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Regex:
There's this girl, I do follow her WhatsApp status. She teaches women and men on how to take care of their genitals believe you me, I did learn one or twos from her. But one thing which made me continue to follow her still (major) is that she's building my confidence. How is she doing it you'd ask. She do post reviews from her audience which are 90% females and I discovered that women love sex more than men think. They're not in love, they're just addicted to the dick game. I wake up each day having in mind, that timid looking Esther or Tope in her mind has undressed me a million times than I have.

The vagina has more sensual nerve endings than the glans of the penis (the part of the penis highly sensitive to arousal) which makes women enjoy sex more. Women can have multiple orgasm as much as 15 during a sex session where men embarrassingly, have one at a time.

Women get aroused easily as men (if not more) but are forced to hide it, not to appear as a slut and give her a leverage in the game. Men are the initiators and with society's tolerance of men's open expression of horniness, they think they love sex better than women. Pure BS.

Degrezhaa:
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At the bolded, they are not the same person but maybe sha

We are not the same. I'm not in the business of using 2 or more monikers. It's kinda childish to me. However, I do have an alternative moniker I barely use in case the mods try to be foolish.

ubunja:
eish man, and guys were VERY EMOTIONAL on that Adulteressss thread. Everyone was pissed.instead of learning.

There's a South African website that is anonymous where anyone can post anything without even registering an account, dude, ALL DAY LONG EVERYDAY ITS CONFESSIONS LIKE THIS. Actually worse ones. Too bad 80% of the posts are in zulu language and most outsiders wouldn't understand much! But it's such crazy stuff 24/7. With wives talking about doing gang bangs, virgins asking for anal, older 40s women looking for 20s men etc. It's crazy. What guys got angry over in that Adultressssss thread is nothing compared to what women are doing out there.

Lol. I don't doubt your position. Many years back when I was into body building, I had the privilege of working in an environment where club girls and prostitutes frequented, as a bouncer. I saw female manipulations at a rudimentary stage. Some, I understood at the time. The others, I understood much later. I saw what ladies did with manipulations, what they were capable of doing and their general view of men, which made me extremely "SKEPTICAL" of their intentions (the reason for my moniker) generally. They revealed sordid truths in-between. I didn't want to talk much about my experiences earlier on this thread when I found the red pill, seeing that on Nairaland, some of the men were lousy talkatives, attention-seekers wanting to be in every talk or nay-sayers who try to troll.

Funny enough, Nigerian women can be as crazy as their Zulu/Xhosa (The promiscuity of South African women is familiar to Nigerian folks) Counterparts (if they don't do worse) but the religious and culturally-conservative blue-pilling is so strong, these fools don't see how slutty their own women could be. The news of planned sex parties/orgies in the Muslim-conservative north that graced nairaland Front Page recently, should be an indicator. In the more liberal-south, sexual degeneracy is open and widespread like fire. The north isn't better in that regard, though.

In Nigeria, I have spent decent years of my life living from the South-West(Christian/Muslim/Animist) to the Predominatly muslim North East (having a decent Christian minority). To the south east, South-South(Christian majority with animist minorities) and the North Central (Middle-belt which is Christian/Muslim with animist minorities). It's the same game going on, but at different levels which only those with their "ears to the ground" understand well. I'll shed more light on them subsequently, as the thread progresses.

demanuel:
I don't know if that thread is genuine, but giving it the benefit of the doubt and reading with an open mind, that thread is a very deep thread. It's a redpill thread I wonder why guys are angry.
The matter shock them

I understood the position of some men here and Ubunja complaining about some guys being "emotional" about certain issues. I believe that it had to do with their "zombie-like" immersion in the blue pill when they were SIMPs which made them take very extreme "emotional" positions when they swallowed the Red Pill.

The problem is that some men let their emotions (which they mistake as "discipline" ) prevent them, learning from the experience of others. I once shared the link of a guy describing his "escapades" with married women here. A lot didn't react to it. On that thread, I saw two confirmed female monikers talk about how "common" cheating, happens without their husbands knowing about it. These "husbands" are the bulk of Nigerian men who "always" think they "know" women (but in fact, they know nothing, even about the women they married as wives). I see them all the time.

