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Just a reminder!

Martinez39s:
He needs red pill in his life. The red pill is harsh, but it is not that harsh as we sometimes make it out to be; it's usually the case that we are emotionally invested in how we wish things were and in our blue-pill ambitions. There is nothing harsh or hard about the following facts/principles:

1) Women don't love you except for what they can benefit from you and how you make them feel.
2) Never invest in a woman or fund her lifestyle.
3) Never love or commit to a woman.
4) Learn to control your lust and don't confuse sex with love.
5) Don't let a woman's looks and beauty turn you into a mugu.
6) If you are not a monk, keep your sexual options open to other women and never narrow down to one woman.
7) Never tell a woman all about you: your past and personal details. She will readily use them against you when she feels like.
8 ) All women cheat. Women are hòes.
9) Women see and treat us like disposable and expendable utilities.

Given the way many former red-pill guys lose themselves back to the matrix after making money, I will say everyone should know where they stand. Red pill is serious truth. If you are broke and women are rejecting you to your frustration and hurt, don't use the red pill as a relief and mask for your pain; when the pain subsides and/or you make money, you will go back to the plantation and simp and give redpillers a bad name. Come to the red pill when you really want to learn about female nature, and when you have developed the maturity to prefer bitter truth to sweet lies and the discipline to walk in the bitter truth instead of pleasurable lies.

If women and the family/happy-ever-after dream is all you want and you are broke, worked hard and improve yourself. After you have made it, go to the plantation and simp big time and play the male praying mantis all you want. Just stay in your lane and don't spoil the outlook of the redpillers.

TheUndercover:
That's the reason why as a man, if you're thinking of getting married, make sure you've achieved 80-90% of your dreams and ambitions, because truth be told, after getting married, the probability of achieving those goals set when you were single reduces drastically.

And if you eventually got married, make sure you lay a solid foundation i.e. let her know she's going to simply play to your terms if she wants to be part of life and always let her have the mindset that she can always be shifted aside if she misbehaves whether she has a child with you or not. If you can afford it, marry more than one but beliefs, society and family always makes men stick to one woman all their Life.
If you can make a written agreement possible which will make the terms you laid upheld, then do it.

Religion is supposed to keep hypergamous instinct of women in check, but this current generation is simply nothing to write home about. That's why if you check the rate of divorce in strict Islamic countries who don't joke with their laws and beliefs, the divorce rates is usually low because the laws contains Red Pill truths.

The Red Pill isn't built to discourage Men from getting married. You can be married and be successful in all other walks of life and I'm sure we have seen some examples of Alpha redpilled men who were successful in both marriage, developments and business. But at least you know what to expect in marriage. You're aware of the choice and it will help you to set the relationship/marriage on your own terms.

Preach, brother!

temi4fash:
I dont think there is a love without sacrifice.

I agree with you. Picking someone below you and raising them up to your level or above your level in the name of "love" is the ultimate sacrifice in itself. Men have been conditioned by society to do that and a lot have done that throughout history, even sacrificing their lives to protect, provide for women, children and other men.

"How Much" came before sacrifice. That "much" is significant if a man channelled it into his life - No altruism.

emmaodet:
Na wa oooooo
Bro, are you now stylishly mocking we that are married now?

Lol. Not targeted at those who are married.

I'm not against getting married, even, though I'm not a fan of it.

The man who made this quote (H.L Mencken, American journalist and literary critic) made that quote as a married man at a time (1930s - 1940s) when women of his generation were still feminine and chaste. The quote was suppose to be a humorous mockery of himself and other married men when they realized later, how much they sacrificed and how much more they could have achieved if they were single. He was never against marriage just like I am but I wish men could hold on to their commitment and cherish it more instead of throwing it in the hands of spent sluts and achieve more for themselves than they could ever. I know my wish is unrealistic for a lot of men.

