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The message above and below is strictly for men.
- Never tell her ( wife/gf) your salary at all.
- Never give her the main reason for saying NO to something you know that ain’t profitable to your being.
- Never trust her at all but she shouldn’t know.
- Never use her as next of KIN if you still want to be alive ( use your children as next of KIN)

Men be wise

Molested is constant in greater percentage of male child.

RAPE by sisters, Aunty, female cousins, female teachers, maids and even mothers still nobody talks about it at all.

The law should protect the male child and even adult male who are held under the condition of ( a girl telling him if he doesn’t make love to her, she will shout rape and people will surely believe her than him) this is the highest act of RAPE and all its swept under the carpet.

The Lord is our strength.

Nice scripts though.

Just spend the money and marry them, then sacrifice them for a bigger returns.

All these girls saying, no girl will beg a guy for marriage, I laugh like it’s not happening already everywhere, wasted sperms everywhere.

Guys dealing with a mentally broke girl this generation is a big disgrace.

Girls will be saying some guys still buys and give girls money, YES they will cos girls are a good source of money rituals for guys.

Am not begging any girl to stop collecting money cos if they stop, most of the men wont be loaded again so it’s good but when the ritual is over, nobody should complain that they have use a girl for sacrifice again.

HeartOfGold:
Y all d blames on d man, a married woman wants to be coming back home late and u guys see nothing wrong with that? So she want to collect her money from morning until night and not having time for her family. The man must have been fed up with her ill-behaved life.

Bro,
Am highly disappointed in the guys saying all sort of things Iike if tables turns around

Am not surprised about the foolish comments from all this irresponsible girls , which if well accessed are either co-operate, casual or street prostitutes. Same small girls will question a guy why you want to know her past ( life individual Iived in the past differs) same small girls will marry and give their husbands children from another men. Why should th husband come back home late knowing truly well his married.

Promiscuity of women didn’t start today cos any man that thinks his more than the women, please wake up.

98% chances that what the man is saying is true.

I really wish not to say much about this cos of what today mark in my religion.

Men wear your thinking caps and be smart,

It’s time for the law to sanction a dead penalty to all this women wrongly accusing men of sexual harassment and rape when they are the one doing such to men.

Story for the gods.
That’s usually their story when they cheat on guys.

Extaclty what happened to me, she did it cos she wanted to taste every dick, I discharged her immediately.

But she will go and tell all her friends that she has done heaven and earth for me not knowing she’s a very stingy girl.

Good for her

She very ripe for rituals aha

victorian:
Haba! Chill!
Broke guys on nairaland has truly affected your reasoning.

Anyways from my own point of view and how I handle my man or any man I have dated in the past. I don't wait until he buys first. I don't impress either. I buy because I want whoever I'm dating to look their best. So with my man nw, i buy him surprise gifts and he does same to me. He credits my account by his own freewill, part. Of his surprise packages at times and I appreciate him by making sure I use the money specifically for my biz and other things I lack. He loves to see me grow. I'm an orphan by the way. And they all know that. And hes amazed how I love to work smart without selling my body.
He's a free giver. He is not waiting for me to give before he gives. We've been friends online for. Like three years before we met and started dating. So he knows me inside out.

I have some guys here as friends, I can only mention three guys, but not their names. They know themselves. I'm not dating anyone of them but before I Met my guy. If I was broke, I ask they quickly make some transfer . Note I'm not dating any of them and we don't chat about sex but basically about life.

They just send cause they've known me as a stranger within few months or so, we've become close online friends. they appreciate my humour , saying the raw truth without mincing words with my way of reasoning. I always say the truth no matter what.

Note I have not Met any of these three guys in real life. One lives in Abuja, the other two abroad. but they don't care. All they want is my company online. That's guys I'm Not dating or even seen sef. I'm a very interesting person to chat with and they love me for that.

But in your case, we are talking about your gf, supposedly love of your life, I think?
And see what u are saying about her.

It clearly shows u don't love her one bit. And I can sense uv not even given her any surprise gifts, u are waiting for her to spend first. Lol

But You don't know if she wants to surprise u with a gift on that day ,even if it's boxers and singlet. But u just blurt out u are not celebrating Valentine, she can breakup or stay. That's just too bad.

I hope. She's a nairalander and reading what uv typed now. Cause she's clearly wasting her time with u. With or without Valentine. Guys who are crafty and stingy, I can't even deal.. I keep far away from.

What a pity.

Anyways so whatever u like with your love life, it's yours.

Like I said earlier. What's my own sef?

The guys you call broke guys in NL are 100% more liable and better than the BROKEGIRLS in NL.

I can pity an orphan guy than an orphan girl, NO OFFENCE PLEASE, I don’t even pity any woman at all, I treat you the way you do to me.

