₦airaland Forum

Moneymagnet24:
The Nigerian government has all it takes to stop the menace, yet they prefer to play politics with it. I usually watch movies where the Us government send their most decorated soldiers to those war torn areas in Iraq and Afghanistan. The north east can't even be compared to those areas yet we can't even wipe them of. After 10 years of consistent banditry by the Bokos they deserve an acolode from me man. I like people with guts who never relent, cuz they have a goal, unlike the Nigerian government.

I agree with you. The more you take your mind away from the "emotions" that surround terrorism, the clearer you begin to see and understand things.

I said the same about young Fulani men's dedication to taking lands on a thread earlier in the morning. They are not bragging on social like their "literate" counterparts in the south, are doing. They hit the trenches in the Bush chasing and killing the owners of farms for lands where they can live and have their cattles graze. I'm a southerner but I love their "determination" and "dedication" - a unique feature of masculinity. The consistency of Taliban over the years as Mujahideen fighters recruited from Afghan Qur'anic schools to fight invading soviet soldiers from the 80's into the 2010's against the US invasion is a testament to their masculine tenacity. Boko Haram is on their way to making this hall of fame.

TheManhattan, like typical emotional men are yet to get the memo of the oncoming onslaught by jihadist groups, bandits and herdsmen.

These men are not good men but good at being men.

Dpsychologist:
Rollo suggests that this is in part due to the mistaken belief of “The One”, such as there is a woman (or a man) out there who is just right for you.
And you “just” need to find her.

The "soul mate" myth. The most ridiculous concept that came with western civilization and Victorian-era prudity in my humble opinion.

Another "assignment" for their consumerist brand slaves in Nigeria and abroad.

In Nigeria, more pusssies will be overfucked, more foreigners to be scammed by internet fraudsters, more skulls to be mined, more female pants to be used by slaves who want to acquire this phone.

Dpsychologist:
The masculine means what it says. A man's word is his honor.

Well, masculinity which has a lot of components have been generally watered down these days that there is an identity crises for boys and young men on what it really takes to be masculine.

Another significant part is that "sacrifice" which is a major component of masculinity (men generally term it as "responsibility" practiced by a decent number of men in courtship and marriages today is not reciprocated by women generally. The entitlement and greed mentality among women today is over the roof.

My advice to guys is that when making those sacrifices as they will always do in, courtship, co-habitation and marriages (for those who seek long term relationships with women) or even as business partners/work colleagues, have your senses intact and put yourself first.

As for me, I'll be stingy with mine except for my trusted buddies or for a diverse set of people like in charities

Bad as Boko Haram are, there are vital things to learn from them.

Young men, though with a crazy ideology are living up to every word of their threats. Southerners are still there "blowing grammar" and waiting for "constituted authorities" to come fight for them. Cowards

hotwax:
So if you are caught with guns..its 20years in prison. Only fulanis are licensed.

During Covid19 lockdown when 1million boys cultist were on rampage. I setup a vigilante group in my neighbouhood.

I bought axe, sword(sonda), machette for them...we were working with the police until day 3, when one of their ogas came and told me they will arrest me if i dont dispose those metals. I asked should will confront those cultists with bear hands, he said if we can't do it, we should go to our rooms or else he will arrest us...

Dont be online and be using your keyboard to type anything...go to the real world and talk to people on field..

I understand your position but it is still advisable that you keep those "metals". If those "one million" boys had attacked your neighbourhood, I can swear it with my life that those policemen telling you to dispose those "metals" will never show up to protect you. If you lose your life, you will be, just another statistic that will make the front page of Nairaland.

As a matter of fact, the policemen know that you are doing right. They are only trying to caution you in case so that you (and others) don't take the advantage of protecting yourself to infringe on the right of others or even cause chaos.

I'm always strapped, ready for anyone that will bring their "nonsense" to me, unprovoked. Nigeria has crazy folks. I can be crazy too. I'm taking no chances. Self-protection is a fundamental human right that is recognized worldwide including the United Nations.

hotwax:
They have weapons now...no matter how brave you are, you only need one bullet to take you down. You want to face AK47 with bear hands. Thats why we asked them to allow us carry gun.

