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emmaodet:You are married. There is no need for remorse. Just be grateful that you are married within the laws of Nigeria. No one will kick you out of your own house for a woman, nor force you to pay a woman for 18 years whether she had kids that are yours or not (as I have seen so far, in Nigeria). Be hopeful for the best and appreciate the woman you have, but be PREPARED for the worst and be on guard. It's not all about NEGATIVITY. Despite the promiscuity and manipulations of our ladies, the little "conservativeness" and low influence of "simping" laws in Nigeria still make them "manageable" for long term relationships, though I'll personally chose not to deal with them on a long term. |
Freddo99:Whenever you see the federal government or defence headquarters rush to the media to vomit their usual nonsense about weakening Boko Haram or destroying them, just know it that Boko Haram is on the offensive, embarrassing the clueless Nigerian army. It is saddening that Boko Haram speak the truth and back up their words with action and showing evidence of it, than our lying federal government. In the next days to come, Boko Haram will release live videos of their assault at Marte on jihadist sites that will get here while your Nigerian army will begin to lie and cover their cowardice with nonsensical terms like "Tactical Retreat", "Neutralize insurgents" etc. No evidence or evidence of some burnt vehicles which the terrorists stole from the army. Make we dey there dey deceive ourselves. As far as some people within the government, the army and some external elements are feeding fat from this insurgency, e nor go end. |
MemoriesAndMe: Shaev7: IamHonourable1:It's obvious that you guys don't understand sarcasm. Sorry, life must be tough on you. Loosen up a bit. If Lying Mohammed and Garbage Shehu says that the North is peaceful and Boko Haram has been eliminated, who is Kriss216 not to support them in sarcasm. ![]() |
Ifeoluwa93:That question will never be answered, though there are those who have it but their greed would never make them do it. These British fraud is going down. It's just a matter of time. |
EduTechTainMent:Take your virtue-signalling crap and moral judgement elsewhere. You don't know me and i care less about the "wrongs" that you do in your personal life, seeing it is not my business I shared my experiences to make OP see what may likely be going on. I could decide not to, and nothing would happen but i decided to "open-up" since Nigerian men usually fall for women's manipulations a lot. He sought for our opinions/advice and we shared it. The decision is in his hands to make. No one is putting a gun on his forehead to follow their advice. |
![]() The question should be "What makes a girl not boring?" because, girls are so boring, they are boring to themselves and wait for men to light up their mood. Those things ehnnnn! |
Dididrumz: ![]() Cigarettes/Weed smoking and cursing at men all day. |
gregyboy:That year, I was still young with hormones running wild. Your girl waka enta my den, I straff am. No joy. I have no regrets about it as the women wanted it and felt no regret about it either. We all moved on. I had friends that did a lot of things "wilder" than me (my mind couldn't carry it) banging women that were pregnant for other men and all. Inside Life. Those days are long gone and I have my senses intact now. The lesson I learnt is trust women at your own peril, knowing how sexually "useless" they can be. Even, that one you claim that you believe, isn't exempted. The only difference is that she is either not being caught yet or she hasn't seen the "right opportunity" to do it. |
gregyboy:It's bigger than losing feelings. That girl OP talked about na most likely Coded Street girl wey dey run package on top the OP head. As she see say OP don engage her (wedding on the way), she use the few months wey she get as single babe, they "sort" her old boyfriend(s) which is giving them "parting sex" before her marriage. All go be clean runs, no social media chat so that the OP no go suspect. I don straff babe like that 3 days to her wedding. Babe just call me say she wan give me "parting gift" before wedding. Deletes call as soon as she made them to clean up "evidence". Na banging all night before she go wed for PH 3 days later. That's why paternity fraud for Nigeria be like water. Na so plenty men take dey train first children wey nor be dia own. I just dey laugh the OP. Girl dey run "street" parole on am and e nor wan understand. He should be glad that he has a good "subconscious" telling him that something is wrong. |
Serene123:When your guts start hinting at something, it is most likely right. All these "friends" na mostly fûck mates. You don't wanna turn a slût into a housewife or start doubting the paternity of your child. By the way, drop that stupid feminine emotions called love. Men don't need love in relationship with women. RESPECT and LOYALTY is what a man needs that is why our forefathers who understood women never used that silly word, called love. It is an emotion that can fade off and for women. Any decision made on emotion never ends well in the long run. Use your brain, brother. This girl seem to be ahead of you in the "street" game of relationships. |
