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deavicky:
I met this lady shortly after I breaking up with my ex girl on health ground. After we split, i was in great pain till i met my present girl. from the moment I met her, i felt a very big relief and ever since I've kept on loving her more and more by the day, So I decide to tie the nut.
I engaged her, planning to get married to her by june. but her mum is kind of against the union cos she said I'm not from their tribe.(that's what she said).
To discourage the union her mum threaten of telling me of her passed, being sure she hasn't told me. This is why she is just telling me, that she had been married before. That the marriage lasted for about 10 months, no church wedding and there is also no child between them. I'm so worried because of my parents. Their reaction will not be good if i tell them, and If i don't tell my parents before time, and they happens to know of it on the wrong time maybe on the marriage ceremony, (someone said such traditional marriage is always done in a different manner so they will end up knowing).I'm sure their reaction will not be good. And if i tell them now, it might one way or the other affect the marriage because they wouldn't want to be involve and i can not go for the marriage without the company of my people. I'm confuse on how to handle my parents. But for me I'm still ready to go on with the marriage. Only I wonder why she didn't tell me till she was threatened. pls air ur view and advise me on how and when could be the best time to discuss this with my parents.

For her not telling you, please don’t try marrying her because she has more in her mind you will never know and will surely hurt you if you finally get married to her.

This is the most useless post I have ever seen and I pity a man that won’t judge a girl with her past.

Talking about rape or sexually abused like you girls are not the worst rapist of male child ( pretending to be caring) and highest in the aspect of male child abuse and molestation.

Robi65:
So I listened to the “soapy song by nairamarley.. I got more pissed after scanning his IG post seeing how most celebrities were celebrating the masturbation idea .. could not have thought so many celebrities are into it as you could read from their comments .. even Wizkid, Aremo Gucci, Rhaman Jago, Mumu broda shaggi etc
Like we ladies never had enough of your dick why try to improvise .. just pissed

Modified: and to guys storming my mail, lining up with their dicks in their hands.. I’m not saying me, I’m just saying you should look around your environment .. we ladies die in silence too .. many times we just need yu to talk

Girls masturbate more than men through many means ( figuring, Love Machine, cucumber, beer bottle, Neva roll on, banana etc) unless that stuff doesn’t have length.

But the good thing is that they pretend like saints.

No matter how a man masturbates, he can’t cum more than 3 times or can’t sleep with more than 10 girls a day but a girl can ejaculate more than 4 times in 3 minutes during masturbation, also can comfortably sleep and satisfy 10 men a day.

if no man is game with her price, she must masturbate that day.

Who masturbates more?

izuch:
And you have nothing to offer other than sex

This is a good bomb.

I still can’t image how most girls think and reason like prostitutes this days, they hardly communicate something that’s very useful to life rather discussing about sex sex and money.

Riele:
I hope you also know you're a wasted sperm too .

Imagine what a alleged Nigerian Adult is typing .

The Adult thought you had common sense which states, think before you talk cos when you are pointing a finger at someone bear in mind four is already pointing at you showing you ain’t better off and obvious you trying to generalize your attitude to others.

I can beat my chest by saying you are even worst than many in this life but using this means to project yourself good.

A word is enough for the wise, if you can read the handwriting on the walls.

2020, is nearby.

This is a very short movie ooo.

Where is this prostitute ( OP) from, the saying that “common sense is not common is what she just showed now.

All those rubbish women those you jus reversed to accuse men just to get attention.

You are just a wasted sperm.

I pity guys that doesn’t know their worth as a man.
Why would you slide into a DM of a girl either Broke, useless, rich or prostitute?

Girls needs this relationship and sex more than you men but men’s problem is that they lack packaging and can’t pretend acting like nothing “ they happen level”

Stop giving this prostitutes opportunity to talk rubbish about men.

Another low IQ girl saying men should be able to take care of the women, can you be specific.
Is it the wife or gf?

If you are saying gf, then may the kiss of death slide into your DM. The relationship between a girl and guy is 50:50. I blame guys that doesn’t access girls level before dating.
For me, if my gf doesn’t earn up to 250k monthly and not stingy, we are good to go but if stingy, it’s over.

My present gf claims to be earning that 250k but just found out this December 2019 she’s on 90k, she lied to me and obvious she ain’t on my level, the relationship just ended.

