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Love him or hate him,Mimiko is a politician to the core!!
He knows the game and he plays it well..
Obasanjo said worse about Mimiko in Ondo state during the campaign for the 2007 elections...we know what happened in the end.
Tinubu is only feeling bad that he was used..he was a means to an end for Mimiko..he got played at his own game and his ego and greed won't let him shut up!
After all the noise...we'll know who will laugh last in just a few days time..
Haha!!

shymexx: I'm out!!

Fvcking hell!! - it's 4a.m, I pray I don't get to work late...

lmao@the bolded..
Dude's been screaming that for the past two hours!!

vivian chinaza: @ slimyem, ok, let me break it down for you. When a man cheats, confesses to his woman, if a woman says she forgives, she forgives from the bottom of her heart and let it go. But when a woman cheats and a man forgives, he never let's it go. He keeps making a mental picture of the who scenario, his ego takes a hit. Whenever he remembers the incident he withdraws emotionally.....now when a man starts withdrawing emotional you have got a big problem and at the end of the day, the marriage has 97% of surviving! Take a trip to any marriage counsellor, you will be told the same thing!


Now personally, I hate to see women cheat!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Vivian,i agree with your last post...
I hate to see women cheat as much as i hate to see men cheat!!
You say you hate to see women cheat....but you left out men!
You don't mind if men cheat..
See??
You left out men because you made an excuse for them already...."because they are men"!!
That is not right!!

shymexx: Yeah, but you have to accept cheating as a weakness - just as most women love their make-up and Brazilian hair...

Don't let people's action(s) change who you're - be yourself...

cheating is every human's weakness..
However,a self-controlled and disciplined person can get around it.
That's responsibility!
That's a quality i have and one i strongly look out for in a man.
Anyman who doesn't have it scores zero in my book.any man who has it but loses it because he isn't disciplined enough or have no respect for our union also scores zero!!

Double post!

Shollypopz: lol, na GOD ooo!! But seriously, my passion is to free lil girls from mental bondage by offering scholarships. I just can't help myself when I see mental slavery, I just want to help!

then start with high school sorority clubs....girls less than 18 whose mind are still open to those rationalities.
You can't change/school adults who are firmly set in their ways..
Its a waste of energy.
You can only do so little here.

shymexx: Men are polygamist by nature, just be yourself, and don't let them change you...

Your body is the temple of God, sleeping around is unacceptable...

yes...for both male and female!!!

vivian chinaza: First of all, I did not say women must forgive a cheating man! Forgiving him or not is based on individuals involved.

Now Shola schooling me? That's funny!

But the practical truth is, a cheating man is easily forgiven more than a cheating woman. Take it or leave it!

i didn't misinterprete you..
You made the whole thing sound like because you are a woman,you have no choice but to tolerate a man who cheats because he is a man...
Don't you see you are indirectly supporting cheating men?
You are indirectly telling them the women in their lives are not supposed to make a big deal out of it if they cheat?
Can you see how the d1cks of the most of the men on this thread just got hard because of your posts?

shymexx: [s]
WOMEN SHOULD NEVER CHEAT - IT'S FOREIGN TO OUR CULTURE!![/s]

Choose your partner wisely, however, don't let him change you...

Any woman that cheats is a slut to me, I don't rate women who're like that...

lmao..
What i stroked out is a joke...right?
Any man that cheats is irresponsible to me..
I rate such men 0 anyday anytime!!

Sholly,where do you get your energy from..??
I swear i can't do this thing you are doing..
Even if you argue this till tomorrow,they won't accept your opinion or argument so why not just let it go?
You dey try o...

This thing has gone on long enough o..
Haba!!
Vivian is stubbornly sticking to her opinions...
Shollypopz wants to school her at all costs....i like her argument except for the excessive use of profanities.
Shymmex doesn't quite get what the topic is about and what Shollypopz's point is..
Cameroonpride typed some jargons initially..
And me,i made my point earlier..Cheating shoud not be excused for anybody no matter what gender is involved!!
Its an unfair fact that when women cheat,it is seen as abnormal and hell is let loose but when men do the same,it is seen as normal and the man is mostly hailed for being a sharp guy or a badass.
Now,tolerating such nonsense (a cheating man) because he is a man and giving him a warm hug after his irresponsibility and disrespect to the union is subject to individuals.
I,as a woman will not under any circumstances tolerate or welcome such....not now,not ever...and whichever woman thinks she can/will forgive and take back a man who doesn't respect family values in the first place because she is a woman who believes in those same family values should simply have a nice day!!

jhydebaba: If I hear....

[quote author=A-ZeD]Forming faithful abi?[/quote]

Chibest2000: hahahahaaa madam i d hail o, hahahaha only God can judge.

