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RomanceRe: What Is Wrong With Dating Or Marrying An African American Man? by Sista(f): 9:46pm On Oct 08, 2006
@ EastnEuSis


Sista, the only thing I don't like about you is the fact that you don't accept the truth about the African Americans of today, the kind life they chose to live this days is not the style of life of somebody who's got any atom of family value, you African Americans always claim you have brother hood, but when you see your African brothers, what brother hood do you show them?. the African Americans of today would rather help a white man than help there own African brothers, they would instead talk them down, but if one would say it now, you would say is not so cause you never accept the truth, and this is what I don't like about your character.
AA's ain't the only group of black people who are at fault for doing those kinds of things.

Who said I don't accept the things AA's do, have you been keeping up with this discussion? I don't think so. I call it how it is, white or black, AA or Nigerian. If you are doing things to black people and to yourself as a black person that is not right, I don't care who you are, I will call you on it. You need to really go back and do a lot of reading before you draw that conclusion about me.


EastnEusis, the problem with your statement is you are generalizing. I know you are angry with some AA's who do the things you are talking  about. However, we should not be pointing fingers. Nigerians have many flaws as well but I will not be waisting my time trying to compare the Bad ways of AA's to the Bad ways of Nigerians. We are all messed up in some kind of way. Bottom line we need each other. We are waisting to much valuable time pointing fingers. Not all AA's do those kinds of things. The only reason why it seems like all AA's do those kinds of things is because the entire continent of Africa outnumbers AA's. The thing is, we are all Black and or of African descent which ever you prefer.  

Lets not do this anymore, we are reapting the white mans plan, divide and rule. he is ruling while we stay divided and therefore conquered.
RomanceRe: What Is Wrong With Dating Or Marrying An African American Man? by Sista(f): 9:30pm On Oct 08, 2006
@To all

Now all of a sudden they are both on line.


I am pretty sure she has had one of her cousins or firends sign in for her under the other name.
RomanceRe: What Is Wrong With Dating Or Marrying An African American Man? by Sista(f): 9:17pm On Oct 08, 2006
@ to all

I see Sista has met her match, someone that actually has the time to match her post for post. I believe we all knew Sista was prejudiced against whites but for whatever reason, she keeps denying it anyway.
If you really believe this, you are blind.

What this girl is doing is nothing but a desperate ploy to make me look bad because I saw her and exposed her a long time ago.

Everyone with good sense should know that as the thread moves on, people will forget the past. Forgetting the pass or never dealing with the past creates confusion. This girl is confusing you guys. You should read for your self and see what really happend hear because i am afraid you all have clearly missed something.

Infact I wish this thread would get locked that way you guys could spend time catching up on your reading if is that important to you.

Maxwell is Babyosisi in disguise, they are never on line at the same time and Maxwell is doing the same trick as Babyosis was doing when I had her up against the wall.

I forgot about this thread a long time ago as you can see but I really hurt Maxwell AKA Babyosisi and she is out to get me. I keep telling her I have nothing to hide. You can't expose something that was never hidden.
CultureRe: Inter-tribal Relationships by Sista(f): 9:07pm On Oct 08, 2006
@Somegirl


You speak of THE whites having done and still doing harm to THE whites. Does that include the unborn white embryo? Does that include the white baby? The white toddler? The white child? The white teenager? The white adult? The white elder? When does it start?
I forgot to deal with this part.


It begins with white people period. White people are inferior to the world. They look around and see that they have no color like everyone else has. That is where it begins. White people need to be thankful to God for making them the way God made them but instead, they are angry with God, they feel that God has cheated them. This is what white people need to deal with. This does not apply to all white people but it does apply to most of them seeing as how they have completly taken over the world.
CultureRe: Inter-tribal Relationships by Sista(f): 8:43pm On Oct 08, 2006
@Sweetlove


Hola sista,Come Esta? Donde de estas Ahora?
Aqui estoy, Sweetlove.
CultureRe: Inter-tribal Relationships by Sista(f): 8:38pm On Oct 08, 2006
@somegirl


Sista, cool down, you've misinterpreted me. I did not say that black people should fight each other.
I didn't misinterpret you, you misinterpreted your self. You were eluding that forget about what white people have done to the entire continent of Africa, look at what Africans do to their self. You tried your best to be subtle about it but I know the cleverness of white people so that subtleness does not work with me.

