₦airaland Forum

The answer is: quit sinning against God. What you are doing is as evil as what you are protecting her from. You are encroaching in the rights of her future husband and robbing her father as we as the girl. Jealousy is the current sickness but there are more. You are trying to secure a stolen good to your delight only. That girl that you are with is not yours. She is sexually abducted by you.

We, the public should be advising her against you. Her parent's should have been the ones consulting us, rather you are seeking advice from us against others.

Quit this dirty game of yours and go seek forgiveness. If you had come to us about your wife, we would have supported you. As it stands now, free that innocent girl to go find her husband elsewhere. What stench in "boyfriendhood" you are. Go get a job niggr. You are disturbing us.

LaSenior:
When your girlfriend accept a guy's proposal of taking her out on a date , what does it mean

Please as a girl who's in a relationship with a guy you know that is doing everything just to make you happy is it right for you to accept guys proposal for taking you out on a date.
I am complaining because those male besties are not just besties they want to have their own portion of her they have target and that's her pants and if I tell her She will say nothing of such Will happen then I tell her if she makes her available it would happen sooner than later

Please guys I need a clear answer to this my Questions

Aluta continua on Tinubu. People voting their grandfathers who have stolen the future and lives of innocent Nigerians into power. Nigeria needs a young energetic leader who can connect with the outside world for development.
These old thugs will never do a things with the throngs of mob behind them. They are selected by the looters and they must pay homage to them.

Ballzproblemm:
dollar now at #600 per naira , insecurities now at a record high , inflation ,ASUU strike , civil servants being owed pension ,yet this bastard are concerned about what people post a social media? Nigeria choose leaders wisely

If education eluded you, do not blame others for catching it.
Buhari's trips to other countries are for?? Learning happens everyday to brains that are willing to change. If a leader condescends to learn, it shows that he is willing to listen and change.
An arrogance recalcitrant like Tinubu just can't learn. He believes in bribery and thug mobbing. Having looted the nation in bullion vans, he believes in entitlement rather than merited knowledge.
There are millions of courses covered in 3 days. This could have been a plan in the pipeline for a long time and scheduled for this time.

The worst thing to happen to Nigeria now is Tinubu. Every other candidate is better than Tinubu. The man is about to shake this country into dark ages. He will not have the strength to rule. The country will be controlled by his thug mobs while he urinates in hospital beds. This is not a time for sick old men having experienced the exiting stick in agbada.

Okoroawusa:
Learning what exactly in 3 days?

HIGHESTPOPORI:
Atiku have travelled around and visited fellow contestants even before tinubu won the apc primaries, you chose not to see it becos of your partisanship

Speak on it. You need a megaphone.

subsidywise18:
There is a reason why we dumped regions...they did not work, and were in some ways worse than the states.

At the end, what Nigeria needs is to develop an economy free from oil dependency, and we will grow stronger.

Regions do not work. Big tribes will dominate small tribes well well. There is a reason why we have states, and we have people calling for more states.

Isn't your logic on the same train with federalism?

Islandlady:
Dear Men, I will tell you that having a good HAIRCUT is the best makeup for you...it makes you look more Handsome and responsible

If as a guy, you have a nice haircut and looks responsible, and you approach me as a lady, I will listen you

Handsome for who? Go and cleanse your inner self. No haircut can make you look better than how God made you. In the Bible Absalom had long hair and there was none as handsome as he was.

Haircut is a slavery concept. You all preach Africanism when it is convenient. A real woman checks the intelligence of a man. Only whores and material girls keep on checking a man's outward appearance.

Sister, you are as dumb as a fool can be. You're not a wise woman. That is why you all end up in misery.

Keep on following haircut until the man turns bald. I will see what next you follow.

obailala:
The point is that the young man made no statement. Posting a picture when he's at work and then posting another picture when he's dressed up about to attend a party, that isnt a statement. He said nothing with those pictures and he said nothing with his words. Saying "5 months after leaving Nigeria" means nothing. There's nothing to take home from the pictures he posted. People abroad also work in factories where they look all dusted up; but that doesnt mean they are suffering or cant look neat and tidy when they arent working.

So once again, and probably for the last time, the pictures posted by the young man are meaningless and tell no story.

meaningless to you. It means a lot to me to see him happy and gloating in his hard earned situation. He doesn't need your validation to prove his point. I got his message. Factory workers earn what doctors cannot earn in Nigeria. Isn't that message loud enough?
Even if he were in a factory, the factory must have safety guides in place and he can grow to own that factory which is impossible in Nigeria.

His picture means that the positive minds in Nigeria can achieve the mental and financial liberation that he now enjoys in his new self.

