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Kamdil:
Girls should mind the kind of guys they date,many young ladies have been killed by their so-called fiance,boyfriend, and sometimes husbands for ritual purposes, or for other monetary purpose.

Advice them from now till eternity, dem nor go listen to you nor date good guys. Na those flashy, money spending and conscience-less guys dem dey like.

The table that the O.P is shaking has nairaland expired newspapers, and other old, damaged hags on it.

Wahala for the fools wey go save these spent hoes.

Most likely, business deal gone wrong.

Those who ordered his assassination wanted his life taken at all cost. Even, at the expense of the lives of others.

Men of the underworld ehnnn!

oyolohi:
While sex is pleasure to men, it is more of a weapon to women.


Most guys here will almost never simp for a lady, however, we fail to ask ourselves questions such as: if sex was a being, am I a simp for it?
Can I willingly say no to sex even with a erection?


You wouldn't be far from liberation the moment you start asking yourself such questions. The day you stop simping for sex among other weapons such as religion, government, etc., you'll attain a bulletproof state in a world full of gun welding individuals.

I have always wanted to delve into the political, religious and socioeconomic part of the red pill, especially leaning towards MGTOW and its relation to our part of the world (Africa) but I get stuck with the dating/relationship/marriage part of it which incorporates some elements of PUA themes called GAME/GAMING WOMEN.

Some "lazy" guys here have complained about us talking "too much theory". I don't blame them. Our "needs" in the red pill are different as we are at different stages of life and understanding of the red pill. For most here, i have observed that it is either to get laid, manage dating issues and for some others, marriage issues. It's okay, though. Overtime, I have found them bland and boring. Too many intricacies and society-specific peculiarities.

Sometimes, I want to talk about Ayn Rand's philosophy of OBJECTIVISM (Ayn Rand and her philosophy is held in high esteem among MGTOWs), Capitalism and Free thought. As it is, this thread would not do for these and just like it was suggested for the red pill thread for business and investment, we may need a thread for it at some point in time to CLEAR things up.

micellgevity:
See the snake we killed under my neighbour's orange tree this morning.

I was afraid at first because I know how dangerous this snake is. I had to call some guys to join me. Incidentally, another one was killed less than one hour earlier in the same neighborhood, about 3 houses to where we killed this one, though, bigger than this.

The guys I called to assist also happened to be the ones that killed the first snake. They cut its head and tail and said they would go and sell it for around 4k or so. I don't know it's name in English, but it is called Oka in Yoruba. If it bites person, that person no go live for two minutes on earth.

Aminna Fire fire, food don land. Oya do the needful.

That's a gaboon viper. The snake with the longest fangs in the world. Beautiful skin but short death. Thank your stars, OP.

It's the highest cause of snake bites in the South west. As an ambush predator, it can wait for up to 10 hours motionless for its prey to pass by, before striking. The venom is so deadly that you'll be lucky to survive its bite after 45 minutes.

It's big business if you captured it and sold it to snake keepers in the west (Europe and North America), especially US. They pay a lot for it because it's very rare over there

Omihanifa:
Bro Its a puff adder (extremely deadly) and very aggressive

That's a gaboon viper. The snake with the longest fangs in the world. Beautiful skin but short death. Thank your stars, OP.

ubunja:
this RedPill thing is making people stupid. Now if a guy accepts R70 000 from an Ex he's a simp. Lmfao. You guys really need to stop and catch your breath a little.

Uxolo. Let it slide. Sala Kahle.

Regex:
The author composure too much. Only to find out she's married, with kids. Probably, drawing the common sense from her husband. Read from page 1 to this page, I'm the only one she responded to, only to clarify this particular post you quoted. Her husband masculinity no be here.

It's obvious that she was raised well enough to choose and complement an equally masculine man. Perfect match.

Dpsychologist:
Check out kim Kardashian's past life and you'll see how she always end up in divorce with her estranged husbands. There was a time she married a celebrity and after 72days filed for divorce.

Kim Kardashian is very calculative more like a coded gold digger. She didn't divorce till he is a billionaire.

I guess her new target will be a Billionaire.

What is striking about her and her Family is they keep going for blacks.

In the US, Black men are at the lowest rung of the ladder of sexual attraction. Forget the big dick nonsense that porn portrays about white women seeking black men.

Concise researches over the years have proven that women don't consider them attractive as men of other races as they don't do well for long term benefits like financial provision (on average, they earn less than other races) or fatherly presence (a high population of them end up in jails).

