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Same way men rejects divorced ladies or with kids.

I will never marry a lady with kids or divorced.

REDLORD1:
#REDLORDS

You went after her, she ignored you, shouted on you, and even slapped you.
What?!
You began to laugh foolishly, suppressing that god-given gift of anger. You knelt down and began begging her. She tried to leave your presence but you held her hands warmly begging her to let you into her life. You held her hand and GBAM!! She dashed another insulting slap on your face! I mean your great regal masculine FACE!
You never reacted. You let her be and saying to yourself, "its normal, i need to entice her with gifts, and lots of love! I was rude and too hasty!"
FOOL WAKE UP FROM THE SLEEP OF DEATH!

You have been totally wronged and brainwashed by dead warped popular beliefs of weaklings and the always-selfish woman!

So true and nice post�

OP, in summary you want women to take men for granted in giving them attention and other things you just mentioned.

Just wasted my time in reading another useless post.

If a lady is really interested in a man, she will have no choice than to chase him and make him her man. If you don’t another takes over and next thing she will say, I gave him green light. My question what do you mean by green light? ( only deaf and dumb flows with that).

A man can also give you green light to chase him.
Ladies go for what you want.

Nobody was born to chase, anybody can chase another to get happiness.

Vice versa.

That lady should be punished for sexually abusing that boy.

If you want to argue with me, reverse is the case, will you say they should punish or flog the little girl or punish the man.

I wish people should think before typing or talking.

nelszx:
Thank you this is on the rise now
Men are just held back but it's on the rise but everyone forms a blind eye about it
Tell that girl now to slap that boy and you'd see the kinda slap he'd receive.

Bro, you are on point.
I am ashamed of most men who are women ass-lickers, who fail to speak against men domestic violence but rather prefers to turn their sons to be a slave to women.

If this girls are asked to slap the boys, they will not think twice to lay a good slap on there faces, now what are we teaching this girls and ladies, MEN?

I for one, will never teach my son to be a slave to women but rather respect those who respects him.

Any human being called a woman, without doing anything and lays a useless hands on me as in , SLAP level or anything that will stain my skin or gives my injury? By the time am done with her, she will know the meaning of respect and advice other useless women and man ass-lickers.

GistMore9:
Watch Full Video Here => http://gistmore.com/belinda-effah-calls-out-tekno-over-his-video-of-Unclad-girls-dancing-in-lekki

I wish this message gets to the Actress Belinda Effah.

“ You must be a foolish idiot stating “ the strippers came out to satisfy men Libido in the afternoon” the question you need to ask yourself, who’s satisfying who? Is it not this sexually starved shameless girls begging for sex and money just the way you, Belinda as an actress did, sleeping with everything that has a d**k to make it in life, now using the word to satisfy men libido like you weren’t satisfying your nymphomaniac desire.

You are talking about the sanity of our children now after your Manizer act or sorry still in the act but only at night.

How many guys have you seen dressed that manner exposing themselves like this in a public, None because they put the sanity of our children into cognizance but only sexually starved women like you seeking for attention, sex and money that fail to consider all this.
I was thinking you were intelligent, now I know.

Temmywrites:
Virus, Mr maturity... Please don't bring your virus into my post.. I can see you have a senseless personality...all of the guys here that actually sounded so rude and aggressive.. All of you have big issues and you all are misogynists... Come and beat me or report me.. Because I will continue to attack any fool that keeps acting like a simpleton.. Even virus had something to say... I guess, I was talking to you personally..

Like I said, grow up.

Just wasted my time reading this rubbish.
OPs, you need to grow up.

menvocate:
So, in recent times, men have been coming out of the closet to describe the gruesome things some ‘Aunties’, maids, and sodomites have done to them. But toxic masculinity has eaten deep into the mind of the world they are presenting it to. At least, several ladies are at the forefront of male rape. Thus, it is really appalling to see the number of men that still have these crazy misconceptions about Male rape. Oh! Some women would still not find it as piteous as that of the women.
On 29th of June, 2019, Castano Yemi Dada, with the username, @YemiCastano, took to Twitter to describe how he facilitated the arrest of a woman, who had been sleeping with the 13-year-old son of her friend. Also, on Nairaland, several posts were made to the effect of male rape and Menvocate noticed some misconceptions people have about male rape that should never be.

1. Males Are Not Vulnerable: It is believed that men are strong. It is also believed that the male child is able to stand on his own. And this misconception had weakened the resolve of many boys to talk about their feelings. When a boy falls and cries, people will shout him down saying ‘suck it up. You’re a man’. But in recent times, we have seen that the rate of suicide has more men in its circle than women.
Not only that, another recent example was a Montana woman who broke into a man’s house with a machete, ordered him to take off his clothes and forced him to have sex with her.
Please, boys are vulnerable. They are easily seduced into doing new things than girls, whom many have been teaching sex education as soon as they notice them exhibiting certain characters.


