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SugarMuffin:
So what do we call a woman that claims to love an independent guy? She's just a woman, right? And she needs to be treated right?
Some people will open their phone and come online to type rubbish without thinking at all why can't a lady be independent? What's wrong in working her ass off to pay her bills instead of waiting for one man to settle them for her? And at the end of everything now, it is only sex people like her can offer their man, nothing than opening their legs like a dog to please the man, the way some women reason these days pisses me off, why can't a man love an independent lady? And if such guy dump them because they were too materialistic, they will start forming one foolish feminist that men are scum. I'm sure some people are seeing this one as their mentor and role model oo

I just like your thought and you are so on point.

Boss13:
I have read about some many sad tales on Nairaland about marriages and I have seen similar pitfalls. Please note that my post is from a man’s view and does not aim to bring down women. I am also posting this because many young men do not get solid advice on how to pick their partners.

It is only when you get married that you begin to understand marriage. However, young men, if you adhere to some of the advices below, you will avoid some marital pitfalls and approach marriage from a logical point of view.

No 1 - Never marry for love. Love should never be the underlying factor to marry a woman. Why - marriage is a long term commitment for the foreseeable future. Love is an emotional situation and just like every other emotions, love comes and goes. There would be days and even months, that your partner irritates and disgust you. If love is the main reason you marry, young man, you would be heading for the divorce court.

No 2 - Never marry a single mother. What ever you do, never ever marry a single mother. Don’t start your family with another man’s family. Start your family brand new. I would love to explain this fully, but it would make this post longer.

No 3 - Assess and conduct proper due diligence on your future in-laws. Know your in-laws properly. Know their source of livelihood. Ensure your future in-laws are doing financially well as well as the siblings of your future wife. You will not enjoy your marriage when excessive financial burdens fall on you. Except you are excessively wealthy, which I doubt as a young man starting off life, and you have a big heart as well as a big house, don’t marry a woman where you cannot verify her family income.

No 4 - Don’t marry a lady from a broken home. Many women will paint a story of not leaving their marriage because they are from a broken home. However, please note these women do not have the knowledge, opportunity or privilege to be in a stable household. Many of them did not see their mothers adore and respect their fathers. Many only get to hear about negative information of their fathers. These are the first set of women to leave their marriage when things take a downward spin. If you want to have an idea of how your wife would treat you, look at how her mother behaves or treat her father and if the father is not around, this is a huge risk.

No 5 - Never marry for beauty. I don’t need to explain this so much. Beauty fades as one age and even if it doesn’t, beauty becomes inconsequential during marriage. Behavioral attitude matters a lot. At some point, your wife’s beauty becomes non existent and you begin to see her as an individual and not because she is beautiful.

No 6 - Assess your future wife’s friends and those who influence her. Women are largely insecure. Many rely on the advices of their friends, family, or spiritual leaders to make decisions. You have to assess the character of the person who has a major influence on your future wife. You have no choice on this because this individual would be running your home from his/her own location. If the individual is of no good and your future wife cannot cut ties, don’t marry such a woman. If the individual is of good standing, befriend such individual.

No 7 - Polygamous home - if the father of your future wife do not have a strong influence over his large family, run away.

No 8 - Never marry for food or sex. These are things a man with good income can easily get. Don’t let this form an opinion for selecting a wife. As you age, your sex drive dwindles down. Also, you get preoccupied with other more important things. For food, we can all agreed many of us eat out either due to the job or recreational purposes. Furthermore, food and sex do not define a man. If this is why you want to get married, think again.

No 9 - Never marry an illiterate, semi-educated or poorly educated woman. This is actually because of your kids. Women play a pivotal role for the early development of kids. An educated smart woman would raise smart kids.

OP, you are so on point.

Another money has being made.
Keep to one man, they won’t.

Never you waste your precious time with a feminist rather channel your time to something else that is useful and will surely generate revenue.

She has the right to still remain a feminist or if she’s fed up then she can go hug the transformer to better her life.

A man should never think of winning a feminist, when you have better things to think about. Use your time well guys.

Everybody wants to be known.
This is s simple way of taking peoples mind off her so she cheat.
Never trust any lady that utter words like this, they have a hidden plan.
They cheat even without saying such let alone saying it out.

khiaa:
If the bolded was true then there is no need for the topic. Read the topic again.

My response was based on the first point to stated. So read yours very well.

khiaa:
I realize that this a stupid thread but I will play along.

1. Why on earth would women have to pay for sex when men are slinging their pe.nises around freely begging women to accept it?

2. If male prostitution exists and women aren't paying for sex then who are their customers, homosexuals?

Notwithstanding all you just pointed out.
Many women still pay for sex anytime any day.
- If you go into sugar mummy, they pay more than sugar daddy. If you more clarification on this, I won’t mind to lecture you more

You should not be surprised if she does that, just bear in mind that she’s getting it outside with many men.

All you need do it’s to monitor her movement and will get evidence with solid good sex pictures of her with different men.
It’s very easy to handle.

