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RomanceRe: What Is Wrong With Dating Or Marrying An African American Man? by Sista(f): 10:57pm On Oct 06, 2006
@uche2nna


I was more interested in the fact that she was going to let go of the tiff bw both of you.
Yes, I am aware of that now.

This woman Babyosisi is very immature and tricky, she has played many tricks in this discussion. I actually feel sorry for her.

Her sickness allows her not to really take this topic seriously. She is to busy trying to look like somebody and her way of going about that is to discredit me.

She has learned very well from white people.

But her white trick can not fool me.
RomanceRe: What Is Wrong With Dating Or Marrying An African American Man? by Sista(f): 10:54pm On Oct 06, 2006
@To all

Babyosisi will do anything to get me to keep talking to her or talking of her, she completely modified all of what she has said in this page to me. You guys, this woman is very tricky, she will go through many lengths to look as though she is not bothered by me, I think this woman actually loves me.


I mean it, she has modified all that she has said to me to make it look like I am rambling when I was actually responding to her. This woman is very sick, tricky and desperate.LOL Poor thing


I am not going to modify anything I said to her because if you look carefully, you will see that I quoted her in my responses. She is to blind to realize that she can modify what she has said, but she can't modify her "quotes" I already took before she completly modified. I used those in my response.
RomanceRe: What Is Wrong With Dating Or Marrying An African American Man? by Sista(f): 10:39pm On Oct 06, 2006
@uche2nna


OK uche2nna,nwoke oma,I'll listen to you.       
k'am gbachi sista nkiti.
Achorom ka admin bannuom kam si ebea puo.
Ike nwanyi a a gwum
Your responce:

That is my girl
This is what I was talking about, you know this was not nice.

But, if you say you were not in agreance to attempt to set me up, I believe you. I know that wicked and desparate people have a way of making things look a certain way.
RomanceRe: What Is Wrong With Dating Or Marrying An African American Man? by Sista(f): 10:28pm On Oct 06, 2006
@uche2nna


Y am I finding it hard to believe you?  
It is not easy learning a second language with just being around one of the natives.It takes a lot more than that.Moreover Igbo is a very hard language to speak not to talk of write.But apparently you can do both!It is either you are a language genius or that you are lying about your nationality.
Finally,I really wish that you and babyosisi should stop going at each others throat!
Not true, it's not that hard of a language to learn, If I were around a bunch of Igbo speaking people, I would pick it up quick, the language actually comes very natural for me when I am practicing it, I like the way I sound when I speak it.

Don't get me wrong, I can't speak it like and expert because I don't get that much practice but from time to time, I just ask my Igbo man to help me when I don't know something. He is the one who told me what old girl was saying.

Truth is, I am an AA woman with a Igbo man. Believe it or not, I don't know what to tell you.
RomanceRe: What Is Wrong With Dating Or Marrying An African American Man? by Sista(f): 10:23pm On Oct 06, 2006
@uche2nna


Uche, I just viewed your pic, you are also very beautiful.

I am finding it hard to believe that a beautiful black man like your self would conspire in the attempt to set me up undecided

You shoud be surrounded by a bunch of beautful black women who adore you, instead of contributing to helping an old hag set up a beautiful sister like me.

Sham, shame, shame on you grin
RomanceRe: What Is Wrong With Dating Or Marrying An African American Man? by Sista(f): 10:13pm On Oct 06, 2006
@uche2nna



Sista Please I have one question.How come u understand Igbo    No vex O!
That shouldn't be so hard to figure out Uche, I have a beautiful Nigerian Igbo man I have been with for a while now. He is the one who is schooling me and he is the one who dislikes me coming to Nairaland. He is afraid I will only see the bad of Nigerian people. I have to keep telling him that as long as he remains as beautiful as he is, I will never see all Nigerians as terrible people. Just some of them. LOL
RomanceRe: What Is Wrong With Dating Or Marrying An African American Man? by Sista(f): 9:51pm On Oct 06, 2006
@Babyosisi

Okay Baby, it is even more clear that you are a basket case. As of today I'm going to ignore you and your wicked desperate ways.
RomanceRe: What Is Wrong With Dating Or Marrying An African American Man? by Sista(f): 9:47pm On Oct 06, 2006
@Babyosisi



