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nsien1:
Op i must confess,you are such a peculier being.I know only few persons will accept this but this is more than truth.Infact,its one of the mysteries about this life.Nice one OP.

Thanks bro
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E6yRzitCgxg

NnamdiN:
What happens after retaining the sperm and the person falls to his death in his bathroom?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E6yRzitCgxg

Emotionless100:
You are absolutely right

Thanks bro

pounds627:
dis is a confirmed truth from experience.. my performance is superb recently on d pitch. Im a footballer

Its undisputable bro

ademasta:
Wow! This is informative

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E6yRzitCgxg

theGigolo:
Op! Ori e wambe. This facts stated here are true and worth following.

Very true

wickyyolo:
Op You're very right.

I have been a sex addict and changed to less sex.

From experience I agree with you

Information is power.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E6yRzitCgxg

babyfaceafrica:
Story

For you

iamJ:
Who u wan use frustration kill

No be only retention

Bros , Its what I do and its the truth.
The information is not meant to be forced down on you. If you accept it, good for you and if you don't accept it also good for you because those that needs the information have taken it.
They say information is power so Google it and hear from many, must advise came especially from women to men. Greater percentage of men don't know about this so I don't blame your ignorance .
Google, benefits of sperm retention.
If you choose to be deceived by everyday ejaculation or sex ( the girls are gaining while you are loosing), go and kill yourself, the choice is yours and not mine.

[b]The Benefits Of Sperm Retention

This write-up is very long but you won’t regret the information acquired by reading.
The Point am making here is for guys to know the worth of their Semen. Both Men and Women masturbate and have sex but both don't surfer the same aftermath effect rather the guys surfers more like 95% loss. Sleeping with five girls doesn't make you a king but killing and reducing your life after ejaculating all yours strength.
Note , you can't satisfy 10 girls sexually but a single girl can satisfy 10 guys sexually immediately. Have you asked yourself , WHY? The answer is that your sperm is your life. ( A friend of mine trying to prove his gf wrong that ejaculation doesn't affect him going four rounds sex after which the same gf bursted out laughing that he stood and fell down three time) What does that tells you, she knows the worth of a mans sperm but the guy doesn't know and appreciate what he has.

Whether this is new to you, or you’ve heard of the concept and wanted to explore it further, you cannot deny that the entire notion is intriguing. It is common belief that regular sex or ejaculation is healthy. But we have all been fed incorrect information, however it’s not our fault for believing it, we all trust experts, that’s why they’re called experts.

It takes a hell of a lot of energy to create sperm, it’s one of the main reasons why men live shorter lives on average than women. It is said that the production of sperm in order to create a life, takes a part of our own life with it. This suggests that lowering the frequency of ejaculations should result in you living longer, aging slower and looking better in an appearance sense. These are all valid reasons to practice sperm retention, however the benefits don’t stop there.


In recent years a new organisation by the name of NOFAP has been formed. The NOFAP organisation encourages men to reduce ejaculation and masturbation and conserve their sperm like women who doesn't have much to loss after sex and masturbation. This is an attempt to attract real women and improve their general day to day lives. Many men in the modern era report symptoms such as depression, low energy, anxiety, fear of women and social awkwardness. They recognized that this wasn’t normal, and like all of us would, they searched why. This involved trips to doctors, specialists and hundreds if not thousands in wasted cash. Yet they still couldn’t remove their negative symptoms.

Most of these men try NOFAP as a last resort. Nothing else works for them, so they simply think, what harm can it do? Quickly these men realize that they’ve stumbled onto something, they begin to see what many have labelled superpowers. This consists of increased confidence, removal of depression, anxiety, fear and social awkwardness. They also report receiving huge increases in motivation for life and success, they suddenly want to do more than lie in bed and watch TV all day. I personally don’t believe in the superpowers, I believe it’s merely a man experiencing normality. The reason why it feels like superpowers for so many, is down to how familiar they became with feeling tired and negative.