When I asked you whether you've talked to some Igbo about the other Nigerian ethnicities, I did so because I have heard a lot of insults (directed at THE Hausa and THE Yoruba) from a FEW of them and it has shocked me.
Again, I was not even talking to you, i was talking to a fellow sister and you came in asking me, trying to confuse and dumb found me me by asking me did I know about how certain groups of African people fight each other. I don't need you to keep reminding me of what my people do to each other? Lets talk about how your people infiltrated these fights going on between black on black.

You speak of THE whites having done and still doing harm to THE whites. Does that include the unborn white embryo? Does that include the white baby? The white toddler? The white child? The white teenager? The white adult? The white elder? When does it start?
What you don't seem to realize is, you people have a different type of psychology. Look around this world, white people have practically colonized or attempted to colonize everyone with their ideals. Those they could colonize or beat into submission, if they could not turn them into slaves, they killed them. Your people have gone around the world and still to this day do these things to people of color.

I am not saying that there are no good white people but the fact is, it is hard to know. White people are like a barrel of snakes, the snakes that can't do you any harm, they are on the bottom of the barrel, but all the Vipers, Anacondas and snakes like them are on the top. Who would be fool enough to try and reach down to the bottom to get one of the good snakes? I can think of many black men who have been killed for loving a so called (good one)  white woman. Answer me this, why would a white woman marry a black man during a time when she knows he could be killed? Is that love, or is it selfishness? On the other hand, what would make a black man marry a white woman at a time he could be killed for doing that? I tell you what, brainwash. The type of brainwash that tells you you will be accepted as long as you have a white woman. The kind of brainwash that tells you white women are the most beautifulest on this planet. The kind of brainwash that tells you the white way is the best way. This is why black people need to love their self first before we can love other people. It is not the time for us to be mixing. Other wise, as long as we do not love our self, we will continue to sacrifice our self for the ones who need us to make them feel more than loved. The head honcho of the world, white people.  

And now tell me how is that different from an Igbo saying "the Yoruba are monsters who have and still are doing us harm"?
Again, you keep harping on this, what are you trying to say or tell me that I don't already know?

Again, let's talk about your people and what they do to everybody including their self
CultureRe: Inter-tribal Relationships by Sista(f): 7:57pm On Oct 08, 2006
@Chinani


@Sista I see where you were coming from w/ your 2nd post. However I always wonder why you speak more than necessary. You make a point, then you overshadow your point but letting people draw you into quarrels (about white people etc.) I don't know, I don't know.
I never speak more than necessary. Only for those who meet me half way and see things the way that I do, to them I am speaking more than necessary, think about it, they already know what I am about.

I am speaking for those who still need to hear what I am saying, they are the ones who don't know.

I have been complimented by other naiaraland members for being so thorough. Being as thorough as possible is one of my weaknesses.

However, you do have a point about my be driven into quarrels, at least that is how it appears.

That is why I have aqquired a new method, I will not respond to people who are clearly trying to do that. As you can see, I have chosen not to respond to a few people in this discussion.
CultureRe: Inter-tribal Relationships by Sista(f): 7:51pm On Oct 08, 2006
@Brown-eyes


In which particular sentence did she put the White Race down? As far as i can understand, she was advocating for Africans to stand together instead of fussing over different cultures. Nostrings presented a problem that a lot of African people have come across due to this negative attitude we have towards each other.
If telling the truth about white people is putting them down, I am guilty.

Don't get me wrong though, when I first came into nairaland advocating black unification, I didn't say anything about white people, not even the truth. When my own people began to attack me, this is when I called my self providing my justification for black unification, that is when i was called a racist. but I do not care. I knew I would get that from my own people more than anyone else. Why should white people attack me when they got enough black people to do that?

Of course, in nairaland, I am damned if I do and damned if i don't.
CultureRe: Inter-tribal Relationships by Sista(f): 7:44pm On Oct 08, 2006
@Brown-eyes



Sista, Keep up with the education and with hope African people from all cultures will learn to live side by side with respect again.
Brown, thank you so much, I can't tell you how refreshing you are. Having you tell me this feels like I had been travelling through a dessert for all my life and I finally see the pond of water. Again, thank you so much.


Hey, you teach very well also cheesy you keep up the good work as well.


