₦airaland Forum

fero007:
okowa dey see una personally bah?

senseless!! Everybody isn’t derailed by sentiments like you. Okowa is trying for delta simple! The fact u hv chosen to be blind n not state the obvious, is non of my business. Everybody around me says the same, just the ungrateful ones bothered that he is delta ibo that hv problems with him.

MNDY:
You do not believe that men in time past could have been divinely inspired to record such spiritual things that you mentioned. You would also choose not to believe the locations and evidences of other recorded events in the Bible I guess.

Feminism is but a tool by the devil to make you womenfolk rebel against God like Eve did with the apple before, and like that one, this rebellion too will of course have dire consequences.
BE WARNED!

lol yeah I don’t believe , I belive in the birth, death n resurrection of Jesus Christ, I do not agree with everything In the Old Testament

spreado:
You have stay in delta but not well enough, no difference.

i hv said what I hv said whivh is right to me..people who can relate will.

pocohantas:
"Nigerian girls can't marry a man without money, they don't believe in humble beginnings"... yet when they see a Nigerian girl ready to begin with them, they start second-guessing and discouraging themselves.

Confusion...

asin ehn

Complete confusion

thegentleman:
I'm a of dude of about 28 years, I just finished my NYSC program and I secured a job that pays me about 50k, my girlfriend who is about 25 years too just acquired a job that pays her about 60k per month too.

Is it advisable I go for M.Sc. program or just settle down for marriage with my girlfriend and then follow my career later.

We both stay at Ibadan, the city is averagely okay.

What's your take ?

my darling, as far u r ready n ur gf is ready n hv no problem with what u earn , get married.. more money n masters will come.

lefulefu:
lol moves are being moved? Wich moves. See guy even Bianca had a bitter arguement with her inlaws over the sharing of ikemba's assets and yet this one na woman wey stay with the ikemba till the end of his wife. The way that gold digging wives divorce at whim and inherit their ex rich husband's assets can never work here. See cheif Anenih for example who is well into his 80s and got married to one fine igbo babe in her early 20s some few yrs back..u think say dat young lady go fit just inherit cheif anenih's assets wen baba God don call am? E no go fit happen.. What will happen is dat cheif Anenih will make some small provision for her. Hmmm this thread don suppose enter frontpage na.its an educative thread. Biko wey MYNND44?

u making sense

spreado:
I live in delta, your observation is wrong

I hv stayed in delta well enough to know there is a big difference. So u r also wrong to me

Pataricatering:
it’s terrible when men are so ignorant and daft ! What has having sex got to do with being a feminist or not ? Did any feminist ever tell you that she does not have sex ? Or get married or have kids ? As if we can’t equally say men are humbled by a woman when they are having sex ? Have you seen anything look as stupid as a man coming ? Pls go and read a book , abeg - your ignorance is unbecoming!

they r so dumb. Like as if Linda telling young girls to be celibate till they meet a good man is a bad advice. She is getting old n needs to give birth n thats what she did. It is what it is

sandra50:
Oga you both should marry already..you are rich and she is rich..she is not asking you to bring money for anything.you are both of age and you are older so what are you waiting for?Linda my hands are up for you..I respect you for your choice of man.you carry eye enter market.

everybody must not marry.

Good for her

spreado:
All road in delta is tied, which of em did he tied? Who did he help with business and how exactly did he made warri, sapele, abraka n ughelli look good. I live in warri, school in oghara (i visit sapele almost every weekend) im from ughelli and i visit there also, Abraka i can't say

thats my observation, I so many people as well hv said same. But if u think otherwise? It’s okau. I didn’t make my comment to argue with no one.

elipheleh:
If my wife or any of my brothers' wives slaps my mum (retaliation or not, doesn't matter). She has disrespected me, the whole of my siblings and my own father. Insult to a married woman is an insult to the husband.

How I will handle it. Two ways.:
1. I will invite my wife's father to my compound. Once he arrives, I will call my wife and in her presence I will slap her father left right and center, kneel the old man down on his knees and raise his hands in the air. All the while I will slap him severally. Wetin want happen make em happen. The useless father didn't train his daughter responsibly.

2 option two, if the wife's father is late already, I will go to my village, call my blood relations.-strictly teenage girls in secondary and primary school. I will bring as many as possible..
Then Pay them, bring them to my home and ask them to all join hands and beat my wife blue black. After beating her, she'll feel the same humiliation my elderly mum felt by an idiot like my wife for slapping my mum. It is woman to women after all.


I DON'T BEAT WOMEN, I EITHER BEAT MY FELLOW MEN OR CALL MY SISTERS TO BEAT A WOMAN FOR ME.

this will only cause more problems

fero007:
maybe bcuz im here in burutu, but 4rm my own perspective delta was moving better under uduaghan(at least Warri was), maybe he didn't do much in asaba it's normal for delta governors to favour their tribe, ibori as urhobo favoured the urhobos, uduaghan as itsekiri favoured d itsekiris and dahs why he hammered on Warri, and now if you notice ifeanyi from Ika is stylishly doing same thing. we are still waiting for Ijaw, isoko and Kwale governor dat will help those of us from these places

I hv gone to ugheli Warri n sapele n there was great improvement,, n he is an agbor man even abraka is looking better . I feel he is way better than Uduaghan! Compare Warri of four years ago to now? My dear there is differences

HazzanTazzan:
What if the wife called her mother a slut and she slapped her... You'd still talk this nonsense ?

Or you just don't care what the wife did? And whatever she did doesn't matter ?

more reason to keep them apart. She might be wrong but u hv to prevent another occurrence

2buffagain:
... But marriage IS a contract.

