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Promomarlie:
Is childbearing work? Your type will get paid to get pregnant and born, I laff at your village people. And you skipped the bride price side, I thought as much. If a woman tells me she can't CARRY OUR CHILD like her mother carried her abeg I go find my level. I'm AFRAID that motherly love might soon be lost over worthless nonsense thoughts like yours..

No,..... child bearing is not work or risk to one's life because u just see women carry their babies and enter their houses, what about the many that weren't so lucky? The man go come go marry another babe.
If dem REALLY tell u now to born children for your wife, u go start to panic and if at all u born na ONLY 1 pikin and u no go let the child and world hear world again.
Please, give it to women ANYDAY....don't EVER impose or debate on gender equality trash/feminism when you know women still do more work in any marriage, small wonder why children NEVER forget their mums..... For my type of dad( not your type of men), he is GOLDEN and we can NEVER forget him too( as his kids)....

Promomarlie:
Child bearing doesn't concern gender equality if you know your facts right, can a woman impregnate herself? Of course NO so why should I answer that, can you ask GOD why? Gender equality is simply the man/woman controlled not natured controlled. Talk about BRIDE PRICE and I'll see the point you can make. If you can't afford to spend that on yourself simply means it's worthy to be spent on you by someone you claim you love, besides she can talk about it if she really wants the marriage. That woman is not the right person for him abeg. Take your argument to sleep abeg. He paid your bride price all alone which is his responsibility and you think white wedding should be the problem. I mean does she think? Simply call it off and nothing changes.

So, who told you childbearing is solely a woman's work especially for ENTITLED men like you.
If u want to save cost, bear the children yourself after all they will bear your surname.....or PAY a surrogate....
This is 21st century biko.

Promomarlie:
You're talking trash. If you can't help your man financially then you're a GOLD DIGGER quote me anywhere anytime anyday. Bearing children is a gift to woman from GOD as well as a man's ability to impregnate a woman. And you think promotion at work is worth more than making family, if you're above 21 with these thoughts you need help. African women and money. Hanty you will make a terrible wife and I don't pray for my enemies to encounter your type. I JUMP AND PASS

I expected you to tell me why men want EQUAL financial contribution by force( for men like you) when she can do that without any imposition, since women won't impose on you to bear the children by yourself if u choose to save cost or spend that money u don't want to give to her on a surrogate mum.
You didn't so justice to this gender equality and feel justified that it is a woman's work to bear children, so why isnt it a man's work to provide financially( mainly)?
Your answer was dodgy and childish....Gold digger my foot, these days it is even the men that are gigolos and gold diggers

seanwilliam:
you have said it all..
1. you are submissive , I'll take your full responsibility.
2. You are not submissive, you take care of your responsibility
3. You want gender Equality, then we practice Equality in financial contributions too

Please, does your definition of gender equality also include your helping her with childbearing as she helps out with the finances because this area is one area women NEED help with.

Either men go with caesarian section or go with surrogacy( pay for the service) so their wives keep her shape, work hard and not sacrifice her promotions at work to create a family or risk her life.

When men especially Nigerian men start helping their wives with childbearing then gender equality will truly be equal, if not for now, it is not.

henry007:
Xiaomi Mi A3 'kind of gray' unboxing and review.


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Price: N58,000 (64GB/4GB)
N66,000 (128GB/4GB)
See screenshots from video below and more camera comparison shots in the video.

Does it have service centres across states in Nigeria.

Beautiful family

Ekakamba:
Na women this one go affect. Why not just keep your name the way it is before marriage?

True talk...And to effect any change, it may be at Abuja only and at N100,000+

capsule:
Get her the car with your money (or more of your money). She got the kid and herself. Make her life stress free as much as possible.
You can manage.
For me, if I have 1 car, she keeps it.
If I have two cars, she drives the newest.
I no wan hear say Her car break down for road, we men handle stress better than women.

Best comment for me so far....

Talking like my dad.

Abusadiq01:
He has seen the beauty of Islam... Alhamdullah

Maybe the power of BRAINWASHING....
Either he is pretending or wasn't a STRONG Christian before.
Truth is, you CAN'T taste Christ and want another.

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psalmsmiles:
Buhari has failed Nigeria. History will bear witness to his absolute incompetence which has cost many Nigerians a better chance at life. I still wonder where Nigeria would have been if Atiku/Obi had won the last elections.
It is only fair that we closed our borders over transactions with other countries crumbling their economy and America closed their's to us completely too.
U.S of A is first, other countries will soon follow suit. Let me see where Jubril will go for treatment when he gets dehydrated.

Karma at work on Nigeria over the border closure.

MRcocaFanta:
It could be that she got vagina yeast and she has taken measures to treat it, hence the cream you saw.

Well her message was out of anger because she feels you don't trust her and that is why she has to unblock you after an hour.

If she was cheating on you and fed up with the marriage, she wouldn't have unblocked you.

And yes indeed, ladies need space when it comes to their sexuality.

You knowing she has contacted vagina yeast could make her emotionally down.

But how she contacted the yeast is what I'm not sure about.