Fulanis are the only group of people who are licensed to carry gun. Or you think these fulanis get liver if they see guns too?

Why should you ask them? Did the Fulanis ask anyone to carry the guns they use in killing your people?

Why not carry your own to protect your life, the lives your loved ones, and community?

Una southerners ehhhhnnnn...

Most of una still neva understand d plot against u all, while u think u are smart because u are largely educated than d north.

Dpsychologist:
Dad is constantly reminded to man up which defines his disposable gender.

The burden of performance is placed on men. The reason why men above the other genders (females, intersex) generally perform better in life. Whether we like it or not, we are disposable as men.

My only advice for men is to perform well as it is expected of them within limits that their lives are protected. In areas where they have to make "sacrifices" like they typically do, they should have legacies that outlive them.

Dpsychologist:
However, when it was Father’s Day, the pastor ignored the day, even though he is also a man.

Men are significant contributors to these issues, not because they hate their fellow men but because of the natural conditioning of men not to react (elements of stoicism) to certain issues.

Mother's day is being celebrated by the Catholic church and the secular world in about 3 to 4 days of the year. The only day men are celebrated (which coincidentally, though suspect) shares the same day with the World Toilet Day, is also being appropriated by single mothers praising themselves as "father models".

The reasons men don't take father's day serious like women is numerous. One of these reasons include the natural conditioning of men from their young age to be "givers" (sacrificing). Men don't see the reason to celebrate what they are "expected" to do. To men, it's petty, and childish, hallmarks of the female gender. Another reason is that they are too "busy" with responsibilities to take note of special days like this. Much appreciation also goes to women (widows and some single mothers) who play the father roles well in the absence of dead beat dads.

Emmynator:
I get your point and agree with it, many of us here failed the test and are as culpable as the derailers.
It's a challenge really, since our worst enemies are those who parade themselves as having the same goals as us, but have different motives. such events is even more dangerous to those are just starting their red pill journey, as they could easily be misled, this is one reason why I feel rebuttals to be important, so we can separate the wheat from the chaff, however when things starts going to the dogs, we should learn to refrain, as heated arguments often leads to a lot of impulsive statements that can be against our purpose.

I believe we can only get better after these events, and I hope we can deal with such situations better next time.

Enough rebuttals has been done already for guys to know the chaff from the wheat, unless they are not following the thread.

It looks like it's already gone to the dogs. Make everyman wey get sense use im "6". I'm done.

LutanFyah:
Do not engage the trolls and derailers,and they will die a natural death


DON'T QUOTE THEM, DON'T REPLY THEM.

Some may say I'm paranoid but I'm no fool. There is a clandestine game playing on in the background that a lot of guys here, are not aware of.

Haven't you noticed that certain strange monikers have started getting very active here in recent days either saying things irrelevant to this thread or starting baseless arguments over certain posts about the red pilll that has been explained over a thousand times here? If you doubt my assertions, read comments here, from last Tuesday and see the patterns. It is similar to Thread detailers and trolling bots created to cause confusion and misinformation in the political section of this site. Those active in the political section are aware of what I'm saying.

I'm all for the scorched-earth "policy" of going "ghost" till the thread returns back to "normal" and the detractors have nothing to feed on and die off. Defending points before those who already made their intention of being anti-red pill is a waste of time and energy. In the end, you end up playing in the frame of these derailers which is exactly what they want.

BLOODYSPERM:
Gaslighting one greatest weapon Machiavellian beings called women use to instil doubt in men , even men of logic will be broken and manipulated if they are not careful

It's already happening here and I can see monikers who claim to know better falling victims of the manipulations. Some are already contradicting themselves and agreeing to things that opposes the purpose of this thread without being aware.

For about 2 days now, only you, CaveAdullam and a few others still seem to stick to the purpose of this thread.