Oh, and one more thing, isn't interesting how I was attacked for telling the truth about my discrimination towards white people in my post, but no one bothered to deal with the question I asked them to ask their self about how they treat each other? hmmm
CultureRe: Inter-tribal Relationships by Sista(f): 7:31pm On Oct 08, 2006
@Somegirl


Sista, would it really matter if I was white? Would it again make a difference if I was white but born and raised in Nigeria? Let me tell you: My skin is neither black nor white and neither is my mind.
If you are white, yes, it does make a difference. Black people are always welcoming to everyone, so even if you are white, we will take care of you. But, never get it twisted that you have a right to become involved in our community decisions because, you don't. If black people go to Europe and are raised in Europe, we would not even disrespect like that, trying to get involved in white peoples business, that is just not us.

Just because you were raised in Nigeria, that does not give you the right to speak on issues that the Native Africans their have suffered by the hands of your people, which you would probably deny.


White people have been sticking their noses into the business of black people for to long now, it is time for it to stop.


When I mentioned what your people had done to black people, I was clearly talking to a young black girl. You jumped and and asked a question that was inappropriate to a black person who is seeking peace between black people.

Sista, have you ever talked with Igbo people about other Nigerian "tribes"? Ask them what the Hausa and Yoruba have done to them and you might be surprised!
What were you trying to do?

In my opinion, you were looking out for your self.

You want so much to be accepted by black people that you will even subtly try to keep them fighting each other. My whole thing is the unification of black people but when you say what you said in the above. It sounds like as long as black people love you, you don't care if they fight each other. You are just like your people, you want to control black people. Keep us fighting amongst ourselves as long as we don't fight you.  This means you oppose what I advocate. Again, Black unification.

Any so called concerned white person who really loves back people and feels that black people are as human as they are, would not go around bringing up how we fight each other, when we are talking about how white people have done us. What your people have done and still do is the truth.

If you really cared, why would you do that?

I am afraid you are going to have to come up with another way to show that you sincerely without selfish reason see black people as you see your self.

From what I can detect, you are here to make sure that black people keep continuing to love you and you would never advocate them uniting, however you would conveniently keep it alive that we fight each other.

To answer you question on did I know about the fights between the Igbo, Yoruba and Hausa, here is your answer. White people where also behind that. As usual, they make it look like black people are just wild animals who fight each other.

Proof:

The British practiced indirect rule in Nigeria as they had in much of the rest of their colonial states. The Ibo were early opponents to British rule. However, they took advantage of missionaries to become educated and many converted to Christianity, especially Catholicism. They were then selected by the British to fill low-level civil service and business positions, and military posts. Favoritism by the British led to further conflict with other groups when the Ibo were placed in authority positions in the north and southwest.

[size=15pt]Divide and Conquer in Disguise.[/size] If our people could only realize this.


http://www.cidcm.umd.edu/inscr/mar/assessment.asp?groupId=47503
RomanceRe: Your Views On Interracial Dating by Sista(f): 6:29pm On Oct 08, 2006
@segun11


Sista,

How is Oakland these days? I used to live there when I was in Berkeley schooling. Take care,
If you know Oakland, you know that it does not endure much changes. I love it here though.

Not staying forever however. In 4 years I am out of here.
RomanceRe: What Is Wrong With Dating Or Marrying An African American Man? by Sista(f): 6:26pm On Oct 08, 2006
@To All



Maxwell, you poor little thing you.

Why do you continue to follow me? You want to be heard so bad and you want to be viewed as an intelligent woman, you are not. Your not going to become famous for taking me down. No matter what you do, while you are doing it you will still be stupid.


Sweet Heart, I already told you and everyone else. I have nothing to hide!

You know you and Baby girl are the same person. Again, you are on line when she is not and you have taken over harassing me after I had her up against a wall. You act just like Baby girl, you are her.
CultureRe: Chinese But Nigerian At Heart by Sista(f): 10:49am On Oct 08, 2006
@ To all

Chinani, some arent keen on blacks that is true but sometimes you get to meet those who really like blacks.  Chinese usually marry chinese, it's their culture. But like i said there are those who marry outside their culture.  Metoo, keep doing what your doing.
Yes Chinese usually marry Chinese or shall we say that Asian usually marry Asian. But in some cases this is not true. The poor Asians usually go outside of the Asian race. The rich ones or well to do ones usually stay within the Asian race.

I like Asian people. Even the ones who would not be caught marrying outside of their race. I can respect them as long as they respect me and for the most part, my experiences with Asian people have been refreshing.

