₦airaland Forum

victorian:
All I deduce from her post is pure envy.
She that's married, she can't even boast of celebrating or even marking her own birthday party. Her husband sef no send her to celebrate her birthday.
All because a single lady of 35years sees it fit to celebrate her healthy and successful life on earth. Jealousy and frustration wan kill the married woman. She even posted her frustrations online

Forgetting whatever situation, one finds his or herself be thankful and grateful to God, especially if one is not sick, handicapped or wretched.

Any guy mocking older single women above 35years here, are single rejected guys whom ladies have rejected time and time over. With their handle, u see their posts on dating section, day in day out seeking for whom to marry.

But on romance section, they bare their fangs like a wretched wounded bush animal looking for whom to devour.

Ladies in your 30s, live your lives in full. Celebrate your life on earth, year in year out. U owe no one any apologies. Some married women envy they are in your shoes, cos of the hell they go through at home.

Marriage is not everything. Companionship is everything.

jealousy wan kill her!

livinbygrace:
is it not Yahoo Yahoo men that are getting married these days?The country self is all about yahoo.Dey there dey deceive yourself.

that’s the reason some ladies r single, not all women want to marry fraudsters, no matter what.

manikspears:
I checked your profile and found out you carry the feminist thingy like dreadlocks,if I may ask what is the ideal behind feminism and what are the points you intend to loud cos I don't understand. If you don't marry till a certain age your body will revolt except you remove your womb. Now if I may ask, is it a thing of joy even for men not to be married by the age of 35? How old do you want to be when your first child graduates?

lol so I need to get married before hving kids,?? I can hv kids anytime I want!! We all want to get married but if not,, i am one of the ladies That don’t give two hoots ,,, especially if u don’t meet ur match, the Society shouldnt force u to go for stupid men all in the name of marriage.

Not everyone wanna be married ,,, not everyone plans to endure in marriage as everyone says , not everyone wants to marry a cheat! Don’t say forever for a nonentity, Marriage is no achievement n never will.

Immaculatesnow:
This lady talk true shabut not with standing, she is very ugly and very unhappy in her marriage life

Abeg I want a verified Nigerian AdSense account to buy

nothing like truth in the nonsense she said

Talknochip:
This is a dress rehearsal for 2019!... As it stands today, ONLY heaven can rescue Nigeria from this 'strange' and not too strange happenings.... Not too strange because previous govts has set this bad precedence of 'i must win' and 'do or die politics'!.. But the worrisome and scary thing is that, it is going to get worse and more brutal and provocative in 2019, because men of little or no conscience, men of strange spirits,men rule by pure darkness will be the ones that will try to continue with this 'precedence'.. Again, as it stand today, ONLY heaven can rescue Nigeria...not even the millions of PVC's people are getting them ready to be used.

this is so sad

Soup 300 Godforbid!!!!!!!

So people r really here justifying this ? All the name pdp did this n that!! What really is the problem of this country? Una Mumu na universal o!!! Let them keep riging elections in nigeria?? it should continue? Smh *leaves thread*

My biggest turn off is a guy listening to me with out contributing, some guys think it’s cute, but its not, u wanna know a lot about me but u don’t wanna talk about you? As soon as I notice, I either lie abt myself or keep quiet n let our friendship die a natural death

Macon1212:
The problem you have is that you are not born again when you go to Bible college. I think you are just trying to get a means of livelihood, it doesn't work like that.

how did u come up with that conculsion?

Brightgem:
Thank you, and you that has the perfect formula for life, let it work for u. You need not tell me what to know about life, our narratives could never be the same. Bye!

trying to be savage? Well u r a novice, no one here told u how to live ur life sis

Brightgem:
Just the way men like to use Feminist to shame ladies for having an opinion or a voice, people like you like to use holier than thou to cower people. Now Open ur ears, I am not forming holier than thou. I am saying what I think and believe in, I don't do anything funny behind closed doors or outside. I am not also trying to prove myself to u either, but understand that there are people who mean what they say and practice what they preach. Please, by all means, feel free to cohabit when the opportunity comes, cuz believe me experiencing a thing is always berra. In school, u are taught a lesson then given a test, in real life you are given a test that teaches u a lesson.

