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If you say 40% men are hi-sexual then what will say about women 98% for sure are bi-sexual.

Very useless post.

This is the KAMAR of the Jazz to squeez money out of men.

She don’t meet person wey senior her jazz.

Carry your cross.

TheNaijaMan:
This is something I have been thinking about for some time now and I’m hoping I can get some mature advice here or have someone share their own experience

I have been married for 11 years now and our first daughter is 10. I also have another girl and then a set of twin boys. I have never had any cause to doubt the paternity of my last 3 kids and I have also never doubted my wife’s fidelity since we got married but a few years ago, some doubts crept into my mind about our first daughter as I recalled a few things that happened before she was born, when my wife and I just met essentially- but I would spare you all that.

Because of this doubt, I’m beginning to observe that, although I make every effort to conceal it, I have somewhat less affection for her than I do for her sister and brothers. I feel this is unfair to the little girl and I try to dismiss those thoughts but they come back occasionally and it also affects my peace of mind.

I had considered a secret DNA test as I do not want to upset my wife but the girl is all grown up and smart and I do not know how this can be done without her probably saying something about it to her mom and causing the same rift I want to avoid. I also considered speaking to my wife about it and getting her consent to do it but I have a feeling she might not like it and this might even have unpleasant effects on our marriage in the long run. So do I just leave it and continue to stomach those doubts and for how long? or should I discuss it with my wife and live with all the possible after-effects? This is my dilemma!

I love my wife and I believe she loves me too but I really don’t want to go to bed every time with these doubts or wake up someday when I’m quite old to realize she really isn’t my child.

Appreciate matured advises please. Thanks

It will be difficult for you but you don’t need to take permission from your wife before going for the DNA
Test.

DNA test is just like knowing your children’s blood group when need arises so going for a DNA is not a bad idea rather it’s advisable, if the child is yours, FINE but if not, know the real father in-case issues that needs blood transfer comes up in-order to safe life.

The answer to your question is,

- Can a man also sue the wife for RAPE!

She deserves what she gets

czarr:
A promiscous woman causes more damage than a promiscous man........haven't you heard that more than likely 30% of first borns are not the husband's.

It’s 65% to 75%.

czarr:
Back in those days there was no sure way to know who the real father of a child is.....The woman knows its her child but the man can only trust the woman's words......which was not a good enough evidence for men.

it means a servant can impregnate a promiscuous queen and contaminate the bloodline of the monarchy....it was too risky,
so adulterous women were stoned flogged and made to walk naked on the street the serve as a deterrent to others.

I think the law should start that punishment again and stone them to death.

I keep saying that women are more promiscuous than men but coded.

The end result from women promiscuity should result to her paying monetary compensation to the man for wasting his time and finances then either she’s stoned to death or death penalty by hanging.

The law should place monetary compensation to the accused from the woman and also death penalty by hanging on the accuser (woman).

Don’t know if they are waiting till it gets out of hand.

21cents:
which your name dey??

all my possessions will never have my wife's name on it. my next of kins go be my pikin(s).


and yes she'd go meet her sugardaddy she gave kpekus few days after birth with her bastard child cos this nigga be doing DNA straight up . better I kick her out early before taking long

You are right, my next of kin must be my children and not even my wife.
None of my property will have my wives name and she must be bringing something to the table ( money)

Am not into any charitable organization level.

pocohantas:
Men are polygamous in nature. Another polygamous man sampled his wife. You people should be accepting these kids. It should be somewhere in the guy code.

Just thinking out loud o.

I also believe women are more polygamous in nature but very coded looking at the trend, everything is just unfolding now so men will know and take precautionary measures.

Men are just learning in the aspect of sex unlike women who are coded professionals.

But the bottom line is, it’s a very wicked act and the law should factor a serious penalty for such act from women cos she has just wasted 3 years of that man both emotional and financially and the law should find a way for the woman to compensate the men and if she can’t, the second option should apply.

Cheating is really bad but the worst is adopting a child for the man believing the child will love him one day so he can keep him/her.

I wish the govt will enact a death penalty by hanging for all this rape false accusation from women after compensating the accused man.

iyke926:
I don't want to be called a woman hater.

My advice to y'all ladies is, go create your own man. A man who is hardworking, always around to give you lot of attention, very loyal and rich, not so charming and not a time waster kind of man.

And above all, respect men and start treating us like the gods that we are.

Nice post.
Men should also avoid women without prospect in life.

Just the way Nigerian women are attracted to their houseboys and gateman.

punisha:
Equal rights and justice Abi?

It’s good for them to also feel how it hurts when they do such to a guy and all will support the girl.

punisha:
Equal rights and justice Abi?

It’s good for them to also feel how it hurts when they do such to a guy and all will support the girl.

I stand to be corrected, any man way spoil na woman ( mothers and maids) spoil them completely.

But he is right, what belongs to her also belongs to him whether married or not (every girls language to a man she’s lavishing his money) and why is she ranting and laying accusations on him saying he stolen her money and she has only spent N50k of his money, like she’s in a history class relationship.

Can’t she take care of her man?
If she can’t spend her hard earned money on her man, then she doesn’t love him.