Lets quickly look at all of the listed benefits that men participating in NOFAP have experienced:

(Remember that these men have nothing to gain financially from reporting these benefits, neither can it be a placebo effect when thousands of men who’ve never met, report identical benefits with the exact same descriptions)

More energy
Less depressed
More confidence
Happier
Less anxiety
Increased social skills
Highly motivated to succeed
Highly motivated to do more
Highly motivated to approach real women
Increased fat loss
Increased muscle growth
Improved workouts
Improved sporting performance
Deeper voice
Improved skin
Thicker hair
Increased hair growth (Facial, body and hair)
Less sleep required
Brighter eyes
Clearer skin
Improved body language
More alpha male behaviours
Increased attention from women
More respect from men
Improved memory
Removal of brain fog
Smarter
A cure to hair loss
Better sex
Thicker/longer penis
Stronger
Aloof attitude
High sex drive
Controlled aggression
Feelings of power
Improved relationships
Improved immunity
Increased stamina

This may seem too good to be true but I can testify to pretty much all of these benefits myself. I am not selling anything in this article, neither am I trying to redirect you to a product. I have nothing to gain other than passing on my experience to help others. Of course each of these benefits can be explained.

Sperm is full of proteins, nutrients, minerals and enzymes that are key to our health, immunity and appearance. After around 2 weeks of sperm retention, the body decides to reabsorb the sperm. This means that all of those food groups are transported around the body and used to improve us. This is why we see better skin, brighter eyes, thicker hair, bigger muscles, increased facial hair growth, a smarter you, improved memory and a cure for hair loss.

Sports

Boxers are told to not ejaculate (sex or masturbate) for weeks if not months before a fight. Many athletics trainers also tell their athletes to not have sex before competitions. Two high profile practitioners include Mike Tyson and Muhammad Ali, who both went years without releasing semen in order to achieve success.

As former world heavyweight champion boxer David Haye said on the topic of sperm retention:

Find a lion that hasn’t had some food for a while, and you’ve got one dangerous cat. I don’t ejaculate for six weeks before the fight. No sex, no masturbation, no nothing. It releases too much tension. It releases a lot of minerals and nutrients that your body needs, and it releases them cheaply. Releasing weakens the knees and your legs. Find a lion that hasn’t had some food for a while, and you’ve got a dangerous cat. So there won’t bet a drip from me. Even in my sleep — if there are girls all over me in my dream, I say to them, ‘I’ve got a fight next week, I can’t do anything. I can’t do it.’ That’s control. I’ve been doing that since I was fifteen and its part and parcel of my preparation now. That’s why I am who I am today — it’s down to all those little sacrifices. Find me another boxer who makes that sacrifice, and you’ll find another champion.

Conclusion

Every man should try sperm retention/NOFAP at some point in his life. Just to see if he experiences benefits that will change his own life, or to see if he truly has a porn addiction.

Remember, if you’re throwing your semen away, then you’re tricking your brain. Instead, let that sexual energy build and watch your life change. It all derives from evolution. In order for a male to succeed, whether animal or human, the male would have to fight his way through the heard/tribe. The most dominant alpha male usually wins out in this battle. By ejaculating frequently, you actually take away this evolutionary power, hence why so many men feel lifeless in the modern era. Don't allow a females deceive you into saying your sperm doesn't worth anything. Know the worth of your semen as a man and stop wasting it on those girls that doesn't worth the pains by reading and getting informed.

Watch if you are still doubting :-
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E6yRzitCgxg

dexterdanny:
Going by the stories we read on nairaland and even on Facebook about how guys suffered in the hands of these girls, I want to know whether it's possible to find a faithful Nigerian girl.
I have dated a couple of girls, both church girls and non-church girls but I can't really tell the difference between the two. You be dating a girl in the church and agree with her that no sex before marriage but you will be shattered when you find out that she is giving it to another guy.
You may easily get the heartbreak of your life simply by collecting her phone and snooping on her. Some would even come online to act like saints. She would tell you 'that guy is just my friend' or 'he is my ex' but you will later discover that she is still going back to have a nice time. From guys I have seen around it's either one bad story or another. These girls are either here or there.
I am of marriageable age, I just wonder whether these girls getting married are all faithful to their partners or the guys are just marrying the less evil girls.
Please I want comments from guys who have experienced a lot as this is bothering my mind.
@ Lalasticlala I don't know whether this is front page worthy.

Very very rare unless unborn female child.

