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steadyguy: i came across this wonderful blog online

very interesting and engaging

and its written in pure PIDGIN ENGLISH

the name is life4yankee

its a must see, you will enjoy the stories in this blog

steadyguy: i came across this wonderful blog online

very interesting and engaging

and its written in pure PIDGIN ENGLISH

the name is life4yankee

its a must see, you will enjoy the stories in this blog

steadyguy: i came across this wonderful blog online

very interesting and engaging

and its written in pure PIDGIN ENGLISH

the name is life4yankee

its a must see, you will enjoy the stories in this blog

chulla12: Lovely. Now just watch this hit the front page with alacrity and see the tribal comments oil this thread like a wet v.agina on a frigid dyck.

steadyguy: i came across this wonderful blog online

very interesting and engaging

and its written in pure PIDGIN ENGLISH

the name is life4yankee

its a must see, you will enjoy the stories in this blog

Sagamite: Sincere9gerian, tomakint, Jking001, PointB and others (with your numerous monikers), you are busted!



At least it is now public knowledge you are being paid to help continue destroying your own lives and pendusky's life.

9jahubcom: [img]http://4.bp..com/-9ag9O4UZVV0/VCHi9u_z2SI/AAAAAAADlo0/1Put5daJqCc/s1600/ByODbl8IAAEvn11.jpg%2Blarge.jpg[/img]

Imo state governor Rochas Okorocha celebrated his 52nd birthday yesterday Sept. 22nd by riding a bicycle on the streets of Owerri...

pendy79:

In 1999, do you recollect a certain tom ikimi shouting obasanjo obasanjo ekwueme during the PDP primaries? There was no northern contender as such. The Alliance for Democracy produce Olu Falae while ANPP had Harry Akande. There was an unwritten agreement not to challenge the yorubas in 1999. If you need more clarification ask from foundation members of registered political parties of the era and seek why all major political parties of that time had only yorubas as flagbearers.

Google is equally your friend for further clarity.

pendy79:

@ ikenna if we are all good students of history, you will realize that all political parties in.1999 decided to zone the presidency to the SW based on the infamous June 12 debacle and the need to appease the Yoruba race for the handling of the imbroglio and that subsequently the seat shall rotate between the North and the South.

Obasanjo spent 8years on the seat and it will be selfish and an act of injustice to project another Yoruba man for same seat 8 years after in a country with 6 political zones. The Yorubas knows this and since we've always been taught to respect arrangement and agreement, you won't see a Yoruba man gunning for presidency in 2015.

Nobody is born to rule, power is transient. We don't run a monarchy hence no zone should feel rejected or neglected else it will spring forth insurgency and lack of trust among peoples of the country. GEJ knew he had a gentleman agreement with the North and PDP stakeholders in 2011 and it is his betrayal that warrant the political impasse of 2013.

atlwireles: APC will never nominate a Northern Christian Presidential candidate.

Fifty fleeing members of the Boko Haram sect
were apprehended by soldiers in Biu, Borno State
on Tuesday.
Security sources revealed that the insurgents,
who were traveling from the Damboa area of the
state, hid under a truck and were headed for
Gombe.

OrlandoOwoh: Boko Haram has nothing to lose, they will still go back to abduct another people.

san316: Alhamdulillah. I pray they are all in one piece. I commend the fg, they've done the right thing.

UTILITYMAY: Fresh reports say that Boko Haram group has finally agreed to free all the Chibok girls for 18 sect commanders currently in detention.

It would be recalled that less than two weeks ago it was reported that the insurgents had agreed to release only 30 female students abducted in April in exchange for 18 key group members. The decision was allegedly made after the Nigerian authorities had held secret talks with one of boko haram seniors identified as Umar.

This Saturday it was gathered that the International Committee of the Red Cross and the Nigerian government were holding long-time negotiations on the issue.

Finally, according to the Nation, the agreement on 219 girls release was reached.

It has been reported that the two parties asked their representatives to go back to their leaders to discuss the new conditions.

At the meeting said to be facilitated by the President, Civil Rights Congress (CRC), Comrade Shehu Sani, it was allegedly claimed that if the girls were tried to be released by force, it might lead to fatalities.

One of those who attended the session said:

“The sect shifted its position and agreed to release all the girls instead of 30 Christian married girls it had promised. But Boko Haram said it does not trust the government going by previous experience. If the government had respected previous talks, the Chibok girls were initially meant to be off the hook during the Eid-el Fitr festival. Again about two weeks ago, a delegation was already in Maiduguri until the swap deal was bungled. Some security agents only advised on the release of six out of the 18 leaders of the sect. They rated the rest 12 as dangerous. When the insurgents found out, they backtracked and demanded the release of the 18 leaders. The development paved the way for the latest talks in Abuja which involved the ICRC.”

The source also said that the Nigerian authorities promised to release the 18 leaders as soon as all the girls were let go.