We have carefully listed why our men should keep away from the likes of Sista.
You are better off anyday with a Naija woman.
Top ten reasons in random order


1.Marriage is not their culture,they'll rather co habit and pop out pikins
2.when they do marry,they check out when it says'for worse"
3.too many baggage.
4.self hatred.
5.angry with everyone
6.has nothing good to offer
7.will marry you while calculating the child support money
8.baby mama drama,Tyrone and others may show up for his baby mama.
9.will not go with you to Naija and if they do,you owe them
10.More likely to send you 6 feet under when you see their true color and decide to say "I don't"

Just some entertainment y'all.
babyosisi ekwusigo
all our men know that already(the list ,I mean)
They may not tell you so.
I'm just trying to save you time.
I never mentioned anything about papers why bring it up.
Have you been a victim before?
Biko sorry o.
It must really hurt
My reason for saying that is because I know what you were implying when you said what you said in the above.

By the way, you wish I were a victim.

You would rather see a Nigerian man happy with a white woman rather than happy with an AA like me.

Get a life, your so sad and the more you talk the more it shows.
RomanceRe: What Is Wrong With Dating Or Marrying An African American Man? by Sista(f): 9:39pm On Oct 06, 2006
@Babyosisi

You are the one who is shuffering and smiling for white people.

And, you can miss me with trying to make me think my nigeiran man is after papers, he already has those.

Modified:

By the way, my Nigerian man is not your man. He is mine, mine, mine.
RomanceRe: What Is Wrong With Dating Or Marrying An African American Man? by Sista(f): 9:33pm On Oct 06, 2006
@Babyosisi

Your so immature.

Why don't you stop your old lady babbling. stop bumping your gums. you are so tired.
RomanceRe: What Is Wrong With Dating Or Marrying An African American Man? by Sista(f): 9:10pm On Oct 06, 2006
@Babyosisi

nwanyi AA ekwugo.
Ekene dili Chukwu
The Afro American women has spoken ! Thanks be to god.

It's about time you recognize.
RomanceRe: What Is Wrong With Dating Or Marrying An African American Man? by Sista(f): 9:03pm On Oct 06, 2006
@ Uju4eva

@Babyosisi

Uju my dear your parents are your best advisers not a single, angry old black woman with hatred all over that goes by the name sista.
She has nothing good to say.
Uju be Uju4eva, that means she thinks for herself and nothing you or I can say will change who Uju is, or how she thinks.

Uju made up her mind a long time ago, as she has said, what is taking place now in this discussion is exciting and entertaining to her.
RomanceRe: What Is Wrong With Dating Or Marrying An African American Man? by Sista(f): 8:58pm On Oct 06, 2006
@Babyosisi

Whatever Babyosisi. You are so tired with your same old appalled reaction. You need to get some rest, those old bones of yours are about to break.
RomanceRe: What Is Wrong With Dating Or Marrying An African American Man? by Sista(f): 8:45pm On Oct 06, 2006
@Ugwumba


@ Uju4eva, sincerely hope you can sift through all the posts on this thread and get a meaningful answer to your question. I have tried to understand the 'theme' in the posts, but the many digressions make this difficult.
Ugwumba, don't worry about Uju, she has been keeping up with this topic. If you go back on some of the pages, you will see for your self, the girl is not a young and naive girl. I think I already told you this a while back, we do not have to worry about this girl. She has already made her decision a long time ago, nothing we say will affect her mind making. The girl thinks for herself, she just wanted to hear what other people had to say because she is not able to talk to her father openly about this matter.

If you want, I can supply you with the pages that she came in on, after catching up, she gave her replies. I will have to search for them but if you want I can do that because I can see that you worry about Uju each time you come back to view the recents of this topic. Let me know if you want me to do that for you.
RomanceRe: Reasons why guys must lie! by Sista(f): 8:33pm On Oct 06, 2006
@Sweet love


Thank you wonderul woman
You are quite a charmer I can see.

However I Just wanted her to Trust me,
You can get a woman to trust you without throwing all of your female friends up into her face. Are you sure you weren't trying to let her see how lucky she was that you were so adored by all these white women?

Also, if those girls were only your friends because they thought you were a basket ball player, were they really your friends? Did they really just want to hang out with you or were they waiting for an opportunity to have you?