Martinez39s:
He needs red pill in his life. The red pill is harsh, but it is not that harsh as we sometimes make it out to be; it's usually the case that we are emotionally invested in how we wish things were and in our blue-pill ambitions. There is nothing harsh or hard about the following facts/principles:

1) Women don't love you except for what they can benefit from you and how you make them feel.
2) Never invest in a woman or fund her lifestyle.
3) Never love or commit to a woman.
4) Learn to control your lust and don't confuse sex with love.
5) Don't let a woman's looks and beauty turn you into a mugu.
6) If you are not a monk, keep your sexual options open to other women and never narrow down to one woman.
7) Never tell a woman all about you: your past and personal details. She will readily use them against you when she feels like.
8 ) All women cheat. Women are hòes.
9) Women see and treat us like disposable and expendable utilities.

I could go on and on. To have known the red pill and still blunder in the way he did shows he has to drill the red pill into his head until it becomes his second nature. Given the way many former red-pill guys lose themselves back to the matrix after making money, I will say everyone should know where they stand. Red pill is serious truth. If you are broke and women are rejecting you to your frustration and hurt, don't use the red pill as a relief and mask for your pain; when the pain subsides and/or you make money, you will go back to the plantation and simp and give redpillers a bad name. Come to the red pill when you really want to learn about female nature, and when you have developed the maturity to prefer bitter truth to sweet lies and the discipline to walk in the bitter truth instead of pleasurable lies.

If women and the family/happy-ever-after dream is all you want and you are broke, worked hard and improve yourself. After you have made it, go to the plantation and simp big time and play the male praying mantis all you want. Just stay in your lane and don't spoil the outlook of the redpillers.

I'll keep sharing this at intervals to remind us why we are here. Some guys are yet to understand why we are here. You can add more to the principles as I share.

Martinez39s:
He needs red pill in his life. The red pill is harsh, but it is not that harsh as we sometimes make it out to be; it's usually the case that we are emotionally invested in how we wish things were and in our blue-pill ambitions. There is nothing harsh or hard about the following facts/principles:

1) Women don't love you except for what they can benefit from you and how you make them feel.
2) Never invest in a woman or fund her lifestyle.
3) Never love or commit to a woman.
4) Learn to control your lust and don't confuse sex with love.
5) Don't let a woman's looks and beauty turn you into a mugu.
6) If you are not a monk, keep your sexual options open to other women and never narrow down to one woman.
7) Never tell a woman all about you: your past and personal details. She will readily use them against you when she feels like.
8 ) All women cheat. Women are hòes.
9) Women see and treat us like disposable and expendable utilities.

Given the way many former red-pill guys lose themselves back to the matrix after making money, I will say everyone should know where they stand. Red pill is serious truth. If you are broke and women are rejecting you to your frustration and hurt, don't use the red pill as a relief and mask for your pain; when the pain subsides and/or you make money, you will go back to the plantation and simp and give redpillers a bad name. Come to the red pill when you really want to learn about female nature, and when you have developed the maturity to prefer bitter truth to sweet lies and the discipline to walk in the bitter truth instead of pleasurable lies.

If women and the family/happy-ever-after dream is all you want and you are broke, worked hard and improve yourself. After you have made it, go to the plantation and simp big time and play the male praying mantis all you want. Just stay in your lane and don't spoil the outlook of the redpillers.

usebog:
I was aware of the redpill but to be sincere, the redpill can be bitter to swallow sometimes

I know about redpill and made terrible mistake

We've already said it that if you fail to ignore the truths of the red pill or (whatever name, some of you who think are, "smart" hiding under "I hate tags" call it), women will expose you. Even your money won't save you. The nature of women is solid as ever.

You are not the only one in it, look at the way, Africa's richest man is being dragged all over the Internet by a broke, homeless ghetto prostitute. Today (which is a Saturday), think about the high number of men saving spent hoes and trashy girls with the resources they worked hard for in the venture that is generally profitless for men, called Marriage.

Well, I like your courage to swallow pride and admit your mistakes. It's a stuff of men. Go clean up your act. It's your life. It's all in your hands.