You both sign on some dotted line prior to becoming man and wife don't you?

the paper isn’t what makes the marriage. It’s just proff u both r married.

MARRIAGE IS NOT A CONTRACT

HazzanTazzan:
Very senseless...

You'd send your mum out of your house cos she slapped your wife for a reason you don't know?

And your wife must have a say in whether your mum shld visit or not ? Chai

U sure say ur mama no abandon you when you were young ?

shut up ,,, he is right, no mother hv the right to slap ur wife no matter the reason n u let ur mum continue to cm around?,,, except u planed for the fight to happen again. N she continue hiting ur wife

If my mother in law slaps me, i will walk away, cause she is meant to be like my mum, n if my mum slaps me I don’t slap her back.. but she must leave my house

Airforce1:
Marry this fat fool at your own peril .

The day you disrespect my mom will signal your end of days .

I will not only Unlove you , I will make sure you're seriously dealt with after which you will apologise to my mom for your misconduct.

My mom is a calm and loving woman , she no dey pass her boundary .
If she gets angry at you , thats because you've done something terribly wrong .


No man should condone a disrespectful house wife/girlfriend.

lol typical mummy’s boy, so ur mom can’t be wrong?? Well I pity the woman u will marry, u n ur mother will surely maltreat her

spreado:
Delta don't need to borrow because Okowa is not paying salary or making changes in the state. Delta don't need the money

not true!! Okowa is trying , I won’t even lie. Way better than Uduaghan,,, , all state road in delta, is tied n I know people he helped with businesses!! My aunties that are government workers r being paid!! It’s only local government workers that ain’t being paid n that’s not his fault. Tho I know he pays late. He isn’t doing for only his people, warrri , sapele n abraka n ughelli r looking real good!! When I went visiting I was impressed.

martineverest:
and Delta and bayelsa are backward in terms of development

i disagreee!!! Delta state can do better than it is now!!! But it’s developed

Aykush:
I haven't been able to eat since morning because it just came like a shock...moreover this isn't the first time and I forgive her..
This was early last year..we lost communication for almost 7months and during those times she told me she had sex with a guy twice which i forgave her last year

u know what to do already

2buffagain:
@shugavee, idealistically, you are right.

Realistically? You are being willfully ignorant. There are women who have said the same good goodly wife things you are saying right now that became monsters years down the line.

Out here , women trigger 70% of divorces. You want to know why they can do so so casually?

Human beings are inherently selfish. It is a human flaw no matter how goodly the spouse. So love with structure and guidelines.

You can still love each other till death do you part ...having signed a prenup.

It is like car insurance. Something you buy now to cover all bases but hope to NEVER have to use in the future

Prenup is not for protection against a wife. It is for protection against a vindictive ex who, for whatever emotional change or reason, might choose to destroy your life because he/she realizes they have the power to do so.

If you still don't get that, scroll up to my earlier post of the three types of women who won't sign a prenup and pick the one you are.

car insurance !!! Marriage!!

MARRIAGE IS NOT A CONTRACT

Just stay single it’s not by force

Marriage ain for kids!! U can be a babypapa n move on with ur life, marriage is a covenant! U n who so ever u wanna marry becomes one ☝�, only matured minds really ready for it should go into it... not because u just wanna marry, especially guys here...




MARRIAGE IS NOT A CONTRACT


U MUST NOT MARRY

How can someone get married , already getting ready to divorce , that marriage won’t last!! That’s just the truth. If marriage ain’t built by trust, it will surely crumble . There no love in that.. is like a contracted marriage , u can break up when u want,
When marriage is meant to be for better for worse, till death do us part... if u feel u don’t benefit anything from marriage as a single guy , that’s more than enough reason to die single... when u r ready u won’t ask stupid questions.

MariaLavina:
Call me old fashioned, I don't see the need for it.

And I don't expect my man to. Thanks

i feel it’s not just right, for LOVERS to do that. Marriage is a risk for everyone.... if u scared of it , then forget abt it. Doing that means u don’t trust me, so there is no need for marriage.

Don’t waste ur mb

Printerscanner:
Even Obasanjo who is the craziest Nigerian dead or alive did not risk his life to go near Buhari not to talk of Biola Saraki whose father was jailed by Buhari in 1984. If Saraki does not take his time, Buhari will repeat the same thing he did to Biola Saraki's father, that is, jail Saraki. Then imprisonment will become a generational curse in Saraki's family because that Bukola Saraki's son that looks like puffpuff will definitely be jailed too.

lol that’s impossible

This man smart sha !! I like

LivingDead:
No child. No house. No qualification. No love. No work. No money. No sound health. No business. No strength. Everything about me is zero. I'm a big failure. I didn't/can't accomplish what i was created for. Sleeping more than 12 hours like a big baby is not the life i planned out for myself.

Oh sorrow! Why have you chosen to court me. I long for the nostalgic moments of the past. When i was healthy and exuberant. When my parents finances were moderately okay. When i shone brightly in school. From primary school down to secondary school, then uniben. I was outstanding. Till bad health made me lose out in final year.

just keep hoping! Life will be better, u are in this world for a reason.

Millenniumlady:
Apart from your di*k what do you have ?

ask am

All of the above

When women start doing same no one should complain o!! Cause we r all for equal right, expect it in the nearest future! Marriage is not even an achievement!!! We will date who so ever n pay their bills , it won’t be secret no more... n if u turn out pained about it.. u jump in the lagoon! Women will be more proud abt their sexuality. Keep encouraging nonsense online u hear.