Another source present at the session said:

“We generally agreed that all the parties should go back to their leaders on the agreement reached. The government said no to piecemeal release of the girls and Boko Haram claimed that it will not have any business with the government until all the 18 leaders of the sect are freed. After the Eid-el-Kabir festival, the two parties will meet again on the terms to finalise the agreement or part ways. Before the meeting rose, Boko Haram representatives warned against the use of force to liberate the girls. It also made it clear that it had the “capacity to take on the Federal Government for the next 45 years.”

Regarding the insurgency in the North-East of Nigeria one of the sources said that “the outcome of the latest round of talks will determine whether they should ceasefire or not”.

It would be recalled that more than 200 girls were abducted on April 14 by boko haram in Chibok of the troubled Borno State. Despite both the military and social involvement of various countries worldwide, the majority of students are still missing.

http://thenationonlineng.net/new/boko-haram-to-free-219-chibok-girls-in-swap-deal/

pickabeau1: Typical from you.. its not new

Once you start on a line of thinking.. you continue on it obtusely

Let me humour you

There are no careers where woman CAN perform

Note this is different from women are working in all careers

Next..

pickabeau1: i still dont get sheniquas points you are quoting what happened donkey years ago

The original post was clear

Women achieve something for yourself. some women nowadays are not interested in career or a biz

Bukatyne also has been precise and clear

NOI;s husband could still cheat if she was in the US or not

Its a personal thing

bukatyne:

This thread is not about marriage over career

Infact, your story will be a good one for the OP; with your family, you are still able to get ahead in your chosen career.

Funny enough, you might not have really moved further than where you are now if you were single without kids

bukatyne:

At one point or the other, we all have to make sacrifices..

I know men & women who slowed down at one point or the other to accommodate family needs.

I doubt the OP is taking about making sacrifices here...

There is a difference between I have to defer my professional exams for 2yrs because of child birth/kids/hubby will be away etc. and I am no longer doing my professional exams because I am married.

@NOI: Her hubby would have cheated even if she was sleeping on him daily. It is better she achieved what she wanted to achieve not minding the bad marriage than letting her husband's antics get to her.

It would be disastrous if she looked at him, forgone her dreams and the man still cheated.

A woman can still achieve all she wants to with her family and a supportive husband. Infact, her supportive husband will spur her to achieve more maybe at a slower pace but definitely more fulfilling.

bukatyne:

The problem is not marrying out of school or marrying young; we have Omotola a very typical example close to us (she married at 18)

The problem is forsaking your dreams (if you have) because of marriage or seeing marriage as a means to an end. She is saying you can be a mother, wife, grandma sef and still shake your world or do something fulfilling.

I think people miss it because they equate career & dreams into becoming a bank manager

Our dear Seun is an entrepreneur and I doubt he has a corporate office. He doesnot have to wear a suit daily to the office either.

we have people doing well in fashion, cobbling, dress making, production of stuffs, doing well in their various occupations etc.


@ Grandma in fifties, I doubt the marry in school part

My mum will be a grandma in her early fifties and she married out of school (But again, we both married early)

4tunebest: I am creating this topic as a last resort, since everything we tried to solve this issue have so far proved abortive.

For over a month, my mum has been itching seriously, mostly @ night and the discomfort prevents her from sleeping throughout the night. During the day, everything is normal but once it is night, stuff like hives start appearing on her skin, which itches until dawn. Then in the morning, the hives disappear & the itching stops until night time when thesame thing repeats itself. We have used drugs prescribed by doctors, yet no improvement.

Please what else can we do?
Thanks in anticipation of your helpful response.

4tunebest:

Okay. Sooo some months ago I shared my knowlege on a particular thread on discussion about the nutritional value of Roselle tea (zobo). He was one of several people who viewed the thread although he didn't make any comment. He sent a PM, he is also interested in foods with high nutritional value & was looking towards starting a business in that line. However, I do not reply PMs but he seemed to be interested in business & not friendship & so, he gott my attention. We maintained a strictly professional relationship for some time. Along the line we discovered we had several things in common, we were passionate about same things, had thesame views about life, etc. He asked me to write a business plan for him, so we arranged to meet in person.....

bukatyne:

The OP has not said anything against marriage

She said women should build a life for themselves apart from marriage.

If she was against marriage, would she use Dora, NOI and co?

She is saying the same thing these women would have said

safarigirl: wherever did I say "To hell with marriage and motherhood"?

You have apparently failed to grasp the message. This isn't telling women to abandon their roles as caregivers, this is telling women to develop themselves in their chosen career paths.

What if the man that's been providing for you as a woman suddenly loses interest in the marriage? I know of someone who's been left homeless after her husband kicked her and the kids out cuz he got someone else to warm his bed. Now she's begging for just 1k of feeding money cuz she failed to use her degree when she should've.

There are women trapped in frustrating marriages that can't get out because they were not empowered, because they chose to remain at home and care for their husband's kids and now the husband is treating them like trash because he knows she has no choice.

So don't make mockery of my message or twist it up. You can be a wife and a mother, but there should be more to a woman than being Mrs. Somebody

bellong: Do you have a good resemblance of your dad?


If you have a job, move out of her house. You will be better staying alone than being battered with words daily.

atlwireles: Another tales by moonlight reporting.