Dapcity007:
Monk mode can be done cyclically with spinning plates, alternate it weekly, monthly, annually, life is both work and fun
That's how you test yourself and see your strength and weakness, how can you control your frame , goals, and women when in cyclical forms, it prepares you to be a Patriach and if you want to understand polygamous nature of having multiple wives, concubines and resources

With the dual cyclicality you would never have onetitis and you will achieve your goals

Follow only monk mode and then start chasing women, I can bet you will be a weak beta Simping for women after your redpill awareness

Cyclically alternating between both monk mode and spinning plates is understandable. This is temporary monk mode. Monk mode and Spinning plates are not the same as Junnior said which made you contradict yourself in earlier comments.

For your last paragraph, there are some men (a very minute minority) who have gone fully monk (permanent monk mode), even shunning society (Going ghost) and they are doing perfectly fine. They own their own spot, or buy spots on islands were they are not subjected to the dictates of society and the need to attract nor impress women (I heard of one in Greece). These are personal choices and the guys have the money to back it up.

Firstnebo:
What should be the meaning of the life of a Nigerian man?

I think this is the most important question a man (and a woman of course) should first all of answer before he can know how and where to place himself in this world.

So my question actually is what SHOULD BE the meaning of a Nigerian man's life?

I have followed ubunja, Martinez, Glycolysiss and others. Their posts end at how to place yourself in relation with women. (But for overthinking creatures like myself, I end up asking, "and after that, what then?" Yes, what then?)

Ubunja
Martinez39s
Capslocked
GLYCOLYSISS
BLOODYSPERM
Skepticus
Etc

Nigerian or no Nigerian.

Know what life is worth to you (only an individual can decide what life is worth to him), create your own path (considering factors beyond your control like your social class of birth, geographical location etc) and lead your way right through it.

Bluntguy:
This one is also a goner. Zip up, him no wan hear. See how many years of hard work just went down the drain because of wetin him get for house already. Idiot!

If u tell the ho.rny idi.ot before now, im/dem go say u be INCEL, Gay or a hater of women. I'm sexually attracted to women like every sexually-healthy man but my sense comes first. My peace, happiness and money before anything else.

Now, he risks losing his job and wasting years of efforts and money used in achieving his doctorate degree because of sticking his d.ick in a hole in the wrong setting.

No be all pussies man dey, fuucck and no be all location pesiin dey pick pusssy.

Personally, I always advice men to avoid women from where dey get their daily bread. See-finish go lead to disrespect, reduced productivity from her (if she is a subordinate. Having sex with her already makes you both equal) and even loss of job, if she decides to target you. Don't shiit where you eat.

Bachelors know more about women than married men; if they didn't, they'd be married too.

H.L.Mencken


#BetterBachelor #MGTOW #FreeAgent

Regex:
I been think say na only me this post hit.

Everyone with a sense here, would understand what it means. For me, it resonates deeper based on some personal "research" that I'm "running".

I'd love SOZINN to cite his source(s) of vague nuggets of truths like this. Not everyone has access to "deeper" truths like this. No compulsion, though.

Blackdisciple:
RIP bro, my dad always say to me be careful of your friends especially your own tribes men.

"On December 22, 2020, based on credible intelligence, police detectives attached to the Anwan Rogo Division, Jos, arrested one Mubarak Isah of Angwan Rimi, Jos, in possession of a tricycle with number plate QAP 142 WW, which he was about to dispose of.

These places mentioned above was a no go area back then in Jos after 2001 the Jos religious crises that rock the entire state and metropolis because those places it's a prone area consists of Muslim folks.

Memories, bro.

I was trapped in that place in the 2008 crises. Almost lost my life!

SOZINN:
Most whores are just honest women. Most women are just dishonest whores.

I'm archiving this. This quote is deeper than it appears on the surface #AWALT

aminu114:
martinex honestly u are a misogynist

What a hateful misogynist.

Martinez39s you are doing your job well

crazyclown:
Begi begi

Aswear!

Smelly Beggy-Beggy!

Martinez39s:
SMH.

