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is the parents of the girl going to give her to you on credit?

abeg, in this day and time "marriage without job" shouldnt even be in the same sentence

unless your girl is financially stable,at least till you get a job cause if not, your plan is a no no

dang!

Outstrip:
I think the older you are the more likely you are to have twins

really?

naturally or with IVF?

maybe i should extend the gap more and finally have the last one at 45 to increase my twin dreams lol 

whiteroses:
40? it can't be her first, poster stressed no marraige no kids at 35 i think people should pray this is none of their portion in life

every case is different, yes the chances decrease,still doesnt make it impossible. just as some in their twenties who are medically suppose to more fertile have difficult time conceiving.

or should i tell you about women who thought they were already menopausal but still naturally got pregnant?

true. in a world where most ppl are obsessed w/ losing weight, alot of ppl also forget that thin ppl are also abused equally like fatty bumbums

Learn to wear white pants, they even help you stay clean.

capital nonsense

what i see is an overly air airbrushed Ms B including her armpit

petroy:
Better and cheaper.

cheaper understandable but "better"

whiteroses:
[b]that one na grandma naw why does she even try? [/b]only if she dey uk or yanki but for naija dont know if people will look at her the same, they'll say its a family curse or sontin

since when? you heard or seen women given birth to healthy babies in their 40s

FL Gators:
Why do a lot of ppl say this? I hope it's so. . . . I mean, the aftermath feeling of pushing a watermelon through a doughnut hole. . . ouch!

alot of people say so because somehow its the norm, whats is expected blah blah. it wouldnt be so nice or 'motherly' of you to say "i couldnt even look at her/him, or i didnt want to see her blah blah etc

however, some women do at least feel a relieve when they see their baby not for many though, the pain is still there, alive and painful and sight of the baby is no instant pain relieve

maybe he was abused physically or psychological and find it hard to open-up hence the animosity


i wouldnt just merrily let it to go if i was the girl, i must findout why but not in a nagging manner. just subtly try to get him to open-up to me cause afterall she is going to be my mother-inlaw and who knows tomorrow? if they eventually somehow makeup on their own, the mom would probably drag her feet in the middle of it. you know how some motherinlaws can be, they will label you the witch, separator, instigator and will instantly forget the pass

it will sure affect their children, because he wouldnt want his kids to see or have anything to do with their grandmother which wouldnt be a fun either


men generally tend to be very close to their mother so, there must a deep reason why he acts in such way. i'd tread very careful if i was her

Blazay:
Anything wife beating, it is either Igbo or Yoruba.
Welcome to the world of another Deji of Akure.
Yoruba men are worse though, the reason their women all walk around extremely subdued and battered.
Does Sani Kaita sound familiar anyone?


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dgj1l9vUyhU&feature=related

can you just you carry disgusting and nauseating tribal BS and disappear

must everything be tied to tribal belittling

i wonder whatwould happen if everyone started killing their partners mistres and mistress

these men need help

you think if i had an abusive or irresponsible/useless husband i will put him as my next of kin?


those women probably have better reasons for doing so

agree w/Oustrip

IUDs are your best option if you want longer lasting birth control. they are highly effective with low failure rate and they last longer

another birth control option is  Implanon-3yrs.

theyre other ones too like diaphragms,cervical caps,although failure rates w/these are high esp w/improper usage

there are also patches,rings,injections,pills--and then natural family planning(NFP) (you really have to know what youre doing with the NFP method, if not just be prepared for another bomboy on the way. i personally wouldnt recommend this but if youre diligent and have all the 'virtues' needed for it,it might work for you(?)


aside from the IUDs, the keyword in using the other birth controls is consistency and proper usage. you must be committed to it if you want to obtain the best result. many have low failure if used properly and consistently.




@ Oustrip   the 10yr one is ParaGard.

2nd man----started molesting his female relative(FR) when he was 8 and she was 5. this dirty sick man molested her untill he was 20 and she was 17



how it started: according to him, his FR and him were home and watching a cartoon when he saw her va[i]g[/i]ina. she wasnt wearing any pant and was sitting in a 'comprising position'. so, being curious by what he saw, he asked her whether he can touch her there and i will show you mine(his sick prick) and thats where it all started.

it fully progressed to full body touching, her vgaina, and chest and oral copulation(he was around 12/13 when he manipulated her to orally copulate him). and finally it reached to full vaginal penetration. he said one of his friends as a joke gave him a condom(14/15yrs old at this time) and he used it to R[i]A[/i]PE HER while she was 10/11yrs

one day while he was molesting her on her bed, her mother walked in and saw him getting out of the her bed and she asked him what was going on, he said "i was giving her a goodnight snuggle" she thought it was very weird but he completely denied it.

she finally broke her silent and got a boyfriend told him that she was molested thats how the idiot got caught.


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my goodness, he molested this poor girl for a whooping 12 freaking goodness me years am more angry than pissed off .

FL Gators:
Those are triplets? One doesnt look like she belongs.

@post
No. i prefer twins tho. I dnt want my bosoms to sag on my first pregnancy.