SOZINN:AWALT things lol. At 40 and being a single mother, the reality of the inevitable wall has hit her. Though, for her age, she is considerably, sexually-attractive but with her money, all she would attract her male leeches, male gold-diggers and men who don't want want full commitment (Teebillz, Dr. Sid, Wizkid, I see you all). She may be lucky to find a divorcee/single dad or rich simp to commit to her (Nigeria has lots of them). She is playing the CHAMELEON to warm herself into the good books of men and probably improve her image as a "decent" woman to whatever man that she might be dating now. But, we all know her tales of whoring with both old and young in the industry (damaged). Her recent good girl "image" won't deceive men of the Red Pill, if it does to others. I only appreciate her "courage" to make a post like this at the risk of pissing feminist/women empowerment folks off. Wondering what would be on the minds of the Super-damaged, Toke Makinwa and Tonto Dike, on reading her post. |
luminouz:You should know better. That guy you quoted said the pure truth. As long as your name and signature is on the birth certificate, you carry the responsibilities. It will take a good lawyer and a lenient judge to get him out of the mess that he got himself into. That's what SIMPs get for being ignorant of women's nature in a country where the laws is very biased against men. |
Olakunleyakub:MGTOW guys MGTOW |
Princeofasia:You sabi dem. Some go write: "I sell bespoke clothes etc" "I will swear for you if you send me hook up message" - whereas, the pretentious idi.ot na the queen of hook up sef. Inside life. |
Princeofasia:Na dem easy to fuuuck pass. Dem go write "no hook-up" for their inmessage status but once you begin relate with dem and dem reply u with "hmmm" - Olosho on point. Na OT I give u so. |
SOZINN:At the bolded, a girl/woman can be truly "in love" with you, though it is extremely rare to find such but when you do, count yourself extremely lucky. Here, my definition of finding a girl who is truly "in love" is not the nigerian man's "definition" of a woman that is truly in love with him. Most of them (Nigerian guys/boys/men) know NOTHING about females' truest attraction nor leadership in relationship. I'll get to that later. SOZINN:At the bolded, I saw the whole discussions and drama that happened in relation to the paternity fraud trend on Social Media. What i found very worrying, that escaped the attention of most people on the issue of paternity fraud is that NIGERIA as country was mentioned (the only country in Africa) in ALMOST every documented research done on the issue of paternity fraud worldwide. The ones done in Nigeria put it between 50 - 75 percent of women giving birth to babies who are fathered by men who have no genetic connection to these babies. I saw one TEDx talk research putting it at a conservative 30 percent. The disturbing point of these researches proves that a high number of Nigerian men (poor, middle-class, rich, old, middle-aged, and young) are mostly SIMPs who are also highly ignorant of the nature of women, and that Nigerian women (from the south to the so-called "prudish" north) are highly promiscuous or a terrible combination of both. If you are a Nigerian man in the "business of promiscuity" whether as a gigolo, pim.p. player, religious leader (some religious leaders like pastors, imams, and those in secular leadership positions like CEOs use it to great advantages in getting women attracted to them) or just an average "fuûck boy", you'll slay a lot of pûssies (single, about-to-be-married, married, pregnant, divorced etc) easily because of the ignorance of the average Nigerian guy on what women do or are capable of doing. I remember sharing the link of a Nigerian guy who revealed his escapades with so-called "decent" married women earlier on this thread. There have been many threads on front page of Pastors, Imams, Native doctors sleeping with women of all status and background without the knowledge of their boyfriends, fiances and husbands. I have had some personal experiences in this "promiscuity" too, and like most men who have been in my shoes, they stay off marriage because they see the nonsense that modern women are made of. I don't trust a woman telling me "Good morning ". I'll go outside to confirm of it is truly morning time. Like someone said earlier on this thread, most of those Saturday Marriages are just men saving hoes. Ubunja in his miseducations and miseducashins, has revealed some of these, but the "moral" posturing (which includes some red-pillers) and blue-pill conditioning of nigerian men is so strong that the underlying message of these miseducations and miseducashins fly over their heads. |
pocohantas:Result of high-grade gold-digging. Respect to her "hustle". No wonder male to female transgender transformation has seen a spike in recent years. Being a man almost sucks. |
GLYCOLYSISS:One's immediate family can be quite manipulative especially mothers and sisters when it comes to taking major personal life decisions like marriage or career, but that doesn't mean that one should cut them off totally. Most men trust the opinions of their blood relatives which is okay but a limit should be drawn when it is reaching into slaving for them (e.g mother-worshipping) at the expense of your own happiness. One can be distant to establish healthy boundaries, leaving room for communication and reconciliation. If it is true that Kobe cut his family off because of Vanessa, it means that he was a SIMP (Putting vagina over everything else that mattered to him). I don't know much details about his marriage life but the latest I read about him was the mother of his wife, Vanessa suing her daughter to pay money for the time she spent babysitting the kids and all. Vanessa in turn accused her mother of being a leech, divorce-raping her father at the family courts. Now that they are fighting each other over Kobe's estate and assets, it gets more shameful. Too bad that he married into the family of these predatory thieves (Mother and Daughter) but that is what you get for being a simp. Kobe's family have lost this one, courtesy of their simping son. |