Icon79:
Anybody who's dumb enough to give that kinda money to somebody without any kind of a written contract deserves to lose the money.


O pari

The only reasonable comments here. Let the reverse be the case now, all the girls will be saying, didn't he taste the kpomo and he has no case but now see names, IDIOT, BROKE GUY. My question is, didn't she taste the cucumber?
Crying out loud, she just paid for the sperm he gave out, why crying a river. Nonsense

tosyne2much:
Keep on deceiving yourself. A responsible lady does not go around with "male" condoms no matter how much you try to justify what's morally improper.

Abeg forget about this STD bullcrap you're talking about. What is bad is bad.. Stop justifying waywardness

My brother I want to buy you a cold beer for you responses to her stupidity. " saying if her guy likes sex, like they are not the one that likes sex more than anything cos they don't loose a thing but only gaining.
A woman that carries condom, is a sex freak and is wayward simple.

CaptainJeffry:
Bros dey vex.

Bros, does people tire me. lol

yanshDoctor:
when a girl is looking at a cute guy.. is the majority thinking romance/sex in their imagination with him. i know most girls feels this way, but only trying to figure out the majority. because a girl admitted she is thinking about sex looking at me.

i get to find out because she go to pee anytime we are together for few minutes as she always get wet and to go clean up.

Bros, to be frank with you. when a girl sees handsome guys, they think about sex immediately without wasting time.
Let me shock you now, do you know that a girls eyes goes straight to a guys zip line to access the manhood whether the guy is cute or not.
These question is a survey I have personally done out of ten women, five single and five married.
They gave me a very sincere responses because I am so so close to them and we discuss things like this without hiding anything. Any girl that says, it's not true, she is a big bloody liar, mark my words.
Women are attracted with what they see more than what they feel oooo. I personally have heard many of my female friends saying " am wet and want to have sex with a guy they are seeing, a guy moving on his own and minding his business ooo.
Bear in mind that a girl or women if not close to them will never admitted to this at all but it happens. They even think of that more than a guy.

CaptainJeffry:
Can she be a faithful wife or girlfriend?

Even when not on social media they ain't faithful let alone when on social media.
she can never be faithful at all

Lucifer1419:
I'm 27 and my girlfriend
is 24. We've been dating
for 2 years now, and just
moved in together 2
months ago. We have
had periods where we
have had a lot of sex, but
here recently it is just
about 1-3 times a week,
usually on the lower
side. The thing that really
depresses me is that my
girlfriend masturbates
on a regular basis, but
says she is not in the
mood to have sex with
me. She tries to
keep it private, but I
generally know when
she's done it. I just don't
understand how she can
feel sexual enough to
masturbate, but not want
to have sex with her b/f.
Please, any help would
be appreciated, this is
really hurting our
relationship, which sucks
because everything else
is great between us.

Greater percentage of women prefer masturbation to real sex because they climax very well while masturbating.
They give excuses that men doesn't fu*ck them well, listen to me guys, whether you fu*ck them from 7am to 7pm them must masturbate to achieve climax.
My girl does that everyday with a vibrator when I ask she tells me the same thing, to reach better climax.
I left her to her immediately

lefulefu:
on point...many of these sugar mummies..the money meant for their family they spend it on their gigolos

Am telling you because I can't see why a woman won't contribute to the family financially using the cheating words " a man's money is for the US but her money is for her".
Any woman or girl that uses those words, she's spending it on another guy for sexual pleasure.

hooklover:
U have a point but in many cases men cause wives to cheat. I have met many with complain. From no money to run home and man down money on girlfriend to no sex and man use energy on girlfriend wife staved.

If u cheat in ur wife as a man and u provide heaven for her she will revenge without u knowing I c many cases.

Very rear for ladies just wake up and start cheating something has happened..

Not that you won't provide for the family but remember both of you got married to raise a family which means both of you have financial obligations to put forward and make it work once both of you are working.
Have men asked themselves what those women that refuse to contribute to the family use their money to do.
You might believe it or not but am very sure. They spent their money to attract young guys as many as possible and spend money on them, cheating on their husbands.
I am not saying on hear say, though I dont sleep with them at all oo but I know how to expose them very well.
I had a bet with a girl about some married women as regards to this issue of not bringing out money and was shocked when I gave her prove of cheating by these women and didn't even show her the pictures oo.
Let me site example with just one who was promising me haven and earth just to sleep with me and the husband was within the office but can bet you he will not believe even if told.
Women are cat that you can't see when they want to pee unless you start thinking like then before you can spot then out.
The are worse that men.