A picture paints a thousand words. Sadly, to you his picture is mute. God please rescue your children from human beings. Let nairalanders come to believe that the poor can also climb to achieve impossible feats. Show the enemies of this young man that you have blessed that you just commenced with your showers of blesings. Let them reckon that not only fake people posing beside strangers assets can be believed.

I thank you, Jah Jehovah for showing him mercy. I pray that you extend your mercy to more poor and hard working men to earn decent wages and breathe cleaner air. I celebrate with that black man. He surely endeavoured.

obailala:
Oga to be honest I'm not sure what all this your ranting is all about; Nigeria must have really shown you pepper and I sympathise with you.

Everyone already knows that life abroad quite often is softer for most people than their lives in Nigeria; that fact is not and has never been in dispute.

But fact still remains that the pictures the boy posted still dont convey any message cos they are incomparable. After working in Nigeria, if he had taken his bath and dressed up in a blazer in preparation to attend a wedding, he would have also looked 'peng' in the Nigerian picture.

You cant put up a picture of yourself rolling in the mud in Nigeria, and then place another picture of you well bathed and fancily dressed, and then use those as a basis to judge Nigeria vs. abroad life. That comparison is totally rigged and is useless.

I am not affected by Nigeria bro. I work here as an expatriate and I hold 3 nationalities. I am very much okay. So much comfortable, bro on the high end of Abuja. Home and abroad, I am solid. Nigeria is a tax-free money pot for me. Let's start there.

My pain is what I see everyday, not me. I reach out to many communities and I interact with everyday people. I read stuff and I know what's on ground. I see people struggling for poop pies and I am worried because they are my brothers too. God blessed me with a lot but I feel their pains.

That man right there knows his situation better. He doesn't require your assessment to make that bold statement that his current situation is better than his past.

He uploaded his own picture on his own profile and made his own statement. Who are we to disagree. I submit that living in Nigeria is not for penurious lumberjacks lile this man. There are more opportunities for them outta here.

You ain going to tell me the established facts out there. Nigeria is undeniable a shithole. I encourage them to leave and seek living elsewhere. No one cares for them here. Soon, I will invest in a skill hunters deal to evacuate many young talents outta this burning slum.

I celebrate that young man and I hope that he posts more pictures to torture his doubters and humble his critics.

I am not ranting. I am pissed off cos you guys gather for nefarious reasons to tarnish this promising young man. You all act like sages but your wisdom gathers no moss. The man is smart not to give too many details of himself yet you demand it to satisfy your inability.

What you want is him in lambos and private jets. When he does that, you judge him still. Calling him fraud.

Look behind your judgement

It is always surprising. And, you see people like this always run away when they hear ambulance sirens. There are more failure stories than success here in Nigeria. Those vagrants on the streets are majorly people who simply do not want to work. Most are totally controlled by drugs and many who have engaged in vices and refused education. Many are migrants from Mexico who are finding it hard to settle in at the moment. Whoever stays more than a year on the street is made to be on the street. Even if you move that man to the white house. The government provides quite enough to get any hard working citizen off the street.

Ask him, the one talking why he is not on the street. People spend their cash on silly things and go broke. Some come from violent and poorly managed homes.

Some Nigerians are just bad. They try to stop others from moving out. Just as he failed to see the hundreds of cars and successful people passing by. His gaze is on the negative.
Let him return so that someone else can go. Tell him that I know of many who want to sleep on the streets in LA. I have met so many successful Nigerians who would never have seen the effing daylight if they hadn't migrated.

Mumusaphire:
And why not come back home

Okay. I heard you. I understood his message. He didn't post it for you guys. He posted it for me and his family members. We love and appreciate the guy. His post is not useless to us.
You and those vip nairalanders should post your before and after let us lambast it the same way.
I am happy for the black brother as long as he is happy with himself.
One cannot sit in shithole with shiit all over his face to judge another man who fought his way out of this impossible country. Whatever his situation is over there, he cannot sleep in darkness or inhale carbon emission the way we do hear. His eardrum will not be deafened like those vip nairalanders. He will not be slaughtered by unknown gunmen or herdsmen. He can contest any unjust treatment dished out to him. He will not drink unhealthy sachet water no more. He will not wait forever to see a doctor. he will take fake panadol and chalk paracetamol no more. He will not work for 30k salary anymore. As it stands now, no matter how hard it is, he will no longer beg but he will be remitting cash to his family members and care for his parents.
I pray that God helps that young man to move on higher from there and never to return to that old picture. I also pray that he never judges other people who compare their old self to their new self but encourage them not to steal but to work hard like he did and succeed.
God please hear my prayer for that humble young man that nairalanders want to humiliate. You will keep exalting him. I am sure that he compared himself to inspire and encourage other struggling skill men like him. Let his light shine over the darkness on nairaland. Let them keep disbelieving while he keep on living.

obailala:
Lol. So you're still on about this? For the record, the young man didnt specifically write that his net worth or standard of living was better; rather he chose to post pictures so that you and I can deduce the message from the pictures (i.e. by observing the apparent differences in his skin and overall physical outlook).