2. Male always desire sex: It is believed the male child or male generally must have had the desire for sex.
In an article of the Journal Clinical Forensic Medicine by Roy J. Levin and Willy Van Berlo, slight stimulation or stress can create an erection in men. In our topic, crazy causes of erection, I think you will get a better understanding of men’s erection. They are not only stimulated when they want sex. There are times their body react to sexual suggestions; yet, their arousal doesn’t mean consent.



3. Men Would Have Less Trauma: According to some studies, rape is damaging to both the male and female child. Most times, males are placed to struggle with social stigma and the belief that they can be victimized.
In a study by Frazier(2003) where he used 74 male and 1380 female rape victim, she discovered that the male victims are prone to be more depressed or hostile after rape.

4. Sexual Orientation: Most times, rape victims are seen as gay etc.

5. Male victims are Lucky: Many people see them as lucky bastards who got what most men long for. Some people are known to wish they are the ones that had the opportunity. To be honest, some of these guys are out there looking for ways to get over the pain. Don’t make it look like nothing happened to them.
While Menvocate hates that some girls have has to go through the pain of rape, we should never forget the male child.

http://menvocate.com/2019/07/01/5-major-misconceptions-about-male-rape/


Lalasticlala
Dominque

So right.

This is not the first woman or second raising a topic on this hidden issue which has being highly disputed by many.

https://www.instagram.com/p/BzLDyJ7D2hb/?igshid=1pkzu1muxc5nt

okoroemeka:
even more than 10 guys

Exactly so on point, just Limited my opinion to ten to avoid being attacked.

OP, what makes you think women are not into masturbation more than men?

craigkoel1989:
I remember when I was 5 years old I was lured with toy and molested by our 19 years old female neighbor, this continued for sometime, until she moved away, i still remember this experience, but females think they are the feel they are the only victims,
It has affected me very well as I no longer trust female, people only think about the physical part but forget the emotional aspect, boys let us speak out and also bring judgment to this male molesters

Is not just abused but also raped by maids, female cousins ....

MissRaine69:
Why should you give her money for transport? How is that different from paying for sex?

Exactly

Waakanda:
Tell him to go and settle down (marry) or hang is "kini kan" period

You need sense to progress in life.

Donjazzy12:
@ OP you missed it entirely!

That is certainly not the reason why there are a lot of single unmarried ladies.
The single most important reason is the rise of lesbianism!
Most of you guys here still think like you are in the 80s!

Most guys are completely outdated!

Do you know that 70-80% of unmarried ladies in Nigeria are hardcore lesbians pretenders. They don't have any emotional attachment to men at all!

I am a relationship Counsillor and I know what I am telling you. Lesbianism has eaten so deep into the psyche of most young girls in Nigeria that they do no longer form emotional bonds with men!

Haven't you wondered why women rarely fight for love these days? Haven't you wondered why there is no existence of sugar mummy again unlike in the 80s? Haven't you wondered why most young sophisticated women these day do not seem to care about marriage to men at all but only about being rich?

Haven't you wondered why more and more young women prefer to hang out with their fellow ladies than with guys these days? Go to clubs, are you not surprised how women are openly admiring and romancing each other.

Let me be clear with you. If you open your eyes very well you will see what I am saying it is hiding in plain sight.

Now let me give you a chronology of how it starts.

All young ladies enter secondary schools as virgins, but from their Jss1 senior female student start their initiation of the junior ones. These School mother stuff is a perfect cover for lesbian training. These young naive girls first introduction to sex starts by their School mother fingering and sucking them till orgasms! Thereafter they become attached to females sexually. From there it becomes very difficult to form emotional bonds with men. If in doubt go to any of these single sex female schools on Valentines day the gifts these girls buy for themselves even you cannot buy for your own girlfriend!

When the girls leave Secondary Schools for University most of them are already coded lesbians, men are no longer attractive to them. They manage to have one or two boyfriends in schools because that is what everyone expects of them but they still keep coded lesbian partners, they wear leg chains , in their Facebook walls you see posts like " I STAND WITH GIRLS'. Na dem be that.

After University, they live alone in rented apartments, they are now adults with jobs. They only enter relationship with men at this stage for financial benefits, but they keep their lesbian relationship so coded even you will swear for them.

They can't pretend for long, very soon, as aging sets in, they will start being under pressure from parents who of course do not know that their beloved daughter is a coded lesbian! She will start with excuses! Gods time is the best, I haven't met the right man, Don't rush into marriage bla bla bla!

In their coded lesbian lifestyle sometimes they let it slip! A case in point is Toke Makinwa that was seen in an Instagram video pressing and squeezing another ladies breasts and claiming she is not a lesbian! Of course, we all know the truth!

So my dear, here is a brief reason why most ladies are not married and seriously do not care!

You have said it all. So true

Same way women watch Gay movies.

pocohantas:
Cold thread.

