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Alabyte:
Hope Tony Payne is not pained!

With this kind of man that can give high blood pressure easily to any woman? It is GOOD RIDDANCE to bad rubbish for someone like Tony Payne and women who have taste.
Person wen both his hereditary and background no help him at all maritally since he has no good example within.

HappyPagan:
Maybe he sinned. Maybe he wasn't prayerful enough.

It's like people believe being a Christian is some sort of protection against 'accidents' and death.

This is called trials of the Christian faith.....Have you read 'BEAUTY FOR ASHES?'

post=85237157:
Which music she sing get 40M I don't know o

Sebi she be friends to those who make MUSICIANS; JayZ and Beyonce.

HQuadreal:
For the past 3 days, that is the eve of Christmas they have been light in my area, kaduna south.

#Happy boxing day Nairalander's.




#Happy boxing day

Same thing in Abeokuta, Ogun State but not throughout the day.

darkhorizon:
What's your definition of "GOOD" music?

Are his songs evergreen?....Have you listened to people like Selena Gomez? Then, at least one can listen to Fela's, Angelique Kidjo, Awillo, Dr. Alban(eg Guess who's coming to dinner), Seal, John Legend, Banky W, Djinee, Eminem with Rihanna, Niyola(Toh bad), Johnny Drille, Charlie Puth, Teni, even our Davido and Wizkid ain't doing badly(forget if they don't have vocal quality like Djinee and Dare Art Alade)....sorry I had to mix both local and international artistes.

IAmStrange:
Oh! You want to talk about confusion?

Lemme show you just a little: Check KJV

How many fighting men were found in Judah?
Five hundred thousand (2 Samuel 24:9)
Four hundred and seventy thousand (I
Chronicles 21:5)

God sent his prophet to threaten David with
how many years of famine?
Seven (2 Samuel 24:13)
Three (I Chronicles 21:12)

How old was Ahaziah when he began to rule
over Jerusalem?
Twenty-two (2 Kings 8:26)
Forty-two (2 Chronicles 22:2)

How old was Jehoiachin when he became king of
Jerusalem?
Eighteen (2 Kings 24:8 )
Eight (2 Chronicles 36:9)

How long did he rule over Jerusalem?
Three months (2 Kings 24:8 )
Three months and ten days (2 Chronicles 36:9)

Deal with that first. If you want more, I'll show you more.

Christianity always wins... yen yen yen

Modified:

Even more

When did David bring the Ark of the Covenant
to Jerusalem? Before defeating the Philistines or
after?
After (2 Samuel 5 and 6)
Before (I Chronicles 13 and 14)

10. How many pairs of clean animals did God tell
Noah to take into the Ark?
Two (Genesis 6:19, 20)
Seven (Genesis 7:2). But despite this last
instruction only two pairs went into the ark
(Genesis 7:8-9)

11. When David defeated the King of Zobah, how
many horsemen did he capture?
One thousand and seven hundred (2 Samuel
8:4)
Seven thousand (I Chronicles 18:4)

12. How many stalls for horses did Solomon have?
Forty thousand (I Kings 4:26)
Four thousand (2 chronicles 9:25)

13. In what year of King Asa's reign did Baasha,
King of Israel die?
Twenty-sixth year (I Kings 15:33 - 16:
Still alive in the thirty-sixth year (2 Chronicles
16:1)

14. How many overseers did Solomon appoint for
the work of building the temple?
Three thousand six hundred (2 Chronicles 2:2)
Three thousand three hundred (I Kings 5:16)

15. Solomon built a facility containing how many
baths?
Two thousand (1 Kings 7:26)
Over three thousand (2 Chronicles 4:5)

16. Of the Israelites who were freed from the
Babylonian captivity, how many were the children
of Pahrath-Moab?
Two thousand eight hundred and twelve (Ezra
2:6)
Two thousand eight hundred and eighteen
(Nehemiah 7:11)

17. How many were the children of Zattu?
Nine hundred and forty-five (Ezra 2:
Eight hundred and forty-five (Nehemiah 7:13)

achu42 tecnolad ImmaculateJOE and everyone saying they can't find it.

Go and check King James Version... as in the original king James you'll see it there

Was it not ur Christians doctors that revised the bible after seeing all these and decided to change it in your new bibles so as to deceive you masses?

Go and check KJV and I even posted more for you

T-R-A-S-H!!!
I couldn't even read what you wrote....This IMES insanity is REAL.