I saw the thread you were talking about and how female monikers but mostly male monikers were trying to shut the "adulteress" OP from saying much. Some said it was fake. Others said it was "copy and paste" but I swear, all the story shared by "adulteress" whether it was fake or not, are tales that are very capable of happening. As a matter of fact, it is highly capable of happening within the "Nigerian Context" as Nigerian men have proven themselves to be irredeemable SIMPs going by the very high rate Nigeria has featured in, concerning all popular researches and statistics on Paternity Fraud.

I shared the posts of confirmed female "f" monikers who had supported the Adultery OP story to prove how women were better cheats over men in the hope that those who followed me get the message. Women know a lot that men do not know.

I "Follow" a lot of "f" monikers than "m" monikers since I joined Nairaland for a reason. It's not fool-proof though, but I understand the intricacies from experience. Those "f" monikers include your popular feminist monikers, attention-seekers, female clowns and the ones run by men. Also, I know some "m" monikers with females behind them. I use it to guage the mood of the females (pussy-cartel) and their "private" judgement of serious issues on this platform. I have never been disappointed. I even saw one on a thread on paternity fraud. The last 5 pages of that thread had popular feminist monikers here (Nigeria and abroad) discuss on how to handle "slut-shaming" techniques used by nairalander males on them. It was very detailed. Most male monikers wouldn't notice it because they were either "stupidly" trolling, fighting silly "gender supremacy" battles or being "foolishly" moralistic, that they didn't notice the intricacies of manipulations "planned" by these women. I've been studying women "remotely" and I've been "awwed" by all I have learnt from them concerning "male" manipulations. One with "m" starting, and two "a" ending her moniker is presently studying everything we discuss here. She had made an "attention-seeking" comment here recently and it was rightfully ignored. On the Internet, Popular Gold Digging females are noticing the red pill and discussing on how to manipulate the so-called red pilled dudes into becoming their slaves and SIMPs. These bitches aren't slacking. Use your head, dudes.

Okoroawusa:
Hahahaha! Even the mods have abandoned Arsenal

emmaodet:
Assuming i know what i know now, i would have stayed very very farrrrrrrrrrrr from marriage and i do tell my wife that if she leaves for any reason/die(God forbid), am through and done with marriage. Don't need any more.
Knowing that you are only valued and cared about because of what you bring home sometimes make me feel like crying. Knowing that nobody will have my back if/when am down and the only and last person am counting on, empowering with large cash to set-up or struggling to process a visa for so that we can travel and have a better life won't reciprocate if table turns, has activated a signal/an alarm bell in my brain and right now, with the awareness of TRP and other lamentations on nairaland, am already taking dressing and covering my side sharply before i fall victim.

You are married. There is no need for remorse. Just be grateful that you are married within the laws of Nigeria. No one will kick you out of your own house for a woman, nor force you to pay a woman for 18 years whether she had kids that are yours or not (as I have seen so far, in Nigeria).

Be hopeful for the best and appreciate the woman you have, but be PREPARED for the worst and be on guard. It's not all about NEGATIVITY. Despite the promiscuity and manipulations of our ladies, the little "conservativeness" and low influence of "simping" laws in Nigeria still make them "manageable" for long term relationships, though I'll personally chose not to deal with them on a long term.

Freddo99:
just yesterday i was reading about the defence headquarters claiming to have weaken the boko boys.

Whenever you see the federal government or defence headquarters rush to the media to vomit their usual nonsense about weakening Boko Haram or destroying them, just know it that Boko Haram is on the offensive, embarrassing the clueless Nigerian army.

It is saddening that Boko Haram speak the truth and back up their words with action and showing evidence of it, than our lying federal government. In the next days to come, Boko Haram will release live videos of their assault at Marte on jihadist sites that will get here while your Nigerian army will begin to lie and cover their cowardice with nonsensical terms like "Tactical Retreat", "Neutralize insurgents" etc. No evidence or evidence of some burnt vehicles which the terrorists stole from the army.

Make we dey there dey deceive ourselves. As far as some people within the government, the army and some external elements are feeding fat from this insurgency, e nor go end.

MemoriesAndMe:
How much were you paid to make this comment? Many sources agree with this news, a few of you paid folks go around screaming fake news. Shame on you and those paying you to continue deceiving Nigerians by making them believe Nigeria has overcome insurgency, which isn't true.