Having a fling with a lady like this at the moment. Lol.

phineas:
1.it should not have taken the Senate this long

2.the world and history will note the outcome of this hearing.Remwmber how we all ask what did the people of Germany do during the genocide? Or what did the people and leaders of Belgium do when they heard their people in the Congo? That's the situation at play.What will/did the Senate do


3.One day one day.Some people will be brought to an international court on this matter.its common sense to know so.history also shows that happens with what sone people will argue is genocidal crime on this scale.Remember this has been going on for years in different locations.Plateau,Kaduna etc

4.The world is watching.The people of Nigeria are watching.This is no time for careless insentive words from the uneducated barbaric ones amongst them

5.Everyone involved in the matter /debate in the senate had best be wise.The outcome had best be useful.Today we will see if the Senate is a useful apparatus of our State structure or another semblance of protocol for personal gain

You will be a fool to expect any meaningful thing to come out of these useless discussions.

Nigerian politicians care less about you all.

When you continue to cover up the degeneracy in your society, allowing crippling poverty and illiteratcy to fester, hiding under religion in your quest for political power, the demons will grow till it becomes uncontrollable.

These parts of the north, are reaping the bountiful harvest in tears and bllod of the seed planted for years.

Regex:
Ever since this Igboho saga, I've been seeing Yorubas as cowards. No offense if you are one. This was what Nnamdi Kanu warned them off. NK told them that after Boko Haram deals with the North, they will come for the South, they thought it was a joke. Look what is happening now, even the so called Obas are not doing anything about it.

I now realise why in the Igbo land, we don't reverence our Kings like the Yorubas do. It's not hate, believe you me, but if they had played their part during the war, we will not be here. I hope the fulanis destroy them all including the middle belts.

The southeast also has its own share of cowards but the political system in Igbo land (Republican and stateless), though not perfect, keep these cowards in check.

Events in the last few years make me admire the Fulanis more than ever. It's not like their tactics are admirable or civil, but I respect societies who still have some level of dogged masculinity in a world populated by cowardly men. They make their moves silently and incorporate other ethnicities and manipulate them into achieving their Fulanization agenda.

I started to study them and was amazed at how an ethnic group not known to possess land manage to "bully" others from their lands, dominate them and spread their influence in about 34 countries in Africa. In fact, the presidents of Senegal, Equatorial Guinea, Guinea Bissau, Nigeria, Gambia are all core-fulanis. They dominate ECOWAS.

We might hate Buhari, but to the Fulanis, he occupies the hall of fame that Fulani heroes like Uthman Dan Fodio made. Real men.

Emily22:
Nigeria, I can never and will never sacrifice anything for this country...

Because those you believed you are fighting for (70%) will go against you at the end.

R.I.P to those that died during the #endsars stunt, they wasted their lives for nothing.... Absolutely nothing......

Few days after the whole shit, all ya Endsars influencers were clamouring for twitter verification (blue stars).

Few days after, we all moved on leaving the parents of those that died during the campaign to carry their burden..
I rem people talking about mental health on Twitter, diz are clowns that did not step a foot outside there home throughout the campaign..

About Sega, the guy is like a cutlass with two sides, don't be surprised if they offer him a political position in the nearest future..

.I guess he is a lagosian and you guys expect him to go against Lagos....During the Endsars, he was careful with his nonsense vocabularies in order not to provoke those at the top.

Please don't mention me...today is Sunday...let's keep it holy

Traitors of any sane protest movement would always come from so-called "activists".

Yorubas are never in short of these back-stabbers. There is a documented history of it from the past to the present day. A lot of them are elitist.

Personally, I want Sunday Igboho to abandon his struggle to clean Yoruba land so that Moróns who constitute a high number of the Yoruba Population would run to their "traitor" politicians/traditional rulers/leaders for help. Yeye people

fuckaholic25:
I foresee civil war!!

Nigeria is already in a civil war.

How some of you don't understand baffles me. The military with the aid of foreign militia men have invaded certain part of the country and fighting its citizens. There are insurrections that the same overstretched military is fighting on other fronts.

Wickedfacts:
The Army sent an Onyebushi for this job. Why didn't they send an Abdullahi or a Mohammed or Adamu.