I'll advise you guys to pipe low till "sanity" is restored. As it is now, the thread is a mess of egos, emotions and misinformations and intentional thread derailers flying around. When everyone is tired, we will move on. If you have red pill/black pill nuggets that you feel the need to share, you can put it on Dpsychologist "Red Truth" thread and if they are memes, do that on Martinez39s thread. Those threads are less chaotic for now and those that need these truths will get it from there.

Personally though, I do think the thread has served its purpose and seeing unrelated informations, personal fights brought in from other threads joining the mess flying around, I don't see the thread lasting long. It might be time to abandon it and move on to space where the men of equal mind can congregate with less distractions and baseless arguments before "Jonzing" men who have invaded the thread, totally upturn the gains the thread has made.

juman:
The core north can never accept southerners behave like this in their place.

The fulani terrorists should go back to their region to behaved madly.

Don't strap up and fight for your fatherland. Stay there and continue issuing useless threats when Fulani are currently in the bush strategizing how to kill you, take your land and rape your wives/daughters

Saviolamemphix:
@Mrcoldsweat many are mad but few are roaming lmfao

No need for the name-calling. Ignore till it fades off like other derailers before it.

SOZINN:
I know I did
I just had to say it
Why does it have to be us though
Why can't he face those women
I'm sick and tired of this dude coming here and spreading stupid theories.

Stop getting in your feelings about what others are doing. No offence to you but it reveals some kind of emotional weakness which the troll is exploiting. Stop being vulnerable. Choose your battles. This is a public platform. Anyone can come here to express what they like. Nairaland was not created for you, or the red pill. This has nothing to do with women either, except you are still in the anger phase of the red pill, angry at women for what women are naturally conditioned to be.

The thread is being derailed intentionally and like Dapcity, you'll be manipulated into losing your decorum till you "misbehave" and the thread is shut down.

Aside from the Beer Parlour/Ashawo thread and some thread for electronics etc, this thread has been pro-male, straight, masculine and regulated. Some years ago, the Beer Parlour/Ashawo thread which is generally unregulated was abused by guys with childish, shitty orientation till females protested and it was shut down. Ubunja started staying away from red pill threads on Nairaland for this reason. The thread of GLYCOLYSSIS, Martinez39s and Dpsychologist are the ones left. They have to be protected.

Respond only to discussions which aligns with this thread whether you agree with it totally, partially or in total disagreement.

SOZINN:
I get it now, honestly I do. I understand where he is coming from. For those of you who do not know let me tell you. This dude @MrColdsweat wasted 11 years of his life with women.
Hmmm
11 solid years, time that he could have used to invest in himself and become a better person instead he chose to chase women around and deal with women drama. Which is OK if you ask me cos he was a simp and like all Simps women used him and dumped him.
Here's my problem with this guy:
Instead of blaming the women for messing with him, blaming himself and taking the red pill. This dude chose to blame men, he blames men for making women the way they are and that's why he got treated like shiit.
He's saying men damaged those women and those women wasted his time, he is not really siding with women.
For instance, the female hypergamy he talked about, maybe one of his girlfriends left him for someone of higher value then instead of him to blame the girl for being hypergamous he blames men for having high sexual urge.

U fûck up big time. What is wrong with some of us here? Let sleeping dogs lie and move on. No, una must drag something way go put una for trouble. Many monikers have drawn conclusion on recent events here, clear to everyone and have moved on. Pesiin (most likely a female hiding behind the moniker) don reveal im intention to bring down the thread that has educated a lot including you and saving a lot of men, but u choose to continue entertaining dem. Make dem close down the thread so some of us go get sense. My only pity is for the guys who are not yet aware of the truth being shared here.

A lot of us don't know the power of silence or ignoring a fruitless venture, not knowing when to end a trolling argument or even ignore a troublesome pussay when red flags are hanging all around it. Smh.