Imagine seeing three kids thru college at the same time.

for where?Lol. they will sag oo whether the first is Kemi or Temi and Kemi. so berra start loving/cherishing them now they are still pointing north before they will be start a race to see which sister reaches down south first

youre talking about college sef, teenagehood with ranging hormones is the worst years


[size=1pt]when did u have a sex change[/size] LOL

no

princess k:
if you have ever breastfed you will know that no matter how discret you try to be sometimes the bosom will get exposed and your first priority is your baby.an exposed bosom is better than a wailing baby.am glad Kourtney Kardashian spoke out for breastfeeding her sister shouldnt talk about things she doesnt even understand.

true. i pity babies that has to fed under a blanket just cause some people think breast are for sexual satisfaction.some women covered from head to toe, you will be wondering what they have under there. thank goodness the madness havent been rampant in some of third world countries at least i havent noticed or heard such "eww" "gross" etc here in nigeria

blackspade:
No, once the woman is married, one of her many duties is to pop out as many bundles of joy her womb is capable of. Its the godly thing to do. Read Genesis 1:28.

yeah rightand what happens to those who doesnt believe in god.does this "command of no choice" also apply to them? [size=2pt]no wonder many kids live in miserable home today
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"popping" out indeed. shm

@ Ebony,

no vex. Lol. at least you got ma gist

FL Gators:
Haa!!! eleyi le o!

Plz, in [b]which continent can we find  close-to-perfect-but-not-perfect naija men? [/b]Or are you guys terrible in general

conti. africa.
country. Equatorial  Guinea

FL Gators:
Oh ok

I'm thinking of leaving US after grad, d[b]ont want my husband killing me in my sleep[/b]. This is becoming an epidemic for naija men in the US

lmao!!!. Ebony, u no well

no fear, there is good ones left in every corner of the world

[quote author=Aloy+Emeka link=topic=467451.msg6266366#msg6266366 date=1277264534]of course he may not cry publicly but he will be a shadow of himself afterwards.[/quote]i understand what youre saying. but i find it hard to pity him in any way

hitting her the first time, he didnt stop but continued to the point she finally died is just rather heartless

FL Gators:
How could it have slipped through? Does a person bleed all over the room while suffering from heartattack? Makes no sense lol

Imagine telling someone you're an orphan. Then having to explain that your daddy killed your mommy because you left the bat at the wrong place at the wrong time.

i know it doesnt make sense,am saying lets assume the police were incompetent as he thought

[quote author=Aloy+Emeka link=topic=467451.msg6266343#msg6266343 date=1277263867]I do have a little compassion for him tho after watching him crying in court. One episode of uncontrolled anger and he is losing all he worked for and his freedom.[/quote]you think if the heart attack story had slipped through he will be shedding those kind of tears?

[quote author=Aloy+Emeka link=topic=467451.msg6266347#msg6266347 date=1277263927]I guess the bat belongs to his son because Nigerian men do not play baseball.[/quote]thats likely the case since hes the young one there. must be hard for him to play with bats again, cause it will definitely bring up ugly memories. poor kid kai.

i bet hes remorseful that his heart-attack story didnt fly hence the croco croco tears

i cant imagine what the woman went through being repeatedly hit with that bat

[quote author=Aloy+Emeka link=topic=467451.msg6266277#msg6266277 date=1277261366]It depends on his age actually. If he is 15 and above, he will have more choices on who to live with.

Watch the man cry here:

http://www.abcactionnews.com/dpp/news/region_north_hillsborough/carrollwood/pharmacist-charged-with-beating-his-wife-to-death-with-baseball-bat[/quote]oh ok.

blackspade:
Aren't women supposed to do the replenishing? Hmmmm. . .

should they have a choice to do the "replenishing"?

FL Gators:
Lol its not only the female species that are being abused.

I'm always watching LAW & ORDER: SVU, just to understand the type of things that goes on. This type of stuff. Little boys are being r/aped, what's even worse is that ppl dont pay attention to it because they expect the despoil to happen to the little girls.


1. Anytime you let your children out of your site, always ask them questions. . . . not directly tho. [Sth like, "So what did you and uncle do?" or "what did you and 'so-so' play and where did you play"?]

2. CHECK for any signs of abnormality on their body. Mothers should ALWAYS check for those signs unless he's a single father.

3. Encourage your child to talk. Learn to listen, learn to learn from them.

4.Let them demonstrate any NEW game they've learned that day

5. Watch for any abnormal physical and mental expression [like flinching/ eyes down/etc/]

6. Watch for any physical change [change in the way they walk or pain when they piss]

7. TALK TO YOUR CHILD

8. Teach them the safety rules.

i know boys are also molested and despoiled but females are the usual victims. good tips btw

FL Gators:
Shame. She shouldnt have tipped him off. Women should learn to controlt heir anger in this type of situation.
I cant promise that I wouldnt have gone back home to stab him tho.

Ebony, god knows i would have done worst. a mad woman would be calmer than me i swear. this kind of things are very uncontrollable at that moment. i dont really think any mom would at that moment control her frustration especially when it wasnt something she was previously aware of.

i mean, its very hard to control the anger, disappointment, sadness a woman would feel to know that her own husband who she lives in the same house with, sleeps with etc is molesting their child,his daughter and she wasnt aware of it. i mean, this kind of things, makes you question your parenting ability esp as a mother, who should at least have noticed a cue. but i dont think he will hide for too long

i know, it can be hard to find true yourself within those tight hand of the boys. they will think they know whats good/not for herbut i think in some cases it can be beneficial at least the hussy of the woman knows not to physically mess with her or he will have to settle with those ants solider. lol