There are always useful idi.ots for this kind of jobs. That is why I put my trust in my own hands not on some selfish politician or useless traditional leaders. Even your tribal man can be used to inflict damage on you and your community.

Make every effort within your reach to protect yourself now. Nigeria does not give a fucck about anyone.

tito44:
Stop lying unecessarily. AK 47 (iron butt,. Not the wooden butt used by the military) is the inferior one and it is not less than 200k on the street

I suspected so.

Anyways, you know where one can get it. I wouldn't mind those old beretta pistols often used by the police. Nigeria is in a state of war. Insurrections, robberries, kidnappings etc everywhere. One needs to stay strapped

loosecanon50:
The day of reckoning is just around the corner. Buy AK-47 now and stand guard because it will come in handy. It's just 45k on the street.

I need that stuff like crazy. Even if it is one of those hold Beretta pistols that police men hold. Guy man needs to stay strapped.

BLOODYSPERM:
The problem is that most guys still have the white knight syndrome which is as a result of our Biological propensity to protect our loved ones and the weak in the Society especially women, women subconsciously know this , hence they would continue to get the attention they need because they are playing to our instinctive protective nature

The only solution is self awareness of these nature and prioritizing your needs above any woman as simple as it sounds many men even redpill aware can't do it

The red pill can't be handled by every man. Some learn of it and discard it when their natural instinct to procreate (sexual feelings) takes over. For the rest, the biological instinct to be "protectors" of women and children overwhelms them. Each to his own. What makes me happy in all is that if you are weak as a man, women will expose you and "punish" you for the SIMP that you are.

Regex:
To think the dude brought a thread she opened to hurt her emotions. Shit just backfired.

I just found out they have been engaged in emotional-laden back-and-forths on some other thread. Well, you can't out-talk women nor continuously engage them in petty arguments that boosts her childish ego. She'll outclass you with experience and drag your masculinity in the mud.

Many guys will learn the hard way.

fattprince:
Martinez, skepticus, luminous and other redpiller here. I'm really sorry for falling unexpectedly. I didn't mean to. I should have followed the rule but all in all I'm sorry. It wouldn't happen again.

I'm not even pissed at you for replying. It's an unwritten rule we agreed on at the beginning of this thread to help men focus on the purpose of the thread as men are known to "LOSE FOCUS" when women enter into an "all-male" space.

Occasionally, guys here, reply female monikers with comments that put them in their place. It's acceptable but when a known female moniker on nairaland makes a comment on any topic or thread, with words that troll and sarcastically insult men, I deliberately ignore so that I don't fall into the trap (shît test) she set. I and other men here called you out because you are a man. No word for the female moniker, she is doing what women are naturally conditioned to do - which is testing for weakness in men and using it to their advantage.

Your "shalaye" reply was unnecessary for a known female attention seeker commenting on a thread dedicated to "educating" and "liberating" men with taunting terms like "Alfa". Some of these female monikers use "Alfa Meils" - a red flag, which is intended to taunt and insult your masculinity and you see guys continue to engage these female monikers with sensible logical comments, instead of calling her out on her misbehaviour directly (or equally taunting her with sarcasm) or ignoring her outrightly. In the end, you end up giving her free validation and the opportunity to poke holes in your frame, which is exactly what she wants.

SOZINN:
Normally na gunshot be the penalty for this your crime
but

Just fight your own battles and liberate yourself as an individual. The few pages of this thread is enough to give more than 80% of "masculine common sense" information that is relevant to guys. You can't "SAVE" everyone and not everyone screaming "red pill" and all, would agree with you or be disciplined enough to apply it in their real lives. Simpletons will always abound even if they swallow the red pill daily. These "common sense" is not for all men. Some part of it is not even meant to go mainstream. A lot of men are not built to handle the "truths" that these "common sense" brings.

Handle your stuff privately as a liberated individual. Having money and being wealthy is good but the sweet thing about the red pill is that women would spot you out as a weak pussy whether you are broke or having billions of dollars (that often impress men and cover up masculine/confidence issues up) and expose you for the "fraud" that you are.

