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pocohantas:
E weak me o. Shebi men are polygamous in nature. Men can cheat and love their wives.

Isn't that the same thing this lady is saying?

so in all essence she is right No she is not, this just the devil , she would pay in due time. Coming public to say such is so disgusting!! So She had to post it on social media so people can clap for her?? Do u know the battle the wife would hv passed through before finally letting it go? The pain!! Why cause another woman pain?Why? Cause of ur greedy ass, n go further to advertise it, cause u r not on the loosing side, this is so bad

This is so wrong,,, the worst part is, u r encouraging men to indulge in nonsense.. a WOMAN. smh

HeyCorleone:
You have made no sense.

First I do not see the word "idiot" as an insult. I have only described your demograph.

Now we don't worship graven images. We don't pray to Mary or other saints. It's only intercessory like I said before. You may choose to misconstrue it, that is your business. You may wail from now till next year it doesn't make your opinion any more right.

Why do you even feel you're saying the truth? Why was there need for Moses to make a serpent out of copper or a need for an ark of convenant? I could go into more examples.

These are things you need understand. It's not blasphemy. I don't see it as such. I have never seen anyone praying to a statue, not even the priest, not even the pope. Christianity has a lot of traditionality surrounding it otherwise you wouldn't be going to church on a Sunday.

lol u all hv different theories in support of ur paganism. From left to right. Well we should all do what makes us happy

She said nothing but the truth

Democracy, crazi demo, demonstration of craze, crazy demonstration! Fela rest on

Quam7even:
Hey I need advice.

I've been dating a girl (not my tribe) I'm from the South south and she's Yoruba. Although we've been dating for close to 6 years (since after secondary school through Uni till now), I'm still trying to come to terms with her culture and all.

So by God's grace a couple months back I was able to get a Job (lik 200k basic plus benefits and all) with a multinational company. I just completed my NYSC in July FYI. I told my babe and all we were happy. fast forward to last week wen she was gisting me about how she was talking to her mum about me and her mum said that the money im getting is small, as she finished telling me what her mother said I said God Forbid and back to sender, as an MFM boi na. to my surprise my own babe then called me an idiot and that my statement was foolish.

I'm not gonna form hard guy, cz honestly I apologized to her if she took my God forbid prayer as an insult to her mumsi, but I cleared her that she as my babe had no right to call me names, as I've never called her names before.

Naso she begin para nd told me she will use any words she deems fit if i insult her parents. Tried to get her to see that God Forbid and back to sender ain't an insult and both she and her mother were wrong for wah they said. But she didn't wanna agree.

so now we haven't talked for the past week nd if i see her message I delete em, cz she doesn't wanna apologize.

So that's why I need advice. is what I said really wrong? And should I really continue with this relationship cz her "Nigerian Feminist" tendencies for the past couple of months have been a bit much, I.e. she can never be wrong in her own mind (of recent she's started befriending all these instagram savage girls and girls who can't keep a stable relationship of their own, and it's been affecting the way she thinks).

apology for doing what? This didn’t require an apology... u would hv said this angrily don’t discuss my earnings with ur mom Or any other person again.

That would hv sent the message

Yes u insulted her Mum but u hv apologized.

Send ur mother money urself!! There is no issue here

Ubenedictus:
Read up my dear: eph

Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself up for her; 26 that He might sanctify her, having cleansed her by the washing of water with the word, 27 that He might present to Himself the church in all her glory, having no spot or wrinkle or any such thing; but that she should be holy and blameless. 28 So husbands ought also to love their own wives as their own bodies. He who loves his own wife loves himself; 29 for no one ever hated his own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it, just as Christ also does the church, 30 because we are members of His body. 31 For this cause a man shall leave his father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife; and the two shall become one flesh. 32 This mystery is great; but I am speaking with reference to Christ and the church.



Marriage in the Christian setting goes beyond what tradition and law says, the marriage of husband and wife is the mirror of Christ and the church.... This is why Christian marriage is distinct from traditional or court marriage because by faith it embodies and takes on a powerful mystery.

Jews had marriage, tradition has marriage even court too, all those marriage comes with a provision for divorce, Christian marriage doesn't, it is different.

If you are a Jew as Jesus was and still practice Judaism then marry as a Jew, if you are a traditional person go for tradition, I am a Christian and marriage means more to me than it did a Jew, a court, and tradition.

uncle spare urself this long epistle n answer what I asked if u really need to quote me.. the reason I tagged u is cause u used the phrase union of Christ!! N u apportioned that to the Catholic Church!! Reason I asked all the questions I asked!! Which church wedding did Adam n eve do please? don’t forget that!

aragon4realz:
this is my biggest problem right now so am still reading....this is one of the best advice I have received thanks...I will go ahead and propose to her and also make it clear that we will be wedding in the Catholic Church when the time comes,if she says no,I move on

just move on now n get another gf, cause if at all u hv to wed her in her church

Ubenedictus:
the devil has a hand in it, this is the factions that the Bible condemned as works of the flesh.