Shaev7:
All these people saying North is peaceful, hmmmm be careful o. What part of the North is peaceful? So you mean what you saying? okay. Go and build your house in Borno state na

IamHonourable1:
Are you really alright upstairs?

It's obvious that you guys don't understand sarcasm. Sorry, life must be tough on you. Loosen up a bit.

If Lying Mohammed and Garbage Shehu says that the North is peaceful and Boko Haram has been eliminated, who is Kriss216 not to support them in sarcasm.

Ifeoluwa93:
Do you know what it take to over run a bridge?
A bridge has 3 battalion with a support unit
That particular bridge has more than 2/5 ranks
And they we overpowered.
Question 1
Who is sponsoring bokoharam ?
What is the work of the airforce ?
Where is the artillery?

The truth is bokoharam are not relentless in their pursuit for victory.
And soldiers are dieing every day.

The very day we answer this question, the very day bokoharam ends.

That question will never be answered, though there are those who have it but their greed would never make them do it.

These British fraud is going down. It's just a matter of time.

EduTechTainMent:
This here is what is wrong with many on this thread. We share our thoughts based on our past actions or inactions. Different strokes for different folks sha.

Take your virtue-signalling crap and moral judgement elsewhere. You don't know me and i care less about the "wrongs" that you do in your personal life, seeing it is not my business

I shared my experiences to make OP see what may likely be going on. I could decide not to, and nothing would happen but i decided to "open-up" since Nigerian men usually fall for women's manipulations a lot.

He sought for our opinions/advice and we shared it. The decision is in his hands to make. No one is putting a gun on his forehead to follow their advice.

The question should be "What makes a girl not boring?" because, girls are so boring, they are boring to themselves and wait for men to light up their mood. Those things ehnnnn!

Dididrumz:
Just imagine Tonto Dike giving birth to a girl child, what does she want to teach her?

Cigarettes/Weed smoking and cursing at men all day.

gregyboy:
You for still resist am, banging a lady days to her marriage is no no, toto is over rated or rather sex


You for reject the sex my conscience nor go allow do wetin u do sha

Anyway op must learn d hard way i hate soft boys

That year, I was still young with hormones running wild. Your girl waka enta my den, I straff am. No joy. I have no regrets about it as the women wanted it and felt no regret about it either. We all moved on. I had friends that did a lot of things "wilder" than me (my mind couldn't carry it) banging women that were pregnant for other men and all. Inside Life.

Those days are long gone and I have my senses intact now. The lesson I learnt is trust women at your own peril, knowing how sexually "useless" they can be. Even, that one you claim that you believe, isn't exempted. The only difference is that she is either not being caught yet or she hasn't seen the "right opportunity" to do it.

gregyboy:
Bro move dont be a simp to a lady, take your stance as a man, and walk out

Welcome to reality bro, she lost feeling, you better start doing thesame

It's bigger than losing feelings. That girl OP talked about na most likely Coded Street girl wey dey run package on top the OP head.

As she see say OP don engage her (wedding on the way), she use the few months wey she get as single babe, they "sort" her old boyfriend(s) which is giving them "parting sex" before her marriage. All go be clean runs, no social media chat so that the OP no go suspect. I don straff babe like that 3 days to her wedding. Babe just call me say she wan give me "parting gift" before wedding. Deletes call as soon as she made them to clean up "evidence". Na banging all night before she go wed for PH 3 days later. That's why paternity fraud for Nigeria be like water. Na so plenty men take dey train first children wey nor be dia own.

I just dey laugh the OP. Girl dey run "street" parole on am and e nor wan understand. He should be glad that he has a good "subconscious" telling him that something is wrong.

Serene123:
Please I will need your constructive opinion on this. Been battling with this thoughts for some time now.

