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@Kaecy5

and for the whitty
sista and browneyes i really give it up to u because i sure feel u any day. the white man have brain washed a lot of blacks to even forget that they r blacks infact i so pity those nigerians and soem carribeans that are whitty wannna bees  because the white man would dump u after he is through with u

Thank you for pointing out all that you pointed out in your post. We need more people like you.

The thing is, in nairaland, almost all the black people you see writing words across their screen in defense of white people, they are the ones who have white counterparts peeping over their shoulders as they defend their white counterparts. When a black person is married to a white person, that black person spends the rest of his life trying to prove over and over his love for his or her white counterpart.

By nature, white people are very insecure and black people who are with them pick this up aboput their counterpart. By nature black people will go the mile for the ones they love and so, the result is for the black person, a lifetime battle trying to convince his or her self that they made the right choice in selecting their white counterpart.

I feel sorry for them but if the heat gets to hot, they can always return home. No matter what they do, they will still be my brother or sister. Unfortunately, they would probably never return home becuase their ego's probably won't let them. For black people, we don't like it when we fail, and that is a part of the problems we are having now. Unfortunately at this time we don't have what it takes to forgive ourself, which clearly shows in our inabilty to love our self.

@Delf747

Delf, for those who don't know, You and I already had our past beef. I thought you and I were through. The very fact that you waist your time attempting to giving me advice, clearly shows how much I must be on yours as well as everyone else's mind. Have you looked through this topic? They love me, and from the looks of it, you seem to love me too .

Spoilt children do not care about what others think.

Why do you bother? You know I don't care about what you think.

You don't know  me so you don't know if I am spoiled. Your white, and white peoples idea of spoiled is totally different from black peoples spoiled.

Adults should care as they are meant to be responsible.

Again, you don't know me, so you no nothing about my responsibility. All you know is my words in nairaland. What would I have to be responsible for in nairaland? Please. Why do you bother to try and give me advice? Your waisting your precious time.

You need to go a few post up and read what Uju said. She is only 16 and she gave the better advice for this topic  than you adults did.

PS, Their is a difference between saracasm and sounding like a child. Have you ever heard a child express sarcasm?


@To all, I see I am still on your mind I knew you were not up for the challenge I presented. I, Sista, has obviously struck one of your nerves. Perhaps I may have struck your conciousness nerve.

@Donzman

I'll rather not be talked about than be talked about in relation to hate (like you are being talked about.

First of all,  I am not a child, so what people think about me does not affect me.

Second of all, I know that what I do and preach is not hate and I am secure with what I know. I really don't care what you or anyone else thinks. 

Thirdly like Uju said, what is all the big fuss really all about? I mean, what are the chances of you people ever seeing me or knowing me? Obviously, the people complaining are people with white counterparts and it hurts them that I hit a nerve.

If I hit your nerve, that is not my problem. If you are secure with your choices, what I say should not bother you to the point that I am being talked about everyday.

If you're being discussed in relation with something good, bravo, if not, you have to check yourself and your value systems.

I value me, and my people, that has already been checked


PS, I challenge everyone to stop talking about Sista. I dare you.

Not everyone will always agree with a true revolutionist. A True revolutionist is always rembered in the words of memeory by the people who talk about him.

@Browneyes

Sista,
tell me have you killed any Whites for being white?
Have you prevented a white person from achieving their goals in life simply because you are in the position to do so?
If so Shame on you
If not, you are certainly not a racist.

With that i have to love ya and leave ya.

Nite.   hugs

Nite and hugs to you to sister.

Oh no, would not even do those things to white people, I am black African decent black and naturally, doing things like that to any kind of person is just not in my heart or nature.

I tell you what I would do though if I had the power.  I would make Pan-Africanism a reality, instead of something that is just talked about.

What do you think, do you think the Pan-Africanism movement will ever start and succeed? I believe a long time ago when Pan- Africanism first came on the seen. Some African Americans and Afro Caribbeans, they relocated back to Africa and they now reside in Sierra Leone, unfortunately they were only a hand full and by now, they are probably trying to get back to America or Europe, like the rest of the Africans.

