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Had to personally warn one yesterday when I saw the scenario that was been acted out. But will they hear, not very likely: as greed and the god of this world has blinded their mind and stopped their ears from hearing the truth and walking in it.
They are allover the place with their small handbags, dye hair, micro skirts, usually over tight spaghetti wears. Some now go bralless or without a pantie, depending on their level of degradation and degree of shamlessness and madness. Just the same way they'll Troup into hell to spent eternity with their master the devil who have empowered and commissioned them for this end time ask, to whom they have yielded their life for easy money and fortune instead of to godliness that last forever. Won't be surprised to see 7 or 8 years old in hell with the way things are going. It's getting so bad!

Now it is eternally too late, in a million years time it will still be too late for them to accept Jesus if they died without him.. Some are asking how did they know they are prostitute or all of those questions, to the living this may sound like a joke but not to those departed soul.

Luke 16:15
And he said unto them, Ye are they which justify yourselves before men; but God knoweth your hearts: for that which is highly esteemed among men is abomination in the sight of God.

2 Timothy 2:26
And that they may recover themselves out of the snare of the devil, who are taken captive by him at his will.

Revelation 20:10
And the devil that deceived them was cast into the lake of fire and brimstone, where the beast and the false prophet are, and shall be tormented day and night for ever and ever.


We esteem and exalt all this worldly demonic music and the craft behind them, but they all are of the devil. Choose your role model wisely and don'tbe a foolish fan, for once obsessed with their pattern of life you will definitely end up where ever they do in eternity. A lot of people committed suicide at the death of Michael Jackson just because they felt they can't keep on living without him. Where are now, you know right? Don't keep deceiving yourself by staying in the world and also trying to live out religion. You'll double loose on the day of judgement as your secret deeds will be made open for all to see who you really are why pretending to be another while on earth. God cannot be deceived or mocked let's all genuinely repent and forsake the ways of the world for our eternity sake.

Luke 11:27-28
And it came to pass, as he spake these things, a certain woman of the company lifted up her voice, and said unto him, Blessed is the womb that bare thee, and the paps which thou hast sucked.
But he said, Yea rather, blessed are they that hear the word of God, and keep it.


Luke 23:29 For, behold, the days are coming, in the which they shall say, Blessed are the barren, and the wombs that never bare, and the paps which never gave suck.

Good as this may seem, unfortunately no slim or healthy person live forever. This is what's important, godliness!
You have it you live forever, you do without it here you loose out forever in the afterlife no matter who you're.

1 Timothy 4:8
For bodily exercise profiteth little: but godliness is profitable unto all things, having promise of the life that now is, and of that which is to come.

Many pay their last due and burn severally candle night to attain the level of success they now enjoy. Unfortunately this same people don't want to do anything when it comes to marriage, once there is disagreement they kick the woman out and pick another or if it's the other way round, and the cycle continues unending. This same people if possible can be eternally patient with that stubborn lecturer of theirs, or boss at workplace. But once it's their husband or wife all hell must be let loose, we are the ones destroying our marriages with little or no prompting from evil spirits. Let's return to God the one who founded, created, structured marriage and gave a valid sign post on how to navigate its terrain till we are totally bonded, blended; United in spirit, soul and body as husband and wife. Standing firmly against the whims and caprices of the devil, one true and united nation under God bearing godly seeds and populating the world with them. Not the wayward, blasphemous, drug addicted, violent and corrupt minded children turn adult we now have in our offices or at the helm of affairs, who are oblivious of the virtue truth.

StoicAdvisor:
Why is it strange for people generally and individuals to accept the simple fact that marriage is not for everyone? It's why so many homes are miserable. You have to know yourself well to be sure if the institution of marriage is your thing. And it's okay if its not.

@poster, you seems more scared of the man in person, not the marriage. Marriage is not slavery, its freedom. Marriage doesn't reduce, but actually increases your quality of life. Marriage even though subjected to much bastardization in modern times, had been the building block for a healthy society. A good man will heal these fears, where the job is, is to find such man.

Marriage is meant for 99% of people, and it's all good if the 1% remaining choose to join the 99%.
The only problem with human, why we can't hold out not just in marriage but virtually in every facet of life is due to our rebellious nature. Check out in market places, schools, organizations, whether corporate or public and take cognizance of the evil going on within those environment, everywhere you turn to you'll see this madness and wickedness so pronounced. This is not how God intend things to be from the beginning, our rebellion and self will is all that's killing us not just in marriage alone. Until we are ready to return to God and take his wisdom for ours, humanity will forever continue to sink down below morally, even with unspeakable increase in technological advancement, things will never get better.

jackcanfield:
Do whatever make you happy and fulfilled , but don't live your life base on other people's life's mirrors. As long as he has access to his kids I don't see anything wrong in that model. You are perfectly normal. Just make sure your seeds are from one man not multiple men.