The few black men who become wealthy as stars in entertainment (music and sport) seek white women to upgrade their social standing. They become targets for manipulations by these women and "divorce-raped" in court before they get out. What makes the Kardashians more evil to associate with, is that, they are Succubuses. They drain life and wealth out of their men leaving them miserable. The SIMPs that have lost to the Kardashians include: Ray J, Reggie Bush, Kris Humphries, Lamar Odom, Tristan Thompson etc.

What is worse for the men is that their women's hypergamy (black women) leads them to choosing criminals, thugs, jail birds over decent men screening out level-headed black men for dating, or consider them as beta simp providers when they are done being baby mamas for jail birds.

A significant reason why the guy that pioneered the MGTOW movement on the internet was an african-american named Barbarossa.

4ckz:
Thank you for this, like you rightly said he has never taken charge of his life, which I am glad he (or probably the lady) is doing now.
And you can't blame his parents for this because his other siblings are doing well even with the family money.

However my stance is a bit conflicting from a point of selfishness as well as a point of caring for a friend.
Selfishness in the sense that I wouldn't like to go back to the days of him calling every now and then to borrow money which he never pays, he calls my heart skips thinking of an excuse to give him before he asks for money.

But I do care about him, he has always been there for me, and since he listens to me, I won't want him to make a mistake.

However, I love my peace of mind the most, I won't like to get involved with his family should he eventually settle down with her.

Deciding not to lend him money every time he asks isn't selfishness. It's you setting boundaries. He must learn how to manage his money. He is not a kid. You have tried as a friend. He should man up. Life is not all about him.

4ckz:
I don't know about the lady, so everything I can say is here say mostly.

1. She turned her into a man because, he wasn't interested in earning any form of living till he met her, now he can maintain his car, and they plan to move from a one bedroom flat to a 3 bedroom flat.

The lady is a marketer for one private pharmaceutical, she was living in the one bedroom flat before the guy moved in, and had a car too, so she was living fine I guess.

The guy was already employed, as at then, one government ministry in which he goes to work whenever he likes but gets paid every month, he also had family money.

In his words, the lady nagged him into starting up a business, which I guess is now paying him more than his salary.

2. Good mannered, anyone that can survive my friend must be good mannered. The only thing he ever did for himself before was cook, rarely washed, wasting money on laundry services, if you stay an hour with him, you might kill him for laziness, so I think anyone that survives him must be good.
The only repeated complaint and his stand point for saying he doesn't want to settle with her is "she nags". No other complaint I have heard.

3. As far as we both no, she hasn't given birth before.

Since she is no baby mother and manageably mannered, you have done the best for a man who seem not be able to take charge of his life and make decisions on his OWN.

Like all women, the red pill discusses the thing you said about her. She rides the carousel in her earlier years, then, seek for a man to settle down with, when she she is approaching the wall. At 33 years of age, she is very likely to be experienced in dealing with men of all types, one that that has been valuable in making your man decisive.
Personally, I would have advised your friend to go for a lady much younger than him to minimize the chances of being with a "over-damaged" woman which ladies above 30 usually are, but tend to act matured and patient to deceive guys into "saving" them by securing their commitment but I'll let this pass because of the stability that she brings into the life of your undisciplined friend.

My worries however, (though, not established but very possible) are the risks associated with your friend's inability to make his decisions allowing the woman to "push" him to do what a man should necessarily do without being pushed. His family "pushed" him to "get out" there on his own. The girlfriend is doing the same. That "power" of influencing his decisions is dangerous when held for long in the hands of a girlfriend/wife. His complaint of her "nagging" is a red flag of interest.

Spouses change in marriage, especially women because they have secured commitment. For men, it is sex.

He is highly vulnerable to strong manipulations of a woman who is highly experienced than he is, so much that your friend may not notice when he is been played and stand his foot down as the leader. When faced with the constant shît tests that this lady will bring when she becomes a wife, your friend may fail and make terrible decisions that may cause him a lot.

The worst of it all is that he may become too co-dependent on his wife and a co-dependent partner would tolerate mental/psychological abuse from the person he is dependent on without even knowing till it becomes too late. If she leaves, his life may crumble as she was the one that brought stability to his life.

These are highly possible speculations but as man who is red pilled you expect the best in every dealings with women while preparing for the worst which can happen when you get carried away with the mental "excitement" that your partner brings.

I'll advise him to get married to her if other thing clicks (thoroughly vetted. I hope your friend would be smart enough to understand the vetting process).