u know nothing about life!!! Shiiiiiiiii

Like u are any better,,,*yawns* leaves thread

kayodekb:
I DON'T BLAME YOU BECAUSE YOU ARE AN IGNORANT IDIOT... NO TRUE MUSLIM WITH THE KNOWLEDGE OF QURAN WILL EVER CONVERT TO CHRISTIANITY... MOST OF THE PEOPLE CONVERTS BECAUSE OF MARRIAGE OR MONEY

u can only vouch for urself, strong Muslims, Christians even traditionalist convert to whatever when they deem fit!! Mean While people r still practicing it n glorifying it.

deavicky:
He thinks he can just become a pastor on a "plaster" of gold

meaning? He has to clear grass, sent to the bush, and used as a House laborer before being a pastor? How does that match with Christianity? Make it make sense

It’s really stupid how people will neglect the pain he passed through just cause he is talking about a church organization!!

R they not humans?
R they above sin?
Can’t they be corrected?
Is everyone that talks about them wrong? Oh yes because it’s a church! Stoooiopid!!

sanctity454:
it doesn't affect the male much, in this part of the world due to culture, but females... I once asked a female pal, that was cohabiting these, if your brother is getting married to a girl, that you know, once cohabited with some other guy, and by curiosity asks of your opinion, what is the answer gonna be ....
For me, cohabiting like two months before marriage is great, but cohabiting without a clear cut out destination is demeaning.

yeah,, to me u both should be engaged, probably saving up for ur wedding

Olaolud:
It's capital NO for me, because the maker of man and the originator of marriage forbade its,its against the rules.its called FORNICATION.the scriptures says anyone practice immortality will be an enemy of GOD

uncle please how is God the originator of marriage?

I like it tho, it helps the relationship,, if u can’t stay with ur bf for a year or more claiming see finish , u can’t marry him either.,,,

Tell her how things r for you, n that U don’t see urself getting married in 2years or more till u are financially better,,, if she continues with you,, it’s her problem but don’t break her heart

donstan18:
Assumptions, forgetting "Self-Centered".

All the same, you've made your opinion.

yeah i did, n that’s the truth

donstan18:
You mean as lady, you are okay getting married to a man who can only take care of himself?

yes if he cares for himself, he would care for me as well ,, cause we r 1

donstan18:
Generally, marriage is the legal or formally recognized union of two people as partners in a personal relationship[Specifically a union between a man and a woman].

As we all know, most men[Not all] wait till they are financially buoyant enough to start up a family, because it's mainly a man's responsibility to pay the bills in his home, and he should be prepared.

But does that mean a lady who has only 2k in her account is finacially good to go or fit for marriage? I mean, like how much should a lady worth before accepting a marriage proposal from a man?

OPINIONS from either men/women will be welcomed.

hving a job that takes care of her to me cause at the end of the day all fingers r not equal, so no amount would make sense , n this goes for both male n female

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TheOdd1sOut:
Oprah went through worse and she didn't become a porn star

they aint the same,, depression is real n she did what she could to give her peace of mind n pay her bills,, probably got no one to send her to school or feed her even, no helper, I ain’t say being a porn star is a good thing, but hv some empathy,,,, people r living harsh lives out there.

TheOdd1sOut:
they will be living demon possessed lives and be looking for God fearing men.

Hypocrites.

her Toto go don wide pass river Benue.

Some girls got raped and it fueled their desire to be successful.

I am not in anyway saying being a porn star is right, but she faced a lot, she was kinda a house girl n was raped on her way to get meat ,she never went home after that ,, parents r dead , she had no one that helped without hving sex with her. Hv some empathy

lefulefu:
Always wise to leave an abusive relationship be u a man or woman

thank you hm.

Belafonte:
You are not a feminist, jor. Date me for two years, I guarantee you any and all thoughts of gender equality will permanently evaporate from your consciousness.

u try well well

anungangampu:
Male or female and Maka gini?

female o!! She takes the condom with her when she wants to do it, her guy knows self. It’s makes u fat n she very slim b4

I know of someone that mix coke with sperm !!! Ewww disgusting