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spicyhoney:
I use to  enjoy the attention i got being the only girl and the last child in my family as a child and then as a teenager but now I so much crave for a sister.

s[b]ome people actually feel if u are any of the three then it means u re a 'spoilt' child. Do u guys think this is true?
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Being any of these three has advantages and disadvantages, which do u think over shadows the other?

no, its not true. some do and some are brought up tough

@OP

i wouldnt like to be any of the three up there. but given the options above, i think its better tobe the only female between males. more pitting and protective arms around the dudes

a friend, a preschool teacher was telling me this week how she caught two young children 6/5 fingeri[i]n[/i]g themselves in the bathroom


when she ask them what they were doing, the girl told her that, it was what HER FATHER DOES TO HER at home. (its safe to say, she was practicing what his sick idiot called father does to her) she immediately called school officials and the child protective agency and police was immediately called, also the mom was also called. she wasnt aware of it(which happens in many cases) and she was more than destruct, she rained curses and abuses on her husband on the phone while still in school before the police could reach their house to talk to the husband, the man had ran away

no we havent truly covered the topic and i think now is the time cause this sick crimes are turning up every blessed day. i truly weep of our kids,girls and women. i mean its truly sad.

i cant even read that thread cause the more i try to read it, the more pissed off i become

Jehovah God please us

FL Gators:
Thanks for this post, Sissy. I dont believe we've covered that on this thread. It's becoming a huge issue, esp in Nigeria.

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-466144.0.html Pedos in Lagos.

~reading over your tips/prevention~

FL Gators:
If the kids do not have any guardian, does the state take responsibility of the children or do they get sent back home to their relatives?

as for now, he will probably be placed in protective custody until they find a suitable relative not just any relative for him. i dont think they will send him home cause he/she is their citizen but most likely the relative back home will make an arrangement if they have none around

Well,i just felt that way since there are now over  500 Nigerians jail on issues relating to murder and assault,and there is still more to  come.Guys should work  harder and et finacial  independence,if not , na problem

yes o, and women must be blamed for their useless


nigerian women, i hail thee

[quote author=Aloy+Emeka link=topic=467451.msg6265747#msg6265747 date=1277248801]I wonder o. [/quote]no mind am. as if men are angel Gabriel or saint Micheal


i hope the woman gets justice. just pity for their kid cause he not only gets to bear the consequences of not having a mother and now a father but he will also be reminded on how his mother was brutally murdered by his father

olas2u:
women can destroy lives!

and killing them saves life

@ rokiatu

that is making you vomit?

wait till i tell you about a man who molested his 3month infant. oh yes, you heard it, 3months old and no it wasnt his first, he had previously raped and molested other young girls before and went unnoticed until he tried it on his own infant

LOL serves him right

caplox:
It's no news these days that more women now prefer caesarean section to normal delivery, [b]could it be said that caesarean section is now safer than normal delivery? [/b]Such women who go for elective C-Section are just displaying fear of the highest degree!

for where? CS is major surgery and can never be safer in normal circumstances than womanly delivery


@OP

it shouldnt be but then again its their choice. as long as they know the many risk involved

[quote author=Big-Man link=topic=467117.msg6261815#msg6261815 date=1277212066]@Poster - If i understand you well, your husband despoiled his own daughter? Habaaaa, this cant happen unless your husband is not a Nigerian or he is under curse.[/quote]isnt that what we all "hope" for? wishful thinking.

OP,

make sure he doesnt intimidate the remaining housegirl with fear and threats

contd on the child molesters story


the man who molested his 12yr daughter. how it started according to him:

the couple were both divorced and had a shared custody of their 12yr old daughter. the girl stayed with he because it was his turn in the shared custody. according to him, he saw her unclothed while she was sleeping and the all the sick fantasies started running through his mind  and it all lead to touching her v[i]a[/i]gina and molesting her and that was how it all  started. he kept repeating the act and sometimes the girl would be half sleep while he was doing it.

she finally got the courage to tell him to stop touching her, the dad sickly asked her why, her daughter told him "because you are my dad and its wrong" he urged the girl not tell the mother however, she still found the courage and told her mom about it, when the mom inquired he woefully denied it and laid the blame on her daughter. saying, she made it up because she didnt want to stay with him blah blah etc and he still repeated it again and he was finally caught. asked whether he mastrubated when he was molesting her, he said no but always had the images in sick head.
also he thought his daughter enjoyed it because she was quite during the act



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the thing some men do. smh. i mean the thought/sight of seeing your daughter unclothed should make you vomit and lose you sick wrinkled erection. God save our daughters. i mean, if a girl cant be save from his own father then whats really left?

my dear, the thing tire me o

you are right cause most of them there have very nice shape and boobs that will definitely be more appealing, attractive and what have you in decent cloths but i guess "trashy" sells this days and it awards/begets them the most attention

OP

if you can get your sister to at least tell you her part, and the other housegirls, just so to confirm well. first hand storyi mean

the sad part of all, is that your husband will deny all this.  do watch out for your daughter. i think you should confront him,when you have all your evidence in hand even though he will ultimately deny it, but at least let him know that you are  very much aware of his sick ways. also, i think you should maybe refrain from having any female house help for now and save another young girl from being a victim of despoil or harassment.

abuse esp on your child




the other day, i was reading about a young girl, who was being sexually harassed by her sisters husband, she didnt want to tell her sister due to her shame,possible martial problem it might cause and the doubts her sister might have on her story.(which woman wants to hear her husband diners w/the devil) the same hussy was also sexually harassing the house girl.

