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HopeAlive16:
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i926:
This is still simping

I mean why tag... photoshop my pic to a lady that don't give a fvck about me

Don Jazzy is an entertainer and as it is with a lot of entertainers, the image they portray to the public may be far different from what they believe and do, in their private lives. It's too "early" to judge his regular open display of "crush" on rihanna as simping, even though, the act might be seen as one. We have seen folks in entertainment sing or act red pill in open display and turn out to be miserable wussies in their private love life and vice versa.

Personally, I prefer to judge people's awareness of the red pill by what they do in their private lives than what they do or say in the open. Anyone can say anything. I also, judge them by the consequences of the actions they do, in the long run (in relation to their personal growth and the society where they live) whether those actions appear blue-pilled or red-pilled at the moment that it was done.

In my own opinion of Don Jazzy, I do suspect that the guy is low-key anti-natalist, MGTOW putting on an act (he may have a natural crush on Rihanna, as a sex symbol, though) to wow his mostly blue-pilled fans and also deflect them from his noticeable action of choosing not to commit to any woman or having kids despite having a high sexual market value (by Nigerian standards). The late JT Tom-West is also suspect. I may be wrong about both, though.

Instablogger9ja:
Nigerian Relationship Expert, Oloni has taken to her Twitter handle to advise women to not be afraid to ask men for money, Whether they have it or not.

Read more on
https://www.instablogger9ja.com/2020/12/women-please-dont-be-afraid-to-ask-men.html

See her preek-sucking mouth feeling like she just made a new revelation. Women have been asking for money for centuries. Not the other way round.

A Nigerian lady who never asks for money would be the 9th wonder of the world.

CAPSLOCKED:
NOW SHE'S PLAYING THE VICTIM CARD. CALLING HIM CHILDISH, INSECURE, JEALOUS, AND ALL THE USUAL ON SOCIAL MEDIA.
HER ONLINE TEAM OF ASSOCIATE CRIMINAL PROSTITUTES ARE ON HER SIDE TOO, CALLING ADEBAYOR NAMES AND SCOLDING HIM FOR "MONITORING" HER MOVEMENTS AND EVEN EXPOSING HER ON THE INTERNET.

WOMEN OPERATE LIKE A HERD OF COWS. THEY MOVE IN ONE DIRECTION AND COLLABORATE TO BEHAVE IN THE SAME DISASTROUS WAYS. THEY'RE DEMONIZING THIS MAN FOR STANDING UP TO COMPLAIN THAT HE'S BEING MANIPULATED AND CHEATED ON. THEY'RE CALLING HIM CONTROLLING FOR FINDING OUT THAT THE LOVE OF HIS LIFE WENT TO THE SOUTH TO PART THIGHS FOR THE OLD MAN SHE ONCE INTRODUCED AS "HER RICH UNCLE" WHEN SHE TOLD HIM SHE WAS GOING TO THE NORTH.

BIG BILLIONAIRE BOYS HAVE HAD THEIR SHARE, INCLUDING: ADEBAYOR OF TOGO AND ARSENAL WHOSE GIRL WENT TO SLEEP WITH OLD MAN; ALEXIS SANCHEZ WHOSE GIRL'S EXCUSE FOR CHEATING WITH POLITICIANS WAS THAT HE HAD A SMALL PENIS; JOSEP ILLICIC OF ATALANTA FC WHO NEARLY COMMITTED SUICIDE AFTER GOING HOME TO FIND HIS WIFE ENJOYING WITH A PLUMBER; CHRISTIANO RONALDO; DUNCAN MIGHTY WHOSE WIFE TRIED TO KILL WITH CHARMS AFTER MAKING HIM RAISE KIDS THAT SHE BORE THROUGH INFIDELITY, AND MANY OTHER BIG ENTERTAINERS AND ATHLETES, DESPITE ALL THEIR FAME AND WEALTH.

IF THESE STARS COULD BE MANIPULATED AND CHEATED ON BY THEIR WOMEN, AND STILL BE BLAMED FOR THE WOMEN'S ACTIONS DESPITE ALL THE LOVE AND MONEY THEY LAVISH ON THEIR WOMEN... YOU THAT IS A YOUNG STRUGGLING MAN, WHAT MAKES YOU BELIEVE YOU CAN "TAKE CARE OF" AND "KEEP" THAT GIRL TO THE POINT SHE DOESN'T FÙCK IT ALL UP FOR YOU?
NO SCHOOL OR CHURCH WILL TEACH YOU THIS REALITY, BUT SINCE TRP LESSONS ARE FREE, YOU HAVE NO EXCUSES IF YOU GO ON AND LET A WOMAN FÙCK THINGS UP FOR YOU. SAVE YOUR MONEY, TIME, ENERGY AND EMOTIONS BECAUSE NO MATTER WHAT YOU DO OR HOW GOOD YOU DO IT, SHE'LL FÙCK YOU UP FOR NOTHING. AND SOCIETY WILL MOCK YOU FOR BEING FOOLISH, AND DEMONIZE YOU FOR SPEAKING OUT.

EXPERIENCE IS THE BEST TEACHER THEY SAY. ON THIS SUBJECT, IT'LL BE BETTER YOU LEARN FROM ALL OF OUR COLLECTIVE EXPERIENCES RATHER THAN BE A FOOLISH SIMP AND PROCEED TO EXPERIENCE YOUR OWN DISASTER. WHO KNOWS? YOUR OWN VERSION OF EXPERIENCE MAY TAKE YOUR HARDWORKS AND BUSINESSES AND PUT IT IN THE DRAIN IF IT DOESN'T TAKE YOUR LIFE.

