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maloney1:
lol

gomemaxe:
chai

Ziggylady:
Spend money on you?..i am sure you didnt type that with a straight face

NanaF:
It was major, it is behind my office and we all had to leave the building. It is a UBA bank building, there are other companies in the building. Fire started from the generator. The Generator and diesel tanks caught fire. A car in the premises also caught fire. Their neighbors,Total and NNPC, helped them a lot with their fire trucks before Lagos state’s Fire Service came

https://www.nairaland.com/4624891/man-drives-out-burning-suv

LivingFree:
I'm interested in why she thinks it's a test... does she think he'd give her 2m after she offers the money?

We can't judge this without knowing the back story. What if he has looked after her financially before she got this job... what if he spent more than 200k on her in the course of their relationship?

To many unknowns to conclude that he is a gold digger.

StylesX:
No one is playing the victim here, You don't now me to just assume i won't do the same for a loved one, not when i have confirmed what the money would be used for? 95℅ of guys would do that for a girlfriend as long as they have the money, but its not the same with Nigerian gold digging girls, its a matter of statistics.

Massmike:
Trust me, a woman with dignity would always bring money to the table.

Massmike:
seriously!
so people can think like this!

The woman not bringing money to the table can be a "MAJOR" problem in a relationship?

Women have their pride and can't stay in a relationship just because of how much they have spent. This mentality can be corrected once you start dating women with dignity.

TheKingIsHere:
He was getting evidence that's why he has to video it.

Some of you will just be talking without using common sense

Mrbolt565:
It is the biggest sin ever. Infact, you can never prosper in life if you asslick a girl!! I've never done it in my entire life! Why on earth would u be liking all these nairaland girls pictures and they don't even like yours back. You'll see one ugly hoe on this nairaland with 1000likes(mostly liked by guys).WHY! It's pathetic! Boys are so dumb iswear and it's the truth!. That's why you see all these young girls disrecpecting you anyhow! Why would'nt dey? When you'll be following them like fly dey follow poo!! Asin how do you even feel when u asslick all these gurls? Don't you feel so stupid doing it? Pls wise up and stop it!


Im out!!

weyreypey:
Contextual analysis...not absolute.

Ekpanfly:
not all guys madam.

ubunja:
i love this. God bless

Rubbiish:
@bold u are not making sense at all honestly...
Did u even read what u wrote?
So killing her husband is the best way to exit the marriage rather than leaving peacefully? Do u know the psychological effect this is going to have on the children, that their mum killed their dad?

Self defence talk is just bullshiit, no united family will take that. Except the man comes from a non united family, the woman is gonna find it hot. I believe if your brother was in the husband shoe u wouldn't be singing self defence...

shegxi:
I think women needs to take dere destiny in dere own hands by rili voicing out wat they want and enjoy during d act. men are nt holyspirit dat know all things.
it is a mutual thing, d enjoyment and burden thereof shldn't be one-sided.

nashito:
It is evident now that the crash of Tiwa's wedding is somehow as a result of infidelity,trust issues and insecurity. From the recent activities of Tiwa Savage, we can somehow deduce that TeeBliz was right regarding the accusations against Tiwa.

However, the lesson we must all learn from the crash as men are numerous, but let me shorten it;

(1) HELPING A WOMAN TO THE TOP OF HER CAREERS:

I have often wondered why some men refused to let their woman rise to the very top, it is very simple here. When a woman rises to the top, they tend to forget the ladder through which they climbed to the very top, this is not same case with men. A man will always remain very loyal to the that person who showed him the way to the top. Same cannot be said of women. Most times. Putting ourselves in someone's shoes helps, let's assume TeeBliz takes all that shits we were made to believe, but the question that comes to mind is, does it mean Tiwa wasn't aware of his habits before they got married? If it was Tiwa's habit, Do we really think TeeBliz will divorce her for the same reason?
Women are naturally not loyal to men especially when you stop paying the bills.

(2) With the manner in which Tiwa has carried herself lately. I want to ask all men this simple question; regardless of her career, can you marry such a wife? With all those crazy, ripped off, half naked dresses etc Before you answer that, take a deep breath and think first. While dating, we all love this crazy girl who's always sexy and all that, but this is marriage, Men can you really do that? Lesson learn, don't Marry someone who's career is not suitable to your kinda person.

(3) Finally, As a man. DO NOT sacrifice your own career and future ambitions for any Nigerian lady, they are not worth it, they all have short memories. I know they are few good ones out there. But never you ever sacrifice your life for anyone's career. We should all remember Teebliz for what he did and not what we were told. He picked up Tiwa and put her in the pinnacle of her career, what did he get in return? Nothing.