Backward reasoning people occupying sensitive government positions.
If the giant if Africa, Nigeria truly wants PEACE like many other African countries especially in the ECOWAS region, it should ban all laws that are not the COMMON LAW or a threat to it, at all levels (state and federal)....After all, we need to maintain our status as a secular nation. Also, those with religiously biased minds like extremists, should not be allowed in government positions...it should be part of our law/constitution.

Starz825:
I mean no offense oo...i just can't have a relationship with a lady from ondo ...anger and curse in that their mouth (definitely not all of them) is wat I will never stand for or endure in a relationship....
Don't just mess up with them when u date them...no say I no wan u ooo...
...Most of them are faithful partners but na this anger and curse be their issue..some of them want to stop but they still find their selves in that circle... may God help them..

OK o, for the enlightenment....I think say na Kogites get this attitude of anger and aggressiveness....one Kogite confirm this to me.

positivevibez:
Hoelosho

How did you arrive at this? I think Nairaland should ban words like olosho too.
How can a woman not willing to associate with men for long be called an olosho....sex may even be the last thing on her mind.
And for someone else saying menopause is real: that is, if op even want to have children. Or, you guys don't know that women too dread pregnancy process (with all the hormones at play) and childbearing(if not for God)?
You are looking at an INTELLIGENT lady who is easily put off by boring, intellectually shallow men apart from the one she has now.
Op needs to do personal study of herself and determine to make COMMITMENT part of her life. She can also get this with professional help from Pastors (genuine) too through prayers moreso if she feels the present guy is for real and for her. This will help her STAY in marriage.

Lightangel65:
Or he may just use her who knows, but if he is as kind-hearted as you say just give a try, after all what's there to loose.
I didn't know girls were capable of love

Ladies or MEN? ....The last time I checked, men are FICKLE and easily distracted when it comes to love....it makes females scared of love.

Slawormir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr
Beautiful

Apart from the protrusion

This babe don dey turn into amoeba (shapeless)

Damnnnnn niggarrr
You are a real niggarrr
Especially when you marry them

We are the best any day anytime twice during paying of bride price and marriage

But ehnnn
Apart from marriage period

Dating Edo guys is stress full to ladies. Especially we the binis and esan. They can fustrate girls. The young bini boys and ishan(esan) guys are too proud

My mum will say Aghenebode/Afemai men make GOOD husbands...and I think it is true.

Lexusgs430:
She would surprise her mum with a house in February....... How is that now a surprise.........

Her mum isn't on Nairaland, lol

TwoBottles:
Nice, it shouldn't be about mothers all the time; fathers are also humans.

For great dads....See, me I can even lay my life for my dad if possible.....He is our SUPERHERO.

Pusyiter:
You do not know Dino's story?
He is a player till 2040
I heard from one of his EX that he is a 'wife beater'
No woman would want to have one-eye during marriage.

It means he is a bully.

This was how Bishop Hartford Iloputaife was killed many years ago when 7 bullets were lodged in his head... The wife, Nkechi Iloputaife had to later run the church(Victory church) and the Bishop was less than 40yrs old then. Wicked people that fight God's ministers.

Local: Davido, Johnny Drille, Teni, Banky W, Niyola(Toh Bad)

International: Selena Gomez(Better on my own, It ain't me, Marshmello), Charlie Puth(Dangerously, Up all night), Angelique Kidjo.

I have read the FOR and AGAINST natural hair instead of braids, but what would u say about my type of hair that seemingly look soft but very difficult to relax, intact I have stopped experimenting with relaxers. I just do weapons and leave my hair for months till I do another new weavon. For those who are busy or don't have time 'maintaining' the hair on a daily basis, the weavon or wig is the solution. I saw TY Bello's hair and I don't know how she maintains it daily to look shiny and good.

smailon:
Never offend the wrong person.

Pray never to be at the mercy of your enemy such as ganduje.

And what is Ganduje, a 70yr OLD man going to Saudi to pray for when he can't let go.

4ckz:
I don't know how people are attracted to this kind of look. More so give the award of miss World to her.

She looks so repulsive to me.

Shout out to all the women that look like women. You guys should really be the ones celebrated, not these bags of bones.

You are looking at her from the perspective of a typical African man...na her type white men dey like or African men that reason like whites....that is her natural built not that she is dieting.

Zoharariel:
Sanusi Lamido Sanusi brought this insults & disgrace on himself.

For those who may not know, Sanusi Lamido Sanusi is the only man whose record at the King's College Lagos (His Alma Matter) is yet to be broken.

In Bible Knowledge, Sanusi Lamido Sanusi, though a Muslim - memorized the Bible from A to Z and till now, no one has broken that record at the King's College.

Sanusi Lamido Sanusi ought to be fighting or contesting for the seat of the Presidency, not a downgraded Emir stool in a jungle called Kano State in this digital age.