The list is numerous but I'll add Dejan Lovren of Liverpool FC for emphasis. She cheated on Dejan, with the Gardner in the house he bought for her.

The-make-money-first-and-women-would-be-loyal-to-you, division of Nigerian SIMPs don't know that there is a level of comfortability that you give to a woman that makes them bored, begin to resent the comfort you gave her, and go cheat on you with men much lesser than you in financial worth and social status, while finding a way of placing the blame on you.

purissimo1998:
still waiting for 1$=1naira o...
sometimes I feel like these politicians don't really know what they're going into before running for political offices... hence the unrealistic manifestos to the masses

They know what they are going into but sell these illusions knowing that Nigerians are fools.

Slawomiir:
It seems almost all Nigerian Politicians want to eat up the tomorrow of Nigeria today. Rather than contribute to the Pension Funds, the only thing vile they think of is borrowing from the Pension purse which will be later embezzled.

Nigerian politicians know that NIGERIA is a BIG LIE and a SCAM and they try as much as possible not to make the citizen know this. That's why they are stealing and borrowing as much as possible to have enough to escape when the Scam finally collapses. The end of oil will be one of the triggering factors.

awhybliss:
This serap has never achieved anything meaningful to Nigerians for once...
All they do is warn, sue, call-for, reject...
No action

Read what you wrote and ask yourself: DO I HAVE SENSE LYK DIS? AY, before you type in anger to mention and curse me, no offence intended. Check am, SERAP nor try?

Designsking:
Hnnm
There are same Leaders who feel no one have the legal right to ask what they want to do with the money.

Sincerely God will help us

At the bolded, God won't help you because he already done that by giving you a brain to figure what is right and the free will to get it.

DharmieDhrey:
She was into me but things have changed. I keep my distance even when things are going well. These days, she tells me how she misses me. She only misses how I make her feel not my personality. I don't seem to trust her, she maybe lovebombing me. Ghosting her completely would leave emotional scars on her but my sanity matters. I want to know other steps I can take.

You are a major simp. It's no crime though, since almost all of us, were ignorant as some point in time but stop appropriating tags that the rest of your story shows you do not represent. Sharing your story is appreciated because others can learn and re-learn from it.

Your story is one of the easy-case scenarios that a simp can find himself in, and the response so far from other men here, gave the answers you needed. If you can't take them, and stop being obsessed with a lady that has no respect for you, and having the fun of her life, with other men, then no one can help you.

I'll add this. This thread and other threads that follow similar themes about masculinity, and the pills were created for men (who find the knowledge shared, valuable) to be extra-AWARE.

It is not some safe space to come whine/cry or an emotional dustbin to ease your frustrations, when you are punished by the society, or women for your lack of tact, dominance, self-control and mental independence, only for you to run back into simping hopelessly, then, coming back to whine again when you are treated like the worthless piece of crap that you truly are (not directed at you). It's not a forum for incels. We are solution-based here and you are not under any compulsion to follow all the advice you are given here.

luminouz:
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I get your point. Shakespeare made 'love' a populist term and the one man-one woman theory got huge followership from xtianity. The opposite was Islam.

Shakespeare's true intentions about love are very unclear because despite his literary works promoting ideal love, certain letters he wrote and other personal effects examined after his death, showed that he might be skeptical of romantic love ideals. As a matter of fact, it was later discovered that the literary work, Romeo and Juliet were a mocking satire to show the stupidity and senselessness of ideal romantic love.

Certain elements of the philosophies that trailed the age of enlightenment with some Christian influences elevated monogamy but I doubt if any of these, propagated the soul-mate myth. You also know that Christianity and Asian religions like Hinduism and Buddhism have teachings that align with the red/black pill.

The "frontier" background of Islam, the surrounding pre-islamic culture at the time may have encouraged and favoured polygamy over time. To reduce further problems for men, they instituted a religious-based society that greatly limited the dangerous sides of female hypergamy. Some even tipping into misogyny.

A305:
Sometimes, it's hard to keep up being an Alpha to be honest but it is worth doing.

C.Ronaldo is/was regarded as the famous alpha but now is gradually losing frame as Georgina finally put to bed for him; before now -- all his other kids were via surrogate and till date, no one knows the mother of his first born; he pays them off after child birth.

My point is -- Be on guard at all times, Like an Alpha lion surveying his territory for predators or other Alpha lions while still looking out for a prey to feed on.

I think the false accusation of rape that Ronaldo faced in 2009 (which came back again in 2019) gave some hint on how much of a target he was, to heartless gold-digging and manipulative women, being a financial and socially high-value man, making him take the surrogacy route.

I've been keen on how his affair with Miss Rodriguez would pan out. From what I know so far, Spain has gynocentric laws that are less harsh when compared with the devilish ones in the United States and Canada.

luminouz:
To be candid, the monogamy stuff was introduced with xtianity and I'm sad to say,it is losing its value even in Nigeria. Men get bored over time and the women get old and used up. My granpa had 3 wives and they all stayed relatively young. Some were farmers like him and others do trade,so his wives contributed to the family and still did their wifely duties and they stayed in line. I never liked monogamy but like everything given to Africans, we always abuse it or fail to edit,question and improve it. Muslims may have marital issues but religion made it more acceptable to the women to stay in line.