I engaged my girl last year. Reason why I did engage her was because I saw her intent to be with me. I have seen her gave out her cash to help get somethings for our new apartment. She has even used her cash to buy some properties she wants in the house when we get married.
She has stood and defended me to her family on why she is getting married to me. She has really earned my trust and never regretted engaging her. She is one girl that every man will like to have as wife

In the course of our relationship months back, I noticed there is this guy that call her. I questioned and she said is just a friend. I have told her I am not comfortable with the call. Yes I have listened to the calls and it doesn't sound serious
On 25th Dec I place a call across to her phone and she wasn't picking. She later told me reason why she didn't pick.
While we were together I noticed she didn't pick cos she went out with the same guy I have been complaining about. I got to know via a pic.
She has insisted nothing serious is going on.
I was so angry and I needed to take her phone and check up something. We struggled with the phone and she injured her nails.. She is saying I am a woman beater and I have anger issue.
She started keeping to herself and phone and was bold to tell me that this action of mine has succeeded in killing the feelings she has for me.

She has asked for time to get her mental health back and for close to two weeks now we haven't been flowing well..

I have tried to talk to her so we fix this shit but she said she needs time.

I have decided to give her the time she needs while I focus on something else. Yes, I miss her

I won't lie, is emotional for me and someone is currently trying to fill her vacuum by being all nice. I am getting closer to her, but my heart still yearn for my fiance.

I don't know if I am doing the right thing by being close to another lady. I don't know if I should belivee her that she has lost feelings for me and move on.
I need your advise.

Sorry for the lengthy thread

When your guts start hinting at something, it is most likely right.

All these "friends" na mostly fûck mates. You don't wanna turn a slût into a housewife or start doubting the paternity of your child.

By the way, drop that stupid feminine emotions called love. Men don't need love in relationship with women. RESPECT and LOYALTY is what a man needs that is why our forefathers who understood women never used that silly word, called love. It is an emotion that can fade off and for women. Any decision made on emotion never ends well in the long run.

Use your brain, brother. This girl seem to be ahead of you in the "street" game of relationships.

SOZINN:
Women hate criticism
Women hate when you tell them the truth to their face
But I understand the kind of clout
Tiwa Savage is chasing
Make she calm down
We know single mothers way

AWALT things lol.

At 40 and being a single mother, the reality of the inevitable wall has hit her. Though, for her age, she is considerably, sexually-attractive but with her money, all she would attract her male leeches, male gold-diggers and men who don't want want full commitment (Teebillz, Dr. Sid, Wizkid, I see you all). She may be lucky to find a divorcee/single dad or rich simp to commit to her (Nigeria has lots of them).

She is playing the CHAMELEON to warm herself into the good books of men and probably improve her image as a "decent" woman to whatever man that she might be dating now. But, we all know her tales of whoring with both old and young in the industry (damaged). Her recent good girl "image" won't deceive men of the Red Pill, if it does to others.

I only appreciate her "courage" to make a post like this at the risk of pissing feminist/women empowerment folks off. Wondering what would be on the minds of the Super-damaged, Toke Makinwa and Tonto Dike, on reading her post.

luminouz:
Even if he signs death certificate, once it's confirmed the baby is not his, why pay child support again?


Which nonsense law be that?

You should know better.

That guy you quoted said the pure truth. As long as your name and signature is on the birth certificate, you carry the responsibilities. It will take a good lawyer and a lenient judge to get him out of the mess that he got himself into.

That's what SIMPs get for being ignorant of women's nature in a country where the laws is very biased against men.

Olakunleyakub:
And you still want me to get married?

Getting married to an angel right?

Nearly all freinds have gotten married but as for me I still dey think she cos I totally dislike baby mama of a thing.

MGTOW guys MGTOW

Princeofasia:
. some go dey form food sellers and perfume sellers

You sabi dem.

Some go write: "I sell bespoke clothes etc" "I will swear for you if you send me hook up message" - whereas, the pretentious idi.ot na the queen of hook up sef. Inside life.

Princeofasia:
na these apps just destroy them. u know say naija know how to abuse things. u wll see them say no hook up. but na exactly wetin dem dey there for. what will a normal girl be doing in an app that is clearly for hookup...

Na dem easy to fuuuck pass. Dem go write "no hook-up" for their inmessage status but once you begin relate with dem and dem reply u with "hmmm" - Olosho on point. Na OT I give u so.

SOZINN:
Only a simp will open his mouth and say something like
My girl is madly in love with me

At the bolded, a girl/woman can be truly "in love" with you, though it is extremely rare to find such but when you do, count yourself extremely lucky. Here, my definition of finding a girl who is truly "in love" is not the nigerian man's "definition" of a woman that is truly in love with him. Most of them (Nigerian guys/boys/men) know NOTHING about females' truest attraction nor leadership in relationship. I'll get to that later.

