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ogugua88:
Chai, why so vicious? Trim your hair every four weeks? Who's advice is that? Perfect? For whom?

When women take their braids out, they're not losing hair per se. Humans shed about 100 strands of hair a day. Those of us who don't wear braids and weave get to comb out our shed hair. As for those in braids? They don't obviously, so the hair that comes out after braids/weaves are removed is shed hair. Gosh.

Just as many women have receding hairlines from weave and braid wearing, some have beautiful lucious hair underneath. Let's be fair.

I never trim my hair. It's recommended that hair is trimmed every six weeks, and that sef is too much. How can you trim every four weeks and see your hair grow longer? Unless your hair dey grow like weed.

Oh, do I sound vicious?  I am surely not trying to sound vicious - just trying to be factual in my approach.  I have a lot of hair as well, but I do most definitely believe that hair which is braided for 2-3 months when taken down - hair loss is from much more than just natural hair shedding - there are women who lose lots of hair in braids especially if the braids are tight - they pull at the hair.  Also not being able to properly wash, scrub, condition and stimulate the scalp due to braids REALLY increases that hair loss once the braids are taken out.

As far as my trimming every 4 weeks - was just how I do it because my hair grows fast - the reality is that the hair when trimmed stays even and grows faster - because of the ends that might split from lack of moisture.  If you are an "ends trimmer" usually every 6 weeks people trim their hair and perm - I perm every 3 months since the leave in creme conditioner I use keeps my hair straight enough where I don't need a perm but 4 times a year.

I have seen your photos - you have long hair and it is very thick.  I trimmed every 6-8 weeks and my left side far outgrew my right side and vice versa - my trimming 1/8 of an inch off every 4 weeks - no one side outgrows the other.  The leave in creme conditioner shoots it out really fast - hydroveil - TRY IT - a wonderful, wonderful thing.  I never leave home without it.

 

[quote author=BABE! link=topic=792901.msg9448748#msg9448748 date=1320020324]  

Whats your consign wit their Brazilian?

Brazilian wearers are hypocrites? Right.

Orisirisi Ase. [/quote]sorry if you are offended - just speaking my mind - fake hair is sold to "cover" and to beautify but it also hides the "real hair"

I used the term hypocrite - because hypocrites "hide their true selves" - they present a different self to others -you don't know who they "really are"

maybe the term I used was a bit harsh - also some women will tell you right away that they wear weave but many do not - and don't want you feeling the glue knots and the thread that is on their scalp - so they don't want you to touch their hair.

They present themselves as a glamorous person with long hair and a large majority of them have hair that is 1 inch long and it will get shorter wearing fake hair - because a lot of them with wigs and weaves don't take care of their beautiful short hair - that with proper attention would grow to the length of the fake hair they sport.

That is what I meant by hypocrite.

LadyT:
Each person to their own I braid my hair and I know when to take my braids out so I dont weaken my hair.  Everyone has different types of hair you cant give advice that will suit all .  You advice is flawed and your descriptions are off.

My advice is perfect and my descriptions are perfect.

You braid your own hair - women who don't braid their own hair - have it done and pay hundreds of dollars or good money to have their hair braided - they don't take their hair down like you do on a regular basis.

When they take their braids out - they lose alot of hair - many of them take their braids down in 2 or 3 months and lots of their hair comes out in the braids - I have 2 friends who own hair salons and I have sat in the chair talking to them while they are either braiding or taking down braids and seen the hair.

Many women have receding hairlines from wearing braids ALL THE TIME and don't take care of their own hair - same as weaves - glued in or sown in - they wear other hair and don't let their own hair breathe.

Good for you, you know when to take your hair down and you do it regularly, the fact remains that many people aren't like you.

The definition of hypocrite is that they hide themselves - Weaves allow baldness to hide itself.  This is why you aren't allowed to touch it.

A.  WEAVE WEARERS fear of discovery

B.  WEAVE WEARERS fear of discovery

C.  WEAVE WEARERS fear of discovery


I encourage everyone to focus on going bald and growing your own hair - as a woman your hair stress levels end and money stays in your pocket.  No more brazilian this, that or the other.

Almost 3 years ago I cut all my hair off to less than 1 inch - it is touching my shoulder blades (my bra strap in the back) - it is half way down my back TODAY.   If you take care of your own hair you can grow it - my hair grows half an inch a month - in the summer it grows longer.

