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CelebritiesRe: Tacha Ships Her Benz To The UK For Use by Shancca: 9:21pm On Feb 22, 2020
Leave the mumu girl. Who no go no go know.
Plumville:
Tacha Tacha Tacha! lol �

If you don’t know something Biko ask questions. There must be people around you that must have travelled before na.

Who needs to ship car to Uk, Pure waste of resources.

Which car sef? with UK using right hand drive?

Some of these so-called celebs ehn! Nawa!
FamilyRe: I Am Sterile But About To Be A Father by Shancca: 12:02pm On Feb 06, 2020
Calm down bro. Wait for the delivery of the child, run a DNA and clear your doubts. P.S: have you lost faith in God?
Romangalactic:
I'll try to keep my predicament short. I registered a new account for this purpose but I'm sure many of you will understand that sterility is not something to be announced which is exactly how I got myself in this situation. I am 35 and engaged to a beautiful woman who completes me in every way. As much as it hurts me to say this, I have not been totally honest with her about everything.
Just yesterday while we were home together, she told me that she is pregnant . I asked her how sure she is, she said she had done the pee test and that she knows how she is feeling. The issue here is that I am sterile but I have not told her this before so it is impossible that I am responsible.

Please before anyone tells me I deserve this for not opening up to her, I have been undergoing treatment secretly and they say I will be able to father children when it's done so of course, I am hopeful and have not bothered to inform her about any of this. I can't stand losing her for any reason. My issue right now is that I asked my endocrinologist this morning if it's possible that the treatment is already working and he said we have not gone far enough to see any results yet. This means I am definitely not the father of the child she is carrying.

Only one other person in this world knows about my health challenge and that is my cousin. I told him and he told me to break up with my fiancée, someone I have already done introduction with and families are involved. I told him I cannot and that he must take the secret to the grave, he thinks I am making the biggest mistake of my life.
Well I told him my plan is to accept the pregnancy and continue to make her think I don't know she cheated on me. I am doing this with the hope that after we get married, my treatment will be completed and everything will be back to normal. But at the same time, I still can't shake the feeling that I am about to marry someone who cheated and is passing off another man's child as mine, I feel cheated and it hurts.

Can anyone else please tell me what to do about this situation I have found myself? Please I just need to hear from other people besides my cousin. Another thing, he has never really liked my fiancée so I feel that also may be his motivation.
I need neutral opinions please
RomanceRe: Im Thinking Of Divorce Just Few Months Into Marriage by Shancca: 3:48pm On Feb 02, 2020
You are a good man bro. Please exit this marriage.

You offered her 3m naira wedding? Are you kidding me? You saw her through her education and she wants to boss you around. Be gentle and leave bro. You spend your money and your life at the same time. You need peace. Take a bow bro
CrimeRe: Someone Used My ATM Card To Shop On Aliexpress by Shancca: 3:27pm On Feb 02, 2020
Danhoys:
I don't know if this is the right section.. Please lala, your help is needed.

Just this morning, I got a debit alert from AlieXpress and was wondering how possible. I thought it must be a problem with Aliexpress since I do shop there.. As i was trying to get to support, I got another debit alert, and yet another.

I had to block the atm through my bank app. I tried looking for my atm and it was nowhere to be found.

It dawns on me that I've lost my atm and someone is shopping with it. Now my question is, is it possible to recover my money through my bank, possibly trace the transaction and know who did it?
I am sorry this happened to you. I am not sure you are guaranteed a refund of your stolen money as Nigerian banks are useless and unable to protect their customers. They are only interested in making profits in a fluttering economy like Nigeria’s.
PoliticsRe: Buhari Signs New Minimum Wage Bill by Shancca: 7:01pm On Apr 18, 2019
I hope he knows what is minimum? It cut across all the sectors of livelihood. Private owned entities should be checked to ensure they abide by the new wage status. In a nutshell, a salesgirl with WAEC certificate, should earn above or equal the minimum wage, which is excellent. By this, people should not be forced to go university before they can make it. There will be job equility and societal respect. If only our govt and the citizens know what is minimum wage, this country will be heaven.
CareerRe: Meet Babatunde Fashola, A Nigerian Software Engineer That Works At Twitter HQ by Shancca: 2:02pm On Apr 16, 2019
Ethnic bigot motherfucker
Is04970:
Yoruba leads, some follow and others are into drugs.
CrimeRe: SARS Officer Who Raped Ochanya Samson Arrested. Photos by Shancca: 8:18pm On Apr 11, 2019
How do I get the account number of Samson Ochanya? This girl has really suffered. No human deserve to suffer on earth.
CelebritiesRe: Mike Ezuruonye Seizes Pirated Copies Of 'Chief Daddy' From Roadside Hawker by Shancca: 4:39pm On Apr 02, 2019
We are not ready for change. Look at what you are saying. I wish all Nigerians will be transported to Europe and have them spend just one week. By this, they will see how humans live naturally.
Davash222:
Because t cryhe Hawker is a little boy.