Think about it.

Not saying that you should try to get the woman back because she slept with someone else, I know it is to late for that but just use your common sense with the next woman you get.
RomanceRe: What Is Wrong With Dating Or Marrying An African American Man? by Sista(f): 8:23pm On Oct 06, 2006
@Uju4eva


WOW>, Um, I don't know what to say, to me  it doesn't matter Sista, you can continue doing what you are doing. Who am I to stop what you are doing? If you are going to commit any action you please, you are going to commit any action you please. I see it as a little entertainment to me, really. But I mean, it's still funny how a simple question turned into about 7 pages of something else. But it's all good though,
Uju baby, this is Sista talking to you my little sister.

You are so mature and I am so proud of you at the lighthearted way in which you react to us adults that argue like children. Thank you my little sister, you are teaching me a lot and Sista loves you.

Thank you Uju, I will continue to let anyone have it, if they deserve it. LOL

Yes I know, it is interesting to see how one question can turn into something so big but this goes to show you that your little question was not that little. Your question is something us black people need to deal with and the time has come, although the time was well overdue.

I think the most exciting part to you, weather you realize it or not is, you can't believe that liittle ole you was the start of us adults reacting the way that we are reacting. But, you are the start of this and that say's something about you. Who knows, maybe someday you can change the world, starting with black people first grin

Uju, you were the inspiration for this and you should be proud.
RomanceRe: What Is Wrong With Dating Or Marrying An African American Man? by Sista(f): 8:13pm On Oct 06, 2006
@maxwell


So, because many white folks don't like/love blacks, we should go ahead and fill our hearts with hatred toward all whites ? Are you going to raise your children to have hatred toward whites because "the so called white man doesn't love blacks" bearing in mind that all whites are not racist/prejudice ?
Your love for white people makes you blind, you love them so much you don't even love yourself. Automatically you are programmed that when you hear black people talking about how improtant the unification of black people is, you automatically view that as those black people are racist against white people.

Do you think Asian people are racist against everyone? If not, why don't you? They stick to their own and they are unified in terms of economics at least. They have the Asian dollars circulating in the Asian community's, not white community's, not black community's. As a matter a fact, white people by from the Asian, Black people buy from the Asians but Asians by from no one. Do we call Asains racist?

White people buy from Asians, white people buy from white people but they take from us (black people) or buy our goods for a little of nothing.

Black people buy from white people, black people buy from Asian people, black people buy from everyone else except for black people. This is the reason why the black dollar only circulates in the black community one time before it dissapears and re apears in the white and Asian community's. Now, something is wrong with that picture. This is the reason why we are not united because we value other people more than we value our self.

My preaching this is not a racist thing, my preaching this is not for all black people to hate white people or to hate anyone. Believe it or not, I do not hate anyone. I don't care what color you are, I will feed you if you are hungry. Please, do not let black unification in your mind mean hatred of white people. That is a terrible distortion for you to have in your mind.

Don't you find it interesting that when black people speak of uniting, that automatically you think that means we are racist towards white people but you don't think we are racist towards Asian, Hispanics etc. That alone shows that your thoughts have been terribly distorted.

Do not take what I say as an insult, take what I say as something to think about.

I don't like arguing with my people, I love you all and arguing will not get us any where. Don't hate me or this like me because I love you so much that I will tell the truth. If I am loving you, you shouldn't really care about me loving everyone else. That way of thinking is self sacrificing and the only ones we need to be sacrificing our self for is our children, they are th future.
RomanceRe: What Is Wrong With Dating Or Marrying An African American Man? by Sista(f): 7:49pm On Oct 06, 2006
@maxwell


My thinking was not premised on anyone else's, neither was it conceived out of ignorance. Please leave babyosisi out of this. My assessment of you is completely based on what you have been posting not just on this thread, but throughout this forum. You really need to detoxify yourself of hatred for white people through deliverance.
That is a lie. If you were telling the truth, you would have made that comment a long time ago that I (Sista) am a racist. Why would you wait until the last minute when your friend baby girl is backed up into a corner. Setting me up to get banned was her only option from escaping my continuing to make her look like the fool that she is.