There were no denominations in Christianity

here is another stupid talk,.. the Bible is the work of the flesh!! Written by man n translated by man So shiiiiiii

candygirl4real:
Dont mind d shuga mumu with madness written all over her

lol idol worshipers

Ubenedictus:
it is you who seem ignorant, the Catholic church has been there since the first century, Protestantism began 1500 years later, Pentecostalism began 1900 years later

u r most ignorant cause u didn’t read our argument ...

candygirl4real:
I guess the shugvee or watever is really insane

lol idol worshipers.

Ubenedictus:
you didn't read well, this is what your link says


"movement has its roots in the late 19th century, a time of mounting indifference to traditional religion. Denominations that were known for revivalistic fervour became subdued. Emotional modes of religious expression—enthusiastic congregational singing, spontaneous testimonies, prayer in unison, and extemporaneous sermons on simple biblical themes by lay preachers—gave way to ordered, formal worship services that were conducted by “reverends,” ministers trained in homiletics (preaching skills), who were influenced by higher biblical criticism. Lecture centres and elegant sanctuaries replaced camp meetings and crude wood-frame tabernacles"




The Pentecostal movement has its origins in the late 19th century, Pentecostals simply enjoy claiming the apostles, by the 19th century about 200 years ago all the apostles were dead

therE is no argument here

Ubenedictus:
Catholics won't recognise court wedding. Marriage is the mystery that reflects the wondrous Union of Christ and his Church in perpetual covenant. In Catholicism that is a distinct Christian matter that a court wedding doesn't even come close to mimicking.

union of Christ?? Ur are obviously a fanatic,,, traditional marriage is even more important than church wedding,, court wedding holds more ground than them all!!So if a new member comes to ur church married they will do wedding again or be rejected? Or maybe married in another church nko? This doesn’t follow in real life... this is just up in ur head!! N it doesn’t make sense. The union of Christ is a man n woman coming together as one ,, with or without church wedding if they r Christians that union is blessed already!! U forgot the marriage Jesus did his first miracle? That was even in the Jewish time , did Jesus condemn the marriage.. most of u fanatics think carry church for head makes u a Christian!! Which church wedding did Adam n eve do?? They didn’t even do any marriage !!

Ubenedictus:
Catholics won't recognise court wedding. Marriage is the mystery that reflects the wondrous Union of Christ and his Church in perpetual covenant. In Catholicism that is a distinct Christian matter that a court wedding doesn't even come close to mimicking.

union of Christ?? Ur are obviously a fanatic,,, traditional marriage is even more important than church wedding,, court wedding holds more ground than them all!!So if a new member comes to ur church married they will do wedding again or be rejected? Or maybe married in another church nko? This doesn’t follow in real life... this is just up in ur head!! N it doesn’t make sense. The union of Christ is a man n woman coming together as one ,, with or without church wedding if they r Christians that union is blessed already!! U forgot the marriage Jesus did his first miracle? That was even in the Jewish time , did Jesus condemn the marriage.. most of u fanatics think carry church for head makes u a Christian!! Which church wedding did Adam n eve do?? They didn’t even do any marriage !!!

penearth:
please stop that marriage to save ur family in future. all ur children would b Anglicans which will hurt u. stop stop stop. mine was a 7th day, a wonderful girl, but I stopped when she swore I wedded her in her church. plz stop don't ever try it. if she agrees, take her before d blessed sacrament for her to pledge she would die a Catholic not coming through deceits

u wed a girl in her church, not yours.

Ubenedictus:
lol, Pentecostalism began in the 19th century with the azusa revival and the like, you guys weren't even around 300 years ago talk less or during the apostolic times. Speaking in tongues and doing miracles are not Pentecostal church property even Catholics do same. I guess it is Kenneth Higgins who said miracles happen more in Catholic churches than in Pentecostal ones

Had to google it.. he is right

dukeo:
You think... my expression after finding out that you are a feminist

yup yup!! Proud one

This is not the full story!!! What actually happened??

Kylekent59:
Am a type of guy that sees things from different views.


I have come to realize that many Christians hate the catholic church. I don't know why, or could it be because of their population / unity.


I have heard so many things about the catholic church, so one day I decided to attend their first mass.


Observations:


1. I observed that when the mass is about to commence, a thick bell is rang, and all stands up, then they start with what they call sign of the cross.( father,son and spirit).
Jesus said God is in me and am in God and through the spirit God reaches out to us.
so I think they are right about their faith in accordance to the scriptures.