They are not that different from black people and that is the truth. Infact outside of the strait hair, they look like black people from different parts of Africa. In the south Asia, those Asians are really dark.

I hope the poor guy doesn't get into to much trouble trying to fish those Nigerians out though. I don't think it is necessary for him to volunteer with the public security. That may add fuel to the fire. Those Nigerians may think that he is doing to much in going against them. Maybe he should hold some type of community meeting and try and talk things out.

I don't think it will do him any good to play cop on them.

We know what that leads to.


Everybody run run run, every body scatta scatta. Someone nearly died, someone just died cry
CultureRe: Inter-tribal Relationships by Sista(f): 10:20am On Oct 08, 2006
@Somegirl

Somegirl, are you a white?


If you are white, this will not stop me from having a civil conversation with you but for some reason, I get the impression that you are white.

I see you asked me did I know about how some Africans have been fighting against each other. To me, this is usually something a white person would bring up to prove something. Immediately I went to your profile after reading what you asked me and I saw that you have a picture of a white woman in your profile.

Also, In another thread as you described an Albino, your description was of a white Albino with Pink spongy scalp and long yellow or red hair I believe. I don't think those kinds of Albino's are in Africa. My opinions about Albino's do not change because of that. I still think Albino's should be included.
RomanceRe: What Is Wrong With Dating Or Marrying An African American Man? by Sista(f): 9:59am On Oct 08, 2006
@ to all


It sure is funny how Maxwell and Babyosisi are never on line at the same time and they seem to say the same things alike. Isn't it funny how Maxwell came in when I had Babyosisi up against the wall?

Now Babyosisi is chillin, and Maxwell has taken over her job of harassing me angry


I wonder if Maxwell is Babosisi's Altered ego undecided If she is, it is not a real good disguise sad
RomanceRe: Your Views On Interracial Dating by Sista(f): 9:48am On Oct 08, 2006
@Hotbabe


Heck I'm one of them, I try to control myself I always find it anoying that a fine brother will be captured by a white woman. If the brother is fat, urgly and poor then that's fine she can have him but if the brother is fine,  he belong to black girls period. Stop stealing our men, we don't have many of them that are successful.
Hotbabe, you know this is not nice undecided

You got to love all the brotha's and see them as good enough for one of these black women, even if it is not you.

You know that is not okay to throw the brotha to the scavengers just because he does not look the way you like for your man to look and does not have the money you would like for him to have. Alone we are always poor, but together, we are always rich.

Just think about it, that fat and ugly poor man could be your son.

Come on now, show the brotha's some love, even if you are not attracted to them.


Keep in mind too, those same types of brotha's that you are attracted to, a lot of them are looking at white women, they are thinking they are to good for black women, even if the black woman is good looking with a colledge degree.

You better take that back wink
RomanceRe: Your Views On Interracial Dating by Sista(f): 9:38am On Oct 08, 2006
@Bobbiemae


Unfortunately i have no desire to date other races. Talkless of other culture.

Naija men rule!!! Yes give yourselves a round of applause. The blacker the berry the sweeter the juice.

Plus i hear say oyinbo man totolie resemble pencil, GOD FORBID. I no dey interested. But wait ooo, i hear say them dey chop toto pass dudu menhuh Anyways! I still no dey interested.

And who told you that white men don't find black sistuhs attractive. Let me let you in on a secret. Every white mans secret desire is to be with a black woman. Believe it!
Bobbiemae, girl I am feeling all of what you said.

Cain't no body tell me about black men period. I know you stated that Naija is your preference, and believe me they are beautiful as heck. Me though, I love all black men. We got some beautiful azz black men to choose from.

What black woman in her right mind would give up a black man for any other type of man?

Me, I can't Fathom it.

We do choose who we love, love don't just fall out of the air like some claim it does. If it did, I would stop passing up the Hunchback of Notre Dam man wit the Gargoyle eye grin

Seriously though, when our black people get with people who are not black, they chose to do that for what ever reason. Who you marry is a choice but I wouldn't be caught dead taking any man over the black man.
CultureRe: Inter-tribal Relationships by Sista(f): 9:25am On Oct 08, 2006
@nostrings

i'm yoruba and he is from rivers. thanks for the advice
Thanks for sharing that with me nostrings.

I hope all goes well for you, I am sure everything will go just fine.

By the way, what is the big fuss about?

What do your parents not like about Rivers people?