Is this what God instructed us about marriage or they are your personal fabrications.

1 Corinthians 2:14
But the natural man receiveth not the things of the Spirit of God: for they are foolishness unto him: neither can he know them, because they are spiritually discerned.

1 Corinthians 1:25
Because the foolishness of God is wiser than men; and the weakness of God is stronger than men.

What's your value and worth in the first place? This is because I don't see how a sensible man will want to trash you from the beginning of a solicited relationship. Even ladies of lower virtue still have men hover around them and keep up the game of deceit until the end, but for yours to tell you from the beginning isn't a sign of sincerity rather it is a way of justifying his actions after using and trashing, after all he told you from the beginning.If you think he's been sincere, then ask him if he will ever get married and when, and why he doesn't consider you good enough for that position, his answer will tell you more about his mission. And I think you really need to be sober about this, cos that's the perception here. No offense intended!

Moreover, that your parent failed in their marriage should serve as an elixir for you to consciously, deliberately and prayerfully determine to succeed where they failed. Your parents failure shouldnt be an excuse for you to perpetuate that mess.

However to achieve this you need to find your way back to God as I can see your write up laced with self will, ego and ungodliness. If you tow the line of baby mama, it therefore means that your parent were even more successful and reasonable than you are, for no reasonable person will want to birth that bundle of joy under a misguided quote or appellation.

earthsync:
Baba keep quiet. Out of all the other versions of hell from different religions na your own sure pass

Instead of taking heed and amend your ways where necessary, you are throwing dart at the messenger. What he just quoted, is the very word Christ and you would do well to listen before its too late.

gazeup1:
I created this new handle to hide my identity.

I got married 11 years ago. We both started working before we got married, but my salary was way above my wife's own. I was earning 195k while she was on 108k when we got married, after my MSC, I was promoted and started to earn 350k, this got to me and I started to misbehave, I was doing all sorts and would insult the hell outa her. As the cry cry girl, she would cry, and thereafter I would hear her praying. At times she would say she will one day be greater than me. That to me was an impossibility.

I can't even remember ever giving her money for home keep but we never lacked food at home (we delayed before having kids, so I don't see the need for me to give her monthly money and she never asked). I started giving her after we had kids. She agreed when I told her her money was for the home and mine for investment, but I never included her name in my properties. she knows this as well.

After our kids, it became very demanding, coupled with her office not increasing her pay, she resigned, and that was when I felt the impact of her income. Meanwhile, her pay was reduced to about 80k and mine was increased to like 600k as at when she resigned. In one month I started asking her to return back to her work as to me I was not ready to foot her bills, she never even asked for money, she would even say what I gave her is left 5k or more self at the end of the month.

Now her new journey - When I started disturbing about going back to her former office or getting a new job, she said never and asked me to stop giving her money but go to market to buy food myself. In less than 4 months to her resignation she started talking about online job here and there, I thought it was a scam so I warned her. One day, I was in the office when she said she needs me to help her wit the best laptop to buy, I tried to talk her down on buying one but she ended the call on me.

I got home to see her with a new laptop. fast forward, she paid for a training on how work from home without my knowledge, got her first job of about $200, I also washed her down on going that low for such an amount but she said it was better than her former 80k job, before I knew it, she started talking about $1,000, now it's $3,000, to $4,000 monthly. I earn lower than #1M, my wife gets over #2M monthly working from home. She helped me finished my house project, very transparent and would not hide any $ she earns.

I have not been able to forgive myself of all the things I did to her, the insults, talking down on her but in a way I think I pushed her to become who she is now. I remembered when she asked back then to open a joint account with her, I laughed her to scorn, like how would the ratio be. she saved over 6M and credited my account with everything, just for us to complete our home. I can't even produce 1M.

She doesn't seem hurt, but sometimes she reminds me of those words, I have never officially told her sorry neither have I really changed because I am just like that, I don't mean evil. I wanted her to braze up and never stay low.

Married, men, please how do I ask for her forgiveness? I don't think we have up to 2% of her type out there.