@To All

When the researchers came up with the Aids Virus in the first place, they already had a cure.

They are most likely not going to introduce the cure until they get rid of the people they were trying to get rid of with the AIDS virus in the first place.

Or, they may introduce the cure if their kind of people start dying wide spread but even then, the cure will be a secret that will stay a secret until they get rid of the people they are trying to get rid of.

@Browneyes

Have you read the 'The Isis Papers'?

I read some of it that book, not all of it. I had a slight problem with that book but I read enough to see where she was going. I fully agreed with the psychology of white people that was being talked about in that book. That book is what I used to parallel with Melanin. White people are studying Melanin a lot these days you know?

The "Isis Papers" has made me look at white people from a psychological perspective. White people have been looking at black people from a psychological perspective without taking into account what they did to black people. It's about time white people be objective about who they are and why they do what they do. Some man, a white man wrote a book on white people and their psychology, when I get a hold of th title of that book I will let you know. In that book, that white man tells the truth.
I saw skimages of the book in a visual documentary that was presented.

@Browneyes

I was trying to say being able to interact with Caucasians without swapping bodily fluids doesnt make one a racist.

Oh yes of course.

But don't be caught saying that because you will still be view as a racist, take it from sista

I swear, people just use the word racist so casually, they don't really know what a racist is.
Asian people are admired, and not looked at as racist, and they on a large scale will not marry or date outside their race.

Tell those casual users of the word racist what white racist people did during Jim Crow and slavery. Black people were not even considered Human, do you hear me! They don't know what racist people do. People like my self, as I said before, I do discriminate against white people but discrimination is just a form of critical thinking. My critical thinking allows me to see whitey for who he and she is, and the truth is the truth. But racist people, they have the power to make the lives of the people miserable by using the power they have. Me, I don't have no power like that, all I got is my mouth And if I had the power, being that I am a black person, it is naturally not in my nature to do to white people what they have done to me and my people.

@Browneyes

If only Africans  knew what Melanin was all about,  That is why the Caucasians need to mix with us. Even the British Royal family has strands of African DNA running through them enabling them to survive through their interbreeding.

Yes, Melanin is also the reason why white women Adore black men so much. White women want brown baby's. Outside of the fact that they also want that black love. Nothing is better than black love. White men, same thing. I wouldn't mind them wanting our men if they had men that we wanted White men are so Not just in looks but in their psycholgy as well

It is so clever how white people pretended to be hating us all these years, now they subtly send out messages that they accept us and we fall for it not realizing it was a set up from the beginning. White people always wanted to be with black people but due to their fear of rejection do to lack in melanin, they forced their way into our lives. The result is, black people now hate their self and they feel that white people are doing them a favor to even want to be bothered with them, now black people willingly sacrifice their self for white people. Verses a forced sacrifice.

@Browneyes

While I find some Caucasians are ok to engage with on a daily basis, i don't feel the urge to get intimate with them. I am strongly attracted to African men, the darker the berry the sweeter the juice.

I am attracted to African men as well, no man can take their place. I have to be clear about what I mean when I say African man, I mean African people all over the world.

I also do not care about being intimate with white men nor do I care for intimate female bonding conversation with white women. I brought this part up because I am not sure why you said the intimate part about white people? I am thinking it may have to do with my talking to Radiant or Somegirl. i may be wrong but If I am tell me.


PS, when you said you read the post, were you talking about the post I said to go back and look at?

now I'm really not sure if you were responding to me

@Browneyes

Dark skinned Asians are the south eastern asians who have not been mixed with Aryan or Caucasian blood, they are known as Dravidians who were descendants of Africans.

Now I did read something bout that in the book "Blacked out Through White Wash" But what I read was, the casting system was a white influence introduced to Asians. From what I read, a long time ago, Asians knew they were the descendants of Africans, it showed in their art. They had statues of people with Nappy hair and wide noses with wide lips but the statues also had these Dravidian features as far as the eyes were concerned. At one time, Asians even worshipped a black Buddha.

But until the introduction of the casting system by whites, this is when Asians began to not like who they were, discriminating against who they came from, Darker skinned Asians. Sound familiar?