Thinking that a man should be the first to give a surprise gift, CHANGE YOUR BROKE MENTALITY.

I’M NOT SURPRISE THE WAY YOU ARE SO CONCERNED ABOUT THIS TOPIC, IT SHOWS YOU ALSO HAVE THIS BROKE, STINGY AND STUPID MENTALITY of buying boxers and singlet for a guy and will be expecting a car from him.
In a situation like this, two things are involved:.-
1. I will collect the boxers and singlet and wait for your Bday and be sure to get packs of pants that won’t cost more than 200 Naira. OR
2. I will tell it to your face, I DON’T NEED THE GIFT.

She doesn’t need to be a NL to read my post cos I am a straight forward person, a girl that thinks that Val is key of showing love and not even ready to spend on the guys that day must be very useless and stupid.

What makes you think she’s not the one wasting my time.

I personally hate girls that are fucking stingy, got nothing to offer apart from sex and very myopic . They are very disgusting to me

It’s a pity a lot of girls talk like a prostitute.

Men should be wiser this time around.

victorian:
Don't worry, she won't reply u. She will keep mute but remember another guy will help u, do your job

You think guys are not pestering her for dates and to be their val?
She will help herself and choose one .

At the end on Vals night u are happy watching tv

She's happy going on a memorable night with one correct guy.

So be happy u won't drop shishi or pamper her that day. Na u sabi!

She has the right to choose and am not even bothered at all.
Just the way you think guys are pestering her for date same way girls better than her are pestering me and doing all sort of things to have me.

Everybody has a worth and only if you know yours and how to make it happen.

If she replies me then she is a fool cos I never missed words in making myself clear.

If she doesn’t impress me, I can never do same to her.

If you expect a man to be spending on you alone that means you need go hug a transformer knowing truely well you have nothing to offer a guy but only sex.

For a girl to worth anything in my life she needs to be a quality giver and expect less, then I balance things and not only a receiver like a prostitiue.

It’s not a must.
I told my gf, I have not celebrated Val as a special day since birth and I won’t force myself into that to impress her, then my final words to her was, if it’s okay by you cool but if not, we can end the relationship, till now no response from her.

Men, never you believe or trust any woman on earth even your mother or wife.

Follow this principle and you be strongest and most successful man in earth.

A word is enough for the wise.

Men always request for a DNA of a new born child from your wife, it’s very important.

It doesn’t mean you don’t trust her but for clarity sake.

Since ladies have learnt to cut a man stick, I think guys should start using super glue constantly on gfs and wives once they cheat.

Use original super glue to be precise.

DonFreshmoney:
I believe the boy. He didn't use the girl for ritual. It was unfortunate that she died while on active service..

Same thing that makes men die on duty killed this gurl, he should be released

You just said it all.
She died in active service and was even the one pushing to offer the services. Vice verser, don’t they release the girls if a man dies during sex, same will repeat for this guy.

Sex is the only thing that can kill a woman.

He will be released.

She came into this world through a seed from the D**k and through same seed she departs the world.
RIP queen di*k.

It’s in every woman but the difference between them and the normal women is self control.

All this excuses like its a cause or sickness is a bloody lie.

A girl that engages in sex all the time or sleeps with ten men a day even without taking any hard drugs, you now expect her to manage one di**k a day?

If my gf gets me a gift of 5k, I will reciprocate with a gift of 5k.

If she’s not ready to give, I will prefer verbal valentine wishes.

I know my gf will be budgeting such amount , I have already bought a gift worth 5k and waiting for the de- day to come.

Say No to Stingy girls#####

Greater percentage of girls say this and it goes a long way in making me believe that same greater percentage of ladies have nothing to offer in relationship and marriage other than sex

Men wake up and place this ladies where they belong and stop killing yourselves because of them.

It’s very true.
I have had such experience many times when I was still in the university, some were buying gifts and sending me food every morning through my office security men as at 2007.
It happens all the time and even as we speak now one had to arrange a hotel on this month to have sex with me after persuading me to visit my house for sex.
I openly told her, NO SEX IN MY HOUSE.

Another told a waiter last two weeks to let me know she’s interested in me and she is all over me for sex, it’s not new at all and I can never use it against them at all.

It happens live here in Nigeria.

It’s all about packaging and knowing your self worth as a man, even if you like the lady, just pretend you don’t feel anything and never GIVE HER ATTENTION, 48 laws of power.

Men, use your money for yourself and children.

For your wife, she must be working and if she’s ready to build a family then she won’t be stingy but if she’s stingy, just provide food for everybody and shelter, let her take care of herself so you will live long.

MiltonFine:
A female work mate once smacked my ass in broad daylight and i was like, me na i cannot try that and go unpunished o.

All you needed do is slap her and raise your voice at her immediately so you get peoples attention asking what happened.

