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Ohthinktwice:
I had this conversation with some of my neighbors (three men) on which addiction was hardest to quit of womanizing, drinking and smoking.


My view was that it was womanizing, but they saw things differently from me and said it was smoking. They said it was easy to quit womanizing once the time for quitting comes, but the addiction to smoking was something else.


I had never smoked a cigarette or the likes before so I couldn't tell how difficult if was to quit, but I had a friend who was once a chain smoker, but once he repented and surrendered his life to God, that was it. The urge died instantly! It was so weird that a friend of his who knew him very well, said if my friend could quit smoking, that he also could quit the habit, because he knew how deep my friend had gone into it, that he himself was like a learner in the act.

That was perhaps what gave me the impression that it may not be that hard to quit the habit but my neighbors begged to differ.


I expect that there are others who may see things differently from us, because I know and have had of people who drink to the point that they become seriously ill but are still not able to quit.


Some others it's addiction to sex or masturbation that has made them to become depressed to the point of wanting to commit suicide, because they find it impossible to quit even if they know it's destroying their lives.


Hard drugs is another strong one which has held many in serious bondage, as some go to extreme lengths to pacify the urge. One married woman started paying for it with her body, by having sex with the supplier, after she had wasted all her life savings on it and no longer had money to pay for it.


Hence it appears that it differs from person to person, as an addiction someone finds hard to quit might be easy for someone else, and vice versa, but what do you think it?

May God help us all.

The hardest of addiction to quit is unfortunately not in the list, gambling and drugs.

Ekejoestar:
Honestly this thing is paining me like seriously, I spoke with my mum today and she narrated to me how those stupid boys went to a restaurant and wasted the effort of the owner like they used knives to slice the wrapped semovita that the woman want to sell and they carried the cooler of rice and poured it into the cooler of beans and mixed everything together and am sure they also poured away the stew and the soup and this woman is not a fulani ooo but a fellow Igbo for that matter..

They should not stop it o, they should enforce it more. Senseless people from the dot. I remember going for hunger strike to protest against somebody that actually want you dead. Is that not stupidity.

constance500:
Ea rating is trash.. So they want to tell me lewa has more physique than Ronaldo

picture may help your judgment

constance500:
Ea rating is trash.. So they want to tell me lewa has more physique than Ronaldo

even Debruney has more than Ronaldo. Check each match state for each player, it's not about display of muscles.

There is one night they woke me up to go and sleep inside the bedroom as I have slept off watching tv in the living room, I just went to the kitchen pack all the used plates, wash them, went to the bathroom and bath and dress up for school, it was when I went back to ask for my pocket money to eat at school that everyone sitting and watching tv start laughing loud seeing me already in school uniform. I still don't understand the reason behind the laugh until several minutes of looking like dummy and it occurred to me that they can not be watching movie in the morning. I can never forget that day.

Stankovic22:
Good evening nairalanders!

This is what happened. A friend of mine who is like a brother to me and has impacted my life positively in every way bought a new car. We work together and live in the same neighborhood so we go-to work together.

It happens that I do sit in front with him always while the third guy stays at the back. So today, on our way back from work, the wife called for him to come pick her and when we got close and stuck in traffic, I decided to vacate the front seat and move to join the other guy at the back but while trying to go my friend was like guy where u dey go... I say I wan create space for Iyawo and he was like Wetin dey worry u, sit down jor but I insisted and went to the back.

So when we beat the traffic and picked up the wife she was like why is the front seat vacant and my friend said... He left the seat for u... The wife was like, please its wrong, that I shouldn't have left.

I was like its your space and I felt it was the right thing to do, to join my other guy at the back before we get to you.

People was I wrong to have vacated the seat?

She probably did not mind but believe me, she will respect you the more, and your friend will never forget that maturity you showed him, you actually show respect to your friend, his wife and yourself. They can never treat you or your wife like a shit never ever. You have done well and the reaction you got from both husband and wife is expected.

verene2660:

How did you guys still get people believe you to waste their hard earned money?

Akonamasi:
IPOB had since discovered that the government wants to hide under gunmen to attack people during sit at home and quickly suspended it. But the people want to sit at home.