Gandollar can not even tie the lace of Kwankwaso's shoes, let alone - Sanusi Lamido Sanusi's.

There was a reason the late Musa Yaradua brought him up from obscurity into the limelight by appointing him as the CBN Governor.

Only few Southerners can rival Sanusi's brilliance & intelligence.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tK1vvL2P1zM


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v3RGHZ-NC_o

Anyways, that is by the way.

I am using this opportunity to call on the Lagos State Governor - Babajide Sanwo-Olu aka Pointus Pilate to help us appeal to the Ikeja Electricity Distribution Company (IKEDC) to restore our electricity at Ojodu-Berger.

For the past 3 days, the only lights we have been seeing at Ojodu-Berger are the break-lights of his BRT buses in the traffic.

I swear to Obatala, I will curse you PHCN officials with the afoshe alagemo that I inherited from my grandfather if my power is not restored tonight.

I cannot continue buying petrol for running my generator with the money I have already budgeted for Beer & Olosho in this yuletide season. It is not sustainable - Never!

We were told the electricity whatever had fault for over 3 days now and they've not been able to fix it, but if it is time to be carrying ladder up & down inorder to extort Nigerians for disconnection fees - dem no go hear any stories.

Governor Babajide Sanwo-Olu, if you must break & surpass the records of Babatunde Fashola in Lagos State, you must ensure these bastards called PHCN officials are put in the gutter where they belong.

Thank you!

They have a face book page, just go and complain 'openly', dem go shame bring the light....but sincerely, PHCN in Naija(generally) no dey try.

Good gesture...I don't know why in the giant of Africa, religious crisis is the order of the day which has killed many and still killing many. In countries like Gambia, Ghana, Benin, Togo, Ivory Coast, Senegal, Cameroon to mention a few, there is nothing like religious crisis....and in Nigeria, it wasn't so much like now....I think MURIC need to call themselves to order and not try to force/change the status quo that had made Nigeria a neutral and secular country. Insisting on things like wearing hijab to schools, not celebrating new yr, creating Sharia laws/courts in States/Federal level when there is already a COMMON LAW system, making holiday to be Friday and Saturday(what Western countries don't do apart from 'left hand' countries) etc are fanning to flame religious crisis. We should drop all these, all religious oversabi and fanaticism.

UtuokeAlcoholic:
Don't you think our brothers from the other side will cry of islamization for a professor of Arabic and Islamic Studies to head INEC?

Not at all....Jega is from the North, Maurice Iwu from East, so if he comes in from the West, no problem.
Competence, professionalism, love for modern technology and its usage in meeting the needs and yearnings of people especially as it concerns e-voting and giving us leaders truly voted in by the masses is what is important.
He has also been a VC @UNILORIN and you know that Professors are involved in INEC duties too.
He has performed so well in JAMB and now overdoing things, make he stop to waste talents @JAMB, he needs immediate redeployment to INEC so he tests himself with State and local government elections before 2023 when another critical round of elections will hold.
I'm not from the West but I like his efficiency and proactiveness. Also, he seems to be bold and cares less whose ox is gored.

Truth be say, whether na Warri, Ijaw, Anioma etc, ALL Delta na ONE especially for sense and ancestry.

Good option apart from NOUN Nursing program. But, Nigeria's system is not flexible. Imagine studying for 3yrs @College of Nursing (after entering via exam+interview) then, studying for another 3-4yrs @a university(NOUN/online&offline), quite stressful. Seems if one isnt stressed enough, one doesn't make a good graduate. This is similar fate with those who have HND.

She has natural, captivating beautiful eyes....very few people are good in both music and acting eg Vanessa Williams, Will Smith, Jennifer Lopez and her rival in her hay days, late Christy Essien Igbokwe- the lady that was tagged, 'lady of songs' despite her cracked voice with many hit songs like Madam Onyeka Onwenu.
Their songs are evergreen not like some songs you hear now.
Onyeka Onwenu did well in her career, her only minus was when she sold Abacha to us on the '5m man march', aside that, she is still a good role model.

IAmStrange:
Hmmm!

I've always been an advocate of this method...

Work hard until you are financially capable to cater for a family. Build your character until you become a personage that can qualify as a potential good husband, father and in law...

And then look for a good woman... try all possible means to know her and everything you need to know about her to decide if she's right for you... Engage her and marry her!

All these love, dating, boyfriend and girlfriend issues, most times, are "robbing" tactics...

And it falls on both sides...

many times, the females do it to "rob" the males of their money...

while on the other hand, the males do it to "rob" the female of their vagina.