In a situation like that she can never lie of not smacking your ass in the public which is called sexual harassment so take the case to the police station but bear in mind some police won’t take it serious seek another police man or woman in that station then put down your statement and get her arrested immediately or rather beat the hell out of her immediately so people will come to rescue her, they will now ask what happened. Tell them what she did and trust me some men and women will support you but will ask why beating her. Your response shall by “ the only way to bring her sense back cos police or legal means won’t even listen to you and you have the human right to re-act if a female wants to harass you.

When cases like this starts going to the station, the government will be force to start protecting male gender from female rapist.

If the OP is a woman, you just looking for attention and saying man loves rape but women don’t shows how stupid you are and it’s obvious you have raped a male child and even adult( making them sleep with you unless you shout rape).

Just bear in mind that everyday is for the thief but one dat is for the owner of the house.

That God you are saying or using against men will strike you death cos that’s not God purpose for men he loves and cherish so much who has being submissive and loyal to him than women.

The only thing I can tell you is that, if not because of men, women won’t come into existence and I can’t say God is regretting bringing women into existence but if not because of the love he has for Adam, is would have destroyed women for disobeying him ( God).

So each time every woman wakes up, she should look for at least 10 men and thank them for making them still exist in this world.

God made men to protect women cos he thought women worth’s it but it’s obvious that they don’t and are using it against men which is the worst thing God dislikes.

Any man that allows himself to die for a women is the greatest sin on earth if you don’t know.

Men should stand up and place women where they belong.

When a girls touches a man, women will say his enjoying it but when a man touches a woman same way, they will say she’s not enjoying it and kills the man.

The question is, are both not committing the same offense?

Whom do we ask if he is touching her?

Killing is a murder case and penalty for such is death penalty.

Men should stand up and face reality, if a woman touches your chest, ass or any part of your body, report her to the police but don’t kill because if you do, killing is a murder case and penalty is death.

I pray she receives a death penalty for her action so other women will stop this nonsense.

Men know your right even if the government ain’t protecting male gender.

If a woman sleeps with a mentally insane man, it will be tagged “ had sex with him” and everybody will be laughing saying he is enjoying.

If a man sleeps with a mentally insane woman, it will be tagged “raped her” and everybody will want him to be killed.

The question now is, didn’t both commit the same crime that deserved same punishment?

Men should stand up and fight for themselves.

Oluwahelpme:
U don't have to quote the post. Just click reply and type.

Okay
Thanks

Pascopele:
STOP DATING MENTALLY BROKE GIRLS
I know many girls and ladies gonna be angry with this post but try learn from it.
Men!!!!!!!!
Guys, how do some of you even cope with dating a broke girl?I know some still don't understand what I mean by Broke Girls.
I mean:
1. A girl who doesn't have transport fare to see someone who she claims she loves every damn time.
2. A lady who can't get you a birthday or a Valentine's day gift, but expects you to bring down the world for her during hers.
3. Someone who can't comfortably call you on phone for 5mins. Always flashing and
complaining she doesn't have airtime even when you know you just sent her airtime.
4a. I mean how do you guys cope dating a lady who thinks relationship is an occupation;
where she is supposed to be paid and taken care of?
4b. Even if it's an occupation, what services is she actually offering to be privileged to receive such benefits?
4c. Or is she a ghost worker?
( NB: sex is not a benefit ONLY to men )
How do some guys manage to date such ladies?
Am not saying this because am working but it's what I see in most ladies.
5. No wonder suicide and depression victims are mostly men.
6. See guy, don't ever date a broke girl no matter how gorgeous you think she is. They are serious liabilities.
7. Rather date a lady who adds something beneficial to your life. Things like emotional intelligence; financial intelligence; spiritual
intelligence and other intelligence.
8. Date someone who's capable of calming the storm within your soul ( an average man has enough storms ); and not someone who
adds stress to your life.
9. Forget that yehn yehn talk, don't tolerate any woman's brokenness or stupidity just
because of her physical beauty.
10. There are actually a lot of extremely gorgeous and beautiful ladies with common sense.
11. So don't ever think of settling for less brother.
One thing I've realized about all these broke girls is not that they don't actually have money...
12. Most of them do; but it's just that they're mentally broke, which is way way worse than not having money.
I know many girls and ladies gonna be angry with this post, they won't like or comment in it .
But
Ladies please don't blame me... I just want to make sense common. 2020 Common sense

Nice one

Every woman always need to be laid, they don’t need special words from a man.

Until men knows that women need sex more than them, this won’t stop.

A woman is not and never doing a man favor when you read the “ Benefit of sperm retention”

Men are the one doing women a favor by sleeping with them cos if you don’t, she can’t never by complete as a woman.

A word is enough fort the wise.

Jodha:
Men are not advised to do the same pls...

That’s the best advise for a man and not a woman