It could be from a one night stand she had.

It could be from the toilet.

Only GOD knows, but i will suggest you talk to her and have her open up to you, but she might lie to you about it.

All the same this is life for you.

I will suggest you take medical precaution by using condoms on her untill she is medically clean.

I think even as couples, it's good the both of you go for medical check-up every two or three months.

Trust no one, not even your wife or husband.

OR even from the Op, knowing who men are.
Women can easily see symptoms of such diseases while men's own may show in 50 years time( lol)....The op should go and TEST immediately.

MRcocaFanta:
It could be that she got vagina yeast and she has taken measures to treat it, hence the cream you saw.

Well her message was out of anger because she feels you don't trust her and that is why she has to unblock you after an hour.

If she was cheating on you and fed up with the marriage, she wouldn't have unblocked you.

And yes indeed, ladies need space when it comes to their sexuality.

You knowing she has contacted vagina yeast could make her emotionally down.

But how she contacted the yeast is what I'm not sure about.

It could be from a one night stand she had.

It could be from the toilet.

Only GOD knows, but i will suggest you talk to her and have her open up to you, but she might lie to you about it.

All the same this is life for you.

I will suggest you take medical precaution by using condoms on her untill she is medically clean.

I think even as couples, it's good the both of you go for medical check-up every two or three months.

Trust no one, not even your wife or husband.

OR even from the Op, knowing who men are.
Women can easily see symptoms of such diseases while men's own may show in 50 yes time( lol)....The op should go and TEST immediately.

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Tekecoms1:
Why am I so happy that Burna boy did not win?

Because the best only must represent Africa when it comes to the award....

No be say Burna be like Selena Gomez to Madonna/ Spice Girls OR even like Ciara to Whitney Houston....The analogy may not be exactly correct the way I'm trying to portray it but my question be: Wetin Oluwa Burna dey sing?? I no fit even listen to his song finish before I change station na to go his show go stand for long listening to rubb....

Jpmacleo:
Nnaa calm down. No be today nyash begin dey for back.
To start with , I have a good experience in this kind of thing. In fact I am 41 and my son is in 4th year in Futmina and he is 23. I am married now with two small kids though to another woman of my dream and yet I still chop my baby mama kpekus till tomorrow. I started living with my boy even when I was in the university. I hear am aha.
Now in this your case, my advice goes this way.

1) Do not marry yet until she gives birth. Ignore all the threats .
2) Get ready to pack out from your place right now .
3) After the birth, two to three months letter call her, or TeX her and apologize to her promising to try ur best in the babies upkeep having a budget of 10 to 15k monthly if you have.
4) Never you consider this baby mama for marriage as marrying her will put u in a family blackmail forever.
5) Get another sweet babe more beautiful than the two though not with marriage promises.
6) after three months of giving birth inform you fiancee what happened. She will cry her eyes out buy thats the truth . Go to ur friends house and Sleep the day this bad news was broken.
7) Allow some time for your fiancee to have a rethink.
Continue to mouth pressure on her with forgiveness calls and love blablabla .they have chicken brain.
9) please ignore ur potential baby mama's call or tex after her child birth for say 2 to three months. So that when ur call comes, she will have no uption than to chill.

10) Don't tell your parents until after the birth.


11 one bottle of beer for further advice , after all na you chop kpekus 3 time in a week like vitamin syrup alone.

One day YOU too will have a daughter that a man like YOU will do similarly to....Karma is a BITCH.

Nsonaso:
OK bro
First call the babe that you got pregnant and deeply apologize to her

Then tell your girlfriend everything and apologize to her if she doesn't forgive you, leave her and marry the one that is pregnant for you as she seems to be a good woman. Also you made a mistake by tell her you will never be part of the baby's life what if karma decide you will not have another child?

I had to check first and surprised a man wrote this.

Oil dey your head.

Many men and DECEIT na 5 and 6.

[quote author=vincentjk post=86175821]What a nice thing to do for a parent. My dad is no longer alive so I pray I buy my mum a house

Rip dad[/quote

God will help you Amen....Or, she can later move in to your mansion/duplex provided you have an understanding wife.

anonimi:
Fear mongering is the ultimate weapon for the sheeple.


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Whether fear of God OR fear of man, I NO mind, just anything that will help me condition my mind to live well especially, in PLEASING God.
Shey u no hear the stories when happen @ weekend:1) The untimely death of a superstar basketballer with kid and others on board an Ill fated chopper 2)The IMO State billionaire who died via accidental discharge.

ETC

You hear all these things and still allow Daddy Freeze to be your mentor/pastor as an ADULT with brains to think?

In life and in your heart, THERE CAN BE NO VACUUM, either you are for CHRIST or unconsciously sold out to the devil.

Your life, your choice, your business.....bye.

Moralgladiator:
Nonsense!

Okay
U can marry Olumba Olumba....Good luck

magicminister:
For the sake of unity, peace and progress, ibos should be given a chance to run the affairs of this nation at its highest levels (presidency).

While I do not expect any significant change in the affairs of Nigeria, I am very confident that ibos like soludo, ngozi okonjo iweala and other prominent ibo men and woman that have legally built their wealth and well exposed can turn this country for the better.