Na the two genders dey suffer that "scam" they call relationship.

Well, as for the first issue, I don't know how the spending process goes.. is she the one that asks or you are the one that's just too generous and you give her without her asking or because you think she needs it and will likely ask?

If You are the one that's just too generous, then you limit your generosity. That will not only help you save more but will also be giving her message that she should adjust her expectations from you.

If she's the one that asks, Oga, limit what you give her and reject some of her requests.

It's during trying or difficult times that we know true friends. It may be when you start limiting your spending on her that you will know if she truly loves you or not.

As for the second issue... What your girlfriend did is a sign of what may happen or might have happened if the matter becomes more complicated than that.

Someone who easily gives in to seeking attention elsewhere when the two of you are not talking? That's dangerous.

I'm not saying that it will happen for sure but it's dangerous.

Have you not heard stories of women who had misunderstanding with their spouses and then they sought solace in another man until that other man capitalised on her emotional state and slept with her?

There were even cases where it did not happen once. The first time it happened, the woman began to enjoy the "company" of that other man and they ended up having sex several or many more times.

And in a marriage, misunderstandings will most likely happen every now and then. It's not something that can easily be avoided. So if it happens at a time when there's another man in the picture, only God knows where it'll eventually end.

It doesn't certainly define her but your girlfriend seems to have such weakness.

Therefore, I'm asking you now - not to just break up with her - but to use your sense and open your eyes very well. Try as much as possible to study her and ask wise people for advise concerning her so you will not have problems in your marriage.

By the way, Imes is coming

Correct, u spoke my mind....he may not break with her but not be distracted by their love....I don't see why hustlers need a woman....Tend your garden well first, then bring in a woman who will SUPPORT your dreams and what you have worked for/working for.

For Lagos State, it may be better to buy flats/apartments completed or almost completed with owner having his C of O. However, for young generation folks(especially) if it cost much to buy houses in Lagos, move to Ogun State and buy from Omonile-free estates and get your documents from them.

This is LONG overdue, I hope it will be affordable(hostels)? Once upon a time, students can conveniently pay their fees themselves unlike now....maintenance and safety too is important.

This our Naija oversabi, where it will lead us if we are not individually careful eh, na only God go save us. Why, playing smart in a smart system/environment?

A good idea but there should be lots of ready made ones for those who can't wait for cut and so all the time.
Preferably, big garment factories should open up supported by government not the Trader Moni kind of support to FORCE price downwards and make Nigerian made clothes affordable to all. Aba made products should be supported by its government and national government especially on creating bigger markets for it..
In Cameroon, graduates who want to get a degree in Fashion Designing just spend 1yr+.
Do you know that overseas Fashion Designing is hot cake?

When will our government draft JAMB's registrar to head INEC and bring in all these innovations that will make us get better leaders and a working system?.... The guy is wasting talents as JAMB's registrar.

elmagnifico411:
Simple thing. Take the names of your sisters-in-law to Ori-oke Olorun kole’ in akinyele, Ibadan. Lay them at the feet of Jesus, open psalm 109 and read it aloud calling out their names to fill in the parts where the wicked people are mentioned. Make sure you’re in dry fasting... if you don’t receive sharp answers, then their must be something you’re doing that you’re not telling us. If not, thank me later.

You can include psalm 27, 37, and 1 too. Ire oh

Oga, RESPECTS...na u give the BEST advice. I read many funny comments supporting rubbish and telling the OP to apologise? Imagine being stressed on top of this stressed times, forget whether na by God's grace her hubby scaled lack?
In some cultures, dem no dey play with 'omugo' particularly knowing that your mother in law won't take care of u and household duties well like your own mum if your mum is still alive....I remember similar drama with my sister when my mum and her mother in law showed up for omugo with mother in law saying it is their culture in the West but she go just dey relax for house while sister is in pains, THANKS to my mum who urgently came to the rescue.
Ideally 'only' guys with more sisters are more tender hearted, compassionate, loving and make good husbands. Imagine if in my house with more ladies taking advantage of the situation and suppressing/frustrating the lives of our only, beloved brother& wife, because what u are doing to his wife in the name of 'sisters' is EVIL and u are doing it to your brother too....and to think those causing this damage are married and think they are right?....God forbid.
Would the husband like to be harassed by his brother-in-laws, why should Nigerian women endure marriages and not ENJOY it? Everyone should respect the other and live in peace like one family.
I have a friend whose harassment comes from wives of her husbands brothers not even from their only sister....different folks with different strokes but ALL na trespassers causing needless stress on another.
Madam, go to God in prayer, your sister in laws have no right to harass u....NOTHING is impossible with God.