That you're yet to apologize to her till now means you really don't deserve that kind of a woman because of your ego. Moreover you let what people say about relationship get into you without doing what is right by being an independent man who can conduct the affairs of his home without an external influence. Always do to others what you'll want done to you at critical moments, if it were the other way round men on this forum won't spare the woman.
You can actually gain back your prestige and honor by apologizing, if you think otherwise watch how you might struggle unnecessarily relating with her when it matters most.

Nothing special about this news, because AD was the only popular and acceptable party in the Southwest then. Funsho williams would still have won landslide if he wasn't asked to step down for Tinubu.


PS: @Op, Tinubu attended Chicago state university and not university of Chicago or university Chicago state. Always try and set your record straight!

INTENTLYINTENSE:


50 years from now, i predict airplanes and jet will be obsolete after the advent of newer, mouth gaping and jawdropping technology that for instance might take you to America in an hour or less.

Nonetheless, due to human imperfection there'll still be things like airmishap, plane crash and a whole lot of other infractions resulting from mechanical faults. Human can never attain that state of euphoria we always dream about. Reason we always talk about vision this and that, and eventually the goals are not achieved.

How is this even possible to practice. How much of time does she share, have or stay with each of them? And how do they manage the rest of the time on their own when she's away for at least two weeks or more traversing from one to the other? The fact that it suits her or she's comfortable with it doesn't make it right. If she got a child or two with each party, How will she fair with each child's training and development especially at critical stages of their life. When God says somethings are confusion and causes vexation of spirit, this is one of them. At old age and after death this woman will regret her actions if nothing is done now to reverse this her unholy and unhealthy lifestyle.

Daniel 9:8
O Lord, to us belongeth confusion of face, to our kings, to our princes, and to our fathers, because we have sinned against thee.

1 Corinthians 14:33
For God is not the author of confusion, but of peace, as in all churches of the saints.

Very commendable. Kudos Mr Gov.!

HappyPagan:
Wetin God do? Thanks to the engineers. that metal no even suppose dey air.. wetin useless God dey do?

Wonder how your household is run!

Thank God for safety!

And the moral decadence cut across all age group. Those not into internet fraud are walking about with barrage of moral fault. Fathers who are irresponsible, married women who shamelessly jump from bed to bed, wayward youth and young adult who in the quest to outdo themselves with ill gotten wealth and material acquisition delve into all manner of practices ranging from alcoholism to drug addiction, for easy access and deadening of conscience.
But in all of this the government have the larger role to play and in this they did not only have failed but don't seems to show concern over their failure. May God have mercy on us in this nation.

There is no ado here. A referee is different from a guarantor except where the referee chooses to be both. In order word you can be a referee without being a guarantor. @Op, if you feel insecure about what the person's character could turn out in the future which could cost you your job, then you can limit yourself to been his referee based on past record of interactions. That way you free yourself from all likely future entanglement, only a guarantor is under legal obligation.

Betting is a sin and would land anyone involved in it straight in hell, that notwithstanding does not justify your action of taken his ATM card without his permission and even lying about it. What about prayerfully suggesting to him your readiness to start keeping part of the money for him, otherwise involve his parent or an elder he respects so well, and if he's the church type his pastor. Don't take his money without his consent that is stealing.

Is there no instrument with which to detect his age and put every argument on hold? But they have instrument to detect the age of dinosaur that live 20million years ago.
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What an incredible paradox!

Something you could have just avoided by listening � to and keeping the commandment of your creator, but no! Fornication and adultery is now past time to many youth and married people. If only we could see the magnitude of hell in all its horror, awaiting the arrival of any lost soul who choose rather to obey the devil than the almighty. Many a youth would flee Fornication completely, and many a married people will desist to touch any other person than their partner.
My dear friend repent and make your ways right before the Lord, so that times of refreshing can come upon you.

1 Corinthians 6:18
Flee fornication. Every sin that a man doeth is without the body; but he that committeth fornication sinneth against his own body.


1 Corinthians 6:9
Know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Be not deceived: neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with mankind,

My sister if you're truly a Christian you should know the path you're threading negate the teachings of Christ, except you're a nominal Christian. You shouldn't for whatever reason accept a proposal from a divorcee as a Christian, not to talk of being the brain behind some one divorcing his wife.
Mark my word, if you proceed with that man God will never go with you into such a relationship and I suppose you know the implication of disobeying God even in the afterlife. Speaking to you as a sister who is wise, knowledgeable and have been helped by God to attain the level you are currently; don't disappoint God because of mundane things of the world for which mere sexual intimacy and satisfaction is the epicenter and the main point of call. Remember when life begins to deal with you even the 400k you make in a month won't be enough to replace your lost peace of mind. Live a flourishing life by obeying God, rather than get yourself entangle!