2. When ever Jesus is mentioned while praying they all bow.


3. The homily, here the priest preaches the the gospel of the day.


4. They break bread, and blessed it, and a cup of wine also will be raised together with the bread and they are gonna be blessed in accordance with the scripture. (Jesus broke bread and gave to his disciples and he told them "do this in memory of me"

5. Thanksgiving : where people will bring their fruits/offerings and places it on the alter and the priest will bless it.( Those offering will be used to cater for the orphanage)

7. Announcement / closing prayer which still ends with (in the name of the father,son and spirit)

8. After proper reasoning, I found out that those things used in worship are used to boost their faith and by so doing their faith is at the increase.

That was why Moses made a serpent with a rod and he told the people to look at it and get healed. (He used that serpent rod to boost their faith and that made them healed).


I came back home and I started crying, I was asking myself why are people bad.

I once heard they worship idol but I saw no idol only the cross(which signifies a perfect sacrifice)
Even in the bible,Moses made a serpent idol and told the people to look at it and be healed and they were all healed.


as from that day I said to myself that i won't believe anything I hear not until I go and make my observations.

I stil don't know why people say bad about other churches, they just hear from someone and just believe without even verifying.


At OP please marry someone else, she doesn't deserve you. Please don't abandon your faith.




Kyau dare.

Gobe ne cike

next time say the truth by saying I am a catholic n this is how we do services.. u can only deceive the people that wants to be decieved

dukeo:
And guys are the heartless ones.

Unfortunate dudes, really. Thank God I can spot your type a mile away

lol U wish

franciskaine:
den face ur fake pastors sleeping with church members upandan, and using fake juju on u lot to hoodwink u. Av u payed ur tithe? Ignorant lots!

I know it’s hurts lol.. bye

franciskaine:
and who recognises ur church calender??

we recongnize it.

Vicvalentine:
I can never ever deny Virgin Mary been the earthly Mother of Jesus , she was Favoured by God because of how dedicated she is to Him.
She has the fear of the Lord in her and as a true follower of Christ
I think we should Emulate her lifestyle on how she lived, honored and served God while she was alive.

Not coming up with some false claims about how she invented rosary and how the rosary has promised to those who pray it daily, that’s total idolizing and regarding to someone who served God truthfully during her lifetime, coming up with that kind of ideology about praying with some beads.

exactly

franciskaine:
you av a right to blv wat u will, but u don't av a right to call what other people do as idol worship. U are blaspheming. Be careful!

blasphemy how? Face ur holy Priest raping boys n girls that’s pure definition of blasphemy after Claiming virginity

franciskaine:
catholics are idol worshipers yet u obey their Christmas doctrine, U obey their easter doctrine and follow their Gregorian calender? Funny people.

lol my church hv their own Calabar n the year starts August. So because we know u all r idol worshiper , we shouldn’t believe in Jesus again?

dukeo:
She doesn't like you.. She's just passing time if not she'd never make you jealous. If she didn't like the flirting, she wouldn't get carried away in the first place and FYI, she's to tell the dude to bug off not you.



If you want to break up with these types, they're the ones that'll cry hell on earth

lol just made me rem Guys I hv used n the drama when they dare to break up..they go no where till I am done with them

mrblessed:
Dear Friend, there is a wide gulf between your thesis of argument and what is written in Matt. 12: 47-50. In the said passage, Jesus expanded the scope of His earthly family to include everyone who listens to His teaching and does the will of His Father in heaven, and not solely His mother, Mary and his disciples. Therefore, I suggest a little more research on your part concerning this issue.

u made no point ones again

maikbanj:
I met this pretty young girl in camp, she was this very friendly girl who was so free with guys. We got to know each other and now we are dating. I told her about her creating boundaries since we are now dating. She agreed and now the relationship is going smoothly.

But then there's this dude who's really on her neck. He keeps calling her and they chat a lot. We went for our clearance and they were both gisting and laughing. I was talking to a dude and next I saw her holding the guy round his shoulders laughing.

I got quiet and acted like nothing happened. Had to call her attention to this now and she was like she was sorry that she got too playful. She promised it will never happen again.

I really do not know how to make this dude back off cause we talk. But not really a friend.

tell the guy to leave her alone.. if u don’t, he will think u r okay with it. If u guys breakup cause of that,, know it’s for the best

stankezzy:
catholic is not even the first church , old testament , moses and up till jesus were jews , their religion is Judaism but before jesus left he breathed upon them and said recieve the Holy Ghost , Peter, Paul and the rest apostles were penticostals , they speak in tounges and do miracles and do pentecostal things , it was after the death of the apostles that Romans that used to be idle worshipers now combined idle worshiping with Christianity to form roman catholic so pentecostal came before catholic

oh really? Thanks