what they should do about their situation. Why is he staying with her if he is intent on living a totally separate life? A born-again xtian should not do this to their wife. Is he fooling God or man by staying in the 'marriage'?

Emeka was old enough to have been given the key! RIP to those poor kids!

rokiatu: GreatGod, am pissed!!! now I have nothing to say.

She don talk am finish!

biolabee: no p.. so how is it going now?

He neva reach 24 hours now? Give the woman time to respond to his new approach. A woman who has been dead to her man for some months(for whatever reasons) doesn't wake up in one day. It's be a gradual process to recovery.

... and the atrocities continues When will the irresponsible men who engage in r*aP'*e and child marriage curb their urges and learn to respect females!

@ OP,

Excuse me ... 'You say she is a born-again christian who had been celibate for ....'. What line was she forced to cross? A born-again xtian knows they should not be intimate with someone they were not married to. If she slept with him before marriage, she is now paying for it. She was silly enough to compromise God's standards for unreliable human.

Subscribing ...

Found this funny video and thought I'd share with all those belong to 'The Motherhood' and those aspiring to join the club!


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eNVde5HPhYo

van bonattel: If the woman stayed at home and cared for her baby the way nature made it to be, this would not have happened. but she chose to go and sit inside an air conditioned office and flirt with men while her husband molests the baby.

Oh, Please! Did you grasp the part the mother took from the story at all?

He won't be loving this video or his interviewers o! He has got very long fingers .... very good for gesticulating 'Oga on top'! ROTFLMAO!

Educative and interesting! Thanks for sharing!

Ms. Muhammad and five other American niqabis were interviewed for this article, in addition to the Ahmed sisters. All of them made the decision to wear the niqab when they were single. And, although the Muslim faith does not require women to cover their faces, all believe the niqab gave them a bit of extra credit in the eyes of God. “The more clothes you wear, the closer you are to God,” Ms. Muhammad said.

The bolded is amazing! I never knew getting closer to God was this easy! Whao! Jesus went all that way to the cross for our sins when all we needed was plenty of clothes?? How come the nuns never let us into this secret?

Segeggs: it is ibo made

Igbo-made mermade abi Igbo-maid mermaid!

Pharisees ... Sadducees ... weightier matters of the law! Saddens me to see many xtians still drinking milk when tehy ought to have moved on to meat!

C'mon! Spit it out! Let's hear it!

Enjoyed reading ... Thanks for sharing!

VladimirLenin: So, i dated this pretty lady for almost 2 years. Great person to be around, very charming. Very nice and respectful. She is from an Islamic family and her father said i could not marry her. She covers up, but her assets are so big, they can still be seen with all the covering. Through out our dating time, we never had sex though i tried several times and anytime i try, we always end up quarrelling. One of the conditions her family gave was that i had to be a muslim to marry their daughter. I did what i have to do. So, We got married Last Month.

Do you know that till this moment we've not been together as husband and wife (We haven't not had sxx). [b]Why? She said Her Vagiinna has healed like a wound and she does not want me to see it. She said she has never used it before, so the opening has closed up over the years. [/b]Chai!!! My brain is turning. I told my people and we went back to her family to tell them what was going on. Her father it is the work of the devil and they will pray fot it to open.

Now, i got back from work 30 minutes ago and she is gone. She normally comes back home before me but all her things are no more in the house. After all the "i love you too" and my heavy mahr. Ehh Ehhh, This people are testing me.

Do I belive this story? No! Why?

Your wife's problem is your problem! Why not take her to a doctor? Surgery will sort the 'problem' out and you'll be getting marital privileges in no time!

Move this to the Islamic section, Please!

Interesting expo on stuff I didn't know about 'excos' and their 'sisters'! LOL!

PAGAN 9JA:
Banned by maclatunji in Islam for Muslims for Deliberately altering and misrepresenting a Quranic verse .. Ban expires on 8:45am On Nov 24, 2015 .

Were you given the above reason as the cause of your ban?

seno408: What do you guys think about situation on ground

What crisis? Where?

Nooooooooooo .... I think this thread should be moved to the Islamic Section! I believe it was started for the purpose of promoting the '4 wives' allowance

nedu2000: he should pray 4 forgiveness 4rm God & his victims,can't U̶̲̥̅̊ see that its his ''confession" publicly that will bring d church to disrepute?christianity is religion that believes so much on evangelism and his utterances could put away potential souls

The reputation of 'the church' is not more important than the healing of the souls it used, abused and betrayed their trust. 'The Church' of Christ cannot be taken down by anybody. The church that fears being taken down for confession of its members sins is not of God! God wants sinners to repent! A saved sinner is not ashamed to declare that he was once lost! This church covered up loads and loads of pdofiles + ra*pi-st*s just to keep its reputation? Who is this church fooling? God or Man? This church needs to show 'potential souls' that it will not condone the sekzual abuse of it current church members, and that it will ex-communicate and deliver offenders to the law courts to be punished.

Enough of rap*i*n-g the sheep in the name of Christ! Enough! Enough! I say 'down with church reputation' in the favour of consolation, healing and justice to the victims! Salvation is not corporate; it is individual! Christ gave them enough time to repent of their secret sins; they did not. Instead they continued in it, covered it up, denied justice to the victims. Christ himself has exposed them.

Every abuser of the children of God hiding behind government office, culture and custom, religion, Christ and the name of God will be exposed in Jesus Name!

Reyginus: Dude, what's the matter?

Why do I perceive the above to have been intended as a rhetorical question!

adaybayor: Oh there you go, you must have no reply because there is just nothing to justify what you xtians do. My signature has nothing to do with this.

You made a lot of wrong statements and that's typical of you guys. Always assuming to know what you know not.

Well I don't blame you, you are used to being fed with poo without objecting. That's the difference between you and me.

Eni to ba ma feed mi ni poo ma mu'ra o! Why? I ask questions ... a lot! That's why I am not a Muslim!

I am not bitter to see Muslim threads on the front page. If the threads invite and allow critical debate, I would join in. If they sound like 'The devil pisses in your ears when you yawn', Why would I want to join in!


adaybayor, Muslims should be very happy and content on NL. Why? They are the only religion that have a dedicated section! They are able to bar non-muslims from the section at will. What else do you want? A subsection for Muslims on every section?