If you read stories and conversations from those who lived before the imperialist influence in most part of Africa and some other part of the world, you'll barely find the theme of that "special woman" in romance. Of course, these men of the past, sometimes, would simp for women that they found attractive, even go to wars for them and all, but the silly idea that one woman has it all for a man, was almost considered abnormal.

Every woman knew her role in the family, and had to put her hypergamy in limitation, so as not to subject her and her maiden family to disrepute.

No one is going back to that past now. Monogamy is perfectly okay for me as long as the soul mate myth is not being glorified.

Martinez39s:
The wife also wanted the court to compel her husband to get a vasectomy so he could keep paying child support to only her and her kids. She wanted to destroy he chances of further procreation for selfish reasons. Fortunately, the judge didn't oblige. Wahala for who think the soulmate at home is a nawalt.

^{luminouz, pansophist (I will still respond to your post later), oyolohi, ubunja, glycolysiss, nyarimuflathead.}

Truth be told. There are women who stand out of the pack and may not come with the baggages that are known with modern women, in short term or long term relationship/situationship, but they are derisively called UNICORNS lol because such women are extremely hard to come by (especially among modern women) that it is almost like they do not exist like the mythical creature where it got the name. The soul mate theme is a stupid concept that came with the west's promulgation of monogamy.

MJBOLT:

The west is done. I feel sorry for the men there, especially those with money and status that have all to lose.

They just succeeded in driving more men to the black pill (MGTOW).

I hope Elon Musk is taking note and learning from the experience of Jeff Bezos etc.

While you are there working hard to improve your life, money, status and "holding alpha frame" lol, your UNICORN is holding your wallets with the courts helping her grip tightly to it.

pansophist:
Good question. This is why I am vehemently against the mgtow idea, its just seems like a losers paradise to me. Like giving all the reasons why flying plane is bad, just because you cant afford it. How about hustle, understand how women are and make the best out of them?

I think the general problem in forums where issues of the black pill (MGTOW), and the purple pill are discussed, is that guys on both divide project their biases on others without thinking of the in-betweens and the biases of others on the divide.

First guy says having kids or catering for kids is simping or yapping about how women are bad and nothing can be benefited from dating or being married to them in a permanent arrangement. He may naturally not be attracted to marriage or may have had a very bad, not-easily-forgotten experience with women.

Second guy comes saying that marriage or some form of permanent co-habitation with women is the best for men as far as he is red pilled.

All the submissions above are right in whatever path a man chooses, even if it is the blue pill (yes, I mean it).

My own opinion on this is that one can chose to tow the path that fits into his life. Men get married every weekend, even in countries where they know that the risk of it going the divorce route is high, or he loses more. Some other men are dumping the same institution of marriage for whatever arrangement suits them.

Both sides talk about their position being the best and project it on others. Some erroneously think that the red pill is a solve-it-all. That's bullshiit.

I'll clear things up soon by sharing my own opinions on the benefits and downsides of the red pill, black pill and purple pill. I'll also share the benefits of being blue pilled (especially outside of dating) too. Everyone can make their judgements and decide their own course without the need to shame others who don't share the same ideas.

Trex4:
I thought I was the only person that noticed it. The back and forth for years with that woman in the story. He has luck that his foresight saved him from a rape accusation, especially around that time that rape accusations were flying around. We would still read the story on NL..... except with him in prison.

No be all pusssy man dey fûck, no matter how sweet e look for eye. As u dey try catch fish to chop, make sure say d bone nor go chook u for throat.

You can give a woman drama, exploiting their vibe for chaos to keep her attracted to you. Never you allow her bring the drama to you or get involved in her drama. Let her go. It's not the best of experience for a man.

nowisthendtime:
Part 2 of my experience.....

Since i have decided not to sign marriage certificate with any lady considering the hypergamous nature of women as she can leave me anytime for someone in higher social class than me, i started looking for a decent lady that can give me baby without marriage attached.

According to my part 1 experience on this thread, the pastor's daughter said she cannot be a baby mama as it is against the doctrine in church, so i was looking for another lady and i got one lady when i visited Nigeria in year 2018.

She told me she will tell her mum about it because her dad is late. after two weeks, i didn't hear from her and i only had one month annual leave to spend in Nigeria, so i moved on with my search in getting a decent lady, then i got a 22 years old small girl that was just trying to gain admission into the university and she agreed but told me to let her inform her mum.

She discussed it with her mum but her mum said i should just pay her dowry as sign of commitment if i insist on not signing marriage certificate. so i took my family there and we pay her dowry.

Then, few days remaining for me to fly back, the first lady I contacted called me and started persuading me to marry her that her mum and elder ones didn't support being baby mama, i told her i had gotten someone else, she was so furious and cried. Then she asked me who am i to you now, i told her she's a friend.

Fast forward to year 2019, my traditionally married wife had issues with her mensuration. The period isn't stable and she couldn't get pregnant. She met gynecologist, we tried but still the same. So, we agreed maybe i should look for another lady as second wife to fast give me baby because my mum is so old and begging us to give her grandchildren. My dad is late.