This is exactly what the government was planning, now playing out. What is gunmen business with NECO or WAEC. The lack of media representation for Unknown Gunmen creates the opportunity for government to misrepresent them.

Your reasoning is shallow because your motive is sentimental, who and where are the people that the government using to do all these your claimed attack came from? Are they fulani or Hausa or Yoruba people that are breaking banks, police stations and prisons when they arrested them?

Obinna53:
There's this Girl, I love so much,so one Day she went to stay at a Friends place for a justifiable reason.The next Day she came back Home everything was fine but after a couple of Days I noticed how fragile she became and always had this pity face.Then she sat me down one Day crying and told me she wanted to tell me something and Should Forgive her Please and Boom!!! She Told me what ensured between her and the Guy that Night,Right now I am really Moody, I would like to here your Individual Opinion on this Situation and how you handled it, if you had like my Experience, Thank You

Don't make mistake of taking people's opinions here. All relationships are peculiarly different, that your own decision by following your heart. I will forgive my wife even if I caught her redheaded and she is really sorry but I can't tell my friend to do the same because I know the other implications.

Remag666:
Why not one of my clients proposed on phone I nearly wreck am finish

Yahoo guy spotted.

fitzrichard4u:
"Many years back, a man proposed to me over the phone. To make matters more baffling, he proposed via text message. I was weak.

I later asked him if that is how men propose to women in his village and his response was "My father proposed to my mother through NIPOST". And he meant every word." Lol

So ladies and gents, can you make or accept a phone proposal? Lets Discuss

I propose to my wife on phone even though the last time I saw her was over a year before the proposal. We are now married for 5 years and still counting.

Weldon Buhari

Suspect33:
South West and their numerous atrocities
Rape na dem
Yahoo na dem
Agbero na dem
Moda F****ing na still dem

murron, they are foreigners. Learn to read.

The look on his face alone is enough to tell you that he is half devil, anyways women only see through money and selfish purpose.

beautyfunke:
copy and paste..ask Op how many quality from this write up that he possessed?

At least he has done well to pass the good information to others. He has bless people with that gesture. We need to ask you when your own copy and paste ever make front page.

Mr100Dollars:
30 is the most annoying age...

Wait till you get to 50 without direction to life then you can really tell the most annoying age.

It seems we practice Christianity differently from those of the old, broken heart that leads to public confessions and how we overcame our weaknesses has totally gone to extinction, everybody prefer to be seen holy and perfect. I remember posting about how I failed God as sinner even though I was a church goer that time, it's surprising that I received calls from friend and fellowship brethren that I shouldn't be ridiculing myself like that publicly. If we are truly broken and filled with the joy of salvation, there is nothing to be ashamed of, we read about the imperfection of disciples in the bible, if it were to be kept secret be sure that bible will not discuss them. I believe it's meant to help the weak grow spiritually and make us see that we can make mistakes and still be overcome the challenges.
* I OVERCAME STEALING AS A BOY THROUGH THE TESTIMONY OF A BROTHER THAT CHALLENGE ME.
* I OVERCAME MASTURBATION THROUGH THE VICTORY TESTIMONY OF A BROTHER OVER THE SHAMEFUL AND HARMFUL HABIT.
* I OVERCAME GAMBLING THROUGH THE OVERCOMING STORY A SOMEONE I CAN EVEN TAG A SINNER THAT TOTAL STOP THE ACT.
Just in case you are struggling with one sin or any bad habbit that is drowning your Christian life or health, this message is for you. Jesus overcame all principalities and powers when He died on the cross because of you, and the power behind that sin or bad habits are included, believe God, you can overcome that sin too, that bad habbit can actually be totally suppressed and destroyed. Take the bold step of stopping them totally and become totally free. Don't surrender to the force of addiction, through Jesus and determination, You can overcome totally. Shallom.

In MFM, we burn it to ashes after praying on it.

This creativity is loud.

