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biolabee: slimyem.Your opinion bro. If i were to judge,i'd judge both equally. Pity the woman who doesn't deserve that her husband cheats on her and sires kids outside. Pity the man who doesn't deserve it but gets to raise a bastard anyways. The same way its not fair to the woman is the same way its not fair to the man.Its a crazy world. End of! Back to topic. ![]() |
biolabee: I have a question for the women in the houseIts all infidelity.Only number 1 is forgivable if there's true remorse and a "promise" it won't happen again. 2 and 3 are in the same category and as per the question.... ![]() What is "throwing your marriage away"? Opting for this woman's choice or walking away? |
nwando: My dear o ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
I thought this thread was about cheating in retaliation in which case both husband and wife don't mind each others excapades anymore not analysing and debating worse case scenarios infidelity can birth. However,a man who sires a bastard outside the home and the woman who brings a bastard home to her husband are the same IMO.None is worse than the other.It makes no sense to compartmentalize. |
dasparrow: @Postlmao... ![]() Na that one pain you pass? He should better be lucky she didn't attack his power station.![]() |
[quote author=Texas.Cowgirl]I'm sure she'd have knocked out all his teeth if she knew she was going to get 45[/quote]45? I thought the case hasn't been judged yet... |
[quote author=Nuzo']Abeg abeg...make una park well. ![]() That you guys have decided to condone voilence against your gender doesn't mean menfolks are going to do same. The woman in question should thank her god she didn't ra.pe the young man hence we would be advocating for life imprisonment without parole. Or did she ra.pe him? ![]() No offeinse.[/quote]Those days are over bro.That's why we fighting back now.exactly what this woman's tryna say in actions. ![]() Either you be careful or enjoy it when its dished back to you if you serve it cuz its sure gon last. ![]() ![]() |
Tpia, the only Nairalander who preaches and curses concurrently. ![]() Thumbs up o!! |
Is this not the same section where the men want to crucify divorced women for not trying hard enough to keep the marriage and when they want to hear the other side of the story to justify her reasons for leaving? ![]() Your man cheats,you leave him for it-you are crucified! Your man cheats,you do the same-you are crucified too! Your man cheats,you endure,pray, "scabash" and remain unhappy for the most part of your life,you are a good woman who keeps her home. ![]() If whichever ways,one's fried so why not just let everyone make a choice that best suits them? ![]() |
TerraCotta:Thank you.I think its the same for the igbo language too but dunno about Hausa and other tribes/ethnic languages. As for articulate ones,you probably cannot identify them except you understand the language but i know certainly there a quite a number of yoruba speakers who don't adulterate the language when speaking it. A good example is the crop of actors and actresses that make up MAINFRAME movies made in Yoruba language.Rich,deep Yoruba is what they speak not considering a few borrowed words that have been adopted into the language. |
This woman is definitely guilty within reason.The charges should be dropped. ![]() She should be discharged and acquited. ![]() |
imperiouxx: Why should women be treating men like this? God dey ooMen's sins are catching up with 'em.Na the God wey dey since just con dey show hinself.. ![]() |
nwando: But seriously some men deserve heavy slaps.do you know what she has endured?Correct!! ![]() ![]() |
[quote author=Nuzo']The incident was caught on tape. ![]() This woman has to be sentenced to 45 years in prison. We can't continue enduring voilence againt men everyday. Thank god she didn't r.ape the man. [/quote]Why you so mad bro?You been slapped by a woman before? ![]() |
I certainly cannot read this epistle of silliness and lame excuses of a whoring man. Awaiting your reasons for leaving Uloma too in the very near future.I'll bet it'd be something like "she charmed me into marrying her and now,my eyes are open" ![]() Uselesss man!!!*spits* |
They definitely know its an expression of affection.Even if they got it from movies,at least they don't see anyone say those words while landing a slap on whom its directed to. Their minds though little can process those expressions. |
This story is a typical "once upon a aristo" one aimed at some moral lesson of some sort.We'd heard,watched and read too many versions of it. ![]() If its real however,i'd say open up to your husband,face your sins and live with the consequences thereof.You laid your bed. Next please!! |
ileobatojo: Imagine the hypocrisy. The man has slept with more girlfriends than she has changed her weaves yet she is the one getting called names.That's all!!! ![]() |
clue: The way these guys take a poll and then put "world" on it baffles me.Nothing's stopping us from doing so. ![]() |
Tgirl4real: This should be sacarsm, but if I wanna take it otherwise... Men being polygamous in nature doesn't justify him sleeping with every thing in skirt. Haba! Make he pity the life of his wife and kids if he doesn't care about his own.Don't take it otherwise.It is what it is.I'd rather remain indifferent than judge her because i haven't walked in her shoes. I bet she'd have been thrown out,disgraced and probably accused of plotting to kill her husband(the famed line used on cheating wives) if she was the one who cheated first. People have their reasons for remaining in their relationships and marriages and if the paths they choose to walk through makes them sleep at night,then fine.Not anyone's business.The world can't get any crazier ![]() |
Tgirl4real: Lol.Oh well.. I was just saying. ![]() |
ileobatojo: I'm sorry but am I supposed to be mad at this woman?Yes.she is a slut and her husband,blameless.Remember..men are polygamous in nature so its acceptable ![]() |
Bigflamie: KYou must be veeeery stup1d or prolly an eediot!! |
"I'll rather take a walk"-so easy to type/say. ![]() |
What a waste!! I would never understand these gay peeps. Simonanal,come say hello to your bro! ![]() |
Lilimax: Wetin come be your own if fire dey burn under clothhello? Who are you again? ![]() |
Hair relaxers----------------------->Fibroid? Rubbish!!!! ![]() |
Are the the handicapped one or the wife?Your handle says you are male and your previous posts are confusing like you are speaking for both parties. Anyways,what counts here is that you both are married and happy.Every other thing is by the way.I really wonder why the parents don't want to let go despite what's done's done already and there are no obvious issues except there is something else you are not saying here ![]() |
Na so them go dey deceive us with "happy family" pictures meanwhile fire go dey burn under cloth.. ![]() #Oba oke is watching. # |
[quote author=Mynd_44]Just when I thought NL cannot desend lower. Now women are making excuses for cheating husbands. See Gobe ooooo. The truth is that a cheat will cheat no matter what. I have heard some men say the reason they cheat is because their wife is always home and they don't have a chance to miss her. Some men say the wife is always away so they miss her too much. Even the ones married to women who balance things gets cheated one. Let's be honest here, a dog will always be a dog. There is no way you can defencd or excuse his actions. And while we are on this issue, i hope the OP and her supporters (The ones that liked that piece of thrash included) can defend a woman who sleeps with the driver cos the husband is always going on business trips[/quote]Paddy me..take five!! ![]() |
masterpiecer: yes it is, and u r a very young woman abi?hey! Wassup. Where have you been? |
In my opinion,a spouse's unfaithfulness is the most painful experience that can be inflicted in marriage and its hard enough to restore a marital relationship when the cheating partner decides to give up the affair but harder when he or she is unrepentant like is the case in this story. ...and for the sake of keeping up appearances,she remains but finds a way to keep her sanity.Can't blame her for real. Is this common among Nigerian women?I can't say per se but i won't doubt it either.Marriage these days has become a game of sorts and charade and infidelity-something cool. ![]() |
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He should better be lucky she didn't attack his power station.

[/quote]Why you so mad bro?