Even in marriage, for the man to take care of you.
1. He will make sure you eat three times a day
2. He must not borrow to make you get the best house for shelter at least he provided shelter.

Must not do by husband:-
1. Paying for giving birth outside NIGERIA, not only his calling rather both will split the bill 50:50, if she can’t provide , give birth in Nigeria.
2. Holiday trip to any country outside NIGERIA , both should split the bills unless stay in your house.

Why all this useless girls or women keep saying all this is because mothers have succeeded in training their male child to be slaves to women and they force them to implement it.

Father needs to wake up to the task and take ownership of their sons and save them from slavery by mothers / wives.

Each time you hear of woman empowerment but never heard of men empowerment “

No man or woman will do that cos women still wants you men to be slaves to them and no man will start it too cos he knows very well you men are already slaves and will be foolish enough not using it for themselves but rather give it to this lazy girls.

Men wake up.

She deserves paying the husband 30 Billion or life jail term .

No stories.

With all this jazz she is cooking, yahoo boy will still use the remaining destiny of hers and put her into madness.
I like the way yahoo boys deal with all this girls

lilwetdick:
first and foremost, i have read this somewhere thousands of time, now my questions


are all women attractive and beautiful?

is it all women that get attention from men?

How will a woman determine if the next generation of humans will be dwarfs, tall men, or whatever physical traits she deem fit, when copulation is between men and women... how does it work when it is said that a short man and a short woman will born offsprings that are short, a tal man and a short woman might born offsprings that are averagely tall or tall, if a fine man marries a beautiful woman, there is no guarantee they will bring beautiful offsprings

my stuff is this..the write up sounds like a tribute to women rather than red pill, most write up that sounds like this makes women to be GODs and putting them on a pedestal.

no gender has the monopoly of reproduction or choosing a better mate, the way men select who is good for them that is the way women do, everything boils down to choice, what the individual wants.

I like your question to him.
Men are really making women feel good whereas they ain’t as far as I know.

If you place yourself to the highest level as a man and know your worth as a man with or without cash, women must come seeking your attention or fighting to associate with you and not the reverse.

lilwetdick:
everything the man must do

like the woman does not have brain to take care of herself or think for herself

is she an invalid or someone with disabilities?

Nice reply.
Why won’t a wife invest in her husband?

No man wants to marry a liability, if she doesn’t have the wife material let her go and develop herself before marriage.

A woman like that the OPs mentioned can only offer sex and nothing else.

The same gods will really accept this sacrifices and will surely generate huge money.

COdeGenesis:
WHAT ABOUT WOMEN. WOMEN ARE WORSE THAN MEN. THEY SHOULD BE THANKFUL THEIR CLIT AINT AS LONG AS THE PP OF A MALE

I tell you.
That’s there saving grace cos the way clitories erect is more than the said Penis.

MVPtesley:
that thing called love reduces the true potency of a MAN.

who is a man? I mean who is a real man?

A man:
He has enough going on in his life to keep him busy. That means he is, at least, passionate about only one thing and not his relationship. The relationship does not define him.

He will give you your space and you must give him his. He is a confident, ambitious go-getter, A heartless homosapien of steel and ice cold guts. He dosent have time for the mushy romance and rose flowers... He’s a real man!

He ll beat the shit outta u if u toy with his money and waste his time. its a deal or no deal approach to him... dont make him repeat himself cos he will always kick your teeth in.

Tell him u love him and he ll make sure u never get a dime.

he s tough, brave, swift and brash!!!

I have seen someone that understands the way of a real man thoughts.
Any man that criticize your write-up, just bear in mind, his not in that class and if any woman does criticize you, don’t bother responding cos she’s just a wasted sperm trying to get attention.

Nice one Bro

bereanway:
Has anyone encountered a grossly stingy partner. That partner that may say "Why not we buy 50 naira biscuit with groundnut instead of wasting money to cook"

I have one stingy gf, really feed up with her attitude.

Kaybmal100:
Listen guys

For most women in their 30s
who are still single, Who aren’t in a relationship, Those who are still available, Doesn’t have a guy at the moment and they are above 30, These women are comsidered a red flag.

based on my personal experience with women,
speaking t0 friends, random questions on walkway facebook friends, and my own previous relationships, an overwelming number of them have serious RED FLAGS.

when you meet this 30 year old single women, who isnt in a commited relationship, what she'll tell you is that she has had alot of bad relationships, that she was attracted to the wrong guy or that bad boys just keep finding her.

thats not true guys. she choose these guys
and what shes afraid to tell you is that she loves sleeping with bad boys. she loves being a side piece.