Then i remembered that first lady i contacted, called her and told her to give me baby, she said what happened to your wife? i explained everything to her but she said she will be thinking about it but she prefer marriage.

October last year, job opportunity showed up for ladies and I got her the job, paid her flight ticket and she joined me. She was so happy but still telling me to marry her that she's not interested in having only baby for me. She was asking for marriage certificate but i declined.

I visited Nigeria around January this year, she didn't go with me, during that time she met some G boys that promised her better job offer, she accepted the offer, before i returned from Nigeria she already did interview and passed. She told me though and i supported her but told her to becareful of those G boys.

When i returned from my trip, i spoke with the company she was working with and the management said she cannot resign now base on agreement signed, even if she will resign she will pay an amount equivalent to 400k in naira.

We agreed to pay the money and she resigned then joined the new company. Then, around March, Covid 19 pandemic was scary and the international company i work with relocated all our staffs to 5 star hotel, unfortunately, she couldn't follow me as visitors are not allowed.

This lady started following the G boys and she removed me from seeing her whatsapp status but my mind told me to open another whatsapp with my second number dedicated to call only, she didn't realize i have opened another whatsapp for that number, so i started seeing romantic videos with one particular guy among those boys.

I didn't asked her, i just told myself immediately that I have lost this babe and i refused to reply her messages. She later called her area brother at Nigeria that really liked me so much and complained about me not replying her messages.

The man asked her if she offended me, she said maybe the video she posted, perhaps, one of her friends hating on her sent the video to me because she removed me from seeing her status, she confessed to the man and the man scolded her then told her to go and be begging me.

This honest man called me and told me everything, I as well revealed how i caught her through another whatsapp to that man. I later told this man to collect the 400k i paid her company before she was allowed to resign as reward for his honesty.

I later replied her messages after she pleaded for forgiveness and denied dating any of them. I called her hoe, LovePeddler, bitch. These got her furious, she insulted me and the war started. Then I started my game.

I started updating how we were enjoying at the 5 star hotel company lodged us, how company paid us bonus for working during coronavirus pandemic but then after she worked with that new company she joined for a month and half, the company closed down because of coronavirus pandemic and couldn't pay their salary.

I just saw her message that evening, explaining to me how company dropped all of them and couldn't pay their salary. She started begging me for money, "as a guy man" i told her to come. I met with the receptionist of that hotel company lodged us and begged him to please allow me to have visitor for just 3 days without allowing company to know. The receptionist accepted and gave me time she can enter.

She came and said waoooo, you're enjoying o, your company really try. she said you called me a LovePeddler, bitch and a hoe, i prostrated and begged her, she immediately knelt down as i prostrated and told me to stand up. She then said i have promised myself not to have anything to do with you again. i want to go with another man, let's just be friends from now. I was shocked

Then i later touched her weak point, fuc her like sex machine for three days. When she was leaving, gave her just 5k in naira for her transport. She was not happy but then I didn't know she had her own game to play as well.

Around July or August, I can't really remember when dbanj rape accusation saga was trending online, i just saw her message that i raped her when she visited me , she said she already promised herself not to have any sexual intercourse with me again that i should prepare to meet her in court.


Immediately, i sent her voice record of how she was moaning as a sign of deep pleasure during the sexual intercourse for good 3 days and reminded her of how she wet my bed with her cum like tap water running.


She said yeeeeeee, you recorded my voice note without my knowledge, God will judge you. you will still explain yourself in court why you recorded my voice note without my consent, I then still reminded her of her nudes videos she sent and told her i will asked them in court if someone that sent all these videos to me should be accusing me of rape. I recorded your voice note because i didn't trust you anymore. She was just saying God will judge you.

Guys, that was how i escaped rape accusation. Maybe my enemy would have been cooling off in prison by now after my company would have sacked me.

I'm happy you were smart and kind of lucky to be out of trouble.

I appreciate the courage that you had in sharing private details of your experience.

But then, the energy, effort and money (it may be worth nothing to you, though) you channel into engaging and discarding these ladies, would be worth a lot more, if channelled into your life. In fact, I felt physically and mentally drained for the 5 minutes I read your story going back and forth over typical naija women who have body counts/STDs on them (I can't spare this much of my time, energy and money on fickle/empty women who are not even worth it).

I don't know the part of the abroad where you are based, but if you are in one with a highly biased legislation that favour women, you may not "survive" it the next time and risk losing your freedom, your money and even your life if you continue to engage all these valueless leeches and the needless drama they bring into your life. In Nigeria, guys can still get away with a lot, that would land them in trouble with the law that is designed to favour women even, without much of evidence.

Having tons of women swarm you every now and then, is a sweet feeling, especially when your money and social status improves, but the stuff of great men is having a high level of control and discipline over your sexual urges and instincts. If you fail to develop this, the risk of setting up yourself for future disasters is high.

I like the part of your story where you rose above limitations to improve your condition.

JAWBONE:
It keeps ringing in my head that Zarbamari is located 20 kilometers away from Maiduguri. Maiduguri where you have an Army Division, Operation Lafiya Dole Command etc.

That's like a 12-15 minutes drive and these terrorists got away.

Rounding up and killing those farmers must have taken at least an hour.

They were able to carry out that horrific act unchallenged.

It still disturbs me

Dem go still kill more. The leadership and the followers are not ready to enforce any change.

