₦airaland Forum

@TheOldHagWitch

babymama are you referring to me?
If having a man is to have multiple babydaddys
and running an "open door" policy so to speak,enjoy!!!

I hope the wages can pay the rent!!!
and supplement the foodstamp coupons.
kitikpa

This woman has never seen me before in her life and yet because I am Black and was born in America, she accuses me of the above. Infact, she never has anything good to say about black people born in America and she is a black woman her self. I basically talk about white people the same way she talks about AA's accept, I tell the truth and yet I'm a racist? 

Hmmmm Interesting.

Which is worst, a Racist or a Hypocrite?

DRUSILLA WHERE ARE YOU PLEASE COME BACK, DON'T WORRY ABOUT THIS ''SISTA'' OF WOMAN, SHE IS RUINING ALL THE THINGS YOU BUILT IN NAIRALAND, COME BACK SISTER BIKO WE WANT YOU BACK.

You really think Drusilla stop posting because of me? I think you better go and read Drusillas profile, take a look at her last post in this topic. You will see for your self what she last posted in this topic.

This will show how premature and bias your assumptions are.

As far as the Nigerian men are concerned, never mind, won't go there with you guys.

This is too funny

What's even more funnier is, she knew a long time ago this topic fell off. However, she keeps peeping in here to leave her comments as well as the rest of us. She loves me, I am the reason why she keeps coming back.

Any way, It is not the responsibility of this topic to add spice to her life, maybe she should find a man to do that for her, if she can.

@Zappking

it hasnt happen for years but i was affected by it and by that maybe they knowest best.come to think of it maybe they know better? and if they know better where is the room for change?for the better.

What?

This is vague, what are you hiding?

@Sweetlove

Hi wonderfulwoman @sista,This is a Natural in me Is Gift from God,So That I can always Treat My girl like a Real woman and Make her feel Like a Queen, and she will wish for Nothing More!

Hello my beautiful man.

It is natural for you eh? I thought I was the only one who was that natural I want you to keep sharing your nature, God didn't give you that kind of gift to keepall to your self Lord knows Nairaland could use some seeds of love. I'm a little jealous though that I can't be the queen your talking about making feel like a real woman but it's okay. I already feel like a real woman but it is nothing wrong with some extra.LOL

@Delf747

How twisted can you get? You don't know my race that's one of the wonders of the internet. Puts it all in to perspective eh? Just minds debating with eachother. Amazing how our true natures are hidden from each other in everyday life isn't it? That's why we need a god force to balance things out.

You are right, I got you mixed up with the member named Nferyn, sorry about that- that was my mistake. I don't know what color you are. Talking with you reminded me of talking with him. As many times though that I called you white, why do you wait until now to tell me I don't know what color you are? Hmmm

There's no way those children would be on the internet if they weren't American. You see its all part of the same problem. America has to make a big deal out of race. White kids pretending to be black. Black kids pretending to be white, etc, etc,  America has to continually promote these contradictory and  phony ideals because neither white or black people belong there. I guess nature will sort it all out in the end.

You are right, America belongs to the Native Americans. White people stole the land from them and they (white people) used black brainwashed slave men to help them kill the Native Americans. The things white people are capable of. It's just terrible.

Aids is the human form of SIV as far as I know. In fact the last documentary I saw suggested it doesn't even exist. It is a contrived disease used by drug companies to make billions of dollars. I'm no expert on it though.

Okay you are suggesting two theory's here. One being that Aids is the human form of SIV which is a disease chimpanzees may acquire. For this theory you would have to explain how humans got the disease, did they get it from monkeys? chimps preferably.
If SIV is a disease that Chimps get, how do they get it and how long has SIV been around? If it has been around for a long time, You would still have to explain how did it spread to humans if that is the implications. Your second theory seems to make more sense, that the disease was created to make billions of dolloars. How exactly would the billions of dollars be made from a disease that kills people? And why is Aids running rampant in Africa the place that still has 90 percent of it's wealth. A place that has be colonized by white squatters? Lets try answering that one? The whole monkey bit is played out. White people been using monkeys as The closest friends of Africans for a long time. Africans have even been equated to monkeys for to long. Isn't that perfect, blame it on monkeys and everyone knows Africa is full of not only Chimpanzee monkeys but all types of monkeys so, that would be easy to point the fingers at Africans for being so bad off of a people, that some how they genrated this powerful disease, Pleeeeeeze.