my dear, you think these type will listen to their friends or anyone as such who questions their dressing?

they will probably shun you and the next thing you will hear is "jealousy"

these type probably has the highest level of ITK available when it comes "fashion"

^^^

my dear, the thing is getting more irritating esp with some women who should at least know better

[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=467072.msg6260772#msg6260772 date=1277202272]You are a pathological liar. . . . .I think you are just obsessed with HIV issues.[/quote]Lol. Sauron this you mouth is sharper than a butchers knife o

Hi Domi,

can you lock/delete the ff thread https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-466408.0.html#msg6259902


it has already be created elsewhere

tnxs

you again?

werent you the same person who refuse to tell your friend her gf was positive? even after 99.999% of people on that thread urged you to?


and your gf is +?




anyways, as you know by now, hiv is not a death sentence, if you see her person beyond the hiv thing then you might want to support her at least through this initial stage cause its certainly the most difficult for carriers. but if you do decide to leave her, dont do it at the initial stage. the choice is essentially yours to make. but do make sure she gets on treatment.

hassymo5:
NL i t[center]ry to tell her its over but i couldn't, she work in the hospital in the laboratory where she mistakenly pricked herself with a needle from an HIV patient, the first person she told the news was me, i'm comfused, what do you guys think i should do?[/center]

worst part, they will be feeling like they wore the "best of the best" and "outshined"everyone


i wouldnt be surprised if in the near future, women/ladies like this start wearing only their pant and bra to social events

ok

wrong section tho

^^^^

just as you know/think this story is fake beyond reasonable doubt, so will few others believe/think above their reasonable doubt that this indeed true.

from MC p.21

[size=20pt] [b]~Prevention Issues:From Research About Sex Offenders~
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~48% of Offenders found their victims through Babysitting!!:- Be adviced about where/with Who/people who have access to where you live your child! If Your child suddenly doesnt want to go to a minder's house/neighbour's family friend house,it's very important to try and encourage not frighten the child to find out why!!


~49% of offenders were attracted to children who seemed to lack confidence or were low in self esteem :- Learn to encourage children to talk things out,find out what their problems are if any. . sometime careers/parent get caught up in the cycle of work & ignore signs of a child's issue/changes in child's behaviour


~The majority of sexual abuse took place in the home of the offender/s or the home of the child! :- Again caution is advised about Who you encourage round your child,bearing in mind these predators are faceless! They cud well be anyone!! from a family,relative,family friend!! Learn to open communications between you & your child so if anything inappropraite happens you'll be the first they tell w/o hesitation!


~50 % of offenders carefully tested a child's reaction to sex by bringing up sexual matters or having sexual materials around. .they then subtly increase to sexual touching! :- Now you know what to warn your child against. . .anyone "claiming" to play some kind of "Game" w/ them is NOT to be trusted!! It's important to stress to your child even if he was told "NOT TO TELL",they shud tell you & you wont be angry w/ them. . .[/b]

[size=18pt] [b]~Prevention Issues:From Research About Sex Offenders From Sex Offenders~[/size]

~Offenders  will approached children or their families and offered to play games with the children,or teach them a sport or how to play a musicla instrument :- Be weary of "Certain Adults" showing an interest in one particular child or interest of that child!! Caution: there will be genuine people who have no other motive but still it wudnt hurt to be weary!!



~46% will offer to give lifts home:-This is prolly one of the oldest trick in the book & am sure a lot of parents warn their children not to accept lifts from strangers but when its a familiar face. . .*Sighs* This is where communication is key as the child will prolly tell you that Friend/Aunt/Uncle acted "funny"!!Children are too trusting so warn them it cud be the last person they expect!!



~53% will offer Bribes,Gifts:- watch out for gifts you didnt give your child. . money he/she shudnt have. . . it wudnt hurt to be a lil bit observant!



~44% of Offenders will abuse/try to abuse children in public places. . .wait for this. . . . . some cited popular family friendly[b]Fast Food Resturant Toilets as a fav spot!!!:- DO NOT LET YOUR CHILD GO IN PUBLIC TOILETS ALONE!! some parents/carrers are comfy thinking "the toilets only there" & will allow their kids to go in alone. . bear in mind you dont know WHO is in the toilet w/ your child!! I've witnessed this happen a lot in a popular  food resturant children visit![/b]

DIVA20.1 those are pics are just well, i can say more than embrassing

amazing!

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whats the "ewwing" about breastfeeding

@ Post


i was watching a program the other day and it was about child molesters. a father who repeatedly molested his 12yr daughter while she was in his care (shared custody). a man who repeatedly raped his relative for yrs. started when he was 8 and she was 5 till she was about 17 or so. another man who raped four girls, 3 of them known to him and the other man who molested a 5yr while he a 60yr man, a relative too.

oh my, i felt extremely disgusted,mad, angry and all other negative emotions imaginable. felt like vomiting on their useless faces and using a butcher knife to cut off their sick joysticks and poking out their eyes. i literally felt sick inside. gosh how could they? i felt extremely sad for this girls

the topic reminded the tips MC posted here sometime ago about child molestation. which i think every parent, guardian, and everyone who deals with children needs to read

will find MC's tips and repost before i continue how on this sick mens said they targeted their victims, and what parents need to watch out for

didnt even read the story just the title

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