If you notice, no one does casting better than white people. Just look at the world, white people have created a world wide casting system.

Did you see what I said about melanin? Melanin has a lot to do with this subject.

@Mochafella

Mind yaself ooo . By the time you are done there will be nobody left to unify.

You so funny Mocha!


@Browneyes

You should go and take a look at what Radiant said to me on the first page, you would think she was all for Black unification, but if you read on, you will see how her true colors quickly came out.

Follow and read the conversation between Somegirl Radiant and me. You will see something very interesting.

@Browneyes

Radiant and Somegirl are white?

I know for sure Somegirl is white but I can only speculate from Radiants profile and the things she says, she is also white or a brainwashed black.

Asians engaged in the enslavement of Africans before the Caucasians. If you look at the
Caste system, Asians regard Africans as untouchables. Asians enslaved Europeans at some point but due to the Europeans barbaric nature they were never enslaved again by other races.

My point was, white people go all over the world, they want the world to see them as God.

Thank you for that information though. My understanding was the caste system was for Dark skin Asians not African descendants. Could you lead me to where you got your info from on that? Because I researched that fully, at least I thought I did. Always willing to learn so please enlighten me some more and show me where you got your info from on the Asian casting system.

Oh by the way Africa is being recolonised again and looks like nothing is being done about it. That is why i urge Africans to accept one another and help build a stronger nation. i.e stop the mixing of genes and learn to love the kinky hair, chocolate skin and luscious lips.

Although certain parts of Africa supposedly received independence, it never seemed like it did. In my opinion, they never came up from under colonization. Anytime white Christan missionary's continued to go to Africa, White people never had the intensions on leaving Africans alone.

It's called spiritual enslavement, when your oppressor becomes your deity.

@Uju4eva

I know that I am no longer involved inside this thread. But I have a little insight, why are we sitting here talking so much about white people and arguing about people we will never see in real life. If they don't get you, they never will. Let them think what they are going to think. It's funny thinking, that there are actually people spending their time and energy to surpress their powers to explain on behalf of their opinion. It's just hilarious. Calm down guys, it's not that serious,

Now Uju, you have the best observation out of them all. Yours is the best because it hits the core of all this. I been peeping in here to see what they are saying but as you can see, I have not been saying much back lately. You my sister hit the hammer on the nail the last time before the nail finally went in.

These people are enjoying talking about me. My grandmother used to tell me. Don't worry about when they are talking about you, worry when they are not talking about you.

I obviously pushed some buttons because look at this discussion. Baby I'm the Celebrity here and Uju4eva is the star.

Uju is the good character and I (Sista) am the ugly villan


All Revolutionist worth talking about strike the cords of other people. You guys will always remeber me, and for that, I will live forever live.

@Browneyes

Why do you get worked up over conversations with people who don't want to listen?

I do this because of the observers. Even if the person I am talking to is not listening, the observers are. I would like for them to learn also. Through my persistants, they (the observers) will grow courage.

You have to be patient as not everyone will wake up at the same time. When their time comes then they will understand, until then just say your piece and stay silent.

If you go back and read. Radiant spoke to me first because she read something I wrote that she had a problem with. I can't help that I respond to those I see need responding to. Plus there is a method to my madness

I personally don't feel the Caucasians 'saved' me in fact i know we saved them but have not been given credit where due. In fact you will find many Africans believe they cannot live without the Caucasians because they are not aware of our greatness.

I know we saved them and you know we saved them but they (white people) will never admit that. And brainwashed black people think that white people saved us.

Instead of talking about the Caucasians, you should try to educate them about our history as many believe our history began when the Caucasians came and 'civilised' us.

Oh, but I have tried. The only way black people and white people will ever be able to begin to bridge the gap is to keep it real and be sincere about change. White people don't like it when people tell them the truth about their self, they especially don't like black people telling them the truth. You see what somegirl tried to pull? Then when I caught her in the act, not able to help her self being that she is white, she then tried to do an Asian on me. She tried to pretend like I misunderstood her because her English is not good.

@To All

I understand what you're trying to fight, but the black community don't suffer only this problem. It's a problem the world  including whites, Asians and Arabs face too.

