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Solomonudofia:
Men are thought to be low on emotions when it comes to sex. We bottle up emotions and all that but the truth is that there are things that we also feel a certain way about sex.

Ladies, here are some things that we notice during sex but may not be bold enough to tell you.

1. Cuddle after sex SOME TIMES

I’ll grant you that, a lot of guys after sex, we want to fall asleep and move to the next phase of the day. We also want to cuddle sometimes especially for the married folks. The feeling of your warmth on his body makes the sleep even better. For random sex, he’ll want to go away as quickly as possible. There you have it, we also love to cuddle.

2. Your confidence says it all.

Men are visual people in nature. If you’re confident about yourself and your body, guys will barely notice. The same ways guys notice ladies who are happy and active in a gathering compared to one just in the corner. Being confident about yourself is quite a lot of sexiness in itself.

3. We don’t really like sex in the shower or on the beach



I know we misled you on that, we like that but let’s be honest, they’re both overrated and require a lot of work for the lazy people. If there is a way sand won’t get into uncomfortable places, we might do it more often. Also, if there is some sort of equipment that can be installed in the bathroom, we would be totally down for it.

4. Not in the mood


The social construct is that men are always in the mood for sex. News flash! Sometimes we’re not in the mood for sex, could be a bad day, headache or any other factor. Due to the pre-conception that men are always Hot that we can have sex every minute of every day, it is simply not true, sometimes we just want to rollover and go to sleep.

5. We’re not cool with your toys.


Honestly, there is no way we can cope with your vibrator, shit offers 6,000rpm, no human can except the Flash, but that’s fiction. For our ego sake, kindly put away your intimacy gadgets. We don’t need to see rabbit but that’s not all of us, some men are secure around intimacy gadgets.

Get your man’s opinion about intimacy gadgets and use the information judiciously.


Source: http://www.clintgist.com/5-intimate-things-about-sex-guys-hide-from-ladies-id5734315-html/

Cc: Lalasticlala

Arthurwinner:
I wonder if u ar gona marry a woman cos u will still beg ur husband for sex

Odianose13:
Are you through? Thank you for your opinion. Let me challenge your comment.

What of a wife sleeping with other men? Will you call that responsible? The wife never denied sleeping with other men. And Yes, the man never denied being helped by his wife - he said she earned more than he did.

Plus, a man who begs for custody of his children so he trains them well in this scenario is not as irresponsible as you paint him to be.

If you feel that helping your husband grow financially makes him irresponsible, then you are selfish.

If the man says he doesn’t wanna give money to an adulterous woman as he will be seen to support her adultery and hence be punished dearly for it with death - he respect his tradition! As a Christian or Muslim, don’t u respect ur doctrines? Then why won’t he respect his culture? Ask the Esans, they have this tradition too.

Giving an adulterous woman custody of kids is the wrongest action to take. The future of those children is more than financial sponsors but more of responsible guardians which those kids will never have.

Please do not rush into conclusion as it affects ur gender, wrong of you my dear, wrong.

Peace!

ubunja:
99% of all the single gals i know are the biggest sluts.

RadicallyBlunt:
I dey find point for all dis ya write up, I no see

Imunose:
I can see here you are the one that lacks common sense.
You have nothing reasonable to say or better still you have no words of your own, that's why you have to keep "quoting" other people. If you had it, you would err your views and get out of my mentions.

After this I'm going to ignore you like you don't exist cos silence is the best answer given to f**l.

Obviously you don't have anything relevant to say.

#Akamu

Imunose:
Please give us your better "judgement"

Dimples129:
Are you smoking crack right now or your mother smoked it when you were in the belly?

GTFOH

Dimples129:
Are you smoking crack right now or your mother smoked it when you were in the belly?

GTFOH

delishpot:
ok. I don hear you.

Dimples129:
For your mind you asked smart question abi

#Captain obvious

delishpot:
Most people will not judge it the same simply because the girl has hymen which can be broken and causes her to physically lose her virginity at that age. In this case, the 4yr old did not penetrate her. Now, they are both damaging (whether victim is a boy or girl) but we must agree that more pressure is placed on women to have their hymen intact unlike men who even brag about their sexual exploits. That is why people react to a girl being penetrated differently than they would a boy being made to.
The boy can not be sexually active at that age to get a bonner and bang her while a girl child can be penetrated wether she wants it or not.
Don't get it twisted, even you would not react the same between a son and a daughter. Yes you will be angry in any of those circumstance but, finding out your 4yr old daughter was penetrated sexually would cause more trauma to you than if it was a 4 year old sons ojolojolo being toyed with. From the angle of STD they both carry risks.

Dimples129:
Excuse me...

I blame the adults exploiting children

In saner societies, the parents would be locked up for neglecting their own child (an 11 year old has no business working for a 4 year old) and the exploitation of the 11 year old girl.

Imunose:
The sight is terrible, I understand. But that girl needs sexual education too. She is human and a child as well.
If she was your daughter, would you condemn her? I'm certain we won't even hear about this story.
Its only difficult because she isn't your blood, but love conquers all. So educate her like a true guardian.

pocohantas:
Why is the emphasis on val always/most times to men?
Woman no dey do val for man ni?

BiafraBushBoy:
That kind of man wouldn't go for your type of woman!!

You will be a Liability to him

Shugavee:
one of the abaya boys!!

Dwayndlight:
You still ain’t gonna get it if you ain’t worth the D...


Meanwhile apples?

that’s a no, no

Letzdothething:
this is interesting piece.

I'd like to know if you don't mind, on what basis do you gauge your standard?

ubunja:
dont you get tired of threads like this...guys must do this, guys must do that blah blah.always guys must change.guys must improve. rubiiiiiiiish. are women born perfect??nonsense!!!!!!!

mediocre:
One of my guys recently got his ass dumped because he refused to give his babe head, Lol funny right? He was too ashamed to even come clean about the reason they broke up, I had to pester him for minutes before he told me. She told him she can't be with someone that cannot give her head, she literally said she couldn't do without it and my friend, well let's just say he's a good boy and the thought of sticking his tongue down there is repulsive to him. So the thing is, the girl is actually bisexual, he doesn't know this but i do because people tell me stuff... ..I didn't/won't tell him because it's none of my business and really it's no biggie.

The problem now is he's blaming himself for being too uptight and he's considering going back to beg her and with hopes of reaching a compromise. I want to dissuade him from doing that because I don't think a person who really loves you will go as far as dumping you because of inconsequential things like that. But the guy is completely smitten and head over heels in Love... I don't think he'll even listen to me.

Or am I overreacting Perhaps she loves him too but can't do without head

Faxole:
If you read my comment carefully, you would have realized that I said "some men." And I used some men because it's an accurate phrase, since there is evidently a fraction of the male population that fit that description. But you on the other hand don't give a damn about accuracy of speech. You just feel you can quote me and yap censoriously because you have a phone and internet access. What statistical procedure did you use in determining that 1% of my gender fit the description I presented? How do you know it's one percent? Have you tried offering your body to all the men in the world? Have you examined the minds and sexual behavior of all the men in the world?

Faxole:
What if it isn't? So you think because a chat was released where a guy refused to have sex with a lady that was willing to have sex with him, that it's so unrealistic and uncharacteristic of men that it had to be a publicity stunt? I think you women really overestimate yourselves. You think all men just want to have sex with you because you have breasts and a vagina. I hate to inform you that this is not always the case. Some men have standards. Some have principles. Some just don't like sex that much. Men aren't just animals that go around looking for some pusssy to stick their dick into.