SOZINN:
If truly a woman can fall in love with a man then all these attitudes of women we are learning about is supposed to be subdued when the woman falls in love with the man.
What am saying is this
Women are deceptive, manipulative and bla bla bla
But when she gets into serious commitment with a man
She's supposed to put all those things aside
Someone that you have entered a covenant with to become one
You are not supposed to be lieing to him or manipulating him and so on
But you will see them lieing, cheating their husbands
Mtcheeeew
All those love Tory na for your head
If we men dey fit read women mind
Hmmmmm
Nobody go marry
U think say as you take love am na so she take love you back
SORRY FOR YOU

At the bolded, I saw the whole discussions and drama that happened in relation to the paternity fraud trend on Social Media. What i found very worrying, that escaped the attention of most people on the issue of paternity fraud is that NIGERIA as country was mentioned (the only country in Africa) in ALMOST every documented research done on the issue of paternity fraud worldwide. The ones done in Nigeria put it between 50 - 75 percent of women giving birth to babies who are fathered by men who have no genetic connection to these babies. I saw one TEDx talk research putting it at a conservative 30 percent.

The disturbing point of these researches proves that a high number of Nigerian men (poor, middle-class, rich, old, middle-aged, and young) are mostly SIMPs who are also highly ignorant of the nature of women, and that Nigerian women (from the south to the so-called "prudish" north) are highly promiscuous or a terrible combination of both.

If you are a Nigerian man in the "business of promiscuity" whether as a gigolo, pim.p. player, religious leader (some religious leaders like pastors, imams, and those in secular leadership positions like CEOs use it to great advantages in getting women attracted to them) or just an average "fuûck boy", you'll slay a lot of pûssies (single, about-to-be-married, married, pregnant, divorced etc) easily because of the ignorance of the average Nigerian guy on what women do or are capable of doing.

I remember sharing the link of a Nigerian guy who revealed his escapades with so-called "decent" married women earlier on this thread. There have been many threads on front page of Pastors, Imams, Native doctors sleeping with women of all status and background without the knowledge of their boyfriends, fiances and husbands. I have had some personal experiences in this "promiscuity" too, and like most men who have been in my shoes, they stay off marriage because they see the nonsense that modern women are made of. I don't trust a woman telling me "Good morning ". I'll go outside to confirm of it is truly morning time. Like someone said earlier on this thread, most of those Saturday Marriages are just men saving hoes.

Ubunja in his miseducations and miseducashins, has revealed some of these, but the "moral" posturing (which includes some red-pillers) and blue-pill conditioning of nigerian men is so strong that the underlying message of these miseducations and miseducashins fly over their heads.

pocohantas:
Online: Stingy Men Association



Offline: Sinzu spending


We move.

Result of high-grade gold-digging.

Respect to her "hustle".

No wonder male to female transgender transformation has seen a spike in recent years. Being a man almost sucks.

GLYCOLYSISS:
These thread actually got me thinking out loud :

https://www.nairaland.com/6361704/what-happens-when-man-chooses

It's all about men that cut ties with their family members because of a woman.

What's your take on that ?

Is it actually a wise move ?
Because it's actually not uncommon for men to go against their parents and siblings for women who they mostly claim is "the one",especially when marriage is in the picture.

You got any story or life experience you actually felt it was the right choice ?

Your opinions will highly be appreciated and may help a brother who is in similar situation to make a more informed choice.

Good evening everyone..

One's immediate family can be quite manipulative especially mothers and sisters when it comes to taking major personal life decisions like marriage or career, but that doesn't mean that one should cut them off totally. Most men trust the opinions of their blood relatives which is okay but a limit should be drawn when it is reaching into slaving for them (e.g mother-worshipping) at the expense of your own happiness. One can be distant to establish healthy boundaries, leaving room for communication and reconciliation.

If it is true that Kobe cut his family off because of Vanessa, it means that he was a SIMP (Putting vagina over everything else that mattered to him).

I don't know much details about his marriage life but the latest I read about him was the mother of his wife, Vanessa suing her daughter to pay money for the time she spent babysitting the kids and all. Vanessa in turn accused her mother of being a leech, divorce-raping her father at the family courts.