We cannot all stand each other 'cause we are different people!!!

This is the BS only white people try to push.

The only one on this planet who has shown their self to be different is white people. They are the only ones who travel around the world to commit atrocity's on people of color. No person of color has ever tried to colonize Europe or Enslave Europe's native occupants. White people are the only ones who lack color (melanin), making them unable to create Black and brown baby's.  All groups of people on this planet have melanin except for white people. This means white people are the total opposite of everyone else. White people are the only ones who are different. White people are the minority but, they make it a point to distinguish everyone else from each other. Lets talk about how different white people are from every race (besides white) and ethnic group on this planet.

Asians, Arabs, Native Americans, Indians, Africans and Aborigines. All of these people have melanin, they are people of color. You know what else these people have in common? They have all had run ins with the white people which led to mass killings, beatings, slavery, rape, stealing of land, colonization and the list grows. None of these people ever went to Europe and did any of these things to white people.


That is the truth. You can get mad and angry with me, but madness and anger will not get rid of the truth.

@Sweetlove

there's a special quality about you. You have a magical way of reaching inside me
and filling my heart with hope and happiness. You make me feel like I can accomplish anything.
Thank you, friend. I couldn't get by without you.

Sweets, I appreciate you testing all this beautiful poetry on me but if you keep posting your nice poems in here, you may get some trouble with publishing rights.

@Radiant

If you really liked your continent, why are u in the US?

That, is what I am trying to get you and all the other fools to see. I would love to live somewhere in Africa but people like you do not advocate black unification so if I went back to Africa, I would not be accepted by my people. white man screwed it all up. He has mad it so that my own people refer to me as an Akata. Also, I don't see you any continent born Africans why are they leaving Africa and relocating to places like Europe, Asia and the USA if they love their continent so much. Isn't it interesting how I am trying to get to Africa and they are running from Africa? I can only say this to that. The white man is also behind that.

Listen, you have no point whatsoever and believe me, you better thank your stars for the white people.Take it or leave it!

I better be thankful to white people? White people are the devil, not all of them but most of them. I will never be thankful to the stars for white people. I will never thank them for enslaving my people. I will never thank white men for raping my foremothers and placing unwanted white seeds into their wombs. I will never thank the stars for White people indirectly taking over Africa colonizing them and pitting Africans against each other. I will never thank whitey for causing me to reside in a place that is foreign to me. What kind of idiot are you? You have shown that you have no heart and no compassion for what me and my people have gone trhough, you should be very happy with your self.



You are just as nuts as the rest of them and from your profile, I know you are white person. Either that or you are a brainwashed black person.

@Sweetlove


When I saw this topic in my mailbox, I new it was your thread.

Sweetlove, are you a Libra or Aries?

"If a woman plays with her hair while she's talking to you, she's signaling that she's interested."

Sweet, what tyoe of femail does this count for? Black women usually do not like you to play in their hair and they usually don't play with their hair.

"If a woman sways her hips while she's walking, it means that she's signaling sexual availability."

For me, when I do this, it usually means I am feeling good about my self and it shows in my body language eminating from my hips. Or it could mean I have a man in my life that is giving it to me so good that I just feel like a woman no one can touch, and that shows in my hips swaying.

"If a woman makes and keeps eye contact with you three times in a row, it means that she wants you to approach her and start a conversation."

Now this is all the way true. Some men don't get this though

@Sweetlove

Hi wonderful woman, @sista,You heal My wounds and Made me realize My past Mistake In a Relationship which i once thought I was perfect.So I Think I Have found a Real friend In you.

It is always a pleasure to hear your wondeful words of poetry. i know you are trying to get to me with your poetry.

I must say, it's working

@Radiant

To be honest with you, whites treat black people the way they do because of people like you.

White people would never had a chance to treat me or my people any kind of way if they did not force their way into the continent of Africa.

You sound so stupid, to subjest such a thing.

White people are justified in how they have killed, colonized, stole and enslaved is basically what you you just admitted to.

I knew you were that type of person, that is why I distinguished the type you may be when I asked you to explain to me what Somegirl was trying to do.