Susily:
He'll pay child support tho I doubt if he'll pay alimony also known as spousal support cos Kim doesn't need it which can be proven in court

When their joint assets are splitted and shared, both parties won't lose much cos both of them are very wealthy individually.....where the problem will be is if Kanye is a billionaire while Kim is an employee that earns $100,000 annual income.... that's where Kanye has a lot to lose to her cos she has practically nothing of value that Kanye can lay claims on

Okay. Good luck proving that in a gynocentric court.

Susily:
I don't think Kanye will lose much in the divorce proceedings since Kim is also wealthy before meeting Kanye.....so if they share their assets, both parties don't have much to lose unlike if Kanye married a woman with no appreciable assets of her own, that's when she'll lay claims of Kanye's wealth and rip him off with Kanye having nothing to lay claim of on the wife's side

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Kanye attained billionaire status, about a year ago (his net worth). At the moment, I don't know about Kim's. If Kanye's Net worth is higher than Kim's, he is still viable to pay alimony, child support etc.

AlphaAlex:
I was telling people this couple wouldn’t last and it was all a facade by Kim to cash out on a major level . This woman stands to gain not only half his wealth, she’s going to have sole custody of the children on the grounds that Kanye is not a fit parent mentally not to mention child and spousal support that he will probably be paying times 4 plus extra. Omo it’s basically over for this guy. My advise to men out there Never trust a Hoe Let alone marry one especially a kardashian Hoe them b!tches are the real succubus. The sad thing is most American Celebrity simps won’t learn from this especially those basketball and football simps they will keep wifing hoes Russell Wilson is Next just watch out

If you had said this on a general nairaland thread, dem go say u be hater, misogynist or an incel who is not getting pussay like say all the pussay wey men don bang, leave any tangible and visible benefits, aside from other men praising you.

There has been various rumours of divorce from both since when they got married, one that I know. Even Cardi B and Offset have faked it before, for attention and social ratings (and it will still end in tears). Even if this one is faked, Kanye won't still escape it in the long run, because the Kardashians have a long list of men manipulated and rendered useless (Ray J, Reggie Bush, Kris Humphries Lamar Odom, Klay Thompson etc). Their step dad (Bruce Jenner), a masculine Olympic medallist and famous lawyer was even turned into a transgender to get them TV ratings. Kanye won't escape Dr. Dre' treatment because he married Kim under California's gynocentric laws.

I don't wish Russell Wilson bad though he didn't perform to expectation as a QB on the Seattle Seahawks Football team after the 2013 SuperBowl, but I can only hope he is "mildly-raped" by the legal system in case of a separation, seeing him as the beta-cuck cleaning up the mess and worshipping the pussay that has been fûcked by alpha-fûcks like 50 cent, Future etc in the music industry (and likely outside of it).

https://www.nairaland.com/6424240/kim-kardashian-files-divorce-kanye#99236526

If we mention MGTOW, some ignorant folks will say they are "dangerous nihilists". Some will say they are closet misogynists/misogamists. Snapping a million photos as a "responsible" married man, supporting Donald Trump/Conservative ideas, being patriarchal/alpha/red and crimson pill at the risk of your mental health, or being very rich won't save your ass when you are operating within a highly gynocentric society like some parts of the western world. When a b*#ch is tired of you and wants to cash out, she will. Dr. Dre, the ultimate hiphop alpha is at the hospital trying to save his life from the brain aneurysm he suffered from Nicole's divorce. Kanye will learn his "lesson" like Emmanuel Eboue, Louis Saha etc

TheExclusive:
Hi Guys, a thought Just came up in my mind about Prince Harry and Meghan Markle. Is Harry actually a simp for losing royalty because of a woman? If he didn't marry Meghan, that incident may not have happened.

Harry's case has already been addressed here and outside of this thread, by guys who know their stuff about the red pill whether they chose to adopt the "red pill" term or otherwise like some hypocrites thinking that semantics will fool sensible men here.