We do not need a Tinubu or a Buhari in office.

Even if the next president is from the north, let it be the ousted EFCC chairman (under obasanjo tenure).

Even if it’s from the west, let it be a prominent and respected son of the soil e.g (the former minister of agriculture... can’t remember his name.


All I’m saying is that there are competent people from every region but it’s not tinubu, Buhari or rochas!

Igbo Presidency 2023- I SUPPORT...

But our 'girl' NGO is SS unless you mean she is Igbo by marriage.

madjune:
Better settle with Obot Etuk.

Their matter don tay.

Na true....He made a BIG, wrong marital decision by not putting Christ first.

NwaAmaikpe:





Such a great life with no male offspring to replicate it.
This is a big lesson to whom it may concern because life teaches us lessons in the weirdest of ways.

May Kobe's death open the eyes of men who don't have male children to try their luck elsewhere if their wives can't give them one.

Please do not deceive yourselves about the x and y chromosomes because some women's bodies are not 'y-chromosome friendly'.

And do not decieve yourself to accept that it does not matter.
All children are important no doubt; but the importance of the male offspring can NEVER be overstated.

Adultery....
Place where u no know when u leave this world and u are leaving with more dents/stains?
Worst case scenario is for one of the daughters to bear a hyphenated name with that of her Hubby's.
Come to think of it, do you still bear your forefather's(patriarch's) name or a new(modern one)....the name go still LOST.
Na so men go also carry sex for head like say when dem leave this world and dem no see woman again den go quench.....MEN INDEED!

2kurupt:
His style is unique to him. His undoing I'll say is in the contents of his songs

Both will not make his songs evergreen unlike Asa's, Kidjo, Hugh Masekela, Chaka Chaka, Mariam Makeba, Style Plus or even Tubaba.

Baba girls like my BELOVED dad....

We LOVE you, REST ON in peace.

WHY YOU SHOULD STUDY IN CAMEROUN

Dear student,

I'll quickly share with you the benefits of studying in Cameroun, away from all the stress and frustration that comes with education in Nigeria.

Here are some benefits you'll get:

⏩Free application.

⏩Beautifully structured educational system.

⏩No JAMB exam, No Post-UTME exam, Automatic admission.

⏩Just WAEC/SSCE or NECO/SSCE.

⏩Fees CHEAPER than fees in private universities in Nigeria or Africa.

⏩Pay HALF tuition fees on arrival, spread remaining fee in that session.

⏩Usually 3yrs HND with 1year top up BSc even for Nursing.

⏩253 FULLY ACCREDITED private universities by its Ministry of Higher Education and EASILY VERIFIABLE.

⏩NO STRIKES.

⏩Similar cost of living with Nigeria.
.
.
Other Attractions:

��Affordable hostels ( according to taste).

��Cheaper internet cost.

��Learn other culture or language( if you wish).

��No xenophobia or Cultism.

� Miscellaneous( inbox me for details).

� % FREE INFO( Zero charges).
*Many 3 years and 4 yrs courses( including Computer Science/Network and Security, Clothing and Textile( Fashion Design), Medical Laboratory Science etc)

Whatsapp:+2348135597014

Sholaco:
Wetin burna dey sing self? This woman has been singing before oluburna was born abegy

Na Burna's style of singing be his greatest undoing....

Good men don't last.

Pray always so you won't walk the day the road is hungry.....now isnt the best time to be an atheist.

RIP Great Kobe.

AccessME:
my sister i don't know who is feeding my brother with that idea and to think i got admission in UK Sunderland university on part Funded scholarship in 2015. Just needed 3M to make it work yet he couldn't even help me process it cos of money i felt so really bad, maybe he doesn't want to help me or he truly doesn't have the money i don't just know 4 him.

what kind of article do u suggest i send him and how do i go about getting it?

Try studying in Cameroon....There are courses that prepares you for abroad eg Computer Science /Network and Security, Clothing and Textile( Fashion design) etc....

And you graduate with accredited degree in just 3yrs, if you like to do NYSC no problem and you won't spend up to N3m

Coded2:
this is a good advice and I will urge u and ur husband to take it meanwhile, Wwhy not try this supplement that is doing wonders it called stc30 for the infertility u can contact me on the number below .

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LadySwitz:
Animal husbandry/Wifery, Animal science, Computer science, Entrepreneurial studies, Food and nutrition, Home Economics, Architecture, Music


Modified: if you are a lady pls learn basic hand crafts. I am about enrolling in a sewing class cos i dunno how soon i will be leaving this country. I have also noticed that so many of our naija abroadians have no access to good tailors...I see most of them wearing unfitting and badly sewn dresses...which brings me to my conclusion there are bad tailors in the abroad that don't know how to sew our naija natives especially for women.
Guys can also venture into that...it's quite lucrative in the abroad too.

Hope i didn't end up typing rubbish, pls?

*A graduate who wants to study CLOTHING& TEXTILE( which includes Fashion Design) in Cameroon will take between 12mths to 18mths maximum.