Stop disturbing yourself!

henribj:
better tell your friend not to proceed with that marriage o
he should just have his own share of the national cake and move ahead.

U get sense!

Crenzywilliams:
Why were they killed? We need to start demanding justice and accountability from our government, you can't protect your people, when they speak up,you send killers and hoodlums after them.

When you start demanding, the same northerners will counter-protest that you want to take down Buhari's government.

You better channel your emotional energy somewhere else.

Go Tigers Go!

Martinez39s:
There is a reason why Bella Thorne made over $2M on OnlyFans without a single nude pics even though she promised to supply them. They paid in anticipation. I and Ubunja know why. If you read the write up again, you will know why. How many pornstars has paid over $2M from porn?

And they refused to do same for Mia Khalifa because her nudes are scattered over the internet. Why would they have to pay for what can be gotten easily with a click?

XXXXTENTACION:
Sex brings in lots of money if you doubt me check the porn industry.


ubanja some of your posts are not evidence based. I would be happy if you can add some form of evidence to back up your claims.

If sex brings in that much money, how many of these porn stars have made it to Forbes?

Or u tink say, dat hooker for Quilox (and other bars, Nightclub), instamessage etc, wey dey hustle different dicks every weekends and manage to get iPhone, use some costly hair extensions and buy some flashy dresses, come post for social media, don finally make money? Use your 6. Na street u dey.

The ladies that you see in the society who are rich and influential like the Alakijas (not your flashy, fake instagram celebrities who give an illusion of wealth. I'm talking about those with multi-million dollars assets. Celebrity flashiness is a lot different from true wealth) are women who either inherited wealth from their very wealthy families or who use their femininity in getting wealthier men to sponsor their business or career without throwing pusssy around excessively (some nollywood "actresses" who build businesses and are successful without being talented lol, fall into this category despite being also flashy).

ubunja:
Women will not buy the cow if the milk is free.

SEXUAL VS NON SEXUAL NEEDS.
Women's needs are divided into two groups: non sexual needs and sexual needs.

Men's needs are also divided into two groups: non sexual needs and sexual needs.

Sexual needs are sex, cuddles, kisses, MouthAction, massages, sex pics, sexting, phone intimacy etc. Anything that is sexual.

Non Sexual needs are food, shelter, money, clothes etc. Anything that has nothing to do with sex.

Women date for non sexual needs.

Men date for sexual needs.

That is, women date FOR THINGS THAT HAVE NOTHING TO DO WITH SEX: i.e a man's resources, money, time, energy, protection, skills, investments etc. If a woman already has these things by herself she will see no reason to date: "I make my own money I don't need a man"
Women don't see a relationship as a source of sex the way men do. Women ALWAYS get sex offered to them everywhere they go. They don't need a relationship to get it.

Meanwhile men date FOR SEX AND THOSE THINGS THAT HAVE TO DO WITH SEX. And a man who gets plenty of sex from plenty of women will see no reason to date, e.g a Player.

For men relationships are sexual. The loss of a relationship usually means the loss of sex.

Men and women do not date for the same reason: Women date for financial security. Men date for sexual security.

A woman dates to monopolize a man's finances and have exclusive access to his resources. A man dates to monopolize a woman's sexuality and have exclusive access to her body.

THE MILK.
If the milk is free the cow will not be bought.

Women's milk is anything that is sexual - sex, BJs, kisses, hugs, sex pics etc - their Sexuality. If women give their sexuality free to men, then men will not buy the cow. The cow is the woman. And buying the cow is marrying the woman. Since marriage is the One thing women want from men. Since marriage is the One thing that gives a woman access to all his resources, even after he dies.

Men's milk are the things a man can do for a woman OUTSIDE of sex. THINGS THAT HAVE NOTHING TO DO WITH SEX : his time, energy, money etc. If a man gives these things free to women, then women will not buy the cow. The cow is the man. And buying the cow is giving the man sex.

In a marriage, you are a husband because you bring the Non Sexual Things.

And a woman is a wife because she brings the Sexual Things.

Hence a man who can no longer provide is replaced.

And a woman who is no longer sexually appealing is similarly replaced.

DADDY GOVERNMENT.
When the government provides women with money, assistance, protection etc - things that have NOTHING to do with sex - we say women are now married to the government.

The government is now their husband.

Because a husband is not a husband by bringing in sex but by bringing in things that have nothing to do with sex. A wife is the one who is a wife by bringing sex and things that have to do with sex.

A WOMAN'S MILK.
A woman's milk is her sexuality. And her sexuality are the things she does for a man she loves. Some of these things may not be strictly sexual, like cooking, washing and cleaning for him, but they're nonetheless intimate. A wife will be pissed if she finds some woman cooking for her husband or washing his clothes. Because it's as good as that woman is sleeping with him. Because no woman does those things for a man she's not intimate with.

Which is why if a man asks a female stranger to wash his clothes or cook for him she'll reply, "Am I your wife?"
And if he asks for sex, again she'll reply, "Am I your wife?"
Which is the same exact response to two different questions because household chores and sex fall under the same category of Wifey Duties. And Wifey Duties ARE the woman's milk.

If a woman gives a man this milk free, then the man will see no reason to marry her. Because already he has a wife without a wife.

BUT UNFORTUNATELY women give milk free to men.

Because of the way women's logic works.