Horayce: O gerrout of here infidel

krispycash: see scam.... lwkmd.... dont forget so far 70% of his clients r women...

see them!!
"Awon alainiikan'se ti'n weni kunra.....shiooor"
Yes,i'm a faithful...believe it or not..na you go get headache pass!!

phlame: Yeah just food stuff and she cooks only 2 soup (Egusi and Ogbono) which doesn't even last more than 2days... I eat 2wice daily... I actually confided in a friend 2 know how much he spends in a month and he said less than 25k and he has 2 kids... Can you imagine?

you didn't answer all my questions..
What do you suspect is the problem?
Do you think she's diverting the money for food?
..or do you think she's wasteful/doesn't know how yo manage?

phlame: With just 2 mouths 2 feed how much is enough for month? I spend 40k and she still insists its not enough... I need peoples opinion/advise because I don't know how long I can continue...

This info is not enough to go on..
Is the 40k for foodstuff?
Is it for just soup?
What are the kinds of food you love to have at home?
Do you request special kinds of food?
How often do you receive visitors and do your visitors eat when they come around?
How many times do you both eat at home per day?
Do you suspect your wife is diverting the money elsewhere?
Do you think she's extravagant or wasteful..?
.....i'm just trying to understand the situation better before i make any comment...

jhydebaba: Nothing spoil, enjoy all of them.







_{Olojukokoro!!! woman finish for street? Ofe fi oko tu ebi ka}

Jisos!!!

fluid26: How careful can one be? Especially with dangerous females all over the place.

I've come to realize that most times, being a good guy doesn't skew positively. A touch of notoriety seems to be the bait to nail 'em. [esp. the good ones].

how careful can one be especially with the heartless men all over the place?
I am beginning to doubt if being a good person/woman is still the right thing and i wonder if its ever going to be worth it...
What men really want remains unknown..
.
Hey...!
All i'm saying is..its swings both ways..we all have our stories.

fluid26: Sadly, treating a woman right does not guarantee anything. It's a heart-wrenching truth.

...its the same vice versa....
Being an angel and the sweetest of women to a man does not also guarantee anything!
Its an equally heart-wrenching,distressing truth!

Snog-None...dunno anyone enough to want to do that with them..
Marry-None...same reason as above.
Avoid-At least 5..(handles withheld for obvious reasons)

pendo89: It's the animal Kingdom.Wild animals provide good examples.Have you ever watched bulls fight for females and how protective they are of those they mate with?
This is what I think.

A man in love 'can be /is' possessive of his woman.A woman cheating on him is equal to kicking him below the belt cz it questions his manhood,his ability to make a woman stick around.
It exposes his sexual/overall weakness and that hurts to the core.

Now I know women feel the same way if not worse,but this what I think;

A 'wayward' man feels like a conquerer whenever he sleeps around.The act gives him a feeling of superiority,above the other males in his group.
Something to boast about because he conquered new grounds.A perfect hunterer.(unfortunately most end up hunting HIV and other STDS in the process).
'Some' women find it easy to forgive such men, because they seem to attract women.They seem valuable in their women's eyes and therefore men believe their women ought to be proud of that fact>(in high demand)

A 'wayward' woman on the other hand feels guilt and shame.If she lets her guard down she loses credibility/worth in the sight of her man.The man doesn't view her as one who's being 'sought after' or in demand,but as a failure.

So while cheating by a man to some women may be an act of bravado,to a man,a woman cheating is a sign of defeat.

Love this argument!!

gnchetts: Big thanks to everyone.I've tried to make peace. My husband tried to expain to me why he wants me to do it,he only want to avoid anything that will make them hate me at this early stage. I've decide to call them Mummy c,Mummy u. For the boys I can call them ogas,i will always add ma & sir and even great their last born while I make fun out of it all.Am so grateful for all your advice,they helped me alot.

Good!
You are a wise woman!!

YuzedoII: BREAKING NEWS: CATE records 50million downloads in one night upon launching in Nigeria.

Statistics = Naija Girls: 49,999,999, Naija Men: 1.

Source: NTA Knews!

We give uppppp!!!!!

even if this were to be true and given the report,doesn't it just mean that women do not like to get caught and Men do not mind getting caught?
...at least cheating women don't cheat with goats..do they?

License for cheaters to cheat as much as they like...
Lord,we the faithfuls are in your hands...

Cheating is wrong no matter what angle you choose to look at it from and no matter what gender you are.
It should not be justified in any way...nor excused for any gender!!!

Voted..
I hope you win..

This is one fake story..
The op's previous posts and threads tell it all...
I'm out!!

Its funny how a lot of people on this thread are saying its a norm and the op shouldn't have been bothered...he should have just given them if he had or shut his mouth if he doesn't have to give.
Seriously??
Something is very wrong and we are supposed to either keep quiet or encourage it?
Smh!!
The way people reason is so shameful...
Damn!!

For someone posing to be male on this thread...https://www.nairaland.com/1050871/use-suck-hole-she-wont
pls take your fake story back to where u brought it from..
Nonsense!!