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Rape, molestation and abuse of a male child.

Atiku:
Your argument is baseless. It is her son so what do you mean “ if a man does this to her daughter”?



If this is wrong by your standards... say so. Don’t put a man in such position with another person’s daughter

You didn’t answer the question and if you don’t know the answer, please don’t mention me again.

What would people say if a man does this to her daughter?

4ckz:
I will really need the input of married men and women on this thread.

So yesterday at the bar, you know, ashawo bar, I sat in the same table with a married man, looked early 40's to me. He got drunk and got all chit chat with me.

He told me that he actually picked up ashawo life style after marriage, told me his wife always used sex as a bargaining chip early in their marriage, and often looked for the slightest reason not to have sex.

He said his first time cheating was after his first child, that his wife refused his touch for more than 3 months, he got to cheat with one of his colleagues at work (lest I forget, the man is well learned and rich too, I could get this from his fluency in English and his car).

The affair almost cost him his marriage. When mata cast, everyone blamed him, but he couldn't tell them how his wife deprived him of sex. He was later forgiven by the wife and the marriage continued.

According to him, before long the wife went back to her style of sexual deprivation, was only active when they wanted children. He did mention that he doesn't think the wife cheated, he has monitored her, and as far as he could tell, the wife was an always at home type of woman, and according to him was a good woman apart from the sex thing.

Before long he went back to cheating again, and that was when he started ashawo life style, he choose not to have a relationship with anyone again because of the threat it posed to his marriage.

He said he is sure his wife knows of his ashawo life style, but never talked about it for the sake of peace, and he has been living like that for more than 10 yrs, and their sex life though not dead comes once in a while, few times in a year.

He advised me that if I should cheat, that I should never keep a relationship with anyone, that I should try as much as possible to make it just about sex. Me that's planning to never cheat on my wife.

So married men, do your wives ever keep you for months without sex?

Also do husbands deprive their wives of sex?

I don't think I can even bear 1 month without, like, I must be lashing my wife like thrice a week to say the least. I am much more scared that since my life is like this now, maybe cheating would be inevitable for me.

So married people, how do you deal with sexual deprivation from your spouse, and is it even possible not to cheat?

What of the health threat to your spouse that comes with it?

The woman knows her husband can’t get her cheating but mark my word with my life, she’s getting the sex from another man.

She’s acting that way “will have sex only when they want a child” as a way of making him believe his the father of their children, I pity the man, what she’s doing is when the side boy finishes or off-load his sperm inside her she comes home and request for sex knowing throughly well that she has being depriving her husband sex, he will jump on her and next thing, she will announce “am pregnant”

Men who’s trust their wives, hardly survive in life.
The secret to marriage, NEVER TRUST YOUR WIFE IN ANYTHING COS SHE CAN CHEAT MORE THAN YOU, RAPE, MOLEST AND SEXUALLY ABUSE A MALE CHILD BUT NEVER LET THE CAT OUT OF THE BAG.

Just be watching, recording and keeping dates and time of all events.

Men be wise.

Like if you are the man that ejaculates and get stressed up or affects your whole being as a man after ejaculation, will you even go more than on round? Ask yourself this question?

You should even appreciate and buy him a gifts for ejaculating at all cos it’s not easy, it’s called sacrifices to make you as a girl happy.

MissRaine69:
Why should a man pay a woman he is in a relationship with a salary?

Doesn’t make any meaningful sense to me at all to do that.

It’s a No No

She bought it not for the husband but to be used for her before the end of this year IJN.
Very stupid and irresponsible women

Mizfabulous18:
she is broke now do you know of tomorrow your sisters living with you were dey not once broke even u that is talking ......the one that is not broke and wont give u peace of mind is that the best dont let money be a standard for you choosing a girl or downgrading her cos she wont b broke for life ...those that want to have sense should have it freely given abeg

Tell that to your fellow girls and even you because it’s been assume that girls have sense which is common but seems they are struggle to have it.

From what you said, greater percentage of men don’t look at if a girls is made, working etc but rather they look beyond it a marry girls but still women won’t give men the peace of mind as planned but acting like whores, demanding to be taken car of like the men don’t need to be taking care of too.

From your advice, how many women act that way towards a guy?

JeffreyD1:
Well after I posted Uncle Reno tweet about boyfriend and girlfriend on my status, I captioned it "I Stan with Reno".

She saw the status, got pissed off. I know she didn't agree with him.

You are truly a man.
Broke women are the must useless, senseless animalistic set of idiots I have ever seen.
Read there comments to understand very well.

Dump every liability fo a girl and say NO to slavery, God will surely give you the right person.

Men ain’t scum but rather women are the real scum.

He promised you heaven and earth and what did you promise him? It’s give and take level.