It sure is funny how you chose to prove to Superman in this quote,

So you see @superman, I am not the only one who is of the view that Sista has hatred for whites. Like I told you, I have been following this thread from its inception and have arrived at my conclusion independently. I wonder why you did not defend her earlier on when this statement was made to Sista.
The same one you claimed to not be influenced by is the person you are referring to when you made that statement to superman.

On page 6, anyone can go and look back and they will see who said this in the below, the same person who said this is the person you claimed you were not influenced by.

Your words are there for all to read and if you read all the postings carefully there are several that see you and  anyone that thinks like you as a cancer.
They have all expressed their views,you need a time of reflection.
Hatred is a terrible emotion.
Where there is life,you yet have a hope.

and I'm yet to hear of a lucrative  business that does not need to borrow money from a bank probably headed bya white man,or made available to minorities by the same white man,a business that does not market to non blacks,not in a rental facility probably owned or leased by him.
You do need an education seriously,hopefully the school has no white teachers.
People like you are all mouth,you ain't at all tough.
Racist! even to your own you claim to love.
We can all read it for your heart speaks and spews venom in everything you write and you will not get far in life with such a terrible outlook.
You need change in your mind.
may the "white mans God" have mercy on you.
It sure is interesting how you thought you would be covering something up by not mentioning the name of the person who said that quote. are you that naive to not realize that all one has to do is go back and see for ones self? But, then again, when you only have knowledge of two pages and you have been influenced to believe what somone else view is based on those two pages, I guess all you can do is take the quote from the one you have been influenced by. You and Old baby girl are lazy. you flap your lips but provide no evidence. You will not provide proof that I am racist because you have no proof and you know it will be a waist of time to find some proof on me.

You Maxwell and old Baby girl, you both are dirty, you play tricks that desperate people play. I wouldn't be surprised if old Baby girl was not the one who sent you in here at the last minute to help her battle me. [size=15pt]It's going to take more than two wicked women with desperate tricks to bring me down.[/size]

By all means though, don't let me discourage you. If you are that determind, please proceed. I am up for the challenge.
RomanceRe: Reasons why guys must lie! by Sista(f): 7:14pm On Oct 06, 2006
@Sweetlove


I was shock,As caring as I am?Loving,Kind,honest,Handsum,and Goodfearing
You might be all these things but you are lacking common sense. Why would you bring your woman around a whole bunch of white women?

No woman can ever accept her man being surrounded by a lot of women. If your woman was black, I can see the problem she had with all those White women, white women can not be trusted because their behavior is foreign to the black woman. A Black woman always knows if her man is messing around with another black woman but it is hard to tell with white women what a white womans motive is for being friends with your black man.

Because white people in general cause problems all over the world, it is difficult for a black woman with a handsome black man to accept that he is only a friend with a white woman. What woman (your white female friends) would allow her self to always be around her male (male meaning you) freind and his girlfriend? That is not normal.

You have to tell the truth, what if the situation were reversed? what if it was your girlfirend with all those white male friends and she was always bringing you around them and was telling you they were only her friends?

Don't get me wrong, she should have left you if she did not trust you instead of sleeping with another man but the way people handle feelings of rejection is a mystery. Everyone does not handle the feeling of rejection the same way as you. Everybody is different and for that reason, the way that she handled her feelings of being rejected by you should not make her a bad woman.
RomanceRe: Can You Get Married To An Albino (afin) by Sista(f): 9:30pm On Oct 05, 2006
@kokoletz

Guys a blackman is a black, a white man is white but an Albino is CONFUSED.
But what do you think their confusion might be contributed to?

Put your self in their shoes.

Here it is your mommy is black and your father is black but you are not.

Really you are black but your just the result of to much black.

You don't feel that you are black because your mother and father as well as everyone around is repulsed by you.

The confusion may be due to abnormal behavior the mother shows towards that child as well as the father.
RomanceRe: Can You Get Married To An Albino (afin) by Sista(f): 7:20pm On Oct 05, 2006
@Somegirl

Anyway, I've seen a very sweet girl once, smooth pale skin, fine facial features, a good, thin body shape, long blond-yellowish hair (with a pinkish flower rubber to hold it together), a bright smile and smiling eyes. I'm sure nobody who sees her can be blind to her beauty!
Somegirl, you are right. If other Africans would treat these albinos as humans, they would be able to see the beauty of these African Albinos. Those African Albinos are still Africans no matter how yellow they get. Infact, if dark skinned Africans are not attracted to lighter skinned albinos, they should set up some kind of dating or matching for all albinos to date each other and have a family and work ethic like the rest of the Africans. Albinos should not be viewed as outcast.