Come on now. Are you telling me the stars and stripes flying in the wind symbolizes Africa?

I don't care about a piece of clothe, believe it or not. Also you can believe this or not as well but most black people in America do not pledge  to the flag.

America is the most nationalistic nation on earth. Check out this advertisement for the U.S. Army. Either you or Drusilla mentioned that over a third of the U.S. military is AA. Well it's right here in this advert.

This advertisement does not apply to me. There are many AA's who this does not apply to. I said it before and I will say it again. I am African. African American is a white lie to distinct me and people like me, descendants of African slaves, former slaves of white American people. American is code word for white. AA is a Undercover way for saying Former slaves of white people. Believe it or not, Black people in America are not treated like Americans, never have been.

@Delf747

Don't have time to respond right at this minute, gotta go but I will be back on tonight and I will respond then.

@Donzman

Don't you know when to quit and say I've had enough?, You overstayed your welcome in this thread like 3 pages ago.

I have not overstayed my welcome any more or less than your (ace coon boons).

@Delf747

I posted prematurely by mistake.

How did you reply so quickly?

Have you got some kind of alarm set?

Please wait for my full reply.

Geez, a little desperate aren't we? LOL


Prematurely eh?

@Delf747

If black unification will shut you up I'm all for it.

I know white sarcasm when I hear it.

Children learning music have no hidden agenda, just like a butterfly learning to fly is only spreading its wings.

That's all good and things but what does that have to do with anything I be bumping my gums about in nairaland?

@Sweetlove


Is this all natural to you or are you learning this all in spain?

Or was this always in you but became unleashed in Spain?

@Browneyes

A lot of Caribbeans have settled in Ethiopia and Ghana so Sista there is progress, slowly but surely.

Wow, it feels good to hear about that progress.

I guess the Carribeans are relocating to Ethiopia because of Halle Sallase. He began that movement when he relocated to the Caribbean to help those Black Jamaicans. He told them that they were not ready to go back to Ethiopia at this time but that they had to get their self together spiritually before they went back. I guess some of them got it together.

Browneyes, did you get my email? I sent you two on accident, disregard the first one because it is full of typo's and it is incomplete. The second one is th complete one and I cleaned out the mistakes.

@Adeoba

is hatred for black people equal to love for the whites?

It is for those black people who are afraid of these words "Black Unification"

@Radiant

lmao

So am I, Lmao

@Forgiven


If this girl was so embarrassed because she farted in front of you and then ran away, she must be a phony. She probably is the type that does not want you to see her without make up on amongst other things that she probably hides and she probably hides a lot of things. You don't want a phony person who is this insecure.

Or, she probably not only farted but perhaps had a slight bowel movement that occurred, LOL and that is why it probably smelled so bad. If she did have that problem, I think you are better off leaving her alone because I don't know of anyone who could get over that type of embarrassment.

@Browneyes

The movement itself has modified in terms of being more assertive and not taking the soft approach. Thanks to community radio stations over here, people are waking up to the fact that slavery never ended only changed faces.

Just because we no longer see the chains, doesn't mean it isn't there.

Yes, Pan Africanism is a great thing, it's like a dream though. I been hearing and reading about it so in some ways it seems real. Then, to hear Fela signing about Pan- Africanism made me think well damn! If Fela, an African born on the Continent of Africa is singing about it, it must be reaching out to all Africans.

As far as those hidden chains go, well we both know how that goes. All we can do is plant seeds for the furtile grounds and leave those shallow grounds alone to rot.

@Delf747

You try to lord it over Nigerians and others here because you can't possibly imagine that they know more about the world than you.

When Nigeria is a nuclear power who will you lecture then?

(PS: I take it all back. Here's some evil white children hating on African culture: 
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qwc6V2OW7bE )

Delf, what is your point?

Your method reminds me of Somegirl, a white girl in nairaland who reminded me of the bad things Africans do to each other, when I talked about what white people do to all people of color.