She doesnt want to tell you that she rejected a lot of good quality men because if she does tell you this it will show how fullish she is.

women dont like looking into the mirror and reflecting on their lives. this is why they hop from relationship to relationship
guys to guys because they dont want to reflect on the things they had done wrong.

they are afraid to tell you they have done all sort of cock ridingswith differrent guys in their 20s.

what they will say is ....i have been with this guy for 5years, he cheated on me, i stayed with this other guy for 3years he did thesame without talking about her mess. they will try to sell you

she wunt tell you that shes looking for a meal ticket, shes looking for some fool, a guffy guy who will take a bait, she wunt tell you that shes still talking and sleeping with different guys.
she wunt tell tell you that you are her last resolt
that she is expiring she can feel it.

Cos if she tell you that it will deperistalize her
it will humble her.

listen guys a single woman in her 30s shes afraid to tell you all those stuffs cos it will show how horrible her life is and how horrible her decisions are.

She wunt tell you that at that age her greatest fear in life is being alone. they hate it.
it sucks for a woman to go ome to a cold bed
but shes afraid to tell you that when shes with you. shes is hurting inside because no man want to comit to her cos of her attitude.
She wunt tell you how horrible her attitude is
but she act like shes a good person 2 to 3 months upfront time will tell .

ask yourself,
why she she still single?
not even commited to a serious relationship.

women in their 30s still single, not committed in any relationship has just failed in life.

listen girls

no man cares about your degree
or how successful you are, cos according to nature your job is to nuture, you are naturally made to receive love, be opened to receiving care and to be submissive. All these, feminist have destroyed.

but for men they are made to strive, break through barriers in life achieve.
you can argue with your religious books if you want to

that why a man can leave a high intellectual, successful woman for an house girl.
think about that.

So guys!
they are afraid to tell you the truth guys cos the truth will set them free but they dont want to be free

Freedom requires reflexion and she will never reflect in order not to be free so she hops from guy yo guy and hoping some fool like you will look at her.

they are aftraid to tell you that majority of them caused their breakups in their past relationships.
they instigated arguments with the their spouses
or their previouse long term partners.

they wunt tell you how sharp their mouth is.
trust me guys have talked to most of them,
tons of them, one on one conversation

they always have some time of Issues, whether its Dady issues, abandonment issues
boardline personality Disorder,Bipolo disorder.

From Darius.

Remember as women age, their sexual market value goes down but as men age their sexual market value goes up. It’s a fact

Also studies have shown that as women age they are likely to have healthier children

Comment below you experience dating women in their 30s

Perfectly correct

ubunja:
what if you don't want children?

You know bro, you are the master. Please educate me ��

user283:
There's this lady I've been dating for two years now. We happen to be members of the same church and I ought to have taken the relationship to the next level by getting my parents to her place for our introduction last month but I had a rethink and postponed our introduction due to an issue that might cause problem in the future

I noticed my girlfriend is the stingy type. When I mean stingy, it's on the high side. Assuming she's just averagely stingy I wouldn't really be bothered but this is gross.

I work as a bank teller (contract staff) and my salary isn't really much while she works in Shoprite. Even from the little I earn, I'm always sensitive to her needs and tipping her whether she's stranded or not is what I've been doing
since I love her but how can I explain being with a lady for two solid years and I've never for once received any gift no matter how little it is? Not even something as little as toothbrush or hair cream

Initially, I didn't see this as a big deal probably because I grew up with the mentality that it's a taboo for a man to expect gifts or little support from his girlfriend when he's in dire need
but I've now grown to realize that "give and take" is one of the key elements of a good relationship

Even if I get stranded or go into debt, my girlfriend acts nonchalant and she'll be the
last person that will ever render a little financial assistance to help my situation. You might say I should sit her down and discuss about it. Yes I've already done that and I made her understand that I actually postponed our introduction for no other reason but because I'm still indecisive if I want to spend the rest of my life with a selfish woman but her response shows she takes pride in being stingy

I even used logic to whine her younger brother recently and he told me her sister is stingy. I decided to carry out my findings on her brother because I believe he should know her better.