Infact, I think the universe may be trying to tell Africa something about how they have been treating Albinos, their own people like outcast. This may be why Africa suffers at the hands of white people and the results of white colonization. Until African people can learn to love their own, no one is going to love and care for the people of Africa and the universe will continue to let the continent of African people suffer. African people will have to keep seeking refuge in the land of other people hence fourth not being able to reasonbly survive or make it in their own land, Africa.
RomanceRe: What Is Wrong With Dating Or Marrying An African American Man? by Sista(f): 6:12pm On Oct 05, 2006
@Maxwell

Sista

you must have a very bad breath/funky mouth odor by now as a result of your hatred for white people. I think you need deliverance
Dear Maxwell, it looks like this is the first time I have ever seen you in this discussion, that means that you are ignorant to any evidence that would lead you to say this to me. You shouldn't allow yourself to become victim to seeing two pages of a discussion and making a full judgment about any individual based on that. From the looks of it, it looks like you are allowing your self to be led by the same individual who takes advantage of other peoples ignorants, infact I will leave you the evidence that supports what I say.

The same individual you are being convinced by could not handle the heat and she resorted to this in the  quote below,

OK uche2nna,nwoke oma,I'll listen to you.       
k'am gbachi sista nkiti.
Achorom ka admin bannuom kam si ebea puo.
Ike nwanyi a a gwum
She was taking for granted of (what she thought) my ignorants  to the Igbo language. She also said the quote below, which again, clearly shows she gets a kick out of laughing at the ignorants, of AA people.

I tell the ignorant ones when they ask silly questions that the American embassy in Nigeria sits on the tallest tree in the jungle and is heavily guarded by lions and leopards.
Now that type of person is the one who is predjudice against her own people. I just tell the truth, no matter if it is about white people or black people. I don't try to keep people wallowing in their already ignorants, I tell them the truth and that is what I am trying to tell you right now. Never assume from two pages of a discussion that you see the whole picture. Would you want someone to assume something about you based on a little, or no evidence?

Think about that.
RomanceRe: When Will A Man Stop Lying? by Sista(f): 6:53pm On Oct 04, 2006
@Coco29

Ladies what is this we lie just as much as they do, it is just that we do it with class and we have our girl friends to back us up.

Like when you say you when out with one of ya girls, and rang her to say (if whats his face) call say that we went to this place and that, at this time and that.


roflmao
Come on Coco, you know when a woman resorts to lying it is usually do to her being lied to so many times. Of course when we women deside that we do not want to be true any more, it is usually temporary and when we do the lying, we are very good at it but that is after being lied to over and over.
RomanceRe: When Will A Man Stop Lying? by Sista(f): 6:37pm On Oct 04, 2006
@Sweetlove


A man will not stop lying but you can train him to think twice about lying by letting him see that you are not a fool. If you feel a man is lying, you have to call him on it but in a nice way. You have to let him know that you detect a flaw when you get the feeling he is lying.

Don't scream and yell, confront him lady like and maturely. Then give him some time to absorb what you and he just talked about. While you are giving him some time, do not call him, let him call you. If he calls you, it does not mean he is ready to stop lying, it could just mean that he likes your challenge.

As the relationship goes on, you will see and feel weather or not he is insincere or sincere. If he does not call you, that will mean that he is either waiting you out to come running back to him or that he does not want to deal with your challenge, if that is the case, do not run behind him, find someone else. Ultimately, if you continue to feel that he wants to keep questioning your intelligence, you will just need to leave him alone.

A man will only keep doing what you will let him do.
CultureRe: Inter-tribal Relationships by Sista(f): 6:27pm On Oct 04, 2006
@nostrings


i'm sorry i meant inter-tribal relationships.
I am so sorry that you have to suffer something like that. Our parents of today are still trying to hold on to the ways of our ancestors, I guess. Some of the traditions should still be used but not one such as do not date inter- tribally.