That's right, keep black people thinking that their own people are the enemy's, that way they will always see white people as the white angels who can, will or has rescued them from their own people. Therefore, white people will continue to convince their self that they are not accountable for all the corruption they cause and have caused.

Divide and rule is your method as well as white people like you. Do you notice what you attempt to do as a white man? Is it all subconscious? Don't you recognize? Never mind, I am not going to let you off that easy, you know what you attempt to do, and have in some cases succeeded in doing.

Not with me you won't. You won't convince me of anything except for the fact that you are not for black unification because black unification does not include white people and for white people, that would be an insult that they are not included. I mean look at all the good things white people have done for black people right.

What was your point in giving me that link? Did you also recognize that it was black people who embraced those white children and let them come onto a black show to play the tribute to Africa?  You make a big deal about the white kids doing that as if they are the only ones who make musical contributions to Africa. Black kids and black adults in America been doing that way, way, way longer before white kids. In fact we taught white kids how to play our music. I bet you won't go and search for video links of black kids doing the same thing those white kids did but better because blacks are the originals of that music? I bet you won't go and search for the evidence that shows we teach white people everything worth knowing.   

Your only aim is to show how great white people are because of course you are white right? Notice how you talk badly about Americans when you are putting me down but notice then to how you support your fellow white brothers and sisters in America by giving me this link.

I know my history and nothing has changed. White people want to be the central, the center of attention.

Yes, the music those white kids played sounded good but, then again it should have because, I am pretty sure it was some black people who taught them how to play that music just like we teach them how to dance, rapp and be coooooool.

Anyhow, it was a nice video but it is not better or any different than what Black Americans have done many times before. You won't cop to that because you call Africans in America- Americans. This divides us from our brothers and sisters in Africa. Therfore, AA's couldn't possibly make musical contributiosn to Africa, right? We don't care about our brothers and sisters in Africa right?

By the way, is that the only example you have to show that white people really love black people? That show exposed them and set them up for a music career. In case you didn't know, black music is the most popular in America, if black people like your music, that means everyone will, that means big time sales. White America sees how the young people of all races love African Americans. White corporate America uses AA's to set trends and that is how they make money off of AA's. Those white kids knew what they were doing going on the Apollo show. Remember? America is a place where people seek opportunity, LOL

Let's talk about the white people who dump nuclear waist in Africa. Let's talk about the white people who prevent this from happening, pleeeeeze.

Let's talk about the white people who paid reperations to everyone they corrupted but they never reperated black people, why is that? Are white people afraid of what we can do? Or do they not want us to get the idea that we are just as human as the rest?

Remember, Africans can't do anything without the interference of white people so called rescueing us right? So why don't those white people rescue Africans from Aids and nuclear waist? You do know that Aids was created in a lab by white people don't you?

So you admit your not being responsible here?

You can't and never will understand my sarcasm, it's a black thang.

This is why all Americans say America is a 'great' country,  even when its roots are totally rotten.

See how you keep callling me American, you see? Divide and rule is what you contribute to.

@To All



Sista don't ease out from anything but Sista has been in Nairaland long enough to realize that it is useless- a waist of time and does not contribute to the cause to argue back and foruth with someone who say's things like, "you must have not had a good comback". If people are here for good comebacks, or people see me as only trying to have a good comeback, they have already built their impression about me. Therfore, anything I say and do with that individual, will derive a bias judgement. Not going to spend my time on that kind of stuff anymore.

@josboy4lif


I don't think Nigerians realize it because they are in their zombie state but they can be shallow, not all of the of them of course. This shallow thing amongst black people period is a growing epidemic.


Black people are trying to hard to equate, or reasonably equate to white people.


This is due to self hate. Let me brake down self hate in this context. If a black woman has a black man approach her in a nice way but he does not smell like money, (expensive cologne) or look like money (expensive clothes and a nice car) She will not treat him nicely and repsectfully, infact she will dismiss him with prejudice. As a black woman, if she is not open to giving a man who is not rich a chance to show her that he can love her, she is not open to loving her self. A black man who loves you should not be dismissed for another man who has money. The one with the money may not love you and if you love your self, you would love the one who loves you over money. If you love your man and he loves you, together you can both become rich if that is what you two desire.


