₦airaland Forum

Who else enjoys palm oil stew?

Made one this morning with pork meat. No tomato paste. Rice and beans will go with it.

I went local this morning, I blended the tomatoes and pepper with grinding stone, don't look at me that way, yes I have grinding stone and I looove it .

No. AA

Irresponsible men everywhere. Tueh!

Fact is, after spilling rubbish on Nl, they still get married.

uche393:
and they end up marrying under 25 when they are 65

. They must find fault in Nigerian women, same fools that will go for 80year old grandma because of paper.

BeautifulWoman:
DON'T TELL HIM until he proposes. No man is worth knowing about your personal life unless they are willing to spend their lives with you.

The best time to tell him is the day he pops the question(proposes). The moment he does, don't say yes yet but tearfully tell him you don't deserve him or a good man like him. He will be curious and ask why. That is when you tell him. At that point, he will be sober and trying his best to show you he loves you regardless.

You are wicked. That's manipulative.

Samzzy94:
Well I understand you, but the thing is that, this country is making it hard for young men to become financially stable. Even if as a young man, you decide to take the risk of getting married when you are not really financially buoyant, the cost of the wedding alone will scare you off...

Just avoid slay queens and Nigeria feminists then you are good.

Olawrites:
my money is our money, her money is her own money..lols


You all are the same..so far you're a Nigerian woman

Ok.

Olawrites:
comot jor.. not true.. you ladies are gold diggers

Change your categories of babes.

professore:
Although this is a counter thread, but it attempts to address some salient issues and trends that I diligently observed which have implications on real human lives out there. I saw a thread today where a guy said her girlfriend (or fiancee now) asked him to marry her within a stipulated time or she will end the relationship. Guys began to say dump her and all sorts of things.

To cap it all, she has other suitors asking hery to marry them (some of those suitors are doing better than you, her boyfriend, but she does not like them as you

Louder please.
If only they know how ladies turn down many other men because of LOVE and loyalty. Men should stop being selfish please.

OriOko88:
How old are you

What do you think?

Unfortunately sister, you have no choice for now.

Bear it all, it's part of life.

If you don't go through some hard parts in life then you've really not seen LIFE.

All these shall become history. So just keep your cool unless you want to go back to your mum's place.

If you think Abuja will be good for you, ENDURE. Nothing good comes easy they say.

Lol. Both of you lack sense. Kids everywhere.

KyrianOkeke:
Sincerely, this is the best comment I've read on this thread... there's nothing wrong with a lady stating clear to a guy the direction she wants for her life and relationship. You don't call that desperation.

When a relationship fails the ladies tend to lose more, so it's only normal that they will do their best to build a solid relationship... a lot of times, the ladies don't really want marriage instantly, they just want to be sure that the guy they are dating has solid plans to settle down someday and they are top on that plan especially now when commitment scares a lot of guys

God bless you bro.

ravensckar:
Honestly, when I read one-sided write ups like these, I feel appalled. Ain't there two sides to a coin any more? The so-called 'desperation' from ladies may not always be what you think. It could be a way of saying their own mind is made up. They have no more time to waste.

Now, let me shock you with my own story. When I met the lady I'm married to today, she told me straight up that she's not in for any long term relationship. She's almost done with school and that if the relationship won't lead to marriage, I should jejely excuse her. Me being the 'guyman' that I was then, I wanted to chop and clean mouth. I sha played along with the intent to chop until I'm full. Now, therein lies my confusion; the said lady in question was everything I wanted in a woman (beautiful, educated, well behaved, God-fearing and highly industrious). But I have just one problem; I wasn't ready for marriage. Money no dey, even the job I was doing then, salary was around 70K.


She sha encouraged me that we should pull our resources together and that we'll survive. Long story cut short, I decided to give it a shot. After all, person wey dey ground no get anywhere to fall to. We got married in less than 4 months of dating. When I mean married, I mean a proper and elaborate wedding. Brethrens, today we're still together. Yes, she's not perfect just like I'm not as well, but we are still happily married.

It was later I understood the reason for her 'desperation'. She had wasted too much time dating some Bleep boys, hence, she felt she has no more time to waste. To her, if it's not going to lead to marriage, then, she shouldn't even venture into it. What we guys see as 'desperation' to some ladies, it's called making up their mind.

God bless you sir. The only wise man on this thread so far.

Good for 'em girls who loves to hang on to celebrities' ball.

Everywhere hard, thank God for saving his life.

Austineva:
just eyeing u babe

Keep your eyes to yourself sir.

Biglittlelois:
All of you saying marriage is not all about money, I just dey look una...

lol. It's not about having much but knowing how to use the one available well. Still, it's not ALL about money. Any guy that has money with no sense is not allowed in my life please.

So?

Game on.

J111333:
Lekwa ha, see them.

Thank you Reno though I hope you no go preach finish and still go behind to spend millions on a sidechick.

Rip.

The only man I can kill my self for will be my SON. (I forbid that kind of situation though)

All these ungrateful men that will spit on her grave with another woman. Rubbish

Same ol shi.

The difference is in the taste.

May God heal him.

Stupid Indian men. They are forever Hot.

Good

No.

I don't see anything wrong with it, my man can visit me anytime he wishes without informing me.

Netcry0:
I'm ready to marry her and we she knows that. She's 19

Boy, what do you know about marriage?

The fear of Nigerians is the beginning of wisdom.

Jobless boy. Are you not tired of fooling yourself? It's been years grow up!