When women date a man, they test his ability to provide by making him spend as a boyfriend. If he consistently provides at the boyfriend stage, women conclude, "There must be more money where that came from". And there usually is. Now, women take that same mentality, that same mindset, and apply it to sex.

Women feel they must do household chores for a boyfriend and especially sleep with him for him to see what they can do, for him to "sample the goods", to give him a taste of things to come, to show him what he can look forward to if he marries them. To show him "there's more where that came from".

But here's the problem; men NEVER view sex as a sample.

To men sex is a conquest. Always. As a woman, once a man tastes your pussy, he's NOT wondering how sweet it will be after he marries you. Or what he must do to wife it up. Instead he's wondering how your best friend tastes like, compared to you, since she has a bigger booty. He's wondering how your sister tastes like, since she's younger and fresher. You, he's done with you.

The only way a woman can give a man a foretaste or a sample of the goods, is in how she dresses. She dresses to feed his imagination. The glimpses he'll get of her thighs and breasts will show him there's more where that came from.

But it goes deeper than this.

If a man approaches a woman, it's because he's taken by what he sees and hears - her face, body and voice. All these are the woman's milk. And she must not freely give these away without compensation. Especially over the phone.

Phones have given men access to women's milk for free. And as a woman you'll have to severely limit your presence and availability over the phone and on Social Media. To guard your milk. This means:

No chatting with a man on WhatsApp or any chat app. Ever. If a man wants to talk to you he must call you - over the phone - not over WhatsApp or Skype. And even then you keep calls brief and push for him to come see you personally. If a man wants to talk to you for hours he must take you out on a date. Instead of spending on airtime he must spend on you directly on a date.

And this is going to sound crazy, but NO PICS online whatsoever. No dirty pics. No clean pics. No pics whatsoever on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter etc. And especially no profile pics on WhatsApp. A man must come see you to see your pretty face, not take out his phone and open your profile pic.
If you absolutely must post a pic, then choose a dull one. As counterproductive as that may sound. While most girls use filters to enhance their profile pics and they become hotter in pictures than in real life, you oppose them: You post mediocre pics but dazzle in person. That way men will look forward to hanging out with you in person.

Be unavailable EVERYWHERE except face to face. And you'll score more dates from men.

And the more men take you out on dates, the more they're forced to spend and the more they spend the more they get invested and the more they get invested the more they'll take you seriously. We talked about this on Pleasures Of The Cash.

And on dates don't allow a man to take selfies with you. To miss you he must have no pics of you. And when he misses you he must know that the only way to see you is to come see you. Not open his phone gallery.

This is how a woman guards her milk.

A MAN'S MILK.
Everything that a man does for, or gives to, his MALE FRIENDS (favours, money, time, connections, etc), these are called Non Sexual Attention and they are the same exact Non Sexual Attention a woman wants from a man.

These are the same exact things that fall under the category of "Husband Duties".

Husband Duties and Friend Duties are one and the same thing. They are a man's Non Sexual Attention. His Non Sexual Attention is the man's milk.

The difference between what a man does for his friends and what he does for his wife is a matter of degrees. Levels. He does the same for them, only in varying degrees.

If it always appears like your girlfriend or wife is always competing with your friends for your time, money, favours etc. IT IS BECAUSE REALLY YOUR GIRLFRIEND OR WIFE IS COMPETING WITH YOUR FRIENDS FOR YOUR TIME, MONEY, FAVOURS etc. All which are your Non Sexual Attention. Your Non Sexual Attention is the one thing you share with your guy friends. The one thing you share with women. That's why your girlfriend is always complaining about your friends. Because she's COMPETING with your friends.

The very things men share with each other are the same exact things women want from a boyfriend or a husband.

Men better learn to guard these things jealously. Because they are the only thing of value they have that women want.

Some guys last had sex months ago, because they're doing women favour after favour that women should have been paying for with sex. Some guys don't have girlfriends because girls have seen no point in dating them because the guys are doing boyfriend duties without being boyfriends.

No one is going to buy the cow if the milk is free. Not men. Not women.

YOUR SEXUAL ATTENTION IS TRASH.
As a man your Sexual Attention, of which your dick is central, is worthless garbage. It literally has no value to women. A woman can't marry you for sex. Because women are offered sex 24/7 365. Everywhere a woman goes, men want to fvck her. Why will she marry for something freely available to her?

YOUR NON SEXUAL ATTENTION IS PURE GOLD.
While as a guy, your Sexual Attention is rubbish, your Non Sexual Attention, of which your money is central, is the diamond mine.

No matter you're the ugliest baboon in the hood or the fattest pig in the township, no matter you're blind, or in a wheelchair or you don't even have a dick; your Non Sexual Attention remains as precious as diamonds and rubies to women.

Because when a woman has heavy items to lift, and the ugliest baboon offers his help, she won't say no. When a girl is stranded far from home and the blackest ugliest man offers her transport fare back home, she won't say no. When the prettiest girl in class can't get her assignments done on time and the fattest unsightly boy in class offers to write them for her, she won't say no. When Ms Nigeria is being robbed and Nigeria's brokest man intervenes to save her, she will gladly welcome it.

All these things that these men are doing for these women are the men's Non Sexual Attention. It is the only thing of value men have to offer women. All because men are stronger, smarter and faster. This is the selling point of men. It is their treasure. Their milk.

And they need to guard it jealousy.