Do understand that there is a limit to which you can control another adult man over his personal decisions, but, if he eventually, marries her, keep an eye on him as friends.

LyfeJennings:
Lol
I'd find time

I believe you.

A happy new year to you!

LyfeJennings:
ALLAH!

No December Update?

gold360:
Simp

The picture doesn't say much as it relates with the guy simping. I'll only agree if the picture showed him paying for their food.

The ladies might be paying for their own food.

RAGGA40:
It's not a lie though this post will work against her in the future

EXCEPT she dates the bottomest of all SIMPs which isn't hard to come by. Women have that edge in finding men they can walk over than for men to get women that submit to their leadership.

You guys underrate the pandemic called simping.

mattfeuter:
I don’t know what Ubunja smoked before passing that comment.

As for me, nothing concerns me and my ex.

Like how do you even have sex with your ex? Fcukk opportunities, when one door closes, another opens.

mattfeuter, we will always have our ways of viewing certain things based on our experiences, nurture background.

It is why I try to blend in the moral or amoral in my comments because in the end, we pick what suits our judgement.

Your idea of setting boundaries/cutting off an ex or refusing to sleep with an ex that is giving you green lights is the moral/decent thing to do but life in itself tilts towards the immoral. Female hypergamy is immoral but even the most religious girl won't care to leave a broke boyfriend for a richer one (except in environments where women's hypergamic instincts are under firm control). It is just life. Ubunja's opinion is amoral but you have to respect it. That you won't sleep with a married ex (respecting another man's territory), doesn't mean the man won't sleep with your wife/girlfriend, if she lets him. It is not rape. Players know the risk of what they are doing and still do it anyway. Women know that paternity fraud is risky but they still do it anyway (The general panic of women during the DNA discussion on social media should tell you a lot about Nigerian women).

I have been faced with temptations not even from No-Strings-Attached exes alone but wives of fellow friends. In relationship with me, quite a lot of these male friends are decent moral people who do not appear to be guys who could cheat but that didn't stop their wives from giving me choosing signals. It's crazy.

Use everything she brings to your advantage because she (the ex) is trying to use you. If you are decent and you feel it is moral to be distant from her, please do it.

lkillbrokehoes:
Nairaland residential feminist nightmare

But he has been helping those dunderheads with miseducashins not to be exploited by men.

Only if some of the equally dumb men can read it in reverse and see how these ladies run format on them. It saves them a lot of pain.

Femzaremz:
chill bro! I appreciate ur advice but,i never claimed to be an alpha! I think i even mentioned that i dont apply the redpill! Moreso im not trying to feel good about myself jumping from one LovePeddler to another!what i tried to get across is dat the redpill is knowing the true nature of a woman and using that knowledge in ur dealings with them to avoid manipulation!this knowledge is needless to me when i can just go into any fvckhouse and exchange my cash for what i want! Business style! No hassle no time wasting instant gratification and both parties are happy at the end! Also all the long lectures on redpill still boils down to sex at the end of the day! Which im getting easily without applying the redpill thats what i tried to explain!

At the bolded, you have no idea of the core of the red pill and what it represents to men. Any id.iot with small cash can get sex in a era of hook-up culture and cheap sex. Your idea of the red pill as just about sex is part of the problem of the bad press people have about the red pill on nairaland and outside of it.

If you had followed the thread, right from the start, you'll notice no one ever lamented about not getting pûsssy, though a lot can. Also, no one here is bragging about all the sex that they have been having. Sex is everywhere and men with focus know that life is bigger than the pleasure of a few minutes of sex with some cheap club/bar hooker. Only INCELS and guys who are new to getting women make a fuss about sex. Get popular literatures on the red pill and read to cure your ignorance of what the red pill represents.

Junnior:

No big deal about it.

Women broke-shaming guys is as "normal" as drinking water.

I'm worried when guys do it. It is annoying because Nigerian guys do it when it comes to simping.

I'll dedicate my time to calling out men on their bullshiit when it comes to simping. Often times, women are blamed (which is okay), with men's contribution to their "misbehaviour" overlooked.

Junnior:
Happy New year RedPillers. May we have an overdose of red pills this year. May the pills go into our body systems and be properly digested.

So, I want to ask. Is Jerking off to porn simp behaviour?

Ubunja, CaveAdullam, Luminouz, 21cents, cool10, lordadam16, creeza, trex4, skepticus, everyone.