Though apolitical, but this man governed a homogenous state for 8years without an impact. What gave them the assurance he can do better with a complex heterogenous society like Nigeria? They fumbled at the state level but rush to succeed at the center. Same thing happened with Okorocha, a man conferred with a golden opportunity to write his name In gold in the anals of history of those who once presided over the affair of his state, which could have effortlessly pedestal his chances to the center. But, he blew it up and was busy erecting statues and creating one funny ministry or the other. I just wonder if there is something wrong with the black man, for as soon as he gains power he looses himself and careless about what the future holds for him.

KanwuliaExtra:
Suuuuure!
Satan 1 - God 0 !

Haiterzzzz goun HAITE!

You deserve pity! God created something whole, Satan modified it, who deserves the accolade?
Can you tell me one human being or thing created by the devil?

How will you go to hell with your two eyes wide open? You are not concern about breaking the law and love of God, and diminishing his purpose and expectation for your life, instead all you're concern about are irrelevant issues that does no good to your soul. Come off this path that leads to eternity in the lake of fire with the devil, by repenting of your sins and accepting Jesus into your heart, so that God can reconstruct your life afresh this new year.

AdeOri99:
But Hell-fire is a Joke!

Like, which sensible human being will throw what he loves into the fire....

Can you throw your kid into the fire?

Since there are no middle place between heaven and hell, and no sinner will inherit the kingdom of God according to the holy writ. Where then will armed robbers, hired assassins, murderes, adulterers, fornicators, thieves, cheats, wicked and injurious men abode or live forever?

JiniBula6:
Help me!
Is this still gonorrhoea?
I had unprotected sex with a girl in September and I got gonorrhoea.
I treated with some harbs for long time and later went for injection in a phamarcy with some drugs.
After treatment the gonorrhoea symptoms left leaving my penis hole open without pain. For some time now... I complain to the pharmacy and I was told it will close up by itself but up till now it hasn't.
I didn't have sex since September till December 25th when I started again but now I'm steady on a condom.

The whole of my penis is wide open. Today I noticed a little purse coming out again as it became wider. I'm worried.
I've searched online and I learnt it's Gonnocal Urethritis.

But I want to know if anyone here experienced this before... Please help.

Mature Minded Please. No insults

When God tells you to flee from fornication you think you are wiser. All those involved in illicit sex will have themselves to blame on the final day. Come to think of it, is it worth it that you go to jail for life just for a case of rape? Why then will you want to spend your eternity in hell for the sin of fornication. Come to God now and desist from your downward spiral journey that leads nowhere. A word is enough for those who have ears to hear

Crusade and Youth programs are quite a different thing from regular Church services, so why all the noise? Some of the people invited have been serving God since when many of us are yet to even come to the knowledge of the gospel. Doen Moen, William Mc Dowell, Paul Baloche and Dunsin, is there anything wrong with using this set of people? Some of whom love the Lord sincerely and genuinely.
In the just concluded youth program, Ibikun Awosika was invited and others with her, were they invited to preach? Not at all! They were there as expert's in their field to encourage this young ones, after all how many of our lecturers on campuses are born again Christians and yet they mentor and model a lot of students to attain greatness, and this guest speakers could easily pass off as one of them. We should understand that the thoughts and ways of God are quite different than men.
In as much as we have not seeing any of them confess Satan or openly hobnob with him, who are Deeper life ministers to judge or condemn this one's based on hearsay. God will judge everyone and their works at the appointed time, not until then let us stop speculating about what we don't know and let God have his way.

Romans 14:4
Who art thou that judgest another man's servant? to his own master he standeth or falleth. Yea, he shall be holden up: for God is able to make him stand.

Matthew 23:2
Saying, The scribes and the Pharisees sit in Moses' seat:
23:3
All therefore whatsoever they bid you observe, that observe and do; but do not ye after their works: for they say, and do not.

Always trying to buy people's will with money. Why can't people be allowed to make their choice, this is nothing but bribery and that's why they never do well when they get there because the foundation is faulty already.

Devil having a fill day in Indian. This is similar to what happens in white garment churches where they give birth to Nazarites, an unfortunate scenario you'll never see happen in Evangelical or real gospel Churches. Once devil has conquered you, he introduces some unimaginable things into your life that you yourself will be wondering if you're the one doing them or not.