What I and several others on this thread are pointing out is that the pictures he posted are useless to the message he intended to pass. There's nothing to compare in both pictures cos they are from disimilar and incomparable scenarios. He should have simply just written that 'his life is better now' instead of posting 2 pointless pictures to convey the message. I hope you get the point now?

Bro, good living is not fat face and fat cheeks. There was a Nigeria doctor who emigrated to Saudi Arabia and posted similar picture. The difference was not in the face. If I could remember, his comparison is with his earning and the working condition. I do not believe that change is defined by one's skin tone or the mass of fatty tissues that one has.

Personally, my body retains water and I can fool you with new and old pics of me but I alone knows when my overall phycology is sound or my financial standing. To be honest, when I was broke, I looked more robust and fresh.

You simply fail to see the point of the gentleman. He might be 200 times richer than he was 5 months ago. He might have better health than his old self. You are simply looking for light skin and fatty cheeks or perhaps triceps and biceps, or rather massively toned calves. He said that he is better than his previous self after 5 months and he posted a picture to compare his own self. He gloats over his new life and the changes that you continue to fail to see.

obailala:
Oga no offence but your argument is pointless! Both pictures he posted are dissimilar and incomparable. How can you compare apples and groundnuts and think it's a meaningful comparison?

No one is aguing with the boy on whether his life is better abroad, but the picture he posted does no justice to the message he tried to pass, simple! That's the point I and a few others on this thread tried to raise, but you just dont seem to get it; rather you keep going on and on about how Nigeria chokes people.

He is a better candidate but right now, the level of corruption and rigging brought about by that old druggie is overwhelming. Tinubu has enough bribe to go round the country right now. He had this planned out. Peter has lesser chances.

I would prefer a non-conventional candidate like Osinbajo whose record is unknown and his moves are unpredictable. I love how he held his ground and slugged it out through the primaries. That is a man of decision and belief. I prefer such a candidate. If he could decamp and team up with Peter, they will surely pull a force.

I am tired of having sick old patients running this country. It is not about one's tribe. I need a vibrant and progressive man to run the show.

MrBrownJay1:
how can you see the difference in a man wearing a damn mask in his work outfit, compared to him posing abroad. the only apparent difference is THE LOCATION, nothing more nothing less. how can you even have the audacity to say that his skin is fresher while looking at his picture in a dusty warehouse with a mask on?! you must have xray vision!

BTW anyone who has been anywhere on this earth understands that the reason some people look different when going away from 9ja/Africa is because there is no crazy sun here like in 9ja/Africa, so majority darker people automatically look less dark, same as when we go to Africa and get darker within 3 days, duh!

Where in the world have you been to draw such comparison? Africa doesn't have the craziest sun, bro. Fact-check yourself. The sun in Nigeria is nothing compared to places that I have been. Have you ever been to Arizona? Have you ever lived in the Gulf? The location does not freshen anyone. Hard living is what destroys one's skin not location. There are people in the US that look worse off than his old self in that picture.

Dust does not cover one's confidence. The man in the picture is CONFIDENTLY telling you that he is BETTER than his old self. I guess you want to see his wardrobe and underwear before you can believe him. If he come out with wads of cash, y'all will criticize him and call him a yahoo yahoo.

The location cannot take away the fact that I see in that guy's picture. He looks fresher to me and more confident. He does need to come out of a shower or UnCloth for me to see this simple fact.

He told you that he is better after 5 months. He is the one in the situation and you must not say otherwise cos you do not know him.

You are not a child, Sir. You do not need to be told that Nigeria chokes the living daylight out of any breathing thing. He posted the picture by himself and he wears his shoes. If he doesn't know how he feels inside or how fresh his skin is, you and I are not in the perfect place to know.
The man in question is telling you his before and after life and you want to see his skin to judge him before you will believe him.