Can you share that as well?

By the way, some people are going to be coming after me in your thread. I am not liked by some people in Nairaland, and soon you will see why.

Please do not let this change how you think of me, please judge me by your first instinct of me.


I can't help the fact that I love black people as much as I do grin
CultureRe: Inter-tribal Relationships by Sista(f): 9:14am On Oct 08, 2006
@Davidylan


In what way? How different is this from racism?
Davidylan, I have not talked with you in a while and I hope my response to you does not turn into what we know it is capable of turning into. Here are the definitions of a Racism and Discrimination, I will let you answer your own question.


[b]Racism:

1.The belief that race accounts for differences in human character or ability and that a particular race is superior to others.

2.Discrimination or prejudice based on race.

Discrimination:

1. treating people differently through prejudice: unfair treatment of one person or group, usually because of prejudice about race, ethnicity, age, religion, or gender

2. The ability or power to see or make fine distinctions; discernment.
The act of discriminating

3. The act of discriminating


Some people here in nairaland pretend to be so appalled at my advocating that black people be with black people, those same people either feel that white people have helped them so much and or those same people have a white counterpart.

Just because my view in your opinion threatens how you feel about white people, that is a problem you have as an individual who cares about white people that much. If what I say bothers you, in my opinion, you must not be that secure and confident about those white people you love so much.[/b]


That is your problem, not mines, you sacrificed your self to commit to those types of challenges when you opened your self up to putting white people on the same level as the black people who have suffered at the hands of white people, so deal with it.

I'm going to keep advocating black for black. United we stand, divided we fall.

What I am doing is no different from how a lot of you black people discriminate against each other. I have been called an Akata by black people who have told me[b] they love white people[/b]. This is sick! I get the impression that for the love of white people, some of my own people would throw me to the wolves just because I love them (Black People) so much. Damn!

I have been told that I am a racist by black people everytime I speak of black unification. I feel that I have been discriminated upon by my own people.

It's okay though, the black struggle is tuff, and one can be killed for loving black people as much as I do. And, one could even be killed by ones own people.  I knew that though and I chose to roll with the punches.

I can admit that I discriminate against white people but I treat white people like I treat everyone else. I just do not care for dating or marrying them and that is my prerogative. I have to many beautiful black men to choose from grin

But you people who are going to jump on me for telling the truth, you are the same people who will not marry a man or woman who does not have the money you require.

You are the same ones who will not marry a man or a woman if she is not educated.

You are the same ones who will not get to know an African Albino because he or she is to light and they are looked upon as an outcast, but you will open your hearts to white people.

You are the same ones who will not date or marry an AA because of your discrimination against them.

You are the same ones who will not marry a Yoruba because you are Igbo.

You are the same one who will not marry a Igbo because You are Yoruba.

Or, because you are a Nigerian, you won't even look the way of a Congolese.

You are the same people who will not get with another black person because they don't look a certain way. But do you call your self a racist, do you see that you are discriminating?

Will you even admit that?

I have nothing to hide.

Black People Unite!

United we stand divided we fall.

My brothers and sisters, we have been falling for much to long now.
RomanceRe: What Is Wrong With Dating Or Marrying An African American Man? by Sista(f): 8:59am On Oct 08, 2006
@maxwell


Everyone on this thread, please click on this link and see the question that Sista was asked on a different thread
Yes please, all do.

It is just like I said, Maxwell has been following me around trying to build her case.

I have nothing to hide, like she try's to hide the fact that she is stupid.
RomanceRe: When Will A Man Stop Lying? by Sista(f): 8:19am On Oct 08, 2006
@Sweetlove



@lovestinks I Get your drift, How would U cope when your man never stop lying.Or is there a way for you to stop your man from lying.
If a man knows that you are his friend as well as his woman and lover, he will also feel that he can be his self with you. In my experience a liar is a liar but if a man knows that you are his friend, he may not lie so much because you and he have a cool relationship.

On the other hand, if the man is not a liar and he is good friends with his woman, he will know that she prefers the truth, even if the truth hurts.