It's no news that Harry has done everything to please Meghan, a single mother, even abdicating his royalty rights - Hallmarks of an irredeemable simp. Meghan is "centuries" ahead of Harry when it comes to the manipulation game and she did well picking the perfect target - a younger simp from the richest royal family in the world. I have no hate for her. She is playing the game to her advantage. Meghan is an heroine to gold digging/level up women world wide. She is a smart b*#ch. Men should learn from this if they are not stupidly emotional attacking Ubunja for revealing some "female game" tips.

If he didn't marry Meghan, there is a likelihood that he would still be manipulated if he dated a low-level gold digger. Money and social status amplify the strength and weakness of men.

Martinez39s:
Mrcoldsweat started with some truth, but he wasn't straight with his words. Despite my attempts for him to be specific and make him give his ideas a clear and unmistakable structure, he persisted and remained obstinate in making vague statements and introducing other confusing ideas that could be easily misconstrued: the general and vague statements about eliminating gender norms, modifying masculinity, and gender equality.

Seeing his recent insistent attempts on subtly trying to eliminate the concept of AWALT, and falsely accusing this thread of harbouring misogyny and hatred towards women should raise valid suspicion. Also, the unrealistic solutions and seeming misapprehension of hypergamy by a supposed redpiller and the backpedaling that followed leave a lot to be desired. This SEEMS to SUGGEST that his earlier meanderings and refusal to use specific wordings could have been a deliberate attempt to build the grounds on which to subtly sow wicked seeds that would germinate and insidiously sway us from the red pill truths. This is plausible and makes a lot of sense.

Though he made some good points earlier and people misunderstood some of the things he said, that I grant, his recent posts sound suspicious and they seem to explain his deliberate persistence in using spurious and vague words to convey his ideas. This is plausible, and his aim should be questioned. Many at times, vagueness and mystery of ideas are the bedrock of bùllshits. We should cast a wary eye on him. Earlier on he said we should stop seeing women through a moral lens, but as the animals they are: selfish, wild and unpredictable; but now he is challenging the concept of awalt and accusing men here of misogyny.

Here are his recent posts


No nawalt preacher will thrive here, neither is this place a thriving ground for the nawalt concept. If we actually believe in nawalt unicorns, what then is the need of the redpill? Why not abandon the red pill and go find a nawalt? Why go through the stress of reading and discussing red pill?

Redpillers are not forcing their ideas on anyone. If you think there are nawalt unicorns or that the redpill has no solid basis, that's fine and you can feel free to leave. As long as this group exists, the total acceptance of AWALT concept shall remain undying no matter what you say.

"what is your evidence of AWALT?"
"have you been with all women to conclude that AWALT is valid?"
These questions, as insinuated by your post, are nothing new. They are hackneyed questions that we are tired of. They are usually the words of females and simps. Despite all the patterns all redpillers observed on a daily basis, and are still observing (the red pill proves itself daily), that made them embrace the red pill and the confirmation from others who also observed these patterns, you expect these questions to deter anyone from the red pill? You need to do better. Even though we can't prove our experiences to you, our observations are enough for us, we go by them, and we are not bothered to prove it to anyone.

If you think nawalt unicorns exist, fine for you but we are not participating no matter what. So if at all your aim is to make us doubt the AWALT concept, you are free to go on but you will be wasting your time. Finally, science and religion are not the same in an abstract way.

NB: these are my observations and disagreements with Mrcoldsweat.


^{GLYCOLYSISS, Dapcity247, yourubarere, TheVictim01, skepticus, caveadullam, ichidodo.}

PETUK Emmaodet our married OGs here, please read this to understand the "lines" clearly.

luminouz:
Bro...you said it all.

I see no need on why he wants to rile people up. The thread won't still degenerate into chaos so long the men here refuse to play his game.

You don't need to know the need. That you don't see the need doesn't mean another individual don't. People do whatever they do for different reasons. The troll (a male or female could be behind it) is probably bored, seeking attention or just a sophist trying to pass a point (not relevant to the red pill) across. It's like arguing with a woman.