Bro, think twice. If his former living was better, he would proudly brag about it. Don Jazzy wasn't having it good in the UK compared to his life in Nigeria. He is prouder of his life in Nigeria. Same as D'banj. You do not doubt them, why doubt this young man?
He compared his mental, physical and psychological old self to his new and testifies that his new self is better. Should he send you pictures of his liver and bladder to assess his internal organs before you will believe him?

obailala:
Oga how did you come to the conclusion that his skin is fresher in the abroad picture? Have you seen his nigerian picture when he's bathed, oiled up and isnt working?

They are both wrong. One is committing fornication and the other comes with deceit.
Both of them need to be lynched.

Obi is actually not strategical. I do not want to call him stupid because he has a belief and a strong throng of supporters. Essentially, to be honest, it is not possible at this time for Obi to win. Rather than act selfishly, he could have supported Atiku. The way things are going now, the northerners are not ready to relinquish power to the easterners.
He could have been a good VP pick for Atiku rather than wasting votes in Labour party.

Igbo:
No single politician behind Pandora Peter Obituary
He is just a spoiler for Atiku

This is the best man for the job. A central figure that connects all tribes. A vibrant and educated man who is willing to listen to people.

You do not need a surgeon to remove the cataract in your eyes before you can see the confidence in the new man. His skin is fresher and of cos you guys will always condemn. Even condemned iron is condemned in Nigeria. I have lived and worked in 4 continents of the world and nowhere is as hard as Nigeria. He is a skilled man and he doesn't need to work that hard for 30k per month no more. With his skill, he can make a fortune.

MrBrownJay1:
that comparison is not accurate at all.... is he saying that he never ever dressed well in Nigeria?!? what he should instead show us, is him in his new job abroad.

You will be the most insane mind to ever think that Peter Obi has a slim chance at winning. His only opponent is Atiku. A vote for Peter is a petered-away vote.

God1000:
Incoming president indeed, I will vote for Peter Obi since my man has been defeated by this riffraff.

Both Atiku and Tinubu are wishy-washy politicians

This lady should quit giving this airhead airtime. She has proved to always derail issues and cause a raucous. It makes no sense to draw a conclusion like this where there is none. Since she got released from jail, she has been attacking the low in the society. She used to go for bigwigs and she made a lot of points then. Now, she is totally out whenever the poor are maligned.

Why are you wrong. You are perfectly right. Do not apologize to anyone for your opinion if they asked for it. Never be hesitant and leave room for doubt. Go for it and ensure to kill it. You were actually making a great point but you lost me when you said that you could be wrong. I got pissed off for real.

You are right and you need to stand on it. Be confident bro. Never you do this in real life. Be assertive, always!

Draslo:
Obviously, you're not being a good role model to him. He's supposed to look up to you but you're setting bad a example.


I could be wrong o but you should look in the mirror and talk to yourself first.
Cheers.

There is insecurity in town and there is poverty in town. Your major concern in these is how to care for your penis. Are you aware that you could be the next victim of insecurity and the anarchy in town?

A soldier on the frontline gives no fork to the color of his gun. Mr. Man, go and look for money. And, go get a wife if you cannot sustain erection. You seem to have come to the height of reality after living a life of misery for decades.

Your past has gestated. Welcome to reality. Today, you worry about erection when your mates are worried about school fees. In 15 years, you will worry about the location of your grave.

Hang that soggy boot of yours already. Time's up! Father time has caught up with the speed man. Haha.
Do not go after those miracle drugs. Many fake drugs out there to kill you than help you. They all promise heaven and earth but always remember that if you did not ask for it, do not accept it. Anyone proffering drugs wants to make gains, not to help you. Follow the natural therapy first before investing in any drugs

There is no drug to keep your pole hanging, Sir. The more thought you invest in it, the more you kill it.
Keep your mind of it.
Stay with one MARITAL partner who understands you and your issue.
Eat healthy.
Work out.
Live healthy.
Try pre-intimacy before penetration. Lighten up your sex life with play and turn your sex life to a movie scene. Buy candles, pillow fights, MouthAction, dance salsa, get childlike etc.
Quit porn.
Learn how to split.
Your ergonomy matters too. Proper sitting, lying, standing, and squatting postures.

There are matters that you would expect a presidential aspirant to be focused on on. Tinubu whose educational record is strongly contested and marred by fraud and his strong ability to traffic drugs for decades while he buys his way out of the wrath of the law has no sense of the impact that education imposes on innocent Nigerians.

Dangote has no conscience. There are millions of jobless Nigerians dying of hunger and begging for jobs below 20k per month. Some importuning to survive just because of the sheer hardship and privation in town. Dangote preferred to go to India to get workers to build his refinery. That project should have provided so many jobs for Nigerians but only a few are employed there.