Now that they are fighting each other over Kobe's estate and assets, it gets more shameful. Too bad that he married into the family of these predatory thieves (Mother and Daughter) but that is what you get for being a simp. Kobe's family have lost this one, courtesy of their simping son.

Mindlog:
The man's calmness is strange and frightening.!

If dat babe get sense, make e go beg im husband. Men who don't react immediately like that are very dangerous in the long run.

Peaceyw:
This tweet is irritating

Nothing to be pissed at. That's a woman at her hypergamic best. Those are the best of standards she wants in a man. Maybe somewhere, one simp is working his ass off physically and financially to meet that standard to please her and "buy" her attention. It doesn't remove the fact that she is delusional. These delusions though, do a good job of "hyping her value" which could deceive lots of SIMPs into "worshipping" her.

The problem is men lowering their own standards because of thirst, and ignorance. Ask the same lady if she can cook, clean, take care of the kids, a virgin (or with low body-count), build with you if money comes short and you'll see her stuttering.

Also, ask her what value she brings to the table without her vagina, you'll get a deafening silence. That should tell you how men of today sell themselves short in dating/marrying modern girls.

Junnior:
I'm not sure it's as easy as you say it.
Because I feel If for instance you correct a spoilt brat, she will run to her parents to report. Her parents will fight you. They will use their influence to deal with you. Or am I wrong to think this way?

When you're dating a girl with influential parents, I feel you will be worried knowing that if things go wrong and her parents get involved, they can easily fvck u up, regardless of who was right or wrong. They will certainly side with their daughter. Or am I wrong to think this way?

You are not wrong to think that way. It just shows that you are red-pill aware.

Date who you want to and understand that your leadership as a man is easier when you are chosen.

Relationships like the ones you described may often have the wife or your in-laws abuse and disrespect you, but as a man, be positive, about what you are getting into, while having your brain switched on 24 hours to be able to spot any manipulations/disrespect (without being overtly insecure like an emotional man) being done on you and how to address it. Some may not be manipulative and abusive but this doesn't mean you should lose your guard, get caught in emotions till they lose respect for you and begin to walk over you.

Don't just sit there as a "horse-band". Use her family's wealth and connection to build yourself to earn the family's respect as man who can hold his own.

If she turns out to be a spoilt, cheeky brat with in-laws who are also not respectful of your commitment to their daughter, use the EXIT door. It's better losing all and having your dignity and worth as a man, than surrender to their abuse and disrespect where you'll also be written off and probably dumped in the end.

If the disrespect comes to physical abuse like a slap, retaliate with another slap damning the consequences or if you are the type who don't like noisy confrontation, walk out the door and cut her off completely. Once she has done it once, she is very likely to repeat it again. Also, men should try to work on their appearance, and demeanour that women find "intimidating". I'm not talking about being a bully or being aggressive. Your tone of voice, body posture, having muscles (I'm a body builder) instills "fear" in women and she'll think twice before trying to hurt you physically. Once you look weak, bitchy tone of voice, these damaged women won't think twice in hurting you physically. There are crazy, hyper-damaged ladies who would try to hurt you physically regardless of your "intimidation". These types need an equal measure of violence to be put back in place.

Like it is with men, if you are in a relationship/partnership with a woman where you think you can't have it better in life and other dealings, when she (or he) leaves you, or you leave her (or other men), you are under bondage as a slave.

Regex:
I blame the man. You won't date to know her. Fiam you are married.

Skepticus how do you say it, is it fair women are Nigerians kryptonite.

The idi.ot deserves what he is getting. I'm sure the signs were there but they'll turn her into a wife because she is light-skinned and beautiful. Foolish men.

Jman06:
Provided the lady wasn't raped, the fault is hers because she is the one that made herself available to the man.

Briffault's law. You are smart.

Not surprised. He (Trump) has German roots.

Twitter will pick up once again once the Trump hysteria dies down. It's a matter of time.

SOZINN:
Sad reality
This is what we need to change

Well, you can't help everyone and a lot will deliberately, not listen to you.

That your sister will go far. Train her to use her femininity to great advantage, building herself and getting a simp to do it for her or just go the conservative way of being a complementary and submissive partner to a man of great worth. Once she begin to throw pusssy around carelessly, broke boys go just chop clean mouth.