Keep your ends trimmed every 4 weeks and keep your hair clean and moisturized - never allow it to dry out.  After you wash put in leave in conditioner (creme based not liquid) and "olive oil" liquid for the hair while the hair is still wet before it dries.

DO NOT USE HAIR GREASE ON YOUR SCALP EVER because it clogs the pores and prevents growth - YOU CAN PUT A LITTLE HAIR GREASE ON THE ENDS OF YOUR HAIR ONLY AND use hair oil spray in a can for the rest of our hair every 2-3 days, do not use every day - do not brush your hair when wet only comb and comb from the bottom of the hair up by holding the hair with one hand and gently combing with the other hand.   You don' t need to buy other people's hair and put it on your head.

Wash your hair 2 times a week if you live in a tropical climate and once a week if you do not.

Keep the braids away from your hair - you will be bald at the hairline if you keep having it braided.  I do not have my hair braided at all because I refuse to allow the breakage - hair braiding does to hair.

@ Topic

This is simple and it works like a charm each time.

While you are drifting off to sleep - keep your thought on what you want to dream about - stay with that in your thought and tell yourself that you are going to dream about that tonight or whatever night you want to dream about it.

When you fall asleep you will dream about it.

No

He is already married - his work and his projects are his wives

I would marry myself to him via business and investments - in that manner I would have access to him on a long term level and it would also keep him well-behaved.

@ Fork

I have had some mind blowing - toe curling - speaking in tongues and foreign dialect shouting or.gasms that have left me breathless - YES I do love my creator.  I am woman hear me roar in numbers too big to ignore.

But trust me - to lift a child in need in ones arms and receive their blessings; to kick walls down that surround a fellow human who is defenseless against poverty because they don't know a way out and they believe that they are crippled by it?; to see SHEER joy in the eyes of a teen who has just discovered and clearly sees hope on the horizon - I know the true meaning of "feed my sheep" -when I die and God asks me "who stopped you"?  I will be able to freely answer - NO ONE LORD.

No amount of human sensation intimate or otherwise can replace the INTENSE satisfaction and COMPLETE comfort I receive when I put my hand in the hand of the man that stilled the water and calmed the sea.

2buff:
Yup. google it.

Something about Malaria and how it hides in the blood stream and that even though we beat it our blood might still contain it blah blah blah.
Basically I translate it to mean this: "our blood is so EPIC, it CANNOT be put inside mere mortals "

No comment - my blood is boiling - the anger is rising from intense rage just listening to this - America the DAMNE.D great - shake my head.

2buff:
Nigerians aren't allowed to donate blood in North America. Fact 

that was an embarrasing day

What kind of nonsense is this? Nigerians aren't allowed to donate blood in North America?

fork adict:
FYI, I am not embarrassed. No homo.

Besides, have you done any of those things you advise aso to do?

Had you seen his ashy "soldier" - standing alone - you would have been embarrassed.

Yes - I have many, many times helped the poor - worked in soup kitchens, given money away - in the hundreds that now mount to thousands of dollars and I will be in Nigeria soon - doing the same there for people in that country as well

I love helping people - I haven't experienced a love and a sensation that is any greater than helping another human being.  And that is fact - buddy

Odunnu:
He wont reply you in a while, I bet he's been thrown out of the forum.
Nasty Arrow!

GOOD - he needs wakeup call - I am in the Family Section reading about a woman who's little boy just died from lack of food - no money, etc - and this poster is on NL - taking pictures of himself unclad with an expensive watch and lying in the bed of a comfortable home - he could have spent his time donating blood, helping the poor - he could have done much more with his life to help mankind

NOoooo

Instead he is traumatizing us women on NL - and embarrassing his fellow men.

smh - gosh

winnepooh:
God bless you for this effort. It is really sad and am just speechless; the tears have refused to stop. Pls get in contact with the mother of the late boy and let us come together to do something to help her and the other child. email me at geekaty@gmail.com Thanks again and God bless you.

SECONDED

@ Aso

There are women in Abuja - go pick them up - why you reveal yourself on NL?

You don't have to talk filth to me because you want sex - there's no gold here - dig your shovel elsewhere.

You have money - Your aren't ugly - why the perversion - go get deliverance and then find a good woman in Abuja around you.  God saw your picture too - Dishonesty forfeits divine help.

^^^^

thank you - I am NOW officially traumatized

@ Dsense - scroll up it in is the middle of page 5

@ shooze - cooking oil?  what is he going to cook?  his sausage?   