I think it all comes down to how much the man repsects the woman as well as how much he respects his self. If the man does not like being lied to and he respects his self, he will not lie to his woman.
RomanceRe: Can You Get Married To An Albino (afin) by Sista(f): 8:10am On Oct 08, 2006
@Somegirl


@Sista: You seem to be the only one in this thread so far (besides me) who does not consider Albinos as "abnormal". Thanks for sharing your opinion!
Somegirl, it is really sad what happens to Albino's and it is all do to the rejection by their own people. I read some where that people who are suffering from Aids are raping Albino women because they believe that having sex with an Albino will cure them of Aids. I also read where Albino's who try to sell produce for a living, people will not buy the fruit from them. This makes me so, so sad. Damn!

I tell you, what is becoming of Africa and black people period? If I had a million dollars I would open up a retreat for African Albino's to retreat to. My place would be a place that would build up their confidence enough for them to realize that there is nothing wrong with them, that they are just as beautiful as all the rest of the Africans. That they can work and take care of their family's like any one else, that they are worthy.

Do you see African Albino's often, if you do, do you at least talk to them?

I remember talking to an Albino one day. It was like talking to someone who does not get much of a chance to be social. He was rude and acting all suspicious. I mean what do you expect? Here it is society has always outcasted you and made you feel less than human and now you got this nice looking sister all in your face asking you how are you doing? He was probably thinking, "What do you want from me?" "Are you feeling sorry for me?"

The situation with African Albino's is all bad.
RomanceRe: Reasons why guys must lie! by Sista(f): 7:44am On Oct 08, 2006
@Sweetlove


Thank you sista,you are truly and compationate wonderful woman,I Really Feel you.
Sweet heart, I am feeling you too. I was feeling you the first time I read and respond to your post.

One thing for sure,  I can see why you call your self Sweet Love.

Damn! your a charmer.

Dawlin, I think your the type of man who is going to have to get a real confident woman or else you are going to have problems. You are to damn sweet and charming for your own good.

I don't even know you but just from talking to you, I'm feeling all giddy inside grin 

Oooh, I gotta go!
RomanceRe: What Is Wrong With Dating Or Marrying An African American Man? by Sista(f): 3:25am On Oct 08, 2006
@Ninetofive


I want to hear from you why all of a sudden are you going into a tangent about getting hate out of ones heart? I swear, sometimes people in nairaland are to busy thinking about the fact that they are involved with white people, that they can not see beyond that.

Let me guess, you read where I said "I hate white people" and you probably did not bother to read beyond that because the first thing that probably came into your mind was "Oh my God, My Wife Is White" This is not about you or your white wife. I don't care about who your wife is.

I can't believe you are falling for the okey doke.

Don't be influenced okay, go back and read carefully what I was doing. If you don't pick it up right away, you must be out of touch as well.

Please do not take this personally as I am not taking it personally that people want to refer to me as a racist with hate in my heart.

I am damned in nairaland if I do and I am damned if I don't so, I have nothing to lose grin
RomanceRe: What Is Wrong With Dating Or Marrying An African American Man? by Sista(f): 9:21pm On Oct 07, 2006
@Drusilla

Maxwell,

You misunderstand Sista. (No I am not going back and reading the last 8 pages until later)

Of course she will rise up and kill all the white people.
Drusilla, you are to much. Iam glad you are back, really missed you.


Don't worry about Maxwell and other Africans like her, who only care about white peoples happiness.
[/b]If they are to blind and stupid to see the [b]sattire and sarcasm in what I said, that really goes to show how really out of touch they are.


I am sure when I get back this discussion will be jam packed again but I have to go now. I just came in to look for Uju.
RomanceRe: What Is Wrong With Dating Or Marrying An African American Man? by Sista(f): 7:32pm On Oct 07, 2006
@Uju

You IM was turned on and then it went off. But before it went off I was able to IM you.
RomanceRe: What Is Wrong With Dating Or Marrying An African American Man? by Sista(f): 7:15pm On Oct 07, 2006
@Uju

I tried to Instant message you but your AIM must not be one.

I sent you an email


I'm going to ignore Maxwell, she not to smart.
RomanceRe: What Is Wrong With Dating Or Marrying An African American Man? by Sista(f): 6:34pm On Oct 07, 2006
@maxwell


Maxwell, your not even worth having a challenging conversation with, it is clear that the only reason you bothered to enter this conversation was to help your friend out and because you had nothing else to do.