Saviolamemphix:
Live dat gel by d time she hits menopause nobody go tell her b4 she run go Shiloh

No be all of them go enter Shiloh. The ones wey play their "game" well go hit am big. Reason your Nollywood "actresses" - Wetin dem dey "act" wey dem dey build mansions, business plazas, buy cars, build big investments? while their male counterparts dey beg for 50k for common surgery. E get why!

Any man wey get sense here (I believe we all are) gats pick the underlying message from that girl post - PUT YOURSELF FIRST - which is the core message behind the red pill, regardless of where u use am. She don put her needs ahead of anybody and if she play the game well, plenty mumu dey wey go worship her with their lives and money. Abi, no be Nigeria wey simping be our culture?

Even the red pill is not exempted, Martinez39s share one WhatsApp chat screenshot here yesterday and wetin I see for one of the messages touch me: Some people dey claim Red Pill because of poverty, when money show, that your red pill guy fit run leave you go dey worship women wey boys don pass around dat year. Smh

ubunja:
that's human nature man. You and @Martinez39s must not stress yourselves too much. Even myself I have had to keep telling some people to stop insulting ilegendd many times. It's a NL pattern. whenever there's a new source of information the previous source gets demeaned. Guys here know very little about loyalty. I saw it many times with my own eyes.

It is partly for this reason (plus the need to show the other side of the coin) that I started to write also for the Ladies. You just can't count on men nowadays to stick by you. Just do what you feel like doing and live your life. Let then live theirs.

Never mind these guys. The very fact that they're still angry with their ex girlfriends' vaginas just shows where their level of understanding in the game is. Peace.

In the end, just do you. I've never been a fan of tearing other men down especially when we share quite a lot in common than the few differences we have. This expression of anger and being rude at another man because of little disagreement on some points here is needless and shows mental weakness on some part. Express your opinion of whatever is tabled and move on.

As the knowledge of masculine common sense spreads, the fold gets bigger and as it gets bigger, guys from different backgrounds and different levels of mental maturity and experiences starts to show up. You'll have to deal with the ignorant, the uncouth, the inexperienced and just plain idiotic trolls from time to time and you'll find them very annoying. At least, the attention you get shows that you have some level of influence here that has been built over time.

Like you have always done, state your opinion of things in respectful language and leave everyman to their device.

When it comes to GAME, the part of the red pill where a man uses knowledge gained from evolutionary biology, sociology, basic human psychology to place his needs as top priority when dealing with women in romantic/sexual and non sexual relationship, it will take a lot to unplug from the matrix because of factors beyond you and those who oppose your idea of dealing with exes. These factors are ingrained from childbirth, environments influenced and even genetics. When dealing with women, no matter how much you try to drum your position, in practical reality, people can only play the GAME from their position of mental understanding and other external advantages. For instance, standing 6'5 tall, you are most likely to get chosen by women and play your game easily on her in dating (or outside of it) over a guy who is below 5'5 in height and probably having a hyper religious background where GAME is considered "immoral" (when women are running their own game on him).

In another instance, as it concerns the exes thing, a guy who was once in the blue-pill conditioning of worshipping women above himself, could have suffered a traumatic heartbreak from a girl he truly loved tolerating heavy abuse and disrespect till the red pill liberated him. Some may see no reason to associate with such a destructive, manipulative ex and its understandable. Like i said earlier about environmental conditioning, a lot of guys still believe that the ONLY way to associate with a woman on a deeper level is "FORMAL DATING". Some guys get their way with women without the need for asking her out FORMALLY. We all have what works for us, as long as you are not a simp (someone who pedestalizes vagina above himself). Someone like me who has never dated a lady exclusively (I have loved the conveniences of Friends With Benefits/No Strings Attached that come my way because from younger years, I found dating quite "stressful" I did better with women who chose me), have had it easy doing business with these f*** buddies even when they got married to their current spouses. When we separate (mostly intitated by them), I make our separation less bitter which opens way for lifelong friendship that can be beneficial to us both and most in fact, do reach out to me long after I have forgotten about them. Knowing the economic fact that men make money but women spend them, I get them to pressurise their husbands to buy my stuff. Good business for me.

It is all subjective. It is well.