When someone is on about bull crap, learn to spot it quickly, express your opinion and disembark quickly before you get drawn into their energy zone where they'll embarrass you with experience.

CaveAdullam:
He's the "so called godfather of the manosphere... A typical misogynist, a woman hater, a broken man. His blog and his books are the most misogynistic book ever written in history."

Do you know about illimitableman/@tellyoursonthis? "He's the most poisoned amongst them in manosphere".

"All redpillers are women haters, single, broke and will spend their lives writing about women. Let them marry first and see that NAWALT".

I will remain on this thread, and nobody is gonna take me down. I'm a narcissist, I have killed realism, logical positivism, pragmatism 60 years ago. I am here to stay. I will continually gaslight Glycolysiss, Dapcity 247, Victim01. I'm still monitoring skepticus and martinez39s---bloody atheists.

No one can take me outta this thread! Hurray!

I get the sarcasm.

luminouz:
Let that shiit go hommie. You are now the one sounding a bit stressed, can't you see?

Chief, you should know better na. You are entertaining a troll derailing the thread. He has spoken so much that the truth of his/her agenda has been revealed. Just shun and move on. Dapcity and Victim01 are yet to get the memo of the Machiavellian manipulation that the troll is playing. The troll has succeeded in riling up Dapcity emotionally so much that he has began to say things out of place, contradicting himself with semantics and attacking other subsets of the red pill unknowingly. I'm here just laughing my ass off. Obviously, he is young and newbie in the social dynamics of getting one's point across. Go through D Psychologist thread on the red pill to know a few things about how dark psychology.

BLOODYSPERM and CaveAdullam dropped some red pill facts in short quotes yesterday and today. Too bad most won't see it because of the baseless arguments littering the thread.

Like GLYCOLYSSIS said, know when to drop an argument leading nowhere. Your emotional weakness will be exposed when you don't know when to stop arguing.

pajaka77:
Hahahaha.... speaking grammar and begging the president to call herdsmen and bandit to order as if they are his boys(lol)
Are the Southerners so daft not to understand the president's position already?
What did they say about silence?

Southern Leaders are just stupid waiting for Buhari to act when all of buhari's body language concerning recent happenings is visibly clear to the blind. They are always, urging, advising, condemning while the Fulani jihadists and their criminal associates are saying less but pursuing their agenda with aggressive actions.

Southern leaders will just sit there blowing grammar and forming woke. No wonder their northern counterparts don't rate them.

fattprince:
You have said it all. I think wat Mrcoldsweat is saying about self control is if you can control your sexual urge you will beat any manipulative bitch to her game. This one of the reason I admire Martinez so much I mean if I can control myself sexually and a girl is coming with the mindset of manipulating or playing me using sexual seduction as I think that is their most powerful weapon I would just look her like a fool. You know it will play out like where an enemy is coming to a fight bringing a sword and he expected you to come with a knife but you have a glock hidden in your pocket. You know how you will be looking at him now like see this fool.

You see, the main advice on this thread is for men to place their needs first. It varies from men to men. In between these individualistic needs, there are nuances. The Red Pill is not a one-drug cures all for every man as our individual experiences are different (I remember Martinez39s correcting a guy who had expressed risky optimism about the red pill). The offshoots off it like PUA/GAMING, MGTOW, Traditional Conservativeness are not entirely perfect either. Believing it will help you solve all your individual challenges in an unguided optimism is a recipe for failure, and confusion in the future if life comes as it always does with the unexpected.

Regardless, in the recent arguments, some ideas that have no basis in the red pill and reality for men is the idea of Gender Equality. I have no problem with men working in so-called feminine fields if it puts bread on their table nor men deciding to work strictly within male spaces. All to his own. The only thing is that both genders are not equal physically, mentally. What is expected of both is also not the same. Societies where so called "Gender Equality" have been brandished are not even 50% equal if you look at it closely. Both genders can not adequately achieve this equality without upsetting the balance of nature. It's just a feel-good term of modern society to pander to women, often at the expense of men. They have their strengths and weakness that complement each other for the human species to go on.