Tolexander:
I advise that you report this to the nearest police station.

That is an assault now!

Am telling you, early in the morning I move straight to the police station and report " Rape Case".
If he was smart enough too, should have secretly recorded all their conversation that night ( that's what i will do) for evidence.

Any wife that does that, just bear in mind she is using her money to keep boyfriends ( Cheating) outside spending heavily on them.
If you thought me, place somebody to monitor her moves.

KreativGenius:
Why do ladies ask if men can forgive a cheating lady in a relationship in advance?


Is it that they plan on cheating in a relationship?


Ladies Speak up

Because they know cheating is in their blood and if you can manage them the way God has created them.

Op, I disagree with your statement that " 90% of time husband cause why wives cheat due to failure in one or many areas by the men"
if she wants to cheat, even if you buy her the world, she will still cheat codedly without you smelling a shit.

brightalo17:
Yet she is due to dating and killing.

Very good responses, really don't know how some guys think like fools or trying to impress the girls. What of if the guy in question is his brother, will that be his utterances for crying out loud.
What she did is purely a death sentence and that's what she deserves if asked though. I rest my case.

Didn't leave any space but good write up its simply the truth.
Nice one

I wish people should assist me to analyze and throw more light base on my observations of the wrong or right things to do.

We all know that from the ages of one to 10 years in the life of a Child means a lot, it's known as the Molding stage in their lives both Character wise, differentiating between the good and the bad and in this stage there are a lot of things we should put into consideration irrespective of the Gender because when ABUSE, in reality ,it affect both the male and female Gender notwithstanding that males pretend not to be affected.

I really want to emphasis based on taking the male and female child out to wee or pee and I will state two options , will say what I feel its right and would appreciate to hear or get your own individual opinion.

Let me start from the female side:
Pull down her pant and tell her bend to pee.
With this option nobody will touch her private part and making her know that nobody should not touch it. Its only meant for her.

Making her to stand up, adjusting her pant to one side by so doing touching her private part.
With this option, you are making her to know that her private part is not meant for her only and anybody can have access to it. I call this SEXUAL ABUSE AND MOLESTATION.

Best option I know its good:
No 1.

Going to the male child:
Pull down his trousers to knee level without touching and looking at his manhood , tell him to pee. By this act you have made him understand that nobody has right to touch his private part and if by chance any body does , he will surely alert you.
Unzip him and hold his manhood, making him see that anybody can access his manhood and its not a private part but rather public part. I call this SEXUAL ABUSE AND MOLESTATION.

Best option I know its good:
No1

I stand to be corrected, 99.9% of females prefer option No 2 for males but won’t allow such No 2 to be applied to the female Gender.

When the male or female child private part is being touched or accessed by another person or most time opposite sex, it has a negative effects on them psychologically most especially when you protect only the female and free the male, …his utterances will be “ NA TODAY WOMEN BEING SEE MY CASSAVA’ Childhood experience.

I have actually discussed with many single and married women about this and all have fallen victim of No 2 for a male child and said “THEY NEVER SAW IT THAT WAY BUT IN ACTUAL SENSE, THE MALE CHILD ARE ABUSED MORE BUT NO PROVE EVEN IF IT HAPPENS UNLIKE A FEMALE CHILD ( BLOOD FLOW) AND FINALLY THE LAW DOESN'T CHECK THE MALE CHILD….. The truth be said, I was highly disappointed with those girls ( no more women or ladies because I lost respect for them immediately) even though what they said is the truth but it shows you the level of male child abuse which are being neglected.

My question now to the house is, WHAT OPTION BOTH ON THE MAE AND FEMALE SIDE DO YOU THINK IS BEST TO IMPLEMENT AT THIS MOLDING STAGE OF THEIR LIVES TO AVOID SEXUAL ABUSE AND MOLESTATION.