WOMEN'S NON SEXUAL ATTENTION.
Women's Non Sexual Attention - of which money is core - is worthless and has little value. That is why a woman can come into a marriage broke and empty-handed and a man be okay with it.

A woman's money and a man's dick have the same value: ZERO. Men don't date women for money, just like women don't date men for dick.

Meanwhile, A woman's pussy and a man's money also have the same value: IT'S PURE GOLD. Men date and marry for sex. Women date and marry for money.

"HEY! CAN YOU DO ME A FAVOUR?"
A woman, instead of asking for money from men, she can instead ask for favours. And because men don't mind doing things for women as long as those things don't cost money they'll do it for her. But what men don't realise is that a favour or a free service is really money in another form.

A man's time, a man's attention and a man's money are the same thing because they're equal and have the same value. Since Attention = looking, and looking = Time, and time = Money. Giving someone your attention is giving them your time and your time is really your money.

That is why in Red Pill philosophy money and attention are used interchangeably as the most valuable thing men have. And the sweetest thing in the universe for women.

A WOMAN IS NEVER A STRANGER.
Women are the weaker sex and they won't last one day if men dealt with them the way men deal with other men.

Men are hard on each other and don't do each other favours unless it's between friends. If you're a guy and the other man doesn't know you he will never give you a lift in his car, buy you a drink, pay your transport fare, fight for you, give you a place to sleep or buy you food. That only happens between men who are friends.

But here's the thing, when a man deals with a woman, a total stranger of a woman, a woman he has NEVER MET BEFORE whose name he doesn't even know and whom he'll never see again in this life, that man, by nature, deals with that woman the same exact way he deals with a long time friend who is a guy.

As long as he's dealing with men, A guy will only allow a close friend he has known for years to spend the night in his house. Yet a girl he met barely 10 mins ago he'll also allow her to spend a night at his house.

Even if she's a stranger, a woman is never a stranger to a man.

While Maxwell needs to be friends with Isaac to get favours from Isaac, Sandra here doesn't have to be someone Isaac knows to get the same favours. Isaac doesn't even have to know Sandra's name or where she's from. The fact that Sandra is a woman means that even if she's a stranger to Isaac, she automatically gets the same benefits from Isaac that Isaac reserves for guys he's been friends with for years. Sandra whom Isaac just met barely 5 mins ago will get the same level of favours that Maxwell has earned over many years of loyal friendship with Isaac.

Even if she's a stranger, a woman is never a stranger to a man.

A WOMAN WITH MANY MALE FRIENDS DOESN'T NEED A BOYFRIEND.
The best strategy for a woman to properly benefit from a guy, without giving the guy any sex whatsoever, is actually to ask to be his Friend.
To never make him her Boyfriend.

Men are raised to treat all women nice. That is what it is to be a gentleman. So even if a man is not in a relationship with a particular woman, he'll still treat her well. Now if a girl has many men regularly treating her well, that good treatment will add up to the treatment he could get from an official Boyfriend.

Which is to say, If a girl gets about, say 8 guys who give her platonic friendship benefits, if she combines all that help it will equal the help a romantic boyfriend will give her. Because what a woman needs from a lover are the same things she needs from a platonic friend. ---------> RESOURCES.

If a girl has enough guy friends he won't need a boyfriend. The more guys a girl has in her friendzone the less she needs to make any of them her boyfriend.

This is the reason why friendship with women is highly discouraged in Red Pill philosophy because it's like the woman is dating you but you're not dating the woman because she's receiving GF benefits from you but not performing GF duties on you.

Even if you're just helping a girl with a lift to work, that may seem insignificant to you, but if at the same time, another guy is helping her out with lunch money (something also insignificant to him), and another guy, living next door her, watches over her (something also insignificant to him), while three other guys help her out with her rent (something also insignificant to them), and the guy at the local store gives her free groceries (something also insignificant to him), at the end, combining all the help from all these men, A WOMAN WILL NOT NEED TO HAVE A BOYFRIEND. She'll simply get a vibrator and live her life.

The Milk has been given to her free so she doesn't have to buy the cow.

A girl won't enter a relationship for what she's getting without a relationship. She's not dumb.

You and those other helpful men, by being gentlemen, have disqualified yourselves from being made a boyfriend.

A girl gains far more from 10 guys in her friendzone than she gains from 1 romantic boyfriend.

That's why friendship with men is so important for women. And that's why men must not be friends with women. Because to be a woman's friend is to be her boyfriend but without her being your girlfriend.

If every man everywhere became as selfish and as stingy with his time, money and favours the way every woman everywhere is selfish and stingy with her pussy, kisses and ass, society would reorder itself in record time. And especially women, having been left to navigate a dangerous world without the male protection and provisions that they take for granted, will be kinder, gentler and more respectful to men. Most importantly every woman will seek her own man to get protected and provided by and there won't be so many single lonely men.

But instead the opposite is happening...

Guys are going above and beyond the call of duty for girls they don't even know. Doing women favour after favour, paying bill after bill, satisfying need after need, of women. For what? To be thanked and made to feel like a "real man"! For validation. SMH.

As a result women are seeing no need to date. They're just hooking up with the few pretty boys for sex and that's it. The rest of what they need they can get without having to date.

If The Milk Is Free, the cow won't be bought. Women are not stupid.