Try this nonsense with a Lagos street dude, who has been under the sun for a long time selling CDs... I swear, Mike for regret the day they born am.
RomanceRe: And Death Took Away My High School Crush Forever by Shancca: 9:03pm On Mar 23, 2019
What a wonderful read. Properly crafted. May she rest in the bosom of our Lord
uche87:
A high school friend with a heart of gold named Jamiu decided to open a WhatsApp group to connect all the old students of All Saints' College (ASCOL) Jericho reservation, Ibadan - precisely 2004 set with each other.

I almost cried when I was added to the group. I loathe WhatsApp group chats and I always have difficulties leaving the ones I have been added to prevent making the wrong impression. Jamiu is a unifier and I will forever respect him for his humble and peaceful nature. He loves to stay in touch with the high school family. He endured the embarrassment of talking several supercilious folks into being members of the group. Trust my judgement, ASCOL had a lot of cocky guys who have achieved more than Bill Gates, Jeff Bezos and Mark Zuckerberg in their imaginations. But that's not my focal point today.

In barely two months of the creation of the group, the death of one of us was announced on the platform. I rushed to check who it was and I was enveloped by shock when I discovered it was my secondary school crush, Boluwatife Ejiofoh. It was unbelievable and I apparently felt a blackout!
It was as if I instantly teleported back to the year 2001 at the SS 1 class when I first set my eyes on the wonderful soul.

I battled with low self-esteem when I got admission into All Saints' College, a private school where I spent the remaining three years of my secondary school education. You wouldn't blame me. I was coming from a public school - Government College, Apata, Ibadan (popularly called GCI till date) where vernacular was like the official language in the school. Most of my colleagues were generally from poor homes so we all felt comfortable with ourselves. All Saints' College was different, the students were divided into two major economic classes. The supposed children of the rich and that of the struggling. I belonged to the latter. While the pupils of the upper-class talked about designer wears, cars, houses, foreign music, exotic meals, computers, internet, new video game technologies, holidays and other good things of life, my gist couldn't meet up with theirs. They were even more fluent in the English language than me. For the first time in my life, I felt lost. I was difficult to deal with the feeling of looking like an outsider. Envy started to creep into my heart and I started wishing I was born into their class of families. During my days at GCI - an all-male school, I seemed popular among the girls at the extra moral classes I attended. I couldn't continue the feat at ASCOL. I thought I was a lion but I was just a mere cat, the one that makes funny noises around your windows at night.

I maintained a low profile relating with the people of my class. When I moved from the science class to the art class due to my challenges with my sums, Boluwatife was one of the upper-class girls that loved my style. She was interested in my story and my jokes. She was an open-minded beautiful, dark-skinned, busty and tall girl who appeared to have experienced life at the upper and lower strata. I think the massive size of her boobs made her easily noticeable among the female folks. She was a product of an intercultural marriage between Yoruba and Igbo individuals or so. We would sit down for long hours and talk about the Yoruba movies most people were ashamed of discussing. She particularly loved the characters of Baba Suwe, Moladun Kenkelewu and others in that circle. She loved laughing. She would laugh to the extent of shedding tears and at times might end up sitting on the bare floor. She was really crazy!

She will comfortably share my snacks with me and drink from the same bottle with me. She was to an extent careless with her body but not in an indecent way. She could hug you tightly despite being the opposite sex. She could sit on your laps while you guys talked. On some occasions, she would rest her soft bosom on my back while we discussed. I loved that feeling, I swear to God! Many started feeling erroneously that we were dating. As teenagers then we were excited about dating each other as we were just attaining puberty. I'm sure they wondered how an amateur and ill-equipped hunter like me would drag an elephant home from the forest.