I have my own philosophical leaning within this movement, but throughout the thread when some folks try to argue out their philosophical leanings as the best over others, I try to place out both issues and expose their cons and pros for everyone to see. One can't also deny that people have their subjective interpretation of what they think as the red pill and beyond it.

That said, arguments like this will always arise but all must be done with decorum with issues tackled objectively. The endless emotional-laden back-and-forths with caution flying out of the window was unnecessary. We can disagree with each other as far as the points that is being argued upon, is one that is relevant or discussed within the manosphere.

I also saw some folks using the arguments to insult the red pill but still go ahead to nod and agree with the same set of people they express opinions that agree with theirs. Pick a struggle and if you think the red pill folks regardless of where they lean, are despicable, I'll advise you to avoid the thread. No one is recruiting here like cult groups do. You either find it or it finds you. Pick what is valuable to you and discard the rest. Regardless of your hate against the people on this thread or whatever is being shared that offends your blue-pilled conditioning, this thread is low-key saving a lot of lives of men both active and silent readers.

Martinez39s:
I get what you are trying to say. I have no problem with your perspective. However, Mrcoldsweat is not saying men MUST rush every job that are, or were once, considered feminine, neither is he saying these jobs must be imposed on men. Men can rush high paying jobs, I advise them to, but what if a man is broke and incapacitated and a vacancy at a hair saloon or day care is the only source of little income at the moment? Should he go hungry and starve because he would be seen as a lesser man doing a feminine job, or should he drop the ego and that mindset and work to survive while he finds something better?

The mindset and ego that would have preferred him to starve serves him no purpose, and that's what mrcoldsweat thinks should be discarded from the supposed archaic idea of masculinity. Mrcoldsweat is trying to reconstruct our idea of masculinity to one that is better suited to thrive in today's world. I don't think he is saying you should become a weak, feminized man without some spine.

NB: this is simply a clarification of mrcoldsweat's point. It's not written to reflect my thoughts. Seems mrcoldsweat needs to articulate himself better for the sake of others to avoid confusion.

You are explaining MrColdSweat initial post, that mentioned Gender Equality better than he did. Like I said earlier, everything he mentioned about some aspects of the "Trad Cucks" expectations of masculinity putting men at great risk is understandable. I and some other guys here have made references to the risks that society's expectations of masculinity places on men, especially in the terms of sacrifices.

The concluding part of Gender Equality is mere unrealistic optimism that has some roots in the blue pilled matrix because in reality, women filling STEM jobs still shows that the most physically and mentally-demanding part of these STEM careers are handled by the few men still left there. This doesn't make MrColdSweat ignorant or blue-pilled. He is discussing issues that is quite prevalent in the blackpill. Men, much more than women drift towards responsibility and accountability as a burden of performance is placed on them, with or without sacrificing their wealth, time, resources and freedom. As a matter of fact, peer-reviewed research studying Scandinavian countries (Norway, Sweden, Denmark, Iceland, Faroe Island) where government policies of Gender Equality was highly encouraged and practiced proved some earlier predictions wrong. To the shock of these researchers, they found that the genders moved toward gender-specific roles. Women moving towards health care and humanities with men moving towards STEM fields with a very highly significant margin.

Dapcity is a traditional "cuckservative" from what I've seen so far. If he is in a country like Nigeria where women still have some elements of traditionally conservative upbringing, I consider him lucky that he could still create a family where he can dominate as a patriarch, even though there may be a difficulty extending it to the larger society in this era of globalization. In the highly gynocentric parts of the developed world, he is setting himself up to be messed up by the system if he is a man of great resources. Patriarchy, alphaness, the red pill won't save you from being divorced-raped and mentally-battered by the legal system. Even within the "lenient" Nigerian system, there is a limit to which you can exert your patriarchal right over a woman (who most likely would be exposed to the "freedom" that modern women now enjoy) unless you are prepared for drama and constant meaningless conflict, a turf, where women would naturally "outclass" men.