The earlier men starts raising issues on how women force them into sex, the better for them.
- that means when a girl demands for sex from a guy and he turns her down, then the girl will force him by using another tactics saying ‘if he doesn’t accept her sex demands, she will shout RApe and people will deal with him’ (beat or even kill him), that moment he ain’t got any choice than to do it, it’s called RAPE.

Analysis:-
She never used physical gun or used force on him to get the sex but words that a more than gun and physical strength to get the sex. This is serious RAPE but nobody talks about it.

Even married men experience this and they still take it as this is my wife but wife will take it as rape.

Men, never have any single pity on any woman on earth, their plans to make every man a slave(Through mothers) are almost getting to completion and we are here supporting them in all social media when they raise rape cases same with what they execute on men/husbands who doesn’t speak out, instead of attacking them in every aspect in life so the world will see their evil and devilish mindsets.
A word is enough for the wise.

SweetCunt97:
So if u hit 10m,yiu go push ur gf away? Lolzz nawaoooo

Why asking naa, won’t you do same to you bf?

Men should learn.
If I as a guy have that, will push the girl away ASAP and look for another that can add more or get me more connect to generate more though.

philip0906:
Next time read before jumping into posts...The girls were defiled by your fellow female folks and NOT men.

Oya, what do you say about this?

You are on point. Let’s see her new response now

What female maids do to male child, it’s something else

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Justbehave:
Don't be surprised at their behaviour. That's how most women reason.

They think Adam is still In the garden of Eden when him Dey submissive.

Justbehave:
They are all hypocrites.

Am telling you, they list expected that men will start speaking out, that’s where the problem starts now.

Justbehave:
You didn't answer anything because,you no even tell us the kind of punishment as you did for the guy.Also the one concerning a woman raping a boy,you did not answer.

Don’t mind her.
I guess all men should start speaking out of their rape experience and you will be shocked that greater percentage of this girls here even those high class ladies or women will face the wrath of the law.

They say KARMA is wicked and it will surely come back.

Women, I mean both mothers, sisters from mothers sides and fathers, female maids, female teacher in school.

Generally, greater percentage of women under that categories have raped, sexually molested and abused a male child, pretending and acting like a mother to avoid eyes being on her.

They have mess a male child’s Brain exposing him to sexual objects making him think about only sex and later blaming the men that their brain thinks about Sex a lot.

Once any woman rapes, molest or abuse a male child , they will be so nice to the male child but he will be under a serious close watch to prevent him from telling the Father what has happened to him and if he mistakenly voice out a little of it, she will punish him by not being caring again or doing mischievous things to get back at him for telling (mine was putting kerosine inside my food while my brothers food were normal)

The problem is that men (fathers) who ought to protect their male child are out there looking for money to feed his home leaving the responsibilities to the wife who he trust but she and her sisters, maids etc are not to be trusted at all.

Even if the male child tells his father, he won’t take it serious rather make him understand that, for him to be a man, he should go and make money forgetting that everybody can make money (Man or woman) but you can’t buy moral decency once not acquired at a tender age which greater percentage of men are deprived of by the women and the society.

In all this, the society neglects the males child and pretends it won’t affect his sense of reasoning as a human being but rather saying it only affects the female whom they fight for and source for helper (Couselling)

- Lets eradicate RAPE starting from the source (rape of a male child by women).
- Let’s educate our male child of women rapist.
- That a woman gave birth to a male child doesn’t give her the right to explore his private parts at Will, expose his private parts in front of all women in her house but cover the female to avoid being seeing by males. Treat all child equally.
- Don’t allow any woman to lap your male child, the rape starts from there (romancing him like she’s caring).
- Never allow any woman to peck or kiss your male child, she’s trying to lure him in and rape him.
Women rapist should also face the wrath of the law (15 years prison) no mercy.

kweensheba:
Is it really possible for a woman to rape a boy or man?

If it happens, it is a RARE case.

The case of men raping ladies is the one scourging our society.

It’s never a RARE case and it worries me that greater percentage of women who have raped, sexually abused or molested a male child or raise a false rape accusation keeps saying all this type of rubbish like they are innocent.
Any women or girls as the case maybe, are the worst rapist more than men but the society neglects that of men rape.
And the women or girls try as much as possible to form too caring to the male child to avoid him speaking up.

The penalty for a woman accusing a man of rape that didn’t take place should be death penalty by hanging.

While girls, female girls, mothers, any female that raped a male child should be life imprisonment and their virginal will be sealed with super grew for life and both hands cut off completely.

stephleena:
motherly love

I hope it’s also fatherly love when the father kisses the daughter same way?

You calling the guy a f**k boy, then ask yourself this question, who am I that moves from one mans boxes to another....... they call your type a F**K GIRL.

So a female rapist virginal should be sealed with super grew and rape false accusation should dead penalty by hanging.