Mindlog:If dat babe get sense, make e go beg im husband. Men who don't react immediately like that are very dangerous in the long run. |
![]() Peaceyw:Nothing to be pissed at. That's a woman at her hypergamic best. Those are the best of standards she wants in a man. Maybe somewhere, one simp is working his ass off physically and financially to meet that standard to please her and "buy" her attention. It doesn't remove the fact that she is delusional. These delusions though, do a good job of "hyping her value" which could deceive lots of SIMPs into "worshipping" her. The problem is men lowering their own standards because of thirst, and ignorance. Ask the same lady if she can cook, clean, take care of the kids, a virgin (or with low body-count), build with you if money comes short and you'll see her stuttering. Also, ask her what value she brings to the table without her vagina, you'll get a deafening silence. That should tell you how men of today sell themselves short in dating/marrying modern girls. |
Junnior:You are not wrong to think that way. It just shows that you are red-pill aware. Date who you want to and understand that your leadership as a man is easier when you are chosen. Relationships like the ones you described may often have the wife or your in-laws abuse and disrespect you, but as a man, be positive, about what you are getting into, while having your brain switched on 24 hours to be able to spot any manipulations/disrespect (without being overtly insecure like an emotional man) being done on you and how to address it. Some may not be manipulative and abusive but this doesn't mean you should lose your guard, get caught in emotions till they lose respect for you and begin to walk over you. Don't just sit there as a "horse-band". Use her family's wealth and connection to build yourself to earn the family's respect as man who can hold his own. If she turns out to be a spoilt, cheeky brat with in-laws who are also not respectful of your commitment to their daughter, use the EXIT door. It's better losing all and having your dignity and worth as a man, than surrender to their abuse and disrespect where you'll also be written off and probably dumped in the end. If the disrespect comes to physical abuse like a slap, retaliate with another slap damning the consequences or if you are the type who don't like noisy confrontation, walk out the door and cut her off completely. Once she has done it once, she is very likely to repeat it again. Also, men should try to work on their appearance, and demeanour that women find "intimidating". I'm not talking about being a bully or being aggressive. Your tone of voice, body posture, having muscles (I'm a body builder) instills "fear" in women and she'll think twice before trying to hurt you physically. Once you look weak, bitchy tone of voice, these damaged women won't think twice in hurting you physically. There are crazy, hyper-damaged ladies who would try to hurt you physically regardless of your "intimidation". These types need an equal measure of violence to be put back in place. Like it is with men, if you are in a relationship/partnership with a woman where you think you can't have it better in life and other dealings, when she (or he) leaves you, or you leave her (or other men), you are under bondage as a slave. |
Regex:The idi.ot deserves what he is getting. I'm sure the signs were there but they'll turn her into a wife because she is light-skinned and beautiful. Foolish men. |
Jman06:Briffault's law. You are smart. |
Not surprised. He (Trump) has German roots. Twitter will pick up once again once the Trump hysteria dies down. It's a matter of time. |
SOZINN:Well, you can't help everyone and a lot will deliberately, not listen to you. That your sister will go far. Train her to use her femininity to great advantage, building herself and getting a simp to do it for her or just go the conservative way of being a complementary and submissive partner to a man of great worth. Once she begin to throw pusssy around carelessly, broke boys go just chop clean mouth. |
Saviolamemphix:No be all of them go enter Shiloh. The ones wey play their "game" well go hit am big. Reason your Nollywood "actresses" - Wetin dem dey "act" wey dem dey build mansions, business plazas, buy cars, build big investments? while their male counterparts dey beg for 50k for common surgery. E get why! Any man wey get sense here (I believe we all are) gats pick the underlying message from that girl post - PUT YOURSELF FIRST - which is the core message behind the red pill, regardless of where u use am. She don put her needs ahead of anybody and if she play the game well, plenty mumu dey wey go worship her with their lives and money. Abi, no be Nigeria wey simping be our culture? Even the red pill is not exempted, Martinez39s share one WhatsApp chat screenshot here yesterday and wetin I see for one of the messages touch me: Some people dey claim Red Pill because of poverty, when money show, that your red pill guy fit run leave you go dey worship women wey boys don pass around dat year. Smh |