@oneozi


Yes this is true but how do we wake up the Zomibies?


Do you see how the Zombies in this discussion practically threw me to the wolves?


Ps, where is your post?

@Radiant

@Sista, abeg enough of the anti-white campaign. The way black people can't stand their fellow blacks is also the same way white people can't stand some of their fellow whites.Abi you never knew this one

Anti white? You mean Pro Black?

And yes, I did know this but with white people, it is hard to tell the good ones, that is why you have to treat them in a very discerning way.

Like Somegirl. I was talking to another sister about what white people do to people of color and I was not talking to somegirl. Somegirl saw what I was telling the sister about white people and out of no where Somegirl asked me this below.

Sista, have you ever talked with Igbo people about other Nigerian "tribes"? Ask them what the Hausa and Yoruba have done to them and you might be suprised!

Now you tell me what I am supposed to think about her attempting to inform me of what I already knew about my people? What was she trying to convey?

In my opinion, she was trying to refocus me away from the evil white people committed and still commit on people of color while redirecting my attention to thinking that my own people are my enemy more so than white people. And, she was being tit for tat. Not very becoming of a white person who supports the unification of black people.

If my observation was incorrect, than you share with me what  you think she was trying to do?

You can go back to the first page of this topic and read the discussion between Somegirl and I, and you will see that I am not making this up.

Then again Radiant, if you are not a black woman or man and or not an objective white person, you will not be able to admit or even see below the surface what I see.

@Sweetlove



Sweetlove, you know that I am a sucker for charm?


Is this why you say all these wonderful things to me?

@ Sweet love


Sweetlove, what are you up to?


Your making a topic a day



Are you writing a book?


By the way, I missed you

@Laudate


Thanks for sharing those marriages, that was really interesting.

@OMOGE

But my mom parents are from qualle (i don't think i spelled that rite) but my mom was born and raised in lagos but u now bak in the day  they say were your parents are from thats were u from but my mom cosiders herself a qualle person and lagos child but my mom married my dad and his from ondo state

No disrepsect but, it sounds like your parents are a little hypocritical. It looks like your mother herself is mixed up with a few tribes her self so how come she would not be open to a AA aka Akata? I understand them not wanting you to marry an Oigbo but not the African American. Your dad is not from the same place as your mother but they are both black people born in the same continent, that's cool.

I can see though that your parents views must have something to do with their ignorants of African American people, being that they refer to them as Akata. Wild cat, or African with a little sugar. That's pretty discrminating against a people who share the same ancestors as you.

@laudate

Oh, I agree! Love alone cannot withstand any pressure in marriage. And it doesn't matter if the couple are from the same ethnic background or if they grew up living on the same street. Tolerance, understanding, open communication, frank and full disclosure as well as patience, compassion, respect etc. are vital. It doesn't matter if the couple comes from the same district or if they are from different continents. Both parties need to have the same mind, for their relationship to work.

Yes, they do have to have the same mind but how does one really know that two people have the same mind? In this case, isn't only time will tell?

@Somegirl

I mentioned my command of English exactly ONCE to you. "To keep trying" means that you persist in something, that you try to do it over and over again.

In response to this, read your quotes below.

Sista, cool down, you've misinterpreted me.

Maybe, I don't express myself well because English is not my language. However, even if I make mistakes concerning grammar and/or vocabulary, it does not change what I WANT to say.

Then how would there be any mistakes in what you say? Sounds contradicting.

Sista, that is your interpretation but it is wrong.

You mentioned your English skills exactly once, but all the other excuses were centered around your so called bad English skills. I know you know what it means to say something a million times but each time to say it different, sweet heart, that is what you were doing in the above quotes. You tried to convince me that because of your English skills so called not being that good, I may have misinterpreted you. Each time you attempted to make me think that, you still never bothered to supply an explanation for why you brought up those fights? If my interpretation was wrong, all I am saying is, help me understand what your reason was for bringing up those fights between the Hausa, Igbo and the Yoruba. You keep evading that. You don't seem to want to begin to touch that. What are you afraid of?