Aabheaven:
I believe it is partial and insensitive to the male rape victims that their stories are not been told and heard. I have never seen a male rape victim thread hit front page. Are the mods against male rape victims and don't they deserve equal voice in the cry against rape.
I believe this is not balance, many young boys between the age of 5-12 are raped, abused, sexually coerced, assaulted and molested to the bidding of the older female rapist but since he will be tagged a weaker man, he decides to be quiet. Rape knows no gender and all rapist must be brought to justice. We demand equality in telling our stories. Erection doesn't mean consent #justiceforuwa #justiceforbarakat #justicefortherapedyoungboys

Cc farano, rocktation

You are so right because these women are also beast and the law should know that.
The biggest problem is that mothers have raised their male child to be a total slave to women even those that are meant to defend the males gender will start asking stupid questions, I believe only God will help us.

obembet:
D you know countless time he sleep with her

Those countless times, didn’t she sleep with him too or she slept with another man?

Women, I mean both mothers, sisters from mothers sides and fathers, female maids, female teacher in school.

Generally greater percentage of women under that categories have raped, sexually molested and abused a male child, pretending and acting like a mother to avoid eyes being on her.

They have mess a male child’s Brain exposing him to sexual objects making him think about only sex and later blaming the men that their brain thinks about Sex a lot.

Once any woman rapes, molest or abuse a male child , they will be so nice to the male child but he will be under a serious close watch to prevent him from telling the Father what has happened to him and if he mistakenly voice out a little of it, she will punish him by not being caring again or doing mischievous things to get back at him for telling (mine was putting kerosine inside my food while my brothers food were normal)

The problem is that men (fathers) who ought to protect their male child are out there looking for money to feed his home leaving the responsibilities to the wife who he trust but she and her sisters, maids etc are not to be trusted at all.

Even if the male child tells his father, he won’t take it serious rather make him understand that, for him to be a man, he should go and make money forgetting that everybody can make money (Man or woman) but you can’t buy moral decency once not acquired at a tender age which greater percentage of men are deprived of by the women and the society.

In all this, the society neglects the males child and pretends it won’t affect his sense of reasoning as a human being but rather saying it only affects the female whom they fight for and source for helper (Couselling)

- Lets eradicate RAPE starting from the source (rape of a male child by women).
- Let’s educate our male child of women rapist.
- That a woman gave birth to a male child doesn’t give her the right to explore his private parts at Will, expose his private parts in front of all women in her house but cover the female to avoid being seeing by males. Treat all child equally.
- Don’t allow any woman to lap your male child, the rape starts from there (romancing him like she’s caring).
- Never allow any woman to peck or kiss your male child, she’s trying to lure him in and rape him.
Women rapist should also face the wrath of the law (15 years prison) no mercy.

They say KARMA is wicked and it will surely come back.
Women, I mean both mothers, sisters from mothers sides and fathers, female maids, female teacher in school.

Generally greater percentage of women under that categories have raped, sexually molested and abused a male child, pretending and acting like a mother to avoid eyes being long on her.

They have mess a male child’s Brain exposing him to sexual objects making him think about only sex and later blaming the men that their brain thinks about Sex a lot.

Once any woman rapes, molest or abuse a male child , they will be so nice to the male child but he will be under a serious close watch to prevent him from telling the Father what has happened to him and if he mistakenly voice out a little of it, she will punish him by not being caring again or doing mischievous things to get back at him for telling (mine was putting kerosine inside my food while my brothers food were normal)

The problem is that men (fathers) who ought to protect their male child are out there looking for money to feeding his home leaving the responsibilities to the wife who he trust but she and her sisters, maids etc are not to be trusted at all.

Even if the male child tells his father, he won’t take it serious rather make him understand that, for him to be a man, he should go and make money forgetting that everybody can make money (Man or woman) but you can’t buy moral decency once not acquired at a tender age which greater percentage of men are deprived of by the women and the society.

In all this, the society neglects the males child and pretends it won’t affect his sense of reasoning as a human being but rather saying it only affects the female whom they fight for and source for helper (Couselling)

- Lets eradicate RAPE starting from the source (rape of a male child by women).
- Let’s educate our male child of women rapist.
- That a woman gave birth to a male child doesn’t give her the right to explore his private parts at Will, expose his private parts in front of all women in her house but cover the female to avoid being seeing by males. Treat all child equally.
- Don’t allow any woman to lap your male child, the rape starts from there (romancing him like she’s caring).
- Never allow any woman to peck or kiss your male child, she’s trying to lure him in and rape him.
Women rapist should also face the wrath of the law (15 years prison) no mercy.

SavageBoy:
We should thank you for what

In your mind now, you've spoken something sensible abi

I was expecting response like this.

It might not make sense to you, live your life the way it pleases you.

Have a nice day.

salt1:
Poor child! It appears that you grew up in a dysfunctional home and imagined it was normal.
Please don't get married until you heal.

The message was meant for those who understands, live your life the way it pleases you.

For you to respond tells me more about you.

It obvious you are the only person that grew up in a functional home.

Good luck