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Bobbyfreshh:
FFK sef don chop life

unbotheredfaith:
You're a good person: gently, caring, hardworking, amazing heart, kind, resourceful, but to find a decent man na wahala. Why? Should i start being bad?

The5DME:
[s][/s]fake!!!!!!!!!!

Teaveapoet:
Isn't that too early? Relationships should be about knowing each other. Life goals, ambitions, career, financial levels. Sexual intercourse is the least if you ask me.

Fifteen years, old girl does not know what life is. You need to mentor not take advantage. Please, groom her not sex her.

SmellySperm:
lmao you pop so many pills bro, shit got you spewing trash

[/code]Enjoy sex it has the power to free us from mental stress[code]

chumaZ:
Nairalanders I need your advise, please pardon my grammar and my typographical errors as I am under pressure, I will try and make this story short in order not to bore you guys

I finished school 2016 and went for NYSC on Abuja 2017. Unfortunately for me, I ran into my best friend supposed fiancée since I know her too well, we bonded till one day she asked to know where I stay in Abuja, but because I was staying with my aunty, I couldn't take her to my place....

One Friday morning I got a call from my bestie that his girl is down, that I should take her to hospital, I left whatever I was doing and rushed down to Apo resettlement. When I got there her fiancée was in good condition to my greatest surprise, she begged me not to let my friend know, that she needed attention and all that. She didn't know it will got to this extent, and I agreed with her and bid her a goodbye but she wouldn't let me go until I kiss her.... I swear I had no option if that would make her free me because she was creating a lot of drama already. I kept cool and avoided this girl till I left abuja after NYSC and never mentioned anything that happened between her and I to my friend.

Fast forward to October 2020, my friend called me that her fiancée has an event to attend in Yaba Lagos for a week and want me to accommodate her since I stay in two bedroom apparent alone, I refused and suggested it was better he get a hotel room for her, my friend said the girl have not been to Lagos that it would be better she stays with someone who's familiar with Lagos. I contacted a female friend I know to see if she can stay with her, but my friend's fiancée' complained the place will be far from where the event would be taking place, my best friend was now seeing me as wicked person and I don't wanna help his girl. I had no option than to allow her to come stay with me, I made sure I invited my sister to stay with me for the one week, to avoid temptation. But my sister couldn't stay for a week because of some personal issues, that's how I was left with my best friend fiancée, I don't wanna talk about what I pass through staying with her alone but I ended up having sex with her which I regretted bitterly, when she left Lagos back to anambra I pleaded with her not to chat me nor call me, but she wouldn't listen. She's always chatty and sending me nude which I finally blocked her.

A week ago, my bestie called me that he was in Lagos and would want us to meet, I was reluctant, because I can't stand him after what happened between me and his fiancée, when I got to the bar (venue) the face I saw around his table were kinda strange aside one of our old friend who was with them. Uncle no even allow me finish greeting before I know it a broken bottle have landed on my hand, his target was my face but thank God I defended on time, that's how my blood spilled everywhere and his friends tried to calm him down while other ones was giving me general beating like a common criminal. Thank God police arrived on time, I might have been a dead man today over a girl I never wanted to help.

Please I need help on how to go about this and clear myself from whatever this girl told my bestie, from the little I heard, she claimed I raped her during her stayed with me. Although I have got a lawyer now who is handling this issue but I still wanna clear myself before my friends, none of them believes me maybe because of my lifestyle back in school. Even my family are aware of this ugly issue and are calling me bumper to bumper, because me and my bestie are from the same village and we are like family friends. I don't know how to clear my name. Please help me. I am depressed already, I can't believe my OG tried killing me.

yanabasee1:
What is important isn't your marriage at this moment, but knowing what you have and what you don't have ..


You can still father any bastard child that will come out from the results...But your wife will be so humbled around you if you decide to keep the marriage as she wouldn't want to have you bring back her cheating stories before her....


Or simply kill him before he expose her one day. And have fun being single again mumu claiming red pill

I wish you the very best in the outcome of all of this....


You're a man to me and not a simp.....


I give you my respect....The boldness and the courage!

yazga:
I saw some signs but he denied and gave me a 100 reasons why he is not married.

My sis fear men! He would follow me to church and everywhere, we do prayers together sef, this guy can call me 10 times a day. He almost followed me to my elder sisters wedding then so he could use the opportunity to introduce himself to my family. It was his friend who was jealous of our relationship that revealed the truth to me. Fear men!

Many years after the damage, this guy still contacted me to tell me he loves me. I told him I don't know him and his name doesn't ring a bell. He sounded very sad and since then never contacted me again....this life!

Hamachi:
All this while hunky saved my number as blessing tailor, but change it when we were together, the day I saw a lady picture on his WhatsApp I ask who the lady was and he was like my older sister who just married. Well she was older than him no doubt, the love affair continue until I received a call one faithful evening form a woman calling me blessing, me and she talk at length, she send me their wedding pictures and I send it to him.
Till date hunky is speechless....I took my leave ..

Starthemes:
I have a female friend who got married many years before I did. Before she got married, we were just friends and I was sincerely happy for her when she got married. But she married a goat. The man was a cheat and a wife beater. My friend suffered in her marriage even though she gave the man four boys.

Being friends with her, I was always counselling her, encouraging her…I even tried to settle some of their quarrels. I got married and my wife came to know about this situation and she used to even feel sorry for her too.