Although you seemed to be civil in the Albino discussion, the only problem I am having with you at this point was how you saw it fit to bring up the fights between the Hausa, Igbo and the Yoruba, during a time when I was talking to a sister about an expereince she and I share concerning white people. 


You are right, what I should have said was, you kept trying to convince me that my interpretation of what you said was wrong do to your English skills. Yet and still, you never supplied an explanation for why you brought up the fights between the Yoruba, Igbo and the Hausa after I had mentioned the terrible things that white people do to people of color. I can only conclude that you were being tit for tat, not very becoming of a White person who is all for the unification of black people. My conclusion is due to your not providing a sensible explanation outside the fact that you think I misunderstood you because of your English. I say Baloney.

I mentioned my command of English exactly ONCE to you. "To keep trying" means that you persist in something, that you try to do it over and over again. "Trying to o convince" means that you try to persuade somebody, to make somebody agree with you. All I did was to make a suggestion as to why we might misunderstand each other.

As you can see in the above quotes, you made three suggestions which all eluded the same thing over and over. I misunderstood you because of your so called weak English skills. Again, Baloney

Sista, because of your habit to twist things around,

You don't even know me, you just encountered me in the Albino topic. You are just piggy backing off of what other people say about me in Nairaland. It is helpful that those other people you piggy back from and hind behind happen to be black.

After all, if my own people have a problem with me, and the white girl feels the same way, the issue concerning me is not about the fact that I present a plausible case against you. The issue is now, I (Sista) must have a problem. Clearly, reversed discrimination coming from people who accuse me of being a racist. When, all I am really doing is the same thing you and other black people in nairaland are doing to me, Discriminating.

Hmm, very Interesting.

@Chinani


I keep telling Somegirl that her English is just fine. She keeps trying to convince me that her English is not fine.

@Somegirl

And why did you have to bring in the whites?

You keep evading my question, why? I see right through you.

I was talking to a fellow sister about an experience she and I share, not you. Now I really see your reason for why you brought up the fights between the Hausa, Igbo and Yoruba. You brought it up to distract me and that girl away from what white people do and continue to do to people of color.
You wanted to convince us that the enemy are our own brothers and sisters.

The topic was never abouts the whites before you mentioned them.

I told you in my last post, if my interpretation was wrong, for you to explain to me, just why it was, you felt the need to bring up the fights between the Hausa, Igbo and Yoruba. You keep coming back trying to convince me that there was a flaw in your English and that I misinterpreted you. Yet you still have not explained why you brought up those fights?

I don't want to hear anything else about your English. If you can not tell me your motive behind bringing up the fights between the Igbo Yoruba and the Hausa, don't even bother responding back to me.

I will just keep what I interpreted you to be eluding, it seems more sensible than there was a flaw in you English.

@somegirl

Do you want to tell me what I want to say with my posts? Maybe, I don't express myself well because English is not my language. However, even if I make mistakes concerning grammar and/or vocabulary, it does not change what I WANT to say.

Your English was just fine and again I didn't misinterpret you. I know what you were trying to do. There is absolutely no excuse for brining up the fighting between the Yoruba, Igbo and Hausa at a time that I was telling another sister about what White people have done to black people. Your aim was to get us to look away from white people as the enemy and look at our fellow brothers as the enemy. Or you tell me, why did you bring up the fighting between the Igbo Hausa and Yoruba's as soon as I finished talking about what white people have done to black people.? Why did you do that sense you want to pretend that I am wrong about what you were attempting to do.

No. Tell me where I denied colonialism, slavery and exploitation?

I am going to take for granted that you are really naive to what you were doing, although I highly doubt it.

To answer your question, you denied it when you tried to redirect me from what white people have done to black people by asking me this question below.

Sista, have you ever talked with Igbo people about other Nigerian "tribes"? Ask them what the Hausa and Yoruba have done to them and you might be surprised!

It was very subtle what you were doing.

But, I will give you a chance to expalin what was your motive behind that?

You said it was to inform me of what other Igbo people have told you and this makes you sad but why ask me this question when I was trying to get the fellow sister to see what white people have done to the entire continent of Africa. Why?