Something has value only when you assign a value to it. I believe male and female child body protection against being abused should be on a high value not just assigning value to the female child.

“He who wants equity, should come with clean hands and he who seeks equity , should do equity"

BrainnewsNg:
Source: https://www.brainnewsng.com/13-things-need-teach-girl-child-early-age

Lalasticlala

https://www.brainnewsng.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/10/Girl-Child-300x200.jpg

Your write ups is based on only protecting the girl child and allow the females to rape and abuse the male child, which is wrong if you ask me. Male child faces serious sexual abuse, molestation and rape but nobody can prove it because there is no BLOOD FLOW unlike the female so females use this opportunity to achieve there aim and purpose under the umbrella of caring for him and bringing him so close to abuse him more and makes sure he doesn't tell anybody.
This is the edited version of your write up:Warn your Boy Child Never to sit on anyone’s laps no matter the situation including Aunt, Female Cousins or any female.

2: Avoid Getting Dressed in front of your child once he is 2 years old. Learn to excuse them or yourself.

3. Never allow any adult refer to your child as ‘my Husband’

4. Whenever your child goes out to play with friends make sure you look for a way to find out what kind of play they do, because young people now s#xually abuse themselves.

5. Never force your child to visit any adult he is not comfortable with and also be observant if your child becomes too fond of a particular adult.

6. Once a very lively child suddenly becomes withdrawn you may need to patiently ask lots of questions from your child.

7. Carefully educate your grown ups about the right values of s#x. If you don’t, the society will teach them the wrong values.

8: It is always advisable you go through any new Material like cartoons you just bought for them before they start seeing it themselves.

9. Ensure you activate parental controls on your cable networks and advice your friends especially those your child visit(s) often.

10. Teach your 3 year old how to wash their private parts properly and warn them never to allow anyone touch those areas and that includes you (remember, charity begins from home and with you).

11: Blacklist some materials/associates you think could threaten the sanity of your child (this includes music, movies and even friends and families).

12. Let your child understand the value of standing out of the
crowd.

13: Once your child complains about a particular person, don’t keep quiet about it.

Take up the case and show them you can defend them.

Remember, we are either parents or parents-to-be. “THE PAIN LASTS A LIFETIME”

Mudley313:
Abeg, I need some advice concerning this matter

Me and my wife just quarreled because her mother asked for our only daughter who is two and half to sleep at her place and I said NO because I was not too comfortable with the idea. My wife is an only daughter and the mother is single with no husband or boyfriend. We give her all the time she wants alone with our child but she just seems obsessed with having her alone for a sleepover and my body no catch dat one. Her reason is she wants to bond more and she was very close with her own garandma blah, blah, blah. But this woman has been very manipulative in me and her daughters relationship in the past because they're abnormally close. Although she has pipped down a bit, I just don't want to create an opening for her to start that with my own daughter cos why would she insist for an all-night? what is wrong with spending time during the day time? what's so special about night time? Is it just to be able to have total control?

Anyway, I go appreciate una feedback and advice well well if anyone here have experienced such before and I don't want to come out looking like I'm overreacting

P.S. By the way, my wife na oyinbo, so I just wanna gather a proper naija perspective on the matter. Thank you in advance!

Bro, for me, it's too early not only from what you have observed about her.
Don't allow her to manipulate your daughter at this tender age of forming their characters and behavior.
Even if you will, you should stay with her there.

The ladies aint happy cos tables are turning round now.
She has the money so let her pay him as stated.
If it were a guy they will be happy on how they run his finances down.

Very true OP

Let me correct you, OP
Only immature girls ask this question. Why did I say so.
This is something you have been anticipating, had a deep thought about it and had opportunity seeing a guy for you to unleash your spiritual Konji, next you are here asking whether you were cheap.

To me, your question should be, if the guy was cheap not if you were cheap cos for you, your mission to cure your sexual konji has being satisfied, something you already wanted.
I had to correct you cos another girl language will crop up, I WAS USED...

A scum seeking attention and calling her gate man Goat like she doesn't have a father or brothers.
Many girls lack respect and morals in life only very few still has it.
If all men start treating girls like this, I bet she can never be where she is today.
I just weep for her stupidity and her generation.
She will surely get someone that will put her where she belongs.