THE FEMALE SOURCE CODE.
In the writeup The Female Source Code, we talked about how attention means so much to women that if a woman gets a lot of it from many men, it will cancel out her need for a man. And maybe some readers thought that was too farfetched a concept. Check out the first picture below and see a girl choose the attention of her Instagram followers over her relationship with her Boyfriend.
Here's the original tweet: https://mobile.twitter.com/theebryonnaab/status/1327690562108084224

Maybe guys will have something of an idea of what makes women tick at the most basic level.

Read The Female Source Code here: https://www.nairaland.com/5520258/ubunjas-miseducation-female-source-code


# MGTOW
# TheRedPill

Ubunja coming through as ever.

You and a lot of other guys here who try to make other men understand and improve on their intrinsic value, never fail to make them understand the value of time. Most guys think their value ends with their material resources but they don't know that COMMITMENT whether exclusively from a man or different men is the sum total of a man's time and his material resources like money etc. Time is technically money, on a closer look.

Personally, I think this ignorance can be blamed on most of these dudes not having much going on for themselves in their individual lives and a poor awareness of self, to know what they want and stand their ground for it.

Agricaddict:
OP I hope you practice what you preach because most of you are Elephant on the internet and ant in real life

The burden of whether he practices what he preaches or not, rests solely on him, not you. It's nothing to worry about. If he doesn't, women would spot it, and get him "punished" for it.

All you have to do is to pick whatever part of the red pill that works for you and move.

valentinenw:
Ubunja, when I first saw your post this forum, I was quite infuriated, however while reading your posts I see a unique brand of acute intelligence masked by indifference and bluntness. Really wonder why you choose to play the rogue

Ubunja, you got a catch here!

Regex:
These guys got the whole alpha, and red pill thing wrong. Smoking, drinking and banging lots of pussy doesn't make you an alpha male or a bad guy sef... I mean all these things are after the life and strength of a man. Continuous smoking leads to sterility in man, drinking cause diabetes, and too much women, gets you STDs. So tell me how can something that will kill you make you a man?

No bother reply that guy, he will not understand.

You get my vibes. I'm done replying anyone.

odinson1:
Bro I have to disagree with you On this! I don't think Slawomiir is a simp,he's actually a Bad guy.. He just smokes,drinks,bangs different pussy and he doesn't even pay them.
Ubunja Explained that On one of his Miseducations

Anybody can smoke weed and bang pussy. We all do. I don't want to be petty bringing out someone's old post, but go check his old moniker and read the posts that are related to dating, and you'll see traces of high-grade simping.

You might not understand but your opinions are welcome.

Entrepreneurrr:
Some sex.

But my own i need a lasting relationship that will lead to marriage.

If you don't find CaveAdullam advice on what you seek, useful, I'll advice you to simp more than any simp you know, so that you will get "some sex" and the marriage that you seek.

I hope you find the woman of your "dreams" and be able to deal with the consequences that simping will bring.

webizone and jaelz, our honourable simps of the day

It will end in premium ghosting and maximum tears.

jaelz:
So I decided to ask this question here because I have a lady that is overly demanding, I mean I tried pegging my monthly spending for her at 30,000 Naira per month including her hair, light, data and cable TV subscription plus one or two outings and hangouts.

But I noticed she never seems satisfied with my little efforts as she demands unimaginable things from me like buying her iPhone 12 and etc.

Guys pls how do you control spending on your women and how much do you spend on them monthly.

Soarr:
so you self na simp? 30k on girlfriend monthly!
Na she finance my business?

If you follow the slawormiir moniker's comments on threads relating to women, you go know say the guy na another loud-mouthed simp like most nairaland noisy clowns.

Yahoo boys simping is on another level. Most of them are usually not that smart when dealing with women regardless of their streetwise appearance.

Male virgins are practically useless to nature. It is also a reason why male sexual organs have no natural seal like hymen (in females) to indicate sexual chastity.

Nothing wrong in being celibate for whatever reason(s) but if you starve yourself of sex, because you want to appear chaste to a woman, you already destroyed your value as a dominant man before women. She'll never take you serious.

If you doubt my position, read the comments of the ladies above and their disgust for "virgin" men.

Difrent:
Don't be so perssimistic ,NIGERIA WILL BE GREAT AGAIN.....I used to tell people ,a bad situation cannot continue forever ,the situation will change one day afterall those who want to continue milking the country dry won't live forever .

Continue deceiving yourself. No problem.

The only person I pity is your children who is believing this lie you are peddling.

The structure on which the Nigerian society was built from then till now was never made to be great.

The day more than 60% of Nigerians realize this, Nigeria's problem is more than half-solved.

Miggs:
Lol! The bolded parts perfectly describes what happened on the Ashawo Beer Parlour thread until I stopped visiting it late last year.What broke the camel's back for me was when some guy sent 30k to a female monicker because she posts comments on the thread and other guys started hailing him

Na wa oooo. What a loser!

30k for no reason and you wonder why female entitlement mentality is at an all time high.

Sadly, the same loser will be the one to complain about Nigerian ladies being too money-conscious and would never spare a kobo to raise his fellow man in dire need.

Women are never afraid to enter spaces where men are because they know the power that their appearance wield on beta men without doing much. They come in for much of that attractive male energy, validation and simp resources. Naturally, I'm always wary of spaces with high female energy (where females are gathered or where weak males do biitchy things). I don't know if it is just me, but it drains my energy and makes me feel exhausted.