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FamilyRe: Is This Common Amongst Nigerian Married Women? by slimyem: 5:44pm On Apr 30, 2013
biolabee: slimyem.


my bastard is MY BASTARD.. my wifes bastard is another MAN's seed
To a woman,,, they may come from the same place but mehnnnnnn.. they are different
two different things.. dont ever compare
Your opinion bro.
If i were to judge,i'd judge both equally.
Pity the woman who doesn't deserve that her husband cheats on her and sires kids outside.
Pity the man who doesn't deserve it but gets to raise a bastard anyways.
The same way its not fair to the woman is the same way its not fair to the man.Its a crazy world.
End of!
Back to topic.cool
FamilyRe: Is This Common Amongst Nigerian Married Women? by slimyem: 5:35pm On Apr 30, 2013
biolabee: I have a question for the women in the house

Are these sins the same to yo, rate in order of 'worst-ness'
1. A man has a fling once
2. A man has a steady mistress and does not neglect his home duties
3. A serial philanderer like the man in the post

Will you throw away your marriage because of these
Its all infidelity.Only number 1 is forgivable if there's true remorse and a "promise" it won't happen again.
2 and 3 are in the same category and as per the question....lipsrsealed

What is "throwing your marriage away"? Opting for this woman's choice or walking away?
PoliticsRe: Woman Removes Man's Teeth With Slap. by slimyem: 5:27pm On Apr 30, 2013
nwando: My dear o
Ordinary teeth and people and people are hounding this woman
It could have been worse
A man in China was left with his 32 teeth intact and a squeeze of the fruits of his loom sent him to the great beyond
What will he do with teeth in hell when there is no food dia
I bet he wishes he lost his teeth in the hands of that brave woman
He could trade places with this bobo nkiti here
cheesycheesycheesycheesygringringrincheesycheesy
FamilyRe: Is This Common Amongst Nigerian Married Women? by slimyem: 5:22pm On Apr 30, 2013
I thought this thread was about cheating in retaliation in which case both husband and wife don't mind each others excapades anymore not analysing and debating worse case scenarios infidelity can birth.

However,a man who sires a bastard outside the home and the woman who brings a bastard home to her husband are the same IMO.None is worse than the other.It makes no sense to compartmentalize.
PoliticsRe: Woman Removes Man's Teeth With Slap. by slimyem: 5:16pm On Apr 30, 2013
dasparrow: @Post

I hate domestic violence. Violence is never the answer. Now where is the man going to find money to buy some fake teeth to replace the ones he has lost?
lmao...cheesy
Na that one pain you pass? huhHe should better be lucky she didn't attack his power station.tongue
PoliticsRe: Woman Removes Man's Teeth With Slap. by slimyem: 4:58pm On Apr 30, 2013
[quote author=Texas.Cowgirl]I'm sure she'd have knocked out all his teeth if she knew she was going to get 45[/quote]45?
I thought the case hasn't been judged yet...
PoliticsRe: Woman Removes Man's Teeth With Slap. by slimyem: 4:55pm On Apr 30, 2013
[quote author=Nuzo']Abeg abeg...make una park well. angry

That you guys have decided to condone voilence against your gender doesn't mean menfolks are going to do same.


The woman in question should thank her god she didn't ra.pe the young man hence we would be advocating for life imprisonment without parole. Or did she ra.pe him? angry

No offeinse.[/quote]Those days are over bro.That's why we fighting back now.exactly what this woman's tryna say in actions.grin
Either you be careful or enjoy it when its dished back to you if you serve it cuz its sure gon last.cheesycheesy cool
FamilyRe: Is This Common Amongst Nigerian Married Women? by slimyem: 4:46pm On Apr 30, 2013
Tpia, the only Nairalander who preaches and curses concurrently.cheesy
Thumbs up o!!
FamilyRe: Is This Common Amongst Nigerian Married Women? by slimyem: 4:21pm On Apr 30, 2013
Is this not the same section where the men want to crucify divorced women for not trying hard enough to keep the marriage and when they want to hear the other side of the story to justify her reasons for leaving? huh


Your man cheats,you leave him for it-you are crucified!
Your man cheats,you do the same-you are crucified too!

Your man cheats,you endure,pray, "scabash" and remain unhappy for the most part of your life,you are a good woman who keeps her home.cool

If whichever ways,one's fried so why not just let everyone make a choice that best suits them? huh
CultureRe: How Do You Identify Articulate Nigerian Language Speakers? by slimyem: 4:04pm On Apr 30, 2013
TerraCotta:
That seems unlikely. It's too broad a generalization since there are Yoruba newspapers, radio shows, movies and so on (even novels, though they're less common now) that assume and maintain fluency in the language. There are also university courses in Yoruba that go beyond teaching the functional vocabulary people might learn at home and go deeper into poetry, interpretstion etc.