Jerking off to porn is not SIMPING because it reduces the need to put women on a pedestal while fulfilling the biological "necessity" of sex. Generally, it's frowned upon by men because of the bad side of its addictive nature. When done in moderation (moderation is subjective), it reduces the INCEL problem. In fact, the "POST-NUT CLARITY (Men returning to their "senses" after ejaculation) side of masturbation makes you realize that the "pedestalization" of women in porn and outside of it, is the nonsense made up in your head that has nothing to do with reality.

Like most guys, I'm no fan of it, but its "tangible" benefits for men is not one to be overlooked.

Trex4:
Bro abeg if you DM me I'll buy you a drink. I'm serious. Which one again Is pump and dump? What exactly will someone gain from that instead of an opportunity for false rape accusations and other troubles that should be avoided early next year? It's 100% best to avoid her, cut contact, rebuild himself academically/emotionally(as a student) and move on to better things. Sometimes I wonder if it's RedPill we're spreading here or indigo/scarlet pill. Or are there two threads?

The energy for all this pump-dump and so on should be channeled somewhere else. She won that game. It's best he clicks the exit button and disembark. This isn't even hard for me I wonder what's up with other people. Pump and dump ironically isn't even a loss for the woman as guys tend to think. The sex isn't it the both of them that'll enjoy it? While his resources,time and money is gone forever. A great man is one who can control his worldly urges.

Lol. Thanks. I appreciate.

The malt whiskey that I am sipping at the moment enroute to the new year will do

Evolutionlove:
Obesse Shiiit. God forgive me.....

Does it matter if she is well cut, not obese and cute? Whether she is super-rich or super beautiful, as far as she is human and passes gas (fart) and faeces like every human, there is nothing special about her. who cares? She still carries the same vagina like every ugly girl out there.

I have noticed it among guys, even, in the red pill community, that they seem to make some pass for cute and sexually attractive girls when criticising girls who are misbehaving over the ugly, obese ones who misbehave also. When you hear guys start qualifying women with terms like "she got thick booty" or "she is so cute and got skin so smooth, guys would allow her spit on them" and other nonsensical phrases to glorify women with above-average looks, there is still a devilish spirit of THIRST operating, which makes chance of simping or going back to simping very high if you are red-pill aware. It makes women generally over-value their importance and make you low-value before her because you already put her on a pedestal.

If she is above average in looks, just rate her with a number ratings for beauty/cuteness (1 - 10) or simply describe her as "cute" or "above-average".

All those "glorification" of the above-average looks in women is just thirst inspired by your natural programming to procreate and spread your genes. In reality, their value, when compared with women who are average or lesser than average in looks, is still zero except you are a PI.MP who is using her to bring in money or other favours from other men (mostly SIMPs). PIMPs don't value them in anyway except for the income she is bringing in. Regardless of how beautiful she may be, she gets kicked to the kerb if she stops bringing in money for the PI.MP. She is just another vagina like every woman out there. Shoot your shot with her or ignore her like she doesn't exist.

If she is rich, so what? Game her for her money (if your playboy game is topnotch), make her your business partner (if she is valuable to your hustle). If she does something deserving of a compliment (like you'll do to a man), compliment her without silly exaggerations and move on. Stop making it seem like they are super-special.

Make una nor dey give dem level wey dem no get.

Creeza:
pump-dump her, dont spend a dime on her again.

Infact disconnect that light to her room wt immediate effect

modified: I see your mumu wants to graduate to the next level
So instead of thinking how to retain your sanity you are bothered about the free sex and your school daddy duties.
lol

you are not ready for the redpill

Why should he pump and dump her? They already pumped each other and she dumped him and still keeping him around for other beta functions he will serve like turning on the generator, emotional dumpster, money for hair, food etc.

If you have sense, Money05, DESTROY everything that links you with that beesh, cut your losses and move on like a man. No need for explanation or some silly emotional shalaye. In fact, her opinion of you as a provider while she treats you with so much disrespect, flirting with other men shows you are super-beta (no level) before her. The reason she is playing you around knowing that you are spineless. You have made her not to respect you and a woman never finds a man she doesn't respect, attractive. I'm afraid though, that you might not be tough enough to call her bluff, and just a hug, or piece of sexual action will send you back to the plantation of her slavery further degrading your worth and value. I do hope to be proven wrong.

heartofcity12:
These are the things you get when you choose to remain a beta simp, no woman is worth the wait for 10years. She has given her prime years to some guys that didn’t commit to her. The guy is left with the remaining garbage.. She doesn’t love him, she’ll still monkey branch or cheat when she sees her spec which is most likely an Alpha. Don’t be a simp like her fiance she’s referring to. If she doesn’t want you in her prime, you shouldn’t want her in your prime. #TRP

This one has been passed around the industry by "alphas" who won't commit. As such, she is an alpha widow.