The only one all black people should be staying away from dating wise and marriage wise is white people. They are the ones who have done us harm. Your tribe is black and the person you like is black. When it comes time for us to fight and save our land, it will not matter and should not matter what tribe we are from because in the end, if the enemy wins, we all will be homeless. But, if we win, we will all continue together to occupy the same land, so we should learn to love each other.

It is hard to rebel against our parents when we respect our parents but isn't it only fare that our parents respect us too? They are not always going to be there. Some day they will be gone and we will be left alone? Therefore, we should be able to choose he we want to spend our time with, not our parents. As long as we do not abandon in our parents and disprespect them, they should love us anyhow.

I know your parents will still love you, they will be a little stubborn but in the end no matter what choice you make, they will still love you. Try to talk to them and give them a chance to communicate their concerns to you. Black people ultimately love each other no matter what, you have to believe that. I hope this advice has helped you out in some kind of way.

By the way, what tribe are you from, and what tribe is your friend from?
RomanceRe: What Is Wrong With Dating Or Marrying An African American Man? by Sista(f): 9:07pm On Oct 03, 2006
@Chinani

This is what Donzman said first.

If it is indeed Arabic and not African, doesn't that go to show how uninformed most AAs are concerning African culture?,
The way I took it, he was saying that All AA's know nothing about Africa and all of them are uniformed, so I was informing him when I said this,

You must be white, the name Donzman strikes me as a white name.

Everyone knows that Africa has been infiltrated several times. Only a white man would try to ignore that fact.

So called modern Africans, they don't even practice original African religion any more. The Africans who still live in the mountains and forest, they are the only ones who are still practicing the original African religion. Us so called modern Africans could more than likely learn a lot from them.
The part about my saying he must be white was because to me he says things an impostor might say and to me he, speaks differently. I can't see him neither can you. That is why I made it a point in another post I responded in to him to say that he was either white or brainwashed black. After i said what I said in the above, I also informed him that he is not that informed because many Africans have Arab names due to their Muslim religion.
RomanceRe: What Is Wrong With Dating Or Marrying An African American Man? by Sista(f): 8:52pm On Oct 03, 2006
@Babyosisi

@ sista yes,you have a score to settle with yourself,the white man and immigrants.
You have my utmost,deepest sympathy.
Good luck!!
Keep going with you lies Babyosisi, you still have provided no proof that I made general statements about all AA's or all Nigerians as you always seem to do. Again, where is your proof?


One last thing,do you really think most people have the time to read through the term paper analysis you post out here?
[size=20pt]If your motive was to attain true understanding and your motive behind that is because you really want unification between Nigerians and AA's, I would hope you would but I can't force you to do that. [/size]

However another response to that is the same thing I told you before, I had to write what I wrote for those who really want to understand and so they take out the time. You think reading a term paper is to much to do to show your sincere interest in wanting to gain understanding then I can tell that you really must not be doing anything but bumping your gums and flapping your lips when it comes to foot work needing to be done that will support bridging the gap between AA's and Nigerians. I heard you telling someone that you are old, maybe you need to let young people take care of bridging the gap between Nigerians and AA's because they have the strength and they dont' have the attitude do to lack of strength, that they should give up on each other. I hoped you had learned something from Uju shedding some lite but your phoniness prevailed.

Again, you don't really care about bridging the gap between AA's and Nigerians, you only care about bridging the gap between you and white peoples pockets and so you keep putting AA's down.

You take care, I am through with you and I hope you say nothing else to me again. Your logic is old fashioned and it's be done for many years.

If you do say anything to me again or say anything about me, be ready for me to respond. Even if you continue to make general statements about AA's, I will not respond to you but if you say something about me again, that will let me know that you are not through with me like I am through with you. i dont' back down from no one so if you come at me again, be ready for what ever happens.
CultureRe: Inter-tribal Relationships by Sista(f): 4:26pm On Oct 03, 2006
@nostrings


You mean inter-nationality? Because if he is black, and you are black, you two are the same race.

Do you mean your mother does not want you dating another black man who is from another tirbe?
RomanceRe: What Is Wrong With Dating Or Marrying An African American Man? by Sista(f): 4:11pm On Oct 03, 2006
@ Babyosisi


Here is where you jumped out of no where and later came back in with this. I don't see where specifically resonding to anyone either when you said this.