My closeness to her helped me gain confidence and comfortability in my own skin. To my amazement, she easily looked down on the so-called upper-class guys which didn't go down well with them.

Most of them must have started feeling there was something special about me. Some of them would accost me on the road to make inquiries about Boluwatife. They wanted to know if we were dating. The feeling was so enjoyable even though there was nothing like that between us.

Gradually, I started proving my mettle academically as one of the top students in the school. I gathered strength that I was able to walk boldly around and tell my own stories from the world I belong to with the number of listeners increasing. Through me, Bolu became friends with other guys who later loved her personality. I liked Bolu but I didn't want to lose the friendship we shared so I killed the feelings. One thing my association with Bolu taught me was to be proud of who I am as well as my background. Till date, I confidently tell people my parents were civil servants and my first school fees at All Saints College was paid from a loan my father obtained from the bank for the purpose of giving me a better future.

In 2004, I passed my SSCE in flying colours and proceeded to the Obafemi Awolowo University while she went to Bowen University and we never spoke again. Then social media was absent. I joined Facebook in 2008 during my third year in school and I couldn't find her. Connecting with most of my old schoolmates was discouraging as many had moved on. They were very hostile and snobbish on Facebook. I moved on too and put the memories behind me.

I was devastated when I heard about Bolu's demise. She had already married with a lovely daughter. She stayed in the same city, Lagos with me and our paths never crossed. I wished I made extra efforts to connect with Bolu on Instagram while she was alive. I was told she died in the hospital on Wednesday night - 20th of March, 2019 after battling with an undisclosed ailment.

Even in the picture of hers that was used to announced her eternal exit, I could see the traces of pure laughter on her face. She was indeed a happy and free-spirited person. I have been staring at her picture for days now with guilt. I wish I reached out to her to express appreciation for the sense of belonging she gave me as a lonely and insecure young boy. I feel she might have lived if I prayed for her. I can't remember losing any close friend to the cold hands of death and I appreciate God for that grace. Since I heard the bad news, I have been feeling the grace could have been extended to Bolu if kept in touch as good friends again.

Death is inevitable but it comes with immense pains whenever it happens too early. Bolu died too young, she would have been 31 this year I think.
May God forgive her sins and grant her a special place in heaven. May He grant her family the fortitude to bear the loss. No amount of lamentations or tears will bring her back.
I want to use this medium to advise anybody reading this to cultivate the habit of checking on those special people who made positive impacts in their lives at different levels. We don't know what tomorrow holds. I wish I said a final goodbye to Bolu. I wish I could watch her laugh and roll on the floor as I share my regular childish gist. Sadly, dead bodies don't laugh.

Please, forgive me for not checking on you while that ailment squeezed your precious life out of you. You might be gone but you will always live in my heart. You are never over Boluwatife Ejiofoh.


Written by Osayimwen Osahon George; B.sc, M.sc, PhD in view.