I don't think she is seeking an "alpha" (I don't like to use that word. It's too abused). She is seeking for a provider who wouldn't judge her for her past and bear the burden of her damaged attitudes. However, she wouldn't mind cheating on this provider with someone whom she considers superior. She clearly found it (a provider) in that simp that has been waiting 10 years for her.

Women in their sexual primes (youth) are the ones who seek dominant men who may not have resources. Others seek those who are blessed with good genetics (looks, height etc), social charisma/status and resources. When they have kids for them to tie them down and they refuse to commit, they put up with some loser who has managed to improve his status over the years (after being rejected by/invisible to women) for financial provision. Sometimes, the loser may be an underachiever she put up with to save "face" while still scheming underground to monkey-branch.

While you improve yourself and manage to accrue some resources focusing on your goals, you also become a target of these alpha widows, gold diggers waiting at the finish line for you to come save them while sleeping around with guys they consider superior to you all the years you were building yourself. Either ignore and reject them if you are moral or pump-dump them to their dismay.

ubunja:
stop doing your business on a Miseducation thread. Don't make me come to Osu to slap the living daylights out of you.

A true descendant of Mzilikazi. Tolerating no disrespect.

Danycrusoe:
His first paragraph annoyed me alot because when I discovered this thread and read all through, I discovered that I had the frame and dropped it to satisfy her. I was more than devastated to say the least.

There is never someone I narrated my ordeal to who never look at the lady as a wicked person, I have even made it a promise to stop it.

Daily we see guys come here and say they never knew there is something like red pill or they wish they came in contact with it sooner. Just like u have said everyone makes mistakes.

Trust me. He meant well for you but was delivered in a tone that may have inferred disrespect. I understand you and you are okay to be angry. I don't know him like most folks on this platform but that expression was always what i felt whenever I see stories of guys suffering the same thing you did like in dating and marriage, when I first came across the Red Pill, as a detailed information. The "MGTOW rage" could be a little harsher than the regular "red pill rage" as it aims the rage more at the man involved over the woman. What she did to you is as expected as a leopard having spots. It comes natural.

His comment "Don't you have some self-respect" is also one that indicates anger from a point of feeling for his fellow man. I vibed with it, also.

That said, men simping for women with their resources like wealth, time, and energy is usually annoying to men in their true masculine common sense like the way cheap hookers and prostitutes are annoying to most members of the "sisterhood" (women) for giving men a "short-cut" to "by-pass" long-term simping with their money.

Nothing to be pissed about. We move.

Danycrusoe:
Bro, ur first paragraph is needless, there's hardly a guy that hasn't been there before. Like I said I acted red pilled before I met her but 8 didn't know anything about red pill or there's something called that.

If u check some of my posts, I have stated that I wish I saw this thread before or during the time I was dating her. I made mistakes and I can only learn and get better.

The said lady did her introduction on Sunday, my conscience made it hard for her to achieve total manipulation over me when I had not discovered red pill. I weighed my losses and gains and I discovered I wouldn't gain so I told her after a month I can't train her again. Till now she no see person wey fit train her, she has stagnated but I guess she is fulfilled to have gotten married without a source of income or handwork.


Also, before u castigate any man who has acted in a simp way, remember that there are alot of guys out there who still don't know there's anything like red pill or stuff. Nobody is an island, no one brought all these from heaven. And these incidents happened in June/July.

Once you go the way of masculine common sense (I won't use the term, Red pill because the term makes it seem like it is some out-of-the-world concept, when in fact, it is just what every man should naturally know, but a little more better), some things become annoying and disgusting when you hear them. I have never dated nor gone through all you went through with the lady you described, but it is weakening and extremely sad to read all you went through, for another imperfect human and undependable creature like women. This sadness sometimes gift itself as anger when one considers it that a fellow man being abused, asked his abuser to cook food for him.

I don't think SimpDetector first paragraph was aimed at deliberately, insulting you. No doubt, no one is perfect. We all learn and grow.

SimpDetector:
Gosh, reading this post made me cringe hard.

There is nothing worse than a simp confidently defending his simpness.