African Americans have a need to differentiate that they are not Africans,mistaking them for Africans is kind of embarrassing to them.
They are not Africans,Africans are some uncivilized ill mannered people running around naked with spears living in huts and sorrounded by a thick forest.

That is the average impression of Africa by non africans including African Americans.
You cannot imagine the disbelief  even in this day and age when I travel home and return with pictures showing houses and regular people like them.
I tell the ignorant ones when they ask silly questions that the American embassy in Nigeria sits on the tallest tree in the jungle and is heavily guarded by lions and leopards.
And you tell me that I am wounded?

This is what I respeonded back to you with in which you never gave any time to respond back too.


@Babyosisi



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African Americans have a need to differentiate that they are not Africans,mistaking them for Africans is kind of embarrassing to them.

Where have you met these kinds of AA's? Please tell us because you don't speak for all AA's


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They are not Africans,Africans are some uncivilized ill mannered people running around naked with spears living in huts and sorrounded by a thick forest

[b]For every stereotype, there are generalizations. Generally, a large amount of Africans do still run around in forest and mountains. Historically and generally, all Africans at one time did live in mountains and forest. For the ones who still live in those places, their homes are huts and they still use spears, there is nothing wrong with that. In fact, those Africans who still live in the mountains and forest, as long as outsiders are not bothering them, they do a lot better than us.

When you see an AA who is thinking that all Africans live in forest and mountains, you need to take advantage of that situation and educate that AA. Don't let your so called civilized ego think that what that AA thinks is an insult to you because those Africans still living in the forest are our brothers and sisters as well.

Instead, it would be nice to educate the AA's who still think this forest and mountain thing as generally all Africans. While teaching them, you can include that you and many other Africans do not live in the forest or mountains.

It would be a good idea to keep those pics with you at all times because during one of your spontaneous Education moments with an AA, your pictures can be used as a show and tell  [/b]


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That is the average impression of Africa by non Africans including African Americans.
You cannot imagine the disbelief  even in this day and age when I travel home and return with pictures showing houses and regular people like them.


All Africans are regular people, even the ones who still live in the mountains and forest.


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I tell the ignorant ones when they ask silly questions that the American embassy in Nigeria sits on the tallest tree in the jungle and is heavily guarded by lions and leopards

If you really do this, I am going to have to ask you. Why would you want to contribute to their already ignorants?
RomanceRe: What Is Wrong With Dating Or Marrying An African American Man? by Sista(f): 3:53pm On Oct 03, 2006
@Babyosisi

In proverbs,there is a saying,"a fool is always right in his own eyes".
Your writings potray the deep hatred within you.
I cannot help you.
No human can.
Your the fool Babyosisi.

Nairalanders don't need anyone to convince them of your type,you've read some of the responses and some are avoiding your venom.
They don't need anyone to convince them but, that is what you blatently, attempt to do.This topic was about a young girl asking for advice on dating or marrying an AA, your advice to her was [size=20pt]under no circumstances don't do it.[/size] I challenged you on that as well as everyone else who eluded that to this girl but no one was as over bearing as you in the advice giving department. [b]Even the young girl came in her self and said she understood me more so than you. You claim to had come around to agreeing with me because uju shed some lite but then you came in later on you couldn't help your self, [size=20pt]your true colors had once again thrown up and you came back into this same discussion talking bad about AA's, saying how they think all Continent born Africans are living in the bush and how you play with the ignorant ones by telling them the American Embassy in Nigeria sits on top of the tallest tree[/size].[/b]You are two faced and you think no on picks up on it. Your hatred towards your own people particularly AA people is venom-es and I was not going to let you get away with it.

About my being in America,I came here by choice with a plane ticket and a valid visa now a full fledged voting American and owe you no explanation whatsoever.
I can also return whenever and if ever I want to.
There are Mexican,Irish,British and German immigrants here.
There are also Nigerians,GET USED TO IT
That is what you don't seem to understand, I don't care about you being here, I want you to get all you can get as well as other Nigerians but my only problem with you is, you think because you been here for a while you know the story about why AA do certain things, certain things you don't agree with. When I as an African America born and bred in America try to explain it to you, you act like a self righteous pig who does not want to understand what I am saying because America has been so good to you so, why hasn't America been good to he AA's who make all these terrible mistakes? I explained that to you but your too blind and self righteous to open your mind and put your self in someone else's shoes.