Strange enough, Fattprince should know better, being an active moniker at the earlier stages of this thread but chose to fail the shît tests of a cûnt who has been trying very hard to get the attention of men here, from the time the thread was created and was constantly ignored. Study the moniker of this "attention seeking" cûnt and observe how she has created topics to garner the attention of thirsty beta males and how she ridicules them at ease. Only few men who have their masculine game intact, called her out on her bullcrap on those topics.

descarado:
The press is having a field day as well as the fulanis.

It will die a natural death like others. Fulanis will strategize again and start from where they stopped.
Their aim is one thing. Conquer by all means.

All fulanis have one voice. No liberate fulani and Nigeria is seen as their headquarter.

They rode on the back of Muslim to conquer and dominate using cattle herding as a front.

I hate to say this:

Now, I respect the Fulanis more. Very strategic set of people. Though being landless nomads, they have planned their ways through the centuries stealing lands and conquering its natives. Now, they hold very influential positions in almost all of western and central africa.

Madibah:
Puff adder

Oxtertee:
Man wey Sabi. Thanks

That's a Gaboon Viper, the snake with the longest fangs in the world. This specimen is big, if it was captured alive (which is very difficult), it will fetch good money for the OP, being sold to wild snake collectors. It is scarce and a favourite of these collectors, especially Americans.

A deadly ambush predator, it can wait for more than 8 hours in a motionless position for prey to pass by before it strikes.

It camouflages in dead and dry leaf materials (in the south), sandy areas (in the north) where it comes in contact with humans, mostly farmers and bites for protection. It's quite common in the thick forests of the southwest.

Its cytotoxic venom will bring a man down in 30 minutes or less.

Sad truth. Heaven won't fall if both Sunday Igboho or Nnamdi Kanu are killed today. There may be protests and violent reactions here and there but after few months, it will fizzle out like every rightful protest before it. Some of the cowardly citizenry (whom these guys are risking their lives to protect) would blame and mock them in death with "I told you so" commentaries. Others would protest online, create trending hashtags and end it there. Some of the cowardly youths who are mostly stupid, would make comic memes and cringy distasteful nonsense they call comedy videos to mock them in the name of humour. In all of these, the smart Fulani quietly make their advances claiming land, and augmenting it with banditry, kidnapping, robbery, assassinations, rustling and racketeering. Their subjugation of Gobir (Sokoto) and other parts of the Hausa-north were carefully planned and done in small but effective steps till the Hausas got under their subjugation. Presently, they are doing same with Dogon Farmers in Mali, The Mossis in Burkina Faso and making gains in the political confusion of Central African Republic.

Not in support of the expansionist and criminal elements of the Fulanis like the clown who made a comment above mine but there are positive points that can be made out of the incursions into the middle belt and southern territories perpetrated by landless, nomadic criminal elements of the Fulanis.

In the era of peace and comfort, weak men dominate the society from the leaders to the followers and when threat shows up next door, they are jolted into the shocking reality they were never prepared for.

The present menace created by these criminal elements exposed a few things:

1. The unreliability of politicians. Only a deluded fool will expect the Federal Government or the State Government to curb these menace. Over time, they have proven to be largely ineffective as politicians are about their survival, and interest. The poor locals are practically on their own on this one. Able bodied men should mobilize to protect themselves and take back what belongs to them.

2. Traditional ruling class filled with weaklings and spineless zombies. One can argue that the hostilities and rivalries that characterized precolonial societies in Nigeria raised courageous and battle-tested men. Traditional rulers were selected from these men. The relative comfort of today contributes to men that lack courage, integrity, political jobbers, career criminals occupying traditional leadership positions. When the Fulani threat showed up, most can stand for their people for the fear of the president who has the expansionist mentality of his Fulani ancestors. He is contributing his own "quota" in this expansionist ideology by acting deaf to the cries of those brutalized by these criminals, and engaging in other distractive schemes that covertly support their agenda