This is a big lesson for all ambitions men out there. I am not saying you should restrict that woman from being who she wants to be. Just don't sacrifice yours for her.
Thank you. Still your boy Nash.

EzendiEgo1:


Since I joined this section,I keep wondering why is it that a male nairalander will create a thread only for the creator to see his thread will never cross 2 page comments. But when a Female Nairalander create a thread you will see almost all members on Romance section trooping to her thread Which is very bad.

Check this female thread and see for yourself
https://www.nairaland.com/4025368/friendship-opposite-sex
https://www.nairaland.com/4525068/ride-linda-ikeji-point
And check this male thread
https://www.nairaland.com/4524556/dont-force-time-zone-lessons
https://www.nairaland.com/4525047/things-happen-body-when-stop

And tell me if it is not womanising we are doing on Romance section. After now someone will say they are discussing something.
What's that thing you are discussing in a Female thread you can discuss on male thread

This is seriously unfair and disgusting, you guys should change una ways.

marysc:
Most times guys can get to carried away in relationship, that they tend to take certain things for granted. A times it is done consciously and subconsciously.

Which ever one it is getting dumped in a relationship is makes our emotion messy. Well this are 9 reasons why she is going to leave you for another man.


9. Not being honest with her


Ask yourself! Are you totally honest with your significant other or are there things not yet disclosed? Lying is human nature but speaking the truth is a necessity.

You are probably lying to her a lot and women being women, she has been catching you off-guard. Honesty is actually a keystone in sustaining a relationship. If you aren’t conscientious, be ready to face the music.


8. She is NOT problem-free!


Most of the times when we develop an emotional bonding with our queens, we take it as a one-way thing. We highly expect our lovers to listen to us, and us only.


But if we give it a deep thought, isn’t it too selfish of us? It’s a truth well acknowledged that women know every problem that their men are facing, but are we aware of what they are going through every single day?

She is definitely not problem-free and feels the need to be looked after as well. Listen to her and become her support system before it’s too late.


7. Giving her time


We all have some tasks in our daily lives; we rush to our jobs and work, work, work. That’s everyone’s story now a days.

It definitely doesn’t mean you take zero time for people you love and care about; that’s impossible. If your excuse is you don’t have enough time, she will make sure she finds someone who has time for her and puts her in his priority list.

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MarieSucre:
And a loud amen to that. But men have a lot of work to do, y'all need to start doing serious activism. This sexual abuse of male children is becoming an epidemic and y'all are sleeping.

I met some damaged boys(apologies for this word) in the university. They tried to shrugged it off and form that they're manly enough but you could see the scars in some of their actions. I bet even if they had told their brothers or male relatives, they would have shamed them by telling them they enjoyed it so they should keep quiet.

I'm just worried, that I cannot always be around my sons and I don't want a situation where instead of my son to come to me and report that he has been molested by a female paedophile, so that I can deal shegey banza with the woman, he goes to a fellow guy and they endorse it.

I'm really worried. You guys have to create more awareness.

Xisnin:
Stop praying, if you have been raped, go to the nearest police station and report.

DonPiiko:
This morning my close friend called me, he had gone to separate a fight, some guy held a mutual friend of ours at knifepoint, it led to a serious fracas and a heavy beating was what saved the guy held hostage. There is this female friend of ours, she is in a serious relationship with some guy E, E pays her houserent and want to marry her, E lives somewhere else, but she asks S to come and stay with her, S has sex with her all the time. Recently E noticed when he visited unannounced and found S properties in his girls house, he caused some problems but it was resolved.

This morning E showed up unannounced and found his girl C and S in the room. E held him at knife point, my friend tries to intervene and got threatened and also manhandled, he has to go and bring 4 other guys who then beat up the knife wielding guy, till he let's the guy go. What would prompt a girl in a serious relationship to keep playing games?? I know a girl who was still having sex with.a friend of ours up until a week to her wedding. Sad really

NwaAmaikpe:



The woman is an ingrate.
Any woman who doesn't say thank you after sex is worse than an infidel.
Does she know how much energy is lost during ejaculation?

It is not easy to ejaculate over 1billion sperms o.
Like my 042 peeps say;
"To be a man is not easy maka na ife a na-anyu adiró easy."

Imagine 250 million to 1.2 billion of these well-fed soldiers going out to battle each time you ejaculate. In the process of ejaculation, the body is arming them with a host of vital life giving nutrients, depleting protons and reducing testestorone levels.
That's why all of man's energy is saved in the sperm.
A man literally gives out his life, for the hope of making a new one.

And after doing this, one useless woman won't say thank you.
"Ekwensu kpo kwa ya oku."