Your words are there for all to read and if you read all the postings carefully there are several that see you and  anyone that thinks like you as a cancer.
They have all expressed their views,you need a time of reflection.
Hatred is a terrible emotion.
Where there is life,you yet have a hope.
[size=20pt]Prove it Babyosisi, I keep asking you to do that, where are the quotes Babyosisi? you keep saying all this shyt about me and you provide no proof[/size]. It is like I said, you are to lazy to prove the lies your telling because you are lying and there is nothing to prove except for your self rigthous ego.

and I'm yet to hear of a lucrative  business that does not need to borrow money from a bank probably headed bya white man,or made available to minorities by the same white man,a business that does not market to non blacks,not in a rental facility probably owned or leased by him.
Like I said, you been in America for a while and you think you know it all. This goes to show how powerful you really think white people are. This also goes to show how you highly regard white people and disregard AA people.

The house I run my daycare from is owned by my grandmother a black woman. The money used to start my daycare is money I saved from when I used to be a cosmetologist. The money I made from being a cosmetologist came from black clients. The money I make in my childcare comes from Blacks and Hispanics, no white man or woman in my business. The woman who gave me the license to run my daycare, she work for a white agency because there are no black agency's that do licensing but the woman who issued me my license, she is black. Again, you don't know what you are talking about.

You do need an education seriously,hopefully the school has no white teachers.
People like you are all mouth,you ain't at all tough.
I am a full time night class student and yes my teachers are white but I know how to play the game while maintaining my dignity and not having to kiss whitey's azz. White teachers can not do anything to me but teach me their lies. I learn the lies and then I regurjitate them after I  receive the degrees I need to get in order to get ahead. That is what you do Babyosisi, you play the game but you have become the game, you have become consumed by your role playing. Not I , not going to let that happen to me.

Racist! even to your own you claim to love.
Just because I said what I said about Condaleeza? I tell the truth Babyosisi. The truth is the truth. What I said about her is no different from what you have been saying about AA people except you generalize AA people. I only talked about one lady, Condaleeza and now you use that one instance to refer to me as a racist against my own people. You are so weak, you find the stupidest things to make your points with. You are like a repetitive whisper falling on deaths ears. You are not being heard.

We can all read it for your heart speaks and spews venom in everything you write and you will not get far in life with such a terrible outlook.
Now you speak for everyone? You seem to be the main one I'm having a problem with. You want to control my thinking and the thinking of everyone else. [size=20pt]That is why you gave Uju absolute advice, you gave her no room to think for herself.[/size] Again, your a self righteous phony pig.

You need change in your mind.
may the "white mans God" have mercy on you.
You mean I need to be like you and worship the ground white people walk on? never that Babyosisi
RomanceRe: What Is Wrong With Dating Or Marrying An African American Man? by Sista(f): 6:40am On Oct 03, 2006
@Chinani


Sista are you being a hypocrite?

At first you were defending yourself & the right to define yourself w/ the term "African".

Now, you're trying to strip Donzman of his "African" status.

That doesn't sit well w/ me -- it's hypocritical. Who are you say what ideas are African or not?
Chinani, what are you talking about? If you are going to say things like this to anyone, you have to use a quote to support your claim. I have no idea what you are talking about and therefore I can not give you a response to defend my self with. That is not fare. I think you need to get back here and give a quote that explains why you are saying this to me.
RomanceRe: What Is Wrong With Dating Or Marrying An African American Man? by Sista(f): 5:52am On Oct 03, 2006
@acidrop

Uju began this topic asking the question.

"What is wrong with dating or marrying an AA?"

People gave her advice saying she should not marry an AA the ones who gave her that advice were mostly Nigerians while all Nigerians did not agree.

Some people gave her advice saying basically that nothing is wrong with dating or marrying an AA but that as far as marrying one, she has along ways to go before thinking of marrying anyone and for now she should just concentrate on her education.

By the way, the girl who was asking the advice is a beautiful young Nigerian girl who's father disaproves of her dating an AA.

Now the discussion has been led off track because some people were making generalizations about AA's and giving absolute advice to this young girl based on the generalizations.

Me being AA I had to set those people straight.

Now the discussion is no longer about the topic, it is about something else and you will have to figure that out.

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