ubunja:In the end, just do you. I've never been a fan of tearing other men down especially when we share quite a lot in common than the few differences we have. This expression of anger and being rude at another man because of little disagreement on some points here is needless and shows mental weakness on some part. Express your opinion of whatever is tabled and move on. As the knowledge of masculine common sense spreads, the fold gets bigger and as it gets bigger, guys from different backgrounds and different levels of mental maturity and experiences starts to show up. You'll have to deal with the ignorant, the uncouth, the inexperienced and just plain idiotic trolls from time to time and you'll find them very annoying. At least, the attention you get shows that you have some level of influence here that has been built over time. Like you have always done, state your opinion of things in respectful language and leave everyman to their device. When it comes to GAME, the part of the red pill where a man uses knowledge gained from evolutionary biology, sociology, basic human psychology to place his needs as top priority when dealing with women in romantic/sexual and non sexual relationship, it will take a lot to unplug from the matrix because of factors beyond you and those who oppose your idea of dealing with exes. These factors are ingrained from childbirth, environments influenced and even genetics. When dealing with women, no matter how much you try to drum your position, in practical reality, people can only play the GAME from their position of mental understanding and other external advantages. For instance, standing 6'5 tall, you are most likely to get chosen by women and play your game easily on her in dating (or outside of it) over a guy who is below 5'5 in height and probably having a hyper religious background where GAME is considered "immoral" (when women are running their own game on him). In another instance, as it concerns the exes thing, a guy who was once in the blue-pill conditioning of worshipping women above himself, could have suffered a traumatic heartbreak from a girl he truly loved tolerating heavy abuse and disrespect till the red pill liberated him. Some may see no reason to associate with such a destructive, manipulative ex and its understandable. Like i said earlier about environmental conditioning, a lot of guys still believe that the ONLY way to associate with a woman on a deeper level is "FORMAL DATING". Some guys get their way with women without the need for asking her out FORMALLY. We all have what works for us, as long as you are not a simp (someone who pedestalizes vagina above himself). Someone like me who has never dated a lady exclusively (I have loved the conveniences of Friends With Benefits/No Strings Attached that come my way because from younger years, I found dating quite "stressful" I did better with women who chose me), have had it easy doing business with these f*** buddies even when they got married to their current spouses. When we separate (mostly intitated by them), I make our separation less bitter which opens way for lifelong friendship that can be beneficial to us both and most in fact, do reach out to me long after I have forgotten about them. Knowing the economic fact that men make money but women spend them, I get them to pressurise their husbands to buy my stuff. Good business for me. It is all subjective. It is well. |
![]() You won't believe this is Nigeria. GTFOH |
ubunja:He was played in a deal with the CEO of Deathrow records, Marion "SUGE" Knight. Dr. Dre's affair is a big surprise though. Coming from a background (poor neighbourhood of Compton and Oakland in California), and excelling as a music producer of a genre of music that reference red pill contents quite often (Gangsta Rap), you wouldn't expect him to fall for the "marriage-trap", especially to a lady that has been passed around in the rap industry. I don't blame him though, his billionaire status is not one that can be achieved without some "blue-pilledness" |
Junnior:I get your point Junnior. Only few men (a rare 2% in our world today) can earn enough to simp for women all their life, even in death. Jeff Bezos falls in that list. For the remaining 98%, some will never make that money, some will earn average, and the rest will earn just enough to last some decades in which depreciation will set in. Getting divorce-raped in court makes you a simp but not a simp overall like Jeff. He still picked up after losing a lot in divorce. A lot of men are not fortunate like Jeff, some have become homeless sleeping in their cars, trucks or even commuting suicide out of frustration. Ubunja, like you always advised those vagina folks in your miseducashins, target rich simps like Jeff who still believe in the blue-pilled delusions of love and "happily-ever-afters". |
ubunja:He didn't play his "game" well in a society that worships women. His wife's game was top notch - make money from a rich guy who believed in the illusion of love (a simp target). He is not a simp though (when you look at it deeply). He has managed to still improve his net worth after his costly divorce. Being a man of that high SMV, you become a target of gold digging women who disguise as wives/soulmate. His wife cashed out big time. I don't blame her. Elon Musk is a "curious" case being able to pull off the "stunt" of not staying "married" in a highly gynocentric society that promotes marriage and requires some level of "blue-pilledness" to be stupendously rich. |
Junnior:I'm glad that Elon Musk hustles paid off to make him the world's richest man at the moment Some time, last November on this thread (he was 3rd at the time, on Forbes list of the world's richest men), I made reference to Jeff Bezos divorce and the loss that came with it. His wife entered Forbes list as a billionaire from that divorce. I also referenced Elon Musk to "take note" and avoid the deadly games of western women. Gladly, he has been "going his own way" dating and banging women on short term basis. He is the only public figure that has openly acknowledged the RED PILL. In the long run, I hope it works well for him in managing his wealth. |
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