Preshy561:
Keep deceiving yourself.

No lady wants a guy who has had sex with every Bimbo, Oluchi, Aisha on the street.

Cos as we all know, you'd still find your ways under their skirts.
We want men with high moral standards, stop deceiving yourself.

A man with that high moral standard will never want a woman that sleeps with every man pretending they are looking for money.
No man wants a prostitute.

swiz123:
The past shapes the future. Be guided

True talk.
Most ladies sleeps with married men and pastors believing that later men will have empathy on them.

The past shapes the future, like you rightfully said, goes a long way in choosing a wife material.

MrBrownJay1:
A) women need to RESPECT themselves before expecting men to respect them.
B) many women disrespect men therefore do not deserve RESPECT from us men.
C) expecting ALL WOMEN to be respected (regardless of who they are, just because they have a coochie) is the reason why some women act holier than thou (aka disrespectful to men)
D) RESPECT should be earned, unless its our mothers

Reading your post made me happy.

Points to note:
- If not because of men, do women think in this world that they can ever give birth.
- A woman gives birth because God made it so for his scriptures to be fulfil( Beacuse the devil deceived them into sin.
God made Mary to give birth to a son who will also defect devil whom all know as JESUS CHRIST).
- The main question comes like this, WHO GAVE BIRHT TO WOMEN , MEN.
If there is no ADAM there won’t be EVE, still men don’t raise roof for that so why would women BIRTHED BY men cry like a river and still disrespect men and expect to be respected.
- OPs likely you said, respect is earned.

Oluromantic:
I disagree with you. Your reason is so archaic.

If you understand psychology, you would know sex is expensive for men, the urge is more than d availability of it and so it becomes obvious when he's in need of it..doesn't mean he enjoys it..its even stressful for most men considering the amount he'll spend.

Sex is cheap to get for girls with many benefits and goodies attached. A girl in spite of shakara n pride can get to sleep with 3 men in a day and no one would know cus it comes almost freely for them when and when not in need of it. That's enjoyment

You just hit the nail on the head, so on point.

That’s mean she has raped and abusing the guy for so long which resulted to this.
Fathers should be very wary about maids, aunt, female cousins and their female friends cos it’s the fastest and easiest way to rape a young male.

STRENGTHesq:


He's now an old fool

But when the money starts coming
It will turn to calling an old man.. . Baby. Honey pie. Sugar etc

Dey there d deceive yourself

I really have to commend you responding to her idiotic and animalistic utterances.
She’s even justifying the woman cheating attitude. Am not surprise,
she’s part of the wasted generation who finds it difficult to process, analyze and excute with facts.

Macgreat:
1. A Nigerian feminist can not Woo a man; they don't have the balls
2. A Nigerian feminist can not take up the check after a date; they want to be pampered.
3. A Nigerian feminist can not kill ordinary cockroach.
4. A Nigerian feminist can not pay groom price; her village will finish her, and she wanna feel valued.
5. A Nigerian feminist can not stop watching Telemundo or zeeworld.
6. A Nigerian feminist can not stop gossiping about Men.
7. A Nigerian feminist can not do without Men.
8. A Nigerian feminist can not stay without se.x.
9. A Nigerian feminist can not stay quiet.
10. A Nigerian feminist will not stop criticizing Men.
11. Add yours

So on point.

AnalQueenluci:
women hater spotted ,no girl dos dat!

Man hater also spotted.
Girls do that a lot and not looking at the consequences.

iluvMAMAV:
u pple dat go 2 all prayer house because of husband crying upandan come on go joor

My brother, no mind the two di**k lovers ( girls) . Everyday and evrytime they keep disturbing God for a bf or Husband of their own after sleeping with all sorts of animals ( dogs and horse) to cure Konji.
They will come here and be saying rubbish .

Girl ain’t a virgin again for life

True talk

CreepyBlackpool:
That woman deserves to have her pussy cut off!!!

What nonsense!


women are scum!!!!

You are so on point. When her pussy is cut off, let me see how she will Rape another man. It’s obvious she has being doing this for so long. RAPIST

IamPlato:
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Pricelessfina:
Valentine is just few days away and a lot of Nigerian girls are already waiting patiently for valentine gifts from their boyfriends. It is that time of the year when most guys experience cold feet because they have no idea what gift to get for their girlfriends. Some guys really suck at buying gifts, so don’t blame them. But, the good news is this; I am here to help your career by telling you the kind of gifts you can get for your woman this valentine especially if she is a Nigerian lady.