Yes the problem is deeper and I'm sure you'll love to focus on that. We don't have to focus on that because we both agree that the problem is deeper.
I never agreed with you that the problem goes deeper, I just agreed with you that black unification is a good cause. I asked you if the problem goes deeper as you say it does, then let's deal with that. I asked you that because I knew your deeper excuse was a reason you used to pretend like you cared about black unification. If it goes deeper was not an excuse, You would have provided information to support your claim that the problem black people has goes deeper. I asked you to focus on black peoples problems, if is deeper. I was basically telling you to stop fussing at me and focus on your so called goes deeper theory. If you, Maxwell, continue to make up excuses about the problem, you will never begin to work towards solutions. You can't fathom creating solutions because truly all you care about is being unified with white people. Your to blind to see that. The proof is in when I speak of black unification, and one of my solutions is for black people to stick together, you start talking about I'm hating white people. What solution do you have then? I don't want to hear any more about my so called hatred, you keep focusing on that part and it's making you to lazy to contribute to black unification.

You are lying. This is your actual quote to that young person

The only one all black people should be staying away from dating wise and marriage wise is white people. They are the ones who have done us harm. Your tribe is black and the person you like is black.
You can high light it all you want, you have not caught me in a lie because my heart is true. You called me a racist in this discussion, you supposedly accused me of being a racist in this discussion because you said you saw quotes indicating so. Still you have yet to provide the quotes from this discussion. You have been following me around to other discussions trying to build your case against me. You have not succeeded. You are the one who is the lier. You have a false claim out on me and you still have not provided the quotes from this discussion.

My advice to the young girl was not bad advice, it was truthful advice. White people are the ones who have done black people harm. I was not lying to that girl. She should marry any black person she wants.

The real reason you don't want blacks dating/marrying whites is because "They are the ones who have done us harm" to put it in your own words. This statement from you just exemplifies the hatred you harbor towards whites that you continue to deny. This hatred that you harbor is the reason why I accused you in the first place. And you have proven me right. Black unification, again, has nothing to do with this.
Exemplified? Don't try to use big words now when all you have been doing is basically reapeating the same thing over and over. You really don't know how to come at me but you are trying your best to keep up. Keep trying, you still have not affected me.

This is a young person all the way in Nigeria and you are advicing this person to stay away from whites because they have done us harm. Sista ! A young person asking about inter-tribal relationship and you are telling him/her to stay away from whites because they have done us harm. These are your exact words to a young person in Nigeria Sista !!
Little girl, Littel girl, I advised her not to marry or date white people. I did not say to her if you are walking on the same side of the road as a white person to cross over to the other side. Why don't you shut up? you are repeating your self.

You are preaching to that young Nigerian that was asking about inter-tribal relationship, about how whites have done us wrong. You are so full of hate that you don't even know it. Hatred has cut dip into your your flesh and blood and you don't even know it.
[b]Okay Maxwell, I give up! You are right, I hate white people. Now I am going to do to them what they did to me and my people.

I am going to k-ll them for the heck of it because their life does not matter to me.

I am going to take them out of Europe and change their names.

But before I do that, I am going to tell my African cousins how gullible these people are and then I will send my cousins over to colonize these people. They need deliverance from their evil religion and they need civilization because they are a backwards people. When I get tired of them trying to rebel against me because I am black and I run their Continent, I am going to leave Europe but before I leave, I have to brainwash some of them to continue what I started in Europe. That way when I leave, I can leave the brainwashed ones in charge. They will keep Europe corrupt for me because they are just  like me now, at least they think they are. Europe will be to busy fighting each other, that they will not be able to function economically. Europeans will have to go to places like Africa, China and America seeking to be educated and seeking employment because Europe has them imprisoned by my Ideals I set in place before I left. Two examples of how Europe will be. #1 Example, Rwanda after the dutch left. #2 The fight between the Nigerians and the Congolese, brought on by white missionary religious conversion.

I left Europe that way because as long as Europeans worship me and my way of life, although I am not in Europe any more, I will always be able to have my hands in the pockets of that  Continent. 


The ones I took from Europe, I am going to physically enslave them while their cousins who are being colonized by my people are being mentally enslaved.

I am going to hang them as an example to other white people if if they even think about looking me in the eye.

I am going to rape white men. I am going to make white men have baby's by me weather they like it or not. Then I will leave the baby's with them to take care of, let their white female counterparts take care of those mulatto baby's.

Because I rule what they eat, I will rarely if ever feed them, they will only get what I think they need.

I am going to give them a false doctrined religion and the doctrine will have pictures of black Jesus. As long as they believe that Jesus was black, in their mind, they will feel that I am justified in doing what I do because Jesus is the same color as me. If they feel I am justified, they will never care to be unified to rise up against me because they feel they can not rise up against God. 

