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mojounited:
^^Haba! But you said you needed someone with an eight [8] figure account na. . .this is more than that figure sef when converted to =N= . Should we hola @ d guy but i'll need my own share o

omega25red:
becuase most people on here are internet gangsters and bullies and are mostly immature.

Jabulana:
Sleekch1c, Apart from the existence of love, there is also existence of honesty and respect. When you respect the other person you share a relationship with, and when you are honest in your relationships, it’s sure to fly high! It’s important to always be honest even when it hurts. Honesty will build a bridge of trust that will enable your partner to open and share the deep parts of their heart that they typically keep hidden.

An honest person also engraves in himself the quality of trust. When there is lack of trust, three major factors cause hindrance in the growth of a healthy relationship, which are insecurity, suspicion and doubts. These three factors don’t allow you be in peace and would also encourage you to ask more and more questions about unnecessary things to your partner just because of insecurity, where as the issue might be nothing to worry about.

Another element to successful relationship is the ability to be open to change. Everyone has different ideas, world views and perceptions about life and the ways things should be done. Many times we think our way is the best way but truthfully there is most likely a better way to something then you’ve ever done before. You need to be flexible and adjusting with the new changes and also with the changes in your partner’s emotions and mood fluctuations.

If you are one of those who possess all of the above, then you are sure to be living in a successful relationship. If not, then here is a chance for you to overcome your weakness and make an attempt to fill in the gaps of emptiness in your self, which is leading to emptiness in your relationship.

your rite girl, your pretty I gave that to U, No offence just like all men are tie wt the same rope, so are the women. I for one love 9ja women. Love should not always be about what I can get out of him/her but how both of u can help one another.

shooze:
But David that's what I was trying to say that doing laundry should not be such a big deal for both parties

davidylan:
Where do these insecure empty heads come from?   Such a shame you cant screen off those you respond to. Would have been quite a useful tool to avoid having to exchange words with mindless goons who have no capacity to address issues with some tact. You reap what you sow ma'am, when you insult other people's parents for no reason . . . i can bet you wont be having anything close to a happy and peaceful home yourself. Best of luck.

davidylan:
Now we both know that's a joke.   Compared to you i'm a genius. Gba!  

I have a wonderful mother who worked hard to raise 3 boys . . . taught them to fend for themselves and raised them to be the best they could be. Having kids wasnt fun for her, but she absolutely did her best to make sure she wasnt just a "kid raising" sap beside my father.

I really pity the man who will marry these illiterate rabble rouser. do you understand what compromise means?

this is not an attitude that encourages a loving marriage. Change your ways. this false idea of women empowerment is at the root of the gradual erosion of the family as a unity.

you got jokes my sister.   Dont just come here when you're 32 wondering where all the good men went.

190:
Yes my relationship with lola sleekch1c is @ a new height!!

davidylan:
you miss the point. Againt he issue is not whether she washes or not, its how she expresses her self. Like i said, i have an auntie who wont wash her clothes EVER. She's been married going on 10 yrs and she's been a fabulous wife. Her husband understands her feelings perfectly and has found a way around it. I grew up with my mom doing breakfast first thing in the morning . . . madam does not like doing it at all - but she doesnt sit there telling me "if you cant get your own breakfast in the morning then go hungry, i'm not your slave". There is a way to communicate your feelings on issues to your man that does not sound like you're giving him an ultimatum.

There is no difference between washing the clothes of a fiance and a husband. What you wont do now you will never learn tomorrow. Women who wash their fiance's clothes dont do so because they have nothing better to do . . . they do it because they enjoy it and wish to do it as an expression of their love and care.

Mygoldie:
LMAO, PMSL ,i guess he's travelled.

REALITY101:
Damn dude the girl on her profile picture is far from been pretty. Wow that sound and seems to be your choice huh?

heroes1983:
i never expected this thread to turn into a tongue lashing room. I have seen your profile pic and you are pretty (if that is actually you) so i would try as much as possible to be a gentleman.
* i like girls black or white
* i would prefer to spend my life with a girl with identical cultural and traditional background as mine, as this would prevent alot of problems in the family
* nigerian girls to be specific are too materialistic and are even proud of it while girls from most nationalities aren't.

hope you are as much as smart as you are pretty to make the right deductions. By the way your last statement 'then marry your money' drives home and proves my point. Why should money have been the first thing to have come to your mind. Please lady i hope you aren't what you want me to believe you are cos your beauty would have been a waste.

Girl846:
The bleeding is caused by the tearing of the hymen, which covers the vjay of a virgin.
The hymen could be broken by sports, manipulation, or other reasons (but all these cases is very rare - so don't let any girl decieve you!)
One is a virgin as long as you have never had sex (penetrative) before - with or without a hymen!
They will still be very tight 'down-there' and sex will be uncomfortable for a virgin.

chronique:
i cant believe what i'm reading. are naija girls claiming they can marry a man who has lesser qualifications and is not boxed up? damn it!!!!1 if you guys are serious and mean what you're saying,it definitely means the world is coming to an end. i need to go and give my life to God again in church tomorrow, lol

keep it up ladies.

bamboke:
I would love to know your views ladies, if you can wholeheartedly marry a guy who has less qualifications than you and right now has not much to give you but his love and attention. Will you be willing and humble to marry him, believing that tomorrow has good things in stock for you both? Candid views please!

NO,I WONT MARRY A BROKE AZZ LIKE MR-CORK