Source: https://www.tori.ng/news/118909/and-death-took-away-my-high-school-crush-forever.html
TravelRe: Final year UNN student crushed to death while returning from class by Shancca: 12:05pm On Mar 22, 2019
I have always known the Nkpor junction and the recklessness with which people drive along the non drainage/walkway road. It's quite painful that we don't have road attitude in Nigeria. Developed countries have nearly avoid reoccurring deaths from accidents and near misses. RIP my dear.
RomanceRe: Lady Embarrasses Man In Public Over N5K Payment In Anambra State. Photos by Shancca: 1:27am On Mar 22, 2019
We are too jobless in Nigeria. They conservative culture of the British has really bless their heads. What's my business with this man and the lady. Why not mind our businesses?
Nairaland GeneralRe: Lagos Chinese Restaurant Responds To Accusations Of Racism by Shancca: 2:09am On Mar 20, 2019
Not so... Just that things doesn't work in Nigeria and the government doesn't keep the law firm. Let Chinese come and try it here in the UK. Who knows if they are selling human meat.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Apply for 2018 MSc and PhD Commonwealth Scholarship In The UK by Shancca: 12:55pm On Jun 08, 2018
tunde20:
I sent them a mail yesterday as to when nominated applicants will hear from them, they replied: "This month."
For Commonwealth Shared?
EducationRe: Bilateral Education Agreement (BEA) Scholarship Awards - 2018/2019 by Shancca: 2:37pm On Jun 06, 2018
ebubeval:
congratulations are in order then. I applied for ug but wasn't nominated, well that's BTW. Though, I don't know you, really glad someone... You got it. So, congrats again.
Thank you very much
EducationRe: Bilateral Education Agreement (BEA) Scholarship Awards - 2018/2019 by Shancca: 1:13pm On Jun 06, 2018
Awards of scholarships have started. I received the scholarship.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Apply for 2018 MSc and PhD Commonwealth Scholarship In The UK by Shancca: 2:37am On May 21, 2018
Who got nominated to Portsmouth.?.. Nominations been rolling in like wrecking balls
CelebritiesRe: "My Body Na Ebeano!": Peter Okoye Goes Shirtless In New Photo by Shancca: 5:40am On May 16, 2018
GistMoreTV:
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can you impress God with that?
EducationRe: Apply for 2018/2019 PTDF Scholarship in Germany/France/China by Shancca: 9:03am On May 11, 2018
Have they released the list for GCF?
EducationRe: Bilateral Education Agreement (BEA) Scholarship Awards - 2018/2019 by Shancca: 6:58pm On May 05, 2018
Send message to this 07033358019 and share ur contacts
BusinessRe: Femi Otedola And Bola Tinubu In 2005: Throwback Photo by Shancca: 10:03am On May 04, 2018
EducationRe: Erasmus Mundus Master's Scholarship Applicants 2017/2018 by Shancca: 6:00pm On Apr 27, 2018
Hello house.. I have not gotten e-mail for d said WACOMA... what could be the problem?
EducationRe: Bilateral Education Agreement (BEA) Scholarship Awards - 2018/2019 by Shancca: 9:40pm On Apr 22, 2018
excellentobanz:
okay ...here too
https:///5G1pjTJEeiqLYc5vbP11q0


Follow d link to join
EducationRe: Bilateral Education Agreement (BEA) Scholarship Awards - 2018/2019 by Shancca: 4:13pm On Apr 22, 2018
straynt:
Greetings bro. Sent you a PM. Pls lets conn
ect. I was nominated for BME hungary.
Let's create a WhatsApp group.. Call in other nominees
EducationRe: Bilateral Education Agreement (BEA) Scholarship Awards - 2018/2019 by Shancca: 10:12am On Apr 22, 2018
tyakson99:
from last year's thread, I observed that those nominated for China were required to fill an online form before going to Abuja for interview. most were contacted in the last week of April. how come this year documentation has already been done according to someone and nobody so far has indicated they receive a text or know someone who did? anyway this is Naija sha, anything is possible. please for PG applicant, don't forget to also apply for PTDF, it even far better than this bea.
Another interview? The one Bea do nko? I think if you are nominated by naija, everything now lies on other partners
TV/MoviesRe: BBNaija: CeeC Warns Her Father, Others Ahead Of The End Of The Show by Shancca: 10:05am On Apr 22, 2018
Angelicka:
Big Brother Naija 2018 controversial housemate is warning her Dad ahead of the end of the show.

"Anybody, even my Father, that wants to say any useless thing about me after the show, should keep it to himself. I'm saying it make he hear am now." She said.

Click Here To Watch The Video >>
https://www.instagram.com/p/Bh2F28zB3e7/?hl=en

http://www.royaloya.com/2018/04/bbnaija-update-ceec-
warns-her-dad-ahead.html?m=1
I wonder where you will be at 70 and beyond.. The exuberance of late 20s is taking you afar..
Christianity EtcRe: Hot 20 Prayer Points For Divine Mercy And Favour You Should Know by Shancca: 10:00am On Apr 22, 2018
Mediablare:
Are you in need of God’s mercy and favour over your life, over your family, over a situation? Here are some prayer points for mercy and favour that you can use to pray.



Favour is defined as a liking, an approval, an act of kindness, a support for someone beyond what is usual or what the person deserves. It is a very bad thing to lack mercy and favour in life. This is because, there are times when some situations are beyond our control or limit, and only God’s mercy and favour can help. This kind of situations or problems can result to a life of struggles and frustration. To overcome these difficult situations in our lives, we need God’s mercy and favour.