OLDESTWARRIBOY:
First things first #SayNoToRape

But let's be logical not emotional

Her short are intact, slippers, shirt everything. Abi after the do, dem cor allow am wear her clothes finish before they killed her??

But anyways let justice prevail

You just simplified the whole thing because a lot of people most especially guys are just ‘follow follow or rather O yes member’

My take is just same with your analysis, people should stop posting rubbish they don’t have full details, some had to post to be relevant here thereby raising dust where this is none, and most of this guys here are pure slaves to women which has seriously affected their thought process so they want to impress a woman by all means in-order to get a slavery award name of ‘ women’s choice’

It’s very dishearten that men are loosing it.

I pray the law pronounce death penalty by hanging for her so she can die gradually.

Greater percentage of domestic violence are created and executed by women on men, the law should protect the men.

That’s the right thing to do.
Do you want to see his nipples? And why do you want to see them?
Men should learn how to cover themselves.
The chest of a man is flat and the private part of a woman is also flat while the center part of the man is same with the breast of a woman, long-things

( if you see them as weird then why are you covering your center private part?

So stop covering your private part cos it’s also weird.

Do you women think your body is worth more than that of the Adam that gave birth to you?

This should be the reverse.

Is it because there is no evidence of blood from a male child as an evidence?

women go scout free after raping a male child and they start pampering them to avoid talking or rather start washing their Brian by asking “ didn’t you enjoy it”

Janeberryy:
I didn't say or imply anything like that. What the hell is the aftermath

Whr, guys act like they don't have bruised childhood. What is the aftermath of it, they are taught to be smart and sexual being. Maybe you don't understand me. Or I don't understand you.

So raping, molesting and abusing a male child is the a way of teaching them how to be smart and sexual?

That means raping, molesting and abusing a female is also teaching them to be smart and sexual?

Martinez39s:
"We hardly see that" What is this supposed to mean, and what is it's relevance? The fact that there are mothers who molest and sleep with their children is enough reason to take photos like this seriously and question it's motivation?

If the genders were reversed, there would be an outrage on how such weird display of affection is disturbing. Why? Because people know that there are fathers who molest their daughter(s), and the father, who could take such a photograph, could very well be among those who molest their daughter(s). In the same vein, since we know that there exist mothers who molest and have sex with their son(s), why shouldn't we question a mother who could take such a photo, of all photos, with her son?

You seem so sure that the woman can never be among those who molest their son(s). Do you know the woman in person? All your arguments so far aren't cogent. We can agree to disagree.

Excellent response.
God will Bless you with more wisdom.

Janeberryy:
What is the aftermath on a male child?

Ignorance of the law is not an excuse
So the male child shouldn’t be protected at all, so they are worth being raped, molested and abuse because they ain’t humans, so every woman has the right to rape a male child?

Janeberryy:
Yea but we expect men to be immune to things like this, seeing a naked woman to the is exposure and will make him smart later in life but for a lil girl she should be shielded and innocent.

Which is very wrong looking at the aftermath on the male child.

Anuoluwa1234:
We already know that sir, he will be mailed for it. I do say it, sincerely, women are overrated in the society. That is why most of us misbehave anyhow .
Believe me, a male can't try this, bcuz he knew the outcome already.
Sincerely, females are too hyped in the society , that is why most of us behave anyhow. Imagine a lady with big breast, without bra, going into a males log late night etc... If they now rape her destiny, all they will start shouting is Justice for lagbaja.
Ppl will fail to address the fact she was in male hostel at that hour etc.... The preferential treatment is too much .
Imagine this one, corrupting the memory of that small boy at that age, all in the name of I gave birth to u.. etc.
I hate nonsense

I really appreciate your thought process.

Martinez39s:
It doesn't look innocent in anyway. Mothers do molest and have sex with their children, and she could be one of such mothers.

I really appreciate this response.

Meedon:
Oga go and charge your battery

Thanks for your response.
That same battery stores energy and produces good result (Light to make people happy) but Am actually think if your own battery (Brain) is giving out good response.

So go and work on your own battery

Janeberryy:
The internet will not take it likely if it's was the other way round.

The only reason u see this as wrong it's cause I would see it as wrong the other way round.

There is a way it looks innocent because it's a mom and son, they hardly rape or hurt their children sexually that's why It has a soft landing.

Very true, but these are things that are stored in the mind of the male child and when they grow up leads to rape.

This is the KARMA of what the women (mothers, maids ets) has planted in the minds of the male child and people terms not to look at the root of all this issue of rape.

Anuoluwa1234:
Sir, because she gave birth to him doesn't give her the chances of misbehaving or doing anyhow. This is computer age, things ring alot on children of nowadays memories.
What she did was wrong, HV seen cases where most women also dress in front of their children, even grown up ones . This are things adding to the nonsense in the society etc.
Ask the males that dress like females, most of them will tell you they do watch how their mum dresses while growing etc.. so they made up their minds to be like their mum etc.
What we see in the picture, are results of all these slay queen's with empty brain getting pregnant anyhow .
Ppl who lack home training etc, what do u expect them to teach their children with.
Confused set of souls. Disgraced generation .

I like your response.
I need an honest answer to this question now.
If a man does that to a female child, what will be your final conclusion about the act?

Atiku:
You go beat me?

No, I won’t