Nigerian manufacturers believe the Indians so much and hand over managerial jurisdiction to these people at the expense of their compatriots. These Indians will never hire Nigerians in their country. They get privileges here and rather hire their fellow Indians than work with Nigerians. They dislike Nigerians and at any slight mistake, they display their disdain for Africans.

Imagine the thousands of Indians living and working in Nigeria while Nigerians are jobless. It is a fact to say that it is a private project, but truth be told this is a project dependent on Nigerian resources from the Niger Delta. There is a moral debt that he owes Nigerians. Nigerians are highly valued outside the country for their exceptional brilliance in various fields.

Why can't Dangote give us the opportunities? Majority of those Indians are ill-qualified. They forge certificates like no other country in the world. Majority of them come here representing professionals with fake educational certificates and experience. The Nigerian is duly scrutinized in every organization while others are working and gaining experience using fake documents.

And, they are highly paid. It is sad that Nigerians hush Nigerians up for speaking out and at the end of the day we stay in this penury and destitution.

We do not need another sick president. We are tired of having ghost cabals run our country. Let us have a diplomat who can liaise with corporations and conglomerates to create jobs and develop the country.

#avoidTinubu.

I am telling you that in some languages they mean the same. There is no difference between them. Use a better example, that is the point.

Ogamysamo:
yea and thats the motive of the reference,

meaning
the fact that they have thesame pronunciation in some language doesn't make them same alphabet

YOU GERRIT?

heydays:
Ghen Ghen....

Morally Buhari should not renege on the bond and deal he personally had with Tinubu but on another thought Nigeria is not a personal business construct.

I don't know how Buhari intend to go about this but he should not do what will leave the country on a precipice.

Tinubu should return to the hospital ward in the US. He is not bigger than Nigeria. Let him get lost. Bring on the vowulence. It is better than having a sick old druggie for another 8 years

Ogamysamo:
blessing de blast tonto de blast

lesson

never compare letter 'a' to italic 'a' because they are both 'a' and never pronounce letter b as p no matter what they have in common

b and p sound the same in Arabic and some languages. Do not make such references again. Stick to a

The first person to clamp down should be the man with the bullion van. A man who stole in bullion vans when not in power in daylight will loot in ships and trains.

If your friend pees in your couch rather than the WC when on a visit, you will never invite him again. How can we allow a man who has not brushed his teeth since he was convicted of drug peddling piss on our country with shaky hands? How can a thug who fights dirty be allowed to oversee reasonable and creative Nigerians out of the suffering in town?

Tinupoop escaped hospital admission where he was being treated to run for presidential slot. He cannot run in real life. Just 2 months ago he was aided by a walking stick.

This was how Abiola overpushed his ambition until the northerners returned us back to military regime.

Nigerialabalaba:
Omo Ibo, I sabi say na Atiku u dey work for so dat Atiku go get easy ride to defeat featherweight PYO.

As at today, APC don get clear leader as APC don do primaries for states and LGA.PYO no even show face at all.

No single APC senator or rep dey PYO camp for d whole SW. Not even one APC candidate for hin Lagos state adopted state or for Ogun state, his ancestral state dey PYO camp . All of dem dey Tinubu camp and na where Tinubu tell dem to go dem go follow. If Buhari impose unpopular pyo, both Buhari and pyo go collect shell of APC niyen because d engine dey with Tinubu.

Las las, even Lawan don see d reality. Like Lawan like PYO, dem no get strong political structure and like PDP, na election too APC go do las las , no be annointing service. Shiorr

consolation price.

I am not ibo BTW but save your tears for the end. I don't care about that sick thug that you worship. He should disappear from the universe. And, take yiu along

SarkinYarki:
Everybody against Tinubu

Will any sane person leave a lawyer and opt for a rotten teeth who pisses all over town?

The only candidate here is President Yemi Osinbajo.

Tinubu already has excess rotten teeth which is a collateral baggage. Shaky hands and chairwetting fever. Too much baggage in excess quantity.

Don't ever make a rotten teeth a president. He will shake the whole country into his piss

Davidic419:
Our incoming president

pepper then

Shut your dirty mouth up. The reason why you now know the rights that Buhari doesn't have is because he did not pick the rotten teeth druggie that you are supporting. Go into your pissiful home and hide your dirty face. Go and help Tinubu hold his brush so that he can brush his green teeth.

Buhari, this is the last time the people are solidly behind you. Even if you do not have the right, I give it to you. Install Yemi there, It is better to have Osinbajo than a sick old thug with rotten teeth fighting dirty and pissing all over the place.

When Tinubu was installing Buhari on us, he didn't think about our rights. Ride on Bubu. Show that pissy pissy that you are a general in the army.