How can someone say she never knew males are sexually abused? You think women are angels or you just want to play ostrich?

It is advisable to see a therapist. It helps to talk about it.

So on point.

luckygeee:
have you molested any young child before? talk true make devil shame. you have looked at and played with their winky before.

Any lady pretending not knowing or aware of this, has done thst to some many young males. That's their strategy.

It's a bad idea if you want to listen but if you don't, be ready to dance to the tone,
Strictly on your own.
I won't advice you to go into sure marriage.

kunleweb:
We'll said my brother. The only men ladies want to respect now are their bosses or pastors only

Am telling you.
They don’t want to respect a man but they want to be respected.

What kind of stupid mentality is that, I just pity any soul called woman to try that nonsense with me, she will understand.

All I know is that I will never be the first to attack a lady.

If that delay guys breakthrough that means they are still far better off than ladies who are MANIZER or WANTON , their own breakthrough are not just being delayed but rather they are now useless because their destiny are gone.

It’s quite a pity seeing that most ladies still possess that myopic attitude of not thinking before talking.

I pity any lady or woman that lacks home training and respect for men to try this on me. She will regret her life.

The way men have accepted being a slave to women this days is heartbreaking, man shouldn’t beat a woman but it’s right for a woman to beat a man.

It’s obvious women don’t have single respect for men again but they want to earn respect from men.

I pity a stupid girl that will try such nonsense with me.

I give respect to those who accord same to me or deserves it too but fire to fire for those who sees it as their right to attack a man and feel it’s the right thing.

Girls does same to guys and guys hardly complain, so it’s KARMA.

Preciousgirl:
If you had the chance to bonk someone's wife, what will u do?




Be honest oooo




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Proverbs 6:26-29 New International Version (NIV)

26 For a prostitute can be had for a loaf of bread,
but another man’s wife preys on your very life.
27 Can a man scoop fire into his lap
without his clothes being burned?
28 Can a man walk on hot coals
without his feet being scorched?
29 So is he who sleeps with another man’s wife;
no one who touches her will go unpunished.

Op,your question should be addressed to you single ladies sleeping with married men cos that’s all they do so are you saying they will never go unpunished?

deltateam:
Ode must you quote everything?

You just a kid.

Psoul:
My brother, you have summarized it.

Thanks brother.

MissRaine69:
Sierusvirus I would like to assume you are intelligent enough to know what a metaphor is?
IT WAS a simple and straightforward answer but instead the focus has been on the literal meaning. So castigating me and being all condescending is a reflection of how being objective is a struggle on this forum. You expect the obvious. I am not that way inclined.
I am actually quite disappointed at your stance.
Ps I would have explained but that’s not the way things are done on this forum. One day you will get it.

It’s obvious you don’t understand the question after giving you details for better understanding.

A company doesn’t understand the word METAPHOR when they have better experienced candidate who are so qualified to add value ( ideas to increase cash flow) to them.

- How many people gives metaphoric answers in an interview and get the job?

I believe a straight forward question demands a straight forward answer and not sacaraitical answer.

You might not understand now but later.
You have right to your opinion but within your subconscious, it doesn’t make any sense.

Am not here to force words out of people because it’s not my concern.

Anybody can give answers to prove smart but doesn’t solve or answers the question.

Failed to say something, just here to read ....

Psoul:
This Post is mainly for our dear and lovely sisters here.
We love you so much and know that there are many of you out there trying to add flavour to ur life and that of ur to be husbands.

We want to know about this.
As a young lady who really want to settle down with your Mr. Right, what flavour do u intend to add to his life.
What are those things that you will bring into his life that will make a very positive change to his life, job and life generally.

Please can we hear from you dearest sisters in the house.

I just read some ladies write-up saying they are tables which they will offer to the man and it depends what he needs to do with it.

if this should be an examination question. It’s oblivious the person is getting ZERO marks.

To the ladies:
The question is :-
1. What flavor do you intentend to ADD to his life or rather those things that you will bring into his life that will positively change his life ( Adding value , earning your stay in his life or qualified to be part of his life).

Just like a company asking an individual “ what are those things ( experience that will generate cash flow into their system/ Organisation to convince them you are the right candidate to be employed, I don’t think your answer will be that YOU ARE BRINGING YOURSELF WITHOUT ADDING VALUE TO THEM OR YOU ARE A TABLE FOR THEM TO USE IN SITTING DOWN TO MAKE DECISIONS”””

Are you trying to tell the company they don’t have tables?

I am not surprised with some ladies responses even the OOH YES members. This has being an everyday questions to ladies and only a few who has something to add in a mans life knows the best response.

This is not a logic question but rather simple and straight forward.

MissRaine69:
The type of warped feminism I abhor. This is what crazy looks like ....what have “independent” men been doing all these years?
I bet her “independence” happened because of a man, cause women who do graft are independently independent and don’t try to justify anything.

Always on point without sentiment.