Unfortunately slavery has ended for white people but I have a new plan, when white people try to buy homes and have jobs like black people.

I am going to start a group called the BBB which stands for the Black, Black, Black. In this group we black people will burn down the property's of black people and we will burn down their churches.

Thank you Maxwell for pushing me over the edge making me realize my hatred for whites. Now I can do what it was I always wanted to do grin   [/b]
RomanceRe: What Is Wrong With Dating Or Marrying An African American Man? by Sista(f): 6:10am On Oct 07, 2006
@maxwell


Sista, you see, you always find the need to carry on with these unnecessary lectures. Anyway, the problem goes deeper than that.
If the problem goes deeper, let's focus on that, why don't you tell me how deep it goes or is it worth your time? Finding the quotes to support your claims against me sure was not worth your time. But it was worth your time to state the claim against me.

Really ? You don't care about color ? On another thread, you were giving advice to a young person whose parents objected to him/her dating from a different tribe in Nigeria. Your advice was that it is okay for him/her to marry any other black person, as long as the person isn't white. Why shouldn't he/she marry a white person ?
I said I don't care about color as far as the basic necessity's are concerned. My example was, (I don't care what color a person is, if they are hungry I will feed them) as far as the advice I gave the girl, it is not a necessity for her to marry white people, however it is a necessity to unite with the people who you occupy the same color and continent with and the people you share ancestry with.

Our President in Nigeria allowed his daughter to marry a white man because that is who she fell in love with. So please we all want to know, why shouldn't the young person on that other thread, the one you were advising, why shouldn't he/she marry a white person ?
Just think of it, if the president of Nigeria made such good choices, Nigeria would not have such a corrupt government. Maybe the white guy was a white Jew and for the president, allowing his daughter to marry that man was probably actually a business deal.LOL

I don't take black unification to mean hatred toward whites, not at all. Get that thought out of your mind.
If you didn't, you and people like you would not complain each time I talk about black people unifying. You would not say things like "you are racist against white people" How does saying that black people need to unify, and black people need to put ourself first before putting other people first, equate to racist towards white people?

I don't think you hate whites because you want blacks to unite. The fact that you want blacks to unite is a noble cause.
If you think it is a noble cause, then you tell me how can the cause be even thought of, with out black people putting black people first?

I think you hate whites (partially) because you blame them for everything. You said my love for white people has blinded me; You said babyosisi has learnt tricks from white people. Whenever people don't agree with you on something, it is white people's fault. Why can't you blame it on Maxell and Babyosisi ? Why blame it on whites ? It's because of the demon inside of you that's why. Like I keep saying, you need deliverance.
I never said I hated anyone, you won't hear the word hate come out of my mouth towards anyone not even white people. The word is dislike, I dislike and I resent the things white people do and continue to do.

I believe that as long as white people continue their evil ways towards people of color, it is not a healthy time for black people to be allowing white people to be involved with us.

As far as my accusing you and Baby of learning from white people. I don't really mean that they (white people) sat you down and gave you a lesson. What I mean is you have been subliminally affected. How do you explain Baby thinking it is okay to refer to me as an Akata? How do you explain to me that you just came in on this discussion and you accused me of being racist, yet you provided no proof? To me, those things happened because all you can see is to defend whitey.

If that is not all you can see, you sure as hell can not see the love I have for black people. If you did, you would focus on that part about me. You should say I disagree with how Sista dislikes whites but I dig her love for black people and that is the part I will judge her on.

We will probably never agree on anything, but that does not make you evil nor does it make me evil. But, if we both believe that black unity is a worthy cause, let's agree to disagree on the rest and focus on what we do agree with, black unification.
RomanceRe: What Is Wrong With Dating Or Marrying An African American Man? by Sista(f): 5:40am On Oct 07, 2006
@ Maxwell


Why are you and Baby so concerned about my man? You guys worry about him leaving me more than I worry about him period.

It is no secret for him what I do in nairaland, he knows me very well. He is not a Nigerian who thinks the way that you two do.
RomanceRe: What Is Wrong With Dating Or Marrying An African American Man? by Sista(f): 5:37am On Oct 07, 2006
@Uju

Thank you for all the compliments, get at me,
Hey sweet heart, are you there? if you are, I'm getting at you. Get back at me.

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