@ aso - ewwwwwwwww - put the Palm wine down and back away from it and then take a cold shower - you have young girls on here - don't grow them up too fast - they are still children - PUT YOUR CLOTHES ON.

shooze:
Shy-one please report him asap . I thought it was a doll or something only for me to look closely and see the boxer shorts. Lord have mercy looks like he used ororo on the thing. Wonders shall never end

They are not answering but I have called for back-up from another thread - I hope someone comes.

what is ororo?

please forgive me for derailing

iice are you still a moderator?

Please abeg there is a nasty, nasty man who has taken a photo of his self unclad with his ankles crossed - can you contact mukina2 to help us in romance section?

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-788060.99999.html#bot

MsDarkSkin:
LMAO @ CHIMA & SHYONE

lol POOR GUY! his ego is officially shot down!!
what was he thinking?   i really wonder about some men. LOL

my sentiments exactly - I can't get over the fact that he hid his face on the photo - but has his face on his profile and has listed his phone number - what in the world is going on?  He is front and center.  Does he not have a gf or a wife?  He is not an ugly man and is quite loaded it seems - he doesn't need to wave his tool at us on NL.

Why he hide his face in the photo?

His face is on his profile

This guy is drunk - it is early in the day and it is a Thursday - no holiday - he is at home

these NL people sef - smh

lolololol - ahahahaha

@ Aso

You should be ashamed of yourself - there are very young girls on NL - you sick, twisted, nasty, dirty man.

I am reporting your black, N.AKED, rusty, azz - your legs need lotion - ASAP - QUESTION:  When is the last time you had a pedicure -  you FREAK!!

@ Mz. Darkskin



sick, twisted and he is relaxed and ready

lololololololol - Lord please help us.

mukina - we need you ASAP

this man has taken picture of his tool and posted it on our thread in Romance section - it is waving at us - and Mukina - he is laying on his bed with his ankles crossed.

Please Mukina come and look and see what he has done to our NL.

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-788060.99999.html#bot

^^^

this nig_ger done flipped the script (and I hate using that word)

and has his ankles crossed laying back in the cut - wtf

shooze:
ow I have seen it all on nairaland

seconded!!!

[quote author=Ileke-IdI link=topic=790640.msg9426727#msg9426727 date=1319690140]LOL Sorry [/quote]

arsenefc:
I am Ijeoma Ezegbulam and I aint leaving your husband.

Clown

arsenefc:
Next time just tell her you are Oodua tokan tokan.

Thats how real Yorubas identify themselves.

When you meet your in-laws for the first time, if you want to endear yourself to them, just say Oodua tokan tokan. Trust me, the would love you 'badily'

OK - when I say this to them and they haul off and "slap me dead in my face" - because I just cursed them - taking my cues from you and you tricked me - you better look over your shoulder as you won't be safe anywhere - I will hunt you to the ends of the earth.

what is "Badily"? what does that mean - is that a word?

oodua tokan tokan? how do I even pronounce this my friend? My babe didn't say that me to identify himself to me - what does that mean?

[quote author=Jenifa_ link=topic=790640.msg9426699#msg9426699 date=1319689365]hahah they are not even similar in their posts.
Shy-one is mature in her posts and a bit philosophical
ms potato can be very randy atimes

I love how we're talking about her and i'm sure she's reading. [/quote][quote author=Jenifa_ link=topic=790640.msg9426689#msg9426689 date=1319689213]she's not ms. potato.[/quote]Thank you jare.

[quote author=Ileke-IdI link=topic=790640.msg9426683#msg9426683 date=1319688956]You're Ms. Potato?

Thought you were dating one Igbo boy? Now Yoruba?

Wow! [/quote]

Ileke - put the Palm wine down and back away.  You are suppose to be helping me with Yoruba - remember?

Because I am dating a Yoruba - remember?  I am not Ms. Potato - she and I don't even sound alike - our wording nothing

@ Jenifa

you so funny - Shy don't throw thongs - I don't chase or run after men - they chase and run after me - I just like having fun and contributing to threads - I love black men - can't stomach white men - in the dark I might think I have seen a ghost - I love my black men - I know my roots, am proud of them and I embrace - black as it is beautiful

seedord247:
Like Tosin Baboon. . . . .

So funny that I couldn't find his type of Chocolate.

Unless they are trying to invent Dark Chocolate.

Don't be jealous of Tosin - it doesn't look good on you jare.

^^^

I love dark chocolate - so yummy.

Dayokano likes men?