Eventually this lady and her husband divorced after seven years of marriage. She had no place to go to and my wife agreed that she could stay with us. We had a BQ and she moved in there. Her children and our children played together. We were like one big family.

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But one day, I made a terrible mistake. I was down with malaria and was at home. Everyone had gone to work and school. This lady came to my room and seduced me. To be honest, I do not know why I could not resist but I cheated on my wife with this lady.

We started sneaking behind my wife and having an affair for almost four months. And then she got pregnant. That was when the scales fell off. I knew I had gone too far and I was not ready to destroy my marriage. I asked her to abort it and she agreed cos she did not want to betray my wife who treats her like a sister.

We agreed that she should move out too cos the affair was too close to home. I got her a self contain and she moved out with her children. My wife was arguing that there was no need for her to get her own place but I insisted. My wife is a good woman…I don’t know how many women will be so unsuspecting.

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Being away from our house gave us room to mess around more. I tried to stay away from her but in a few months, we resumed our affair…unfortunately, we were careless. Another pregnancy happened. She was scared of doing a second abortion so I told her I would have nothing to do with her if she keeps the pregnancy. She was supposed to be using contraception but she was careless.

We started having issues ,arguing about the pregnancy. I angrily tried to drug her…so the baby can be flushed…she thought I wanted to kill her so she in anger told my wife. I thought my marriage was over. My wife felt so betrayed. She would not speak to me for months. I begged her and her family…I did not want her to leave me.

God had mercy on me somehow and the lady lost the baby. My wife still has not forgiven me. Its been over two years. Even though my wife has not moved out…she has never forgiven me. We are like strangers in the house. She said she is staying because of the children.

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I have asked God and our families for forgiveness. But my wife still refuses to forgive me. The marriage is no longer the same. I don’t sleep with her and she does not let me touch her. I forced myself on her one time cos it was too unbearable….but she hates me so much that she bite me and warned me never to touch her again.

I have asked her what she wants me to do…cos if we are not meeting physically, she is pushing me to go and cheat again. She does not care. She said I can do what I like. That made me realize she no longer loves me. I think its best we both go our separate ways. I asked her if that is what she wants…she says no but if I want it…she is ok with it…

So, that is how I come to the conclusion that the marriage is over. Its two years now.I have begged and begged…what else should I do? If divorce is not the way out…what else should I do? How long should I wait? I am constantly fighting/resisting the temptation to cheat but my wife does not want me anymore

JumpByte:
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Ashirawealthy1:
claim the baby indeed, chai you are very stupid ooo

Nonexistent2:
No. A man can marry any time he wants but it's good to have kids on time so one doesn't pay primary school fees with pension money. This is why I am currently looking for a girl I will pay to have just a son for me because I'm not ready for any marriage.

IntersexSherry:
Please women, let men never dictate your life for you. Most are assholes.

I admit some of them are really good and sensible, others are just into big Breast and vagina, big ass. Totally no respect for women. They only see women as a sex object to satisfy their lustful desire.

You think they care about you? Say all those complimentary words, buy you all those gifts just to take you to bed.. Then you see them laughing at you.

I have said it, the energy we women have inside of us is ten times stronger than the energy men have inside of them so lets focus on this our energy and forget these stupid men.. They are not worth it.

Except you enjoy being used and heartbroken. Some are really good, if you are lucky enough to find the good ones, grab him!!

And they can never help you without asking for sex in return. Just imagine. Very heartless creatures.

udoakwa:
Not every guy that is big or huge that has sense, to think this little adult can embarrass himself like this, kneeling down to beg someone to be his responsibility, i swear this guy deserve a very serious brain resetting slaps...spit

100trillion:
Years of total commitment down the drain I loved her to the end; God be my witness.

Now, the person I gave my all has broken my heart, where do I start from? How am I suppose to go about my day-to-day activities......I had plans for her - BIG PLANS.

I woke up one morning and BOOM! The love of my life was gone. I thought I was goin' to die. Really, I almost could'nt function. My stomach hurt, my face distorted from endlessly crying.

How do I forget about her and move on with my life?

N.B: she stays next block and I see her EVERYDAY.

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iamcee:
Sex before marriage isn't a good thing..I just feel bad about the way pre-marital sex is now common.
If the guy loves you,he should wait..that would even be of great help in avoiding the problem of sexual diseases, abortions,etc.
Now,males and females are just in relationship for nothing else than sex and money.. that's bad...
Premarital sex isn't a good thing.. don't involve in it if you haven't
Once your partner understands you,you won't have problem.
One reason why getting a partner who understand you well is important

Serene123:
I have gone as far as secretly getting access to her WhatsApp. I didn't see any single chat with her and the guy nor another person. But the calls just keep pisisng me off.

I realised I shouldn't have gone that far. I should have just be calmed and let her do her wish

SchoolPedia:
Let's have an open discussion here please.



Matured minds only.

I believe we will learn a lot here and help build better homes and families which will bring about better societies too.

Let's get the discussion running please.

Happy Sunday all.

Shemmlly:
I'm 26years old but my penis look like a 9years old boy and I'm also having premature ejaculation due to masturbation .pls how can I enlarge my small penis and stop premature ejaculation.help a dying soul

Jodha:
Where are yhu based...hope yhu are efficient? Because the people I've been dealing with are nothing to write about..

tee59:
She made a wrong choice.

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