You might want to talk about sex but my belief is that sex is just a mutual pleasure and does not define what a woman gives to you in a relationship. 

What's getting me worried is that we've come a long way but I don't want to end up with a selfish woman because it's written all over her that she cares so much only about her own well being

Please advice your fellow brother. Do I have a reason to be worried? I've been jumping a lagoon for a woman who can't jump a gutter for me especially when it comes to giving. Should I tolerate this level of stinginess from a woman simply because I'm a man?

P.S: I'm still with her because she has other good traits

Please pardon my typos. I wrote this in a hurry

Men are the ones bringing causes to themselves.
You are not meant to take care of your gf alone, the bill should be shared 50/50 even if you start giving be very observant to know the game she’s about to play and follow up immediately.

Your girlfriend is not your responsibilities at all in life, a woman will tell you only things that will benefit her and not you, be wise like the serpent and be focus to see far before her like the eagle.

If you give women money and don’t give her sex, she will surely cheat on you with excuses like, ‘ you ain’t fulfilling your responsibilities as a man’

Give her sex and not money, she will still cheat with excuses like’ I didn’t come to suffer in this world, will she eat sex’ ( she doesn’t want to suffer and she can’t work to make money)

Give her both money and sex, she will still cheat with excuses like ‘ she wants to enjoy herself that this world is just once’

The bottom line, as a wise man focus on yourself and your children, think less of your wife.

Make sure your children knows you are the main person providing all their needs without the mother contributing anything.

As a wise man, pull your children more closer to you than any other thing in life.

Make out precious time for your children and not your wife so as to win their heart not to neglect you at old age and stop giving you kaikai / liquor ‘ that’s the main purpose of marriage’

Let those you have ears to hear.

Geminita1:
Remember we have more single men than women. It is 3:1. Stay online and be deceiving yourselves. Don't go and find work and leave your father's house. We women would go and work and come and buy house and car for you, ode.

Guess you are wrong, check this out.
https://www.independent.ng/breaking-un-publishes-1st-quarter-demography-report-2019/

Breaking News: shocking

UN publishes 1st quarter Demography Report 2019

There are 7.8Billion people on planet . (earth).
The report shows

Women = 5.6Billion
Men = 2.2Billion

So, they advised women to be careful in showing attitudes to any man because out of the 2.2 Billion men:

• One billion are married already.
• 130 million are in prison.
• 70 million are mentally ill.

That means that we have just about 1 billion men available for marriage and out of the
1billion:

• 50% are jobless
• 3% are gay
• 5% are Catholic Priests
• 10% are your relatives
• 32% are above 66years

So, ladies both the married and singles, you have to rethink before treating any man like trash.

For details visit UN demography report

https://www.independent.ng/breaking-un-publishes-1st-quarter-demography-report-2019/

We have men that are slaves to women and fail to see things the normal way.

It’s really not their fault at all.

If you don’t know, women like sex far more than men the difference is that they pretend not to unlike men.

Thought they wants to show wealth acquired through hard work not know it’s this rubbish.

Still the same saying, the only thing women can offer is just sex and nothing more.

Let them grow up and be productive in life

If she’s using the same intimacy gadget, is she not making love to herself?

What’s the difference?

Breakingfamous:
During an interesting discussion of who cheats more in a marriage or relationship, this lady dropped a bombshell!!

The lady unequivocally asserted that women cheat more than men. She went further to say that a man can cheat and still love his wife, but that when a woman cheats, it's more dangerous..

She also revealed why it's easier to catch a cheating man and harder to catch a cheating wife or girlfriend.

Do you agree with her?

Watch the video below

Source: http://www..com/2019/04/women-cheat-more-than-men-lady-says-on.html?m=1

This is true.
Throwing more light on this, you can see a dog popuu and weewee but have you ever seen a cat popuu or weewee.

Talking about cheating, women both whites and African women are the worst on earth but can never be caught unless you are smart and a detailed person.

Men go for DNA of all your children and never you listen to what the women will say about trust.

Never you trust a women in your life, any man that puts his trust in a woman must fail be it your wife, gf or sister, Check history.

Men be wise.

Women don’t cheat and 70% of men or even more still train or raise children from another man everyday.

There is need for MEN EMPOWERMENT’ to encourage men too.