Personally, I'm all for men controlling their own lives, spaces and destinies, regardless of what the rest of the society, which includes women and other men decide to do with theirs. In relationship with others, keep respectable and healthy boundaries that places your own priorities, that doesn't interfere with the rights of others, first.

MrColdsweat:
Exactly my point.

You are exhibiting cognitive dissonance, same way a religionist becomes confused and defensive when you show him some inconsistencies in his holy book.

I ask you, asides

1. Shorter lifespan.
2. Likely to die from violence.
3. stricter punishments and longer jail term.
4. Likely to get an E or F at school because men get 70% of E's and F's at school.
5. More likely to commit suicide.


Tell me, what more benefits do you enjoy as a man?


Can't you see that gender equality is an opportunity for us to restructure society and remove some burdens from the male gender?

You have made salient points about men being slaves to their burden of performance called masculinity, especially in an era where women have been conditioned not to necessary live to their conditions of the male-female bargain but your conclusive part of Gender Equality ruins it all. Both Genders are not equal. It's a grand delusion of the blue-pilled matrix to think they are. Even in reality, women enjoy the benefits that gender equality brings but do not have the physical and mental fortitude to live to the responsibilities that this so-called "equality" brings. If you think it does, you are no different from men who are slaves to masculinity. In fact, you are a bigger disposable slave to women in the gender equality narrative.

If you are male, it's not not imperative that you do that (advocating gender equality). Feminism and women empowerment narratives already did that and they have made major gains from developed societies to the developing ones.

Dapcity's opinion about how men should dominate society and women to prevent chaos the feminization of men is noble but almost unrealistic in today's world. The damage has already been done. Masculinity is admirable for men but the "sacrificial" part makes almost no sense to me today where I'm seen more as a useful "disposable" than anything else. Almost all part of the world is "chaotic" when it comes to the male-female imperative in this modern age of globalism which prioritizes, freedom, rights and impulsive pleasures over responsibilities. You only have control over your space. Break your head over the red pill, SIMPs will still out-number red-pill men and even the red pill men are prone to falling back into the conditioning of the matrix.

That's why "going your own way" or "choosing your own path" at whatever level that fits you, distances you from the "unnecessary" pressures that society's expectations of masculinity brings and the unfair burden that the illusion of gender equality puts on men. Let women be free till they shoot themselves in the foot, and men tow their own path without the need for sacrifices that put men at the risk of their lives. In my own opinion, a man (as part of his masculinity) should live for his responsibilities (regardless of effort) and happiness over sacrifice (that some elements of masculinity advocate for women) which has also been reflected in the grandeur of delusion called Gender Equality.

OlawaleBammie:
guy u re too serious


I just put Madrid there to save face for my team, I know they are going no where


this current Madrid is not the same Madrid I use to know all my life.

Madrid now is an upgraded Aberdeen United

I understand you.

I was thinking the Italians would step up to the challenge like the "over-hyped" English and the "humble" Germans did. Alas, they disappointed me the most, especially the Old Lady.

Well, I'm banking on the Germans or English teams to turn up this time. If there is any Spanish team who would make the finals, I still believe in Real Madrid. Barcelona is officially dead. What you see is the corpse walking around pretending to be a zombie. Lol

OlawaleBammie:
Now my number one adversary has been defeated

make I go drink my bullet jeje


I prefer make FC Zurich, Basel, metalist Kharkiv, Fenabache to carry this cup to Barcelona .

How I wish Laliga can do what Scottish PL did to Rangers to Barca Mtchw, no, make e no happen cus Our Laliga no go sweet again

Sevilla for Copa del rey

Atletico Madrid for laliga

My real Madrid for the champions League

Real Madrid at the moment, is the same shît as Barcelona. The only difference is that Barcelona stinks more.

Real Madrid is just bidding time in the CL. Dem go soon dump am like im Catalan cousin - Bunch of serial losers/bottlers.

The reign of spanish teams in the Champions League is over for now and few years to come. Know this and know peace.