That's the example I'm most familiar with but I wouldn't be surprised if there are others in Nigeria.
Thank you.I think its the same for the igbo language too but dunno about Hausa and other tribes/ethnic languages.

As for articulate ones,you probably cannot identify them except you understand the language but i know certainly there a quite a number of yoruba speakers who don't adulterate the language when speaking it.
A good example is the crop of actors and actresses that make up MAINFRAME movies made in Yoruba language.Rich,deep Yoruba is what they speak not considering a few borrowed words that have been adopted into the language.
PoliticsRe: Woman Removes Man's Teeth With Slap. by slimyem: 3:47pm On Apr 30, 2013
This woman is definitely guilty within reason.The charges should be dropped.cheesy
She should be discharged and acquited.tongue
PoliticsRe: Woman Removes Man's Teeth With Slap. by slimyem: 3:43pm On Apr 30, 2013
imperiouxx: Why should women be treating men like this? God dey oo angry
Men's sins are catching up with 'em.Na the God wey dey since just con dey show hinself..tongue
PoliticsRe: Woman Removes Man's Teeth With Slap. by slimyem: 3:41pm On Apr 30, 2013
nwando: But seriously some men deserve heavy slaps.do you know what she has endured?
Glad that there are women out there to dish it out when needed
Ride on sis!
Let us not condemn her yet till we hear her side of the story
Correct!!cheesycheesy
PoliticsRe: Woman Removes Man's Teeth With Slap. by slimyem: 3:40pm On Apr 30, 2013
[quote author=Nuzo']The incident was caught on tape. angry

This woman has to be sentenced to 45 years in prison. We can't continue enduring voilence againt men everyday.

Thank god she didn't r.ape the man. undecided[/quote]Why you so mad bro?
You been slapped by a woman before? huh
FamilyRe: Disgraced Actor Solomon Akiyesi Tells His Story •I Loved Ezinne, My First Wife, by slimyem: 3:25pm On Apr 30, 2013
I certainly cannot read this epistle of silliness and lame excuses of a whoring man.
Awaiting your reasons for leaving Uloma too in the very near future.I'll bet it'd be something like "she charmed me into marrying her and now,my eyes are open"cool
Uselesss man!!!*spits*
FamilyRe: Does Kids Mean It Whn They Say " I Love You" by slimyem: 3:18pm On Apr 30, 2013
They definitely know its an expression of affection.Even if they got it from movies,at least they don't see anyone say those words while landing a slap on whom its directed to.
Their minds though little can process those expressions.
FamilyRe: Could My Dirty Past Be Haunting Me? Please Help Before I Go Crazy by slimyem: 3:13pm On Apr 30, 2013
This story is a typical "once upon a aristo" one aimed at some moral lesson of some sort.We'd heard,watched and read too many versions of it.undecided

If its real however,i'd say open up to your husband,face your sins and live with the consequences thereof.You laid your bed.
Next please!!
FamilyRe: Is This Common Amongst Nigerian Married Women? by slimyem: 2:58pm On Apr 30, 2013
ileobatojo: Imagine the hypocrisy. The man has slept with more girlfriends than she has changed her weaves yet she is the one getting called names.

I wonder who made woman the sole moral compass in a relationship. So the man is free to be as immoral as possible but the woman must remain pure and holy under any circumstance. She is not a human being too right? The man is made of flesh and blood while she is a tin robot not so?


This is a marriage that is now one purely in name. The husband is unrepentant and has said she is free to leave anytime meaning he doesn't care whether he's married to her or not. Why he can't grow some balls and just kick her out I don't know. Whatever his reasons which he has a right to, she also has a right to her own reasons for deciding to stay married to him. If anything, that's what we should be discussing, how society and the presence of children make women stay in dead marriages.

Shebi the man is the head of the home? So his subject is now following his lead shikena! Next time he should lead by better example.


Is she wrong, yes. Would I do the same? Probably not. I think a clean break would be best too. But will I judge her like some dumb sheep following some useless two faced culture? Hell no!!

If she feels like she has the liver to do it and she feels she has romantic needs that she will never obtain from her husband and doesn't want to live the remaining 40 something years of her married life sad, depressed, lonely and yearning for something better, if her own conscience doesn't judge her for her course of action then who am I to judge her?