Josboy, don't worry though, I am telling you that you will get a nice Nigerian woman who loves you for you and not what you have. You just hang in there. Good things come to hose who wait.

@Radiant

If you've read my posts on other threads, you'll notice that I've been very calm and linient with you. I'm even surprised myself. I guess it's all in the name of flying a 'white flag'

Lenient? Won't even dignify this.

You were the one who said whites should be treated in a discerning way. That was the reason I replied, saying that blacks are treated the way they're treated cause of people like you. I went further in my last post to say that, that particular comment means, treat others the way you'll want them treat you.

You keep evading what I said about slavery and colonialism when you respond with the above. You over looked what I said again.

I would rather just leave it be. I have enough battles in nairaland and I'm not up for this battle because you are to early in the game with missing my points. Missing points should have come much later after we established some type of understanding. At least then we could have been civil enough, that if either of one of us had misconstrued something the other said, we could have confronted each other nicely by asking a simple question, like "What did you mean when you said such and such? I am not understanding you." To late for that now.

Being that you take me for someone who is all about a good come back, I can see that this subject matter has rested on your negative ego and I am not with that at this point. So, after this you can say whatever you feel like saying.

@Babyosisi

I rest my case

You don't have anything else to do.

You have said more times than once that you rest your case. Your case on me can't get any bigger, being that I have nothing to hide.

You mean to tell me your just now getting what I am all about?

I heard you telling someone that you were old.

I know what everyone thinks I act like but you act like an old miserable and decrepit bitty.

@Radiant

I pretend to be down for black unification? Girl you joking right? Now who's pretending between the both of us? You probably were short or a comeback there huh? lol

When I said we blacks are treated the way we're treated 'cause of people like you, I meant that whatever you do to someone, another will do it back to you so stop trying to accuse me of anything. Sort out your differences with white people and then we can talk.

Believe it or not, I am not here to show off my good combacks. My ego is directed and focused on something more becoming.

Secondly, I made the comment about your pretending because you totally through me off telling me I deserve what white people do to me and people like me. No black person should ever fix their mouth to say that Africans who were taken into slavery deserved it for what ever reason. That is why I also told you that white people would not have been able to hear of my comments on them, If me and my people were still in Africa or in America by choice.

You indirectly saying I don't like you? lol why would you say that? You were the one calling me stupid and an idiot. Did I come back with any insult other than speak my mind? My dear relax I have no problem with you but must speak my mind where necessary.

I'm not trying to get smart or give you a good come back but, I honestly do not care if anyone in nairaland does not like me. This place is a fun place but I will never see you people. I have a life outside of nairaland. The comment you are referring to that made you say the above quote must be due to my response in reference to what you said about people must not like me because of my attitude and therefore they reject me. I wasn't really sure what your aim was with the rejection comment but I rolled with it and I gave you my response. Had nothing to do with my misconstruing how you feel about me. Again, I really do not care what people who I will never see think about me, especially if their thoughts of me are negative.

They say charity begins at home. Going to Ghana to do what? Fight for unification or you got admitted to do some 3 months internship?

I know charity begins at home and believe me I do a lot of charity. As far as my reasons for going to Ghana, it has nothing to do with an internship.

@Babyosisi



You are as hard headed as I am, you will not stop.


I said it before and I will say it again, I know there are good white people but for a black person comprehension, they are like snakes in a barrel. The snakes, that will not harm you are on the bottom of the barreal. The vipers, rattlesnakes and anacondas, snakes like them, they are on the top of the barrel.

I would be a fool to try and reach to the bottom of the barrel to try and get a good snake out. You named all those good white folks. How many good black men have been killed for reaching to the bottom of that barell to pull out a good white woman?

What would make a black man be fool enough to risk his life for a white woman? What good white woman who loves a black man would be with him when she knows he can get killed, all for the sake of love? Please.


Your missing the point, and you probably still will. Now is not the time for black people to be mixing. We have to much self hatred and it is causing us to sacrifice our self for those people we love more. Those people being,  Whiiiite people.