The truth is that, when buying a gift for a lady, most times the issue is not money but knowing what to buy. I am sure by now; most of you guys already know that chocolates and flowers don’t work for Nigerian girls. You can’t just wake up and gift your girlfriend a flower on a valentine day. The first question she will probably ask you is, “Guy, are you crazy?” She will then go ahead and smash the flower at your face. So, instead of getting flowers and chocolates, get her any of these-


Read more at http://sweetnaijagist.com/dear-guys-here-are-some-valentine-gifts-to-give-your-nigerian-girlfriends-this-season/

You ought to be saying what gift you will buy for your boyfriend.

jasmine1600:
Nigerians girls and what they stand to gain.
Something that made a young man leave New Jersey and you think is not important to his life?
Do you know how many times he must have been called a basterd over there?
Why do you bear your fathers name “surname” and forget that of our mother that did the Labour in ur life?
Feminism is a course to some empty people.
Do you even know if the guy is made?
Because of cheap iPhone 6 n US. reap, sow, gain, bank, withdrawal, alert and even bad prayers are spilling out.
I pity your husband.

My brother, don’t mind the bastard of a girl.
If accessed very well, that man took the stupid woman there, gave her soft landing to raise his children and probably accused him of negative stuffs that led to his movement back to Nigeria ( just thinking out loud) with the intention to reap everything from the children and telling all sorts of bad stories about their father. God pass them.

Akuruoulo:
Clap for yourself
Womens comments only force me to believe they are always at fault in every violence issue

Don’t mind the useless girl, how on earth will she run away with the mans children. Women really don’t know the meaning of this traditional wedding stuff.
Once a man pays a ladies dowry, the children automatically bears the mans surname and totally belongs to him.
“ The useless girls needs sense”

Girls, don’t wait for the good guys, go out and search for them cos they are limited.
Many that waited are still waiting at 40.

As he is searching for you also search for him, apart from that, both of you will hardly meet. End of story.

Airtimex:
Work on your mentality sis...

Nice one Guy.
The best way to talk to fools like her.

Mrbolt565:
1. Never chase a woman. NEVER!

2. No matter how much you like a girl, never approach her first!

3. As you've fvucked her, dump her ass!

4. If a woman hits you, beat tf outta her!

5. Never spend your hard earned money on her, till your tired of fvucking her!

6. Patronize Prostitutes!

7. Never in your life try and impress a woman!

8. Never be desperate for relationship or love!

9. Never let her dictate what you so do or be!

10. Be a man!


Im out!!

You are a wise man.
Any man that follows this, will surely succeed in life.

Blesschemical:
Finding the perfect guy for you is
never easy and it can be even
more difficult to keep and
maintain a strong relationship
with your perfect guy once
you’ve found him . Every
relationship has ups and downs,
but it’s all about how much effort
you put in to make your
relationship work.
To make your relationship work,
you need a little more patience
and extra effort. Here are a few
tips on how to keep your perfect
guy madly in love with you and
make your dreams of a happy
future with him come true.
1)Appreciate Your Man:
One of the easiest ways to lose
your guy is to take him for
granted. If you don’t want to lose
your guy make sure he knows
how much he means to you.
Though guys can act
independent and show less
emotion than women , they do
actually need just as much caring
and love. Appreciate and support
him no matter what, instead of
nagging and insulting him for
things he cannot do. Never try to
change him, love him simply for
who and what he is.
2)Be a Loyal Friend and a Faithful
Partner:
A couple who shares a good
relationship as friends will
maintain a stronger romantic
relationship . It is important to be
a good friend as well as an
understanding romantic partner.
Share things with your partner
when you have a personal
problem or if you sense an issue
in your relationship. This will
make him feel that he is
important in your life and help
him understand that you are a
faithful partner. Learn to see your
guy as your best friend and as
well as your boyfriend.
3)Have a Good Sense of Humor:
Men usually find a woman with a
great sense of humor very
attractive. This doesn’t mean you
have to act overly silly or keep
telling jokes though. The key is to
learn how to have a positive
attitude in spite of any problems
and understand the value humor
and fun. The ability to laugh off
life’s little problems and see
things in a positive light is what
men look for in a woman.
4)Last but certainly not least:
Continue to learn new things and
improve upon the person you
are . Doing so will ensure that he
always finds you attractive and
irresistible. Everyone has their
own personal priorities, interests
and hobbies, and your
relationship should not interfere
in these things, it should enrich
it.
Give him space and allow him to
be himself and you will find that
keeping your boyfriend forever
madly in love with you is not as
complicated as you think.

Very perfect write up and true.

Rubbish.
-With all the di.ks you have received, access yourself if you are progressing?
-What makes you think with all the d..k , the evil spirits you mention, has not being transferred to you as a person or even rendered you unless?
- Those girls who have being sleeping around, how many of them has progressed if compared to the guys?

Stop thinking like a LovePeddler.

Who ever will progress will surely progress and vice verse in both Men and Women.

What about this G-guys, do you know how many girls they have rendered useless, are the G-Guys not progressing?
Greater percentage of there wealth comes from using girls so you should reverse your post to girls mostly.

Think smart.

JasonScoolari:
Very stupid guy.

Fighting your fellow guy because of a stinky infected cheating pussy.

On behalf of the Brotherhood Association of Nigeria (B.A.N) we hereby banish these fools for gross misconduct, disobeying the "guy code" publicly disgracing themselves, and the association because of a mere pussy.

Fully in support of your thought. He ought to slap the stupid gf cos she’s at fault for cheating on him.