When a woman cheats on you, you leave. You don't negotiate, you don't talk things through, you don't reconsider. You simply leave and never look back. Cheating is the worst form of disrespect a woman can give to a man. If she cheats once she'll definitely cheat again. You made a big mistake by even paying ear to her apology. A hoe doesn't deserve forgiveness.

How dare you waste even a splinter of a second on a hoe? Don't you even have self respect. How can you invest your time and energy training a woman that has proven that she has no respect for you; a woman that walked out of your life after insulting you even after you forgave her for cheating?

But I'm glad you are now away of some of your mistakes.

You should have deleted that girl from you life after she walked away. She's indecisive and looking for a way to win back your investment. Block her so you'll stop receiving texts and calls from her. Reject her offer to cook for you and tell her to fuçk off. There are other girls who would gladly cook for you and give you sex for free if only you play your cards well.

Cringy for me to read too. The same goes for a lot of guys in relationships today. Forget the "tough-guy" posturing some of them display to other men. If you hear the stories of some other guys and the brutal mental and physical torture they endure from women in the name of love, you will almost breakdown psychologically. Some run mad, become alcoholics. Some just end it in suicide.

A lot of guys are unaware that women are capable of inflicting very brutal pain of all types on you as "punishment" for your masculine weaknesses (lack of leadership and dominance), especially when she has no fear of you, and knows that she can walk over you without much consequences.

For a woman to love you, she has to respect you/your authority. For her to respect you/your authority, she has to fear you. Fear here, should not be mistakened for physical violence. I'm not asking anyone to be violent at women to prove a point. This fear means that she is aware of your abilities to put her in place (or some other forms of punishment) if she goes out of line while you maintain a demeanour of civility, confidence and self control.

To build this, it is generally advisable for men to aspire towards some form of leadership status in whatever they do, and if not entirely possible, have some form of elevated social reputation and charisma that makes her chances of "punishing" you socially through rumour-spreading etc, be minimal. CaveAdullam once summed it up, as RESPECTING YOURSELF to earn the respect of others, which will do, for a lot of men.

4X4:
IT SHOWS THAT THERE ARE MANY UNDERCOVER BISEXUAL BATTY MEN IN NIGERIA

Then, you probably have been living under a rock if you just found out about this.

A lot of your so-called rich, responsible and religious (Muslims and Christians) elites are low-key homosexuals. They fund the lifestyles of folks like Bobrisky.

CuteRat:
(Man A) cheated with his close friend's wife, is (Man A) bluepilled or redpilled?

Stop mixing stuff up. There is nothing blue-pilled or red-pilled about a man sleeping with his close-friend's wife. It's not even a smart move for the man because it could get him injured or killed in some instances for breaking a bro-code and "trespassing" on another man's "territory". The dude just took advantage of a slutty woman. Remember, women hold the key for sex to happen. Anything that makes sex happens outside it is technically, rape.

MJBOLT already gave you the response to your earlier questions. Treat such a friend like you'll treat a snitch/backstabber or if it is necessary to have him around, "blank" and be wary of him.

D'Psychologist reference to Julius Caesar's elevation of a man who slept with his wife isn't endorsing guys to start sleeping with their friend's wives/girlfriends or pat a friend who slept with your wife/girlfriend on the head. It was just to illustrate how men should view a cheating scenario with a deeper look than the way it is mostly viewed. Remember, as a powerful and influential emperor, he had multiple wives and concubines at his beck and call.

As a matter of fact, Julius Caesar never rewarded the guy because sleeping with his wife was a noble thing to do. It was just a Machiavellian power play of "Keeping your enemies closer".

Jacobx007:
I would have reasoned with the victim if she were 18 or 19 years of age, but 26? she should have acted smartly.

There was no way she would have acted "smartly" as she clearly had "plans" of her own.

A former commissioner's daughter who had no place to stay in the capital where her father comes from and worked sounds like a lie to any one with sense.

Both women are trash but here is a food for thought: Women understand each other and hate each other.

Chii59:
This world is a very small place. May your loved ones never find themselves in situations like this, as you're blaming this young lady.
Let's even assume she was sleeping with the woman's husband, who is to blame? Isn't it the husband in question?

At the bolded, how is it the man's fault, that a desperate side chic and an adult with a brain, decides to spread her legs for a married man despite his wife's warning.

Except in extreme cases like rape (which I'm vehemently against), women own the key to sex and childbirth. A man who has his way with her is under her full permission.