Far as I can see,she tried to fix things with the hubby but since he refused, she has chosen an option that works for her. There is no law that says the woman must remain the moral compass of a marriage in the face of all manners of sh*it!! Until there is equal condemnation for both people's actions in our society then I say kudos to her!!
That's all!!!cool
CelebritiesRe: Gwyneth Paltrow Voted World's Most-Beautiful Woman by slimyem: 2:46pm On Apr 30, 2013
clue: The way these guys take a poll and then put "world" on it baffles me.
The correct title should be. "Peoples magazine most beautiful woman"
Abi we fit call our own "sun girl" the most sexy girl in the world?
Nothing's stopping us from doing so. cool
FamilyRe: Is This Common Amongst Nigerian Married Women? by slimyem: 2:33pm On Apr 30, 2013
Tgirl4real: This should be sacarsm, but if I wanna take it otherwise... Men being polygamous in nature doesn't justify him sleeping with every thing in skirt. Haba! Make he pity the life of his wife and kids if he doesn't care about his own.
Don't take it otherwise.It is what it is.I'd rather remain indifferent than judge her because i haven't walked in her shoes.
I bet she'd have been thrown out,disgraced and probably accused of plotting to kill her husband(the famed line used on cheating wives) if she was the one who cheated first.

People have their reasons for remaining in their relationships and marriages and if the paths they choose to walk through makes them sleep at night,then fine.Not anyone's business.The world can't get any crazier undecided
FamilyRe: Is This Common Amongst Nigerian Married Women? by slimyem: 2:12pm On Apr 30, 2013
Tgirl4real: Lol.

I know it's not easy, but for me, I'll rather take a walk than result to such.
Oh well..
I was just saying.undecided
FamilyRe: Is This Common Amongst Nigerian Married Women? by slimyem: 2:10pm On Apr 30, 2013
ileobatojo: I'm sorry but am I supposed to be mad at this woman?


*brb*
Yes.she is a slut and her husband,blameless.Remember..men are polygamous in nature so its acceptable cool
SportsRe: Jason Collins: The First Openly Gay Active Sports Man In America by slimyem: 1:16pm On Apr 30, 2013
Bigflamie: K grin
You must be veeeery stup1d or prolly an eediot!!
FamilyRe: Is This Common Amongst Nigerian Married Women? by slimyem: 1:13pm On Apr 30, 2013
"I'll rather take a walk"-so easy to type/say.undecided
SportsRe: Jason Collins: The First Openly Gay Active Sports Man In America by slimyem: 1:10pm On Apr 30, 2013
What a waste!!
I would never understand these gay peeps.
Simonanal,come say hello to your bro!tongue
CelebritiesRe: Emeka Ike And Family - Recent Photos by slimyem: 1:01pm On Apr 30, 2013
Lilimax: Wetin come be your own if fire dey burn under cloth huh
Wish them well so that your own will come. No get bad belle tongue
hello?
Who are you again? huh
HealthRe: Relaxers, Early Puberty Linked To Uterine Fibriods by slimyem: 12:49pm On Apr 30, 2013
Hair relaxers----------------------->Fibroid?
Rubbish!!!!undecided
FamilyRe: My Parent Hate My Husband Because Is A Handicap Man by slimyem: 12:28pm On Apr 30, 2013
Are the the handicapped one or the wife?Your handle says you are male and your previous posts are confusing like you are speaking for both parties.

Anyways,what counts here is that you both are married and happy.Every other thing is by the way.I really wonder why the parents don't want to let go despite what's done's done already and there are no obvious issues except there is something else you are not saying hereundecided
CelebritiesRe: Emeka Ike And Family - Recent Photos by slimyem: 12:19pm On Apr 30, 2013
Na so them go dey deceive us with "happy family" pictures meanwhile fire go dey burn under cloth..undecided
#Oba oke is watching. cool#
FamilyRe: ~ Why Husbands int!mate With Their Maids ~ by slimyem: 12:12pm On Apr 30, 2013
[quote author=Mynd_44]Just when I thought NL cannot desend lower. Now women are making excuses for cheating husbands. See Gobe ooooo.

The truth is that a cheat will cheat no matter what. I have heard some men say the reason they cheat is because their wife is always home and they don't have a chance to miss her. Some men say the wife is always away so they miss her too much. Even the ones married to women who balance things gets cheated one.

Let's be honest here, a dog will always be a dog. There is no way you can defencd or excuse his actions.

And while we are on this issue, i hope the OP and her supporters (The ones that liked that piece of thrash included) can defend a woman who sleeps with the driver cos the husband is always going on business trips
[/quote]Paddy me..take five!! cool
CelebritiesRe: Nigeria's Most Eligible Bachelors & Bachelorettes In 2013 by slimyem: 12:04pm On Apr 30, 2013
masterpiecer: yes it is, and u r a very young woman abi?
hey!
Wassup.
Where have you been?
FamilyRe: Is This Common Amongst Nigerian Married Women? by slimyem: 11:46am On Apr 30, 2013
In my opinion,a spouse's unfaithfulness is the most painful experience that can be inflicted in marriage and its hard enough to restore a marital relationship when the cheating partner decides to give up the affair but harder when he or she is unrepentant like is the case in this story.
...and for the sake of keeping up appearances,she remains but finds a way to keep her sanity.Can't blame her for real.
Is this common among Nigerian women?I can't say per se but i won't doubt it either.Marriage these days has become a game of sorts and charade and infidelity-something cool.cool

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