Things you should note and do to be able to enjoy God’s mercy and favour

These are some of the things you should take note and practice so that your prayer for mercy and favour can be answered:

Stay connected to God.
Repent of any sin and from secret unholy dealings that might be a hindrance.
Decide to live in obedience to God’s word and trust God to help you with the decision
Walk in love daily.
Be a person of prayer and trust God for the grace to always pray.
Prayers for mercy and favour


Mercy and favour go hand in hand most of the time. That is why I have decided not to write the prayers for mercy separate and for favour separately. Here are twenty prayer points on mercy and favour that are powerful.

1. Lord, I thank you because my joy is multiplying as I receive unlimited favour of God in Jesus Name.



2. Lord, in whatever way that I have sinned against you and disobeyed your word and instructions, please show me mercy according to your loving kindness and forgive my sins according to your mercy that endures forever in Jesus name.

3. Lord, I seek your mercy and favour in my life, in my studies, in my business and so on (mention those areas where you want God’s mercy and favour), in Jesus name.

4. Father, by your mercy, listen to my cry and give me testimonies in Jesus name.

5. Psalms 102 verse 13 says: “You will arise and have mercy on Zion; for the time to favour her, Yes, the set time, has come. Oh Lord, arise and show me mercy, for it is time for me to experience your favour in name of Jesus.”

6. Oh Lord, I do not put my hope and trust in my strength, I put my hope and trust in your favour to bring me things in my life in Jesus name. Read Psalms 44 verse 3.

7. Lord, let your favour be evident in my life everywhere I go so that I can expand your Kingdom everywhere I step my foot on testifying to your goodness in the name of Jesus.

8. Father, please let me experience your favour wherever I go and wherever I turn in Jesus Name.

9. Oh Lord, let your mercy and favour make me stand out among my peers in the name of Jesus.

10. Father, let your favour make me be at the right place at the right time in the name of Jesus.

11. Let the favour of God upon my life, always attract the right people into my life, into my path in the name of Jesus.

12. Almighty God, by your mercy, I decree that the hand and plans of the enemy shall not prevail over my life, in the name of Jesus.

13. Oh Lord, by your mercy, let the devil not triumph over me in the name of Jesus.

14. Oh Lord, by your mercy, where others have failed, let me succeed in the name of Jesus.

15. Father, wherever the enemy has knocked me down, let your mercy lift me up and restore me, in the name of Jesus.

16. Every struggle in my life, by the mercy and favour of God, has come to an end in Jesus name.

17. Father, let the anointing of supernatural and uncommon favour rest upon my life from today in the name of Jesus.

18. I command doors of supernatural favour to open unto me from today (mention any specific area that you needs the door of favour to open unto you) in the name of Jesus.

19. Father, I pray that the lack of favour in my life comes to an end today in Jesus name.

20. Almighty God, let your favour speedily connect me with men that will help my destiny and my cause in Jesus name.

Keep these prayer points and keep praying with them daily. Pray without ceasing. May the Lord hear your prayers for mercy and favour in Jesus name. Comment if you are blessed

https://mediablare.com/hot-20-prayer-points-for-divine-mercy-and-favour-you-should-know/
Amen
EducationRe: Bilateral Education Agreement (BEA) Scholarship Awards - 2018/2019 by Shancca: 7:41am On Apr 22, 2018
Codedman08:
.

I 've replied ur PM.
Let's relate together
Alright.. I have sent you an email
EducationRe: Bilateral Education Agreement (BEA) Scholarship Awards - 2018/2019 by Shancca: 8:09pm On Apr 21, 2018
Codedman08:
.

Were you nominated for stipendium hungaricum?
Yes bro
EducationRe: Bilateral Education Agreement (BEA) Scholarship Awards - 2018/2019 by Shancca: 5:54pm On Apr 21, 2018
onubaye:
It shows that u no longer have issues with Nigeria. But with Hungary. U have been picked by Nigeria but still have to scale the interview as well as wait for the decision of TPF
Alright... Thank you
EducationRe: Bilateral Education Agreement (BEA) Scholarship Awards - 2018/2019 by Shancca: 12:33pm On Apr 21, 2018
The stipendium hungaricum nomination, is it a ticket to gaining the scholarship? I need answers please
TravelRe: Canadian Student Visa Thread Part 13 by Shancca: 1:15pm On Oct 26, 2017
Oben209:
Did you do upfront medical?.
not at all..
TravelRe: Canadian Student Visa Thread Part 13 by Shancca: 10:21am On Oct 26, 2017
Oben209:
Did you do upfront medical?.
not at all..

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