Yes, there some good white people, John Brown being one of them. I respect John Brown and white people like him because John Brown was hung as well as his Sons were Hung for helping black people. John Brown wasn't suffering with self hate, he appreciated the way that God mad him. He had a White wife like his self. He was not trying to sleep with black women as a reward for considering black people as human. He wanted to do Gods will. White people like that still exists but we should not be concerned with Good white people if our reason for being concerned with them  will consume us so much, that we are not concerned with our self. I know you said there are bad black people which is true. I would be a fool to say that bad black people don't exist. But, it is much safer to deal with my own because their ways are not foreign to me and I can sniff out a bad one in minutes. Where as with white people, they have ways that can be terribly manipulating. They have always had it. The proof is in their take over of the world and how they accomplished that.

Like I said, weather you believe it or not, I love all people, I am a peoples person. If you are hungry, or you need clothing, I will feed you I will clothe you no matter what your color is. In this case, it doesn't matter if you are good or bad, I would do the same for those people as well.

Maybe you should rename this topic to "Edward Koleoso" if people are familiar with him, they may come in more so and answer your question regarding him. Other wise, your topic title will not draw the attention to help you in seeking the information you are looking for. I thought this topic was about a frequent Nairaland user. Not someone who has not been here in a while.

@Zapking

Are you being arrested because you are with her? If you are you made the sacrafice of being with her at the expense that you keep getting arrested. Sacrafice is equal to no freedom. You keep it up, your gonna be locked up for good Who do you love more, you or her?

@Babyosisi

We do love you as you stated
But most importantly,we wish you well.

Irespective of your comments in your beliveing that I am bipolar. I know you love me and I love you too

Also, truly, really and sincerly no joking, I wish you all well in your relationship with your white counterparts.

@Sweetlove

Me pequito espanol.

Hola amigo

No, Hola Amiga, si?

Ti quero mucho.

Mucho es- a lot

Ti quero? Me don't know

@Constantin

My brotha, the very fact that your screen name is Constantine, that says a lot about you black man.

I am a black Naija boy and I am proud of it but I desperately fell in love with an Irish/English girl at university here in the UK. I am studying economics and psychology (combined studies). She studies design and architecture. I love her so much and she loves me, too. Of course, I also had Black girlfriends before desperately in love with a white girl. Our love is so intense. What can I do if I love a white girl?

I appreciate your honesty but I challenge you to ask your self this? Why is it  that when you refer to falling in love with this white girl, that you use the word desperately? You used that word twice when referring to falling in love wit this white woman.

Also, at the same time you spoke casually of being with black woman. You said
"Of course I also had black girlfriends before, but I fell desperately in love with white girl." What does that mean? As a black woman, I am inclined to take that as you slept with black women and maybe took them on dates.

If you are studying psychology, I challenge you to analyze your self and be honest when doing so. Think about your childhood and all that led up to your desperately falling in love with this white woman. Try to be objective when doing this, it won't help to be subjective.

Please don't be mad with me, I am being honest with you as you have been with us all by expressing your feelings about this white woman. Please do not allow your self to become discouraged by the people who may jump in between what I am trying to experience with you. You don't know me and I don't know you and probably never will but we are all trying to learn something or teach something so what are we afraid of?

Also, do you agree that we choose who we love? Yes or No

@Radiant

You're not the only Nigerian or African living in the US so why are you not accepted by your people?
This one has to do with your personality I guess.

Radiant, you don't know me that well hun. I will not let the burden of proof be upon me, you can go back and read and study up on me if it is that important to you. I don't change, I am who I am, a woman of my word. Unlike you who comes in here and pretends to be down for black unification but tells me because of my attitude that, white people are justified in treating me and black people like me as they do and have done in the past. Is your head on right? Your the one who is the switcher upper. By the way, I am loved by many black people here in America. Don't get me wrong though, there are some black people in America who think like you, and they don't like me too much

You're fighting for unification while you're in the US eh? Smart ass. Why don't you break the bonds of rejection and go back to Nigeria and do your campaign. I'm sure it will make more sense than trying to make a point on Nairaland

No hun, I fight it every where and all the time, it is my life.


I'm in the process hun. I am going back to Africa but I am not going to Nigeria, I am not ready to be killed by my own people, I still have a lot of work to do. I will be going to Ghana real soon.