YOU ARE WASTING YOUR TIME ASKING SUCH QUESTION HERE WITHOUT DOING OR SHOWING US CERTIFIED HOSPITAL TEST TO KNOW THE LEVEL OF THE ERROR OR DAMAGE. YOUR PROBLEM CAN EITHER BE IMPOTENTIAL COENDI OR IMPOTENTIAL GENERANDI. GO FOR TEST FIRST AND KNOW YOUR PROBLEM SCIENTIFICALLY. IF SCIENCE FALLS, YOU CAN THEN TALK TO SOMEONE LIKE ME.

Crossroad1:
Let me use my uncle as an example here...

This is a very hardworking man who doesn't drink, doesn't smoke, doesn't watch football and doesn't womanize.
An extreme introvert who doesn't even keep friends but he got married to a very temperamental woman but it wasn't so initially.
Shade (not real name) was very loving when they first met, it was love at first sight..
Though she was the outgoing, party starter type, but she was a good cook, and like egbon said, she can allow him have sex with her anywhere and anytime.

Her promiscuous side wasn't in the open all these while.
How she manage to keep it a secret is still a mystery though egbon is someone who is always busy at work and the wife though a graduate choose to learn hairdressing to keep herself busy.

Shade is a very pretty woman. When I mean pretty, I mean extremely pretty.. If you are seeing her for the first time, you will believe she is an half caste.
But she get angry for no reason, small argument or admonishing, she can just get angry, get out of the house and egbon will looking for her..
Maybe it was because of the beauty or the good food, or the not denying of sex, I don't know (egbon always believe with time, he can tame her) but she had a great influence over egbon..

Even when the family was beginning to notice her bad attitude, egbon choose her over the family cos he really love her, he loved her pass love self...

Egbon wasn't well to do when they met, he was living in a face me I slap you house wherr they share toilet with everyone..

While they live together, it is sometimes 1-0-1 or 0-1-1 or 0-0-1 but she stood by him all through that time..
So they got married despite almost everyone was against it.

The real problem started when she started giving birth.
She threw caution to the wind and became abusive. She was very strict to family members, manipulative and self centered...
She came from a broken home anyways, she was raised by her mother but in all fairness, her mother was a good woman who doesn't love trouble and she often wonder where her daughter got her own skuchy from..
Omo, shade get serious craze o..

After 3 kids, egbon couldn't tolerate her again.. She keep late nights and she doesn't even come home most times.
Egbon endured her for 12years before he let her go leaving the kids behind..

She was free to do whatever she wanted.
Let me just fast forward to years later when egbon has sent his kids abroad, he didn't remarry but kept a girlfriend after years of begging him to do so..

While egbon suffered the torture and torment of his wife, he didn't bring the matter to the family, though they know what he was going through..

Many years later, aunty came back using her kids as excuse.

The flower tattoo she drew on her shoulder was already looking like an ugwu leave during harmattan.
Because she was beautiful, her thoughts everyday was maybe someone like dangote or otedola will just wife her..
She is the lazy type that wants to live the lifestyle of alakija.

This is not a fiction.. How come I know so much?

I started living with egbon when I was 14yrs old. My own eyes too see pepper and shege..

Why egbon endured it all was because of the kids.
Most times, egbon said he wished he can run away but the kids keep holding him down cos even on her kids, she no dey get mercy..
My own wife too na dangbana choko and immediately she gave birth to the second child, I catapult am go abroad. The only diff be say, my own wife can die for her kids..

So let's have it. Why do married men keep quiet and tolerate nonsense in their matrimony?

What prompt me to write this story?
He just called me now from the USA and we talked and laughed about so many things he went through. Even him self now dey claim hard guy and redpill.

I AM YET TO SEE A SINGLE HAIRDRESSER THAT IS NOT A LovePeddler OR WITH BAD HABITS

FutureIsFemale:
What did the mods put the picture of the girl when the law says no public parade or display of suspect?

You won't complain if the victim is a guy. I am double sure of that.

nosiebaba:
You fixed overheating without tracing or addressing what caused the overheating in the first place.
I think your radiator is bad, or the fans are not working , or the water pump is bad.
If its the radiator, change the radiator, maybe the cells are blocked or its expired.
For the radiator fan, tell the electrician you want the fans to be working as soon as you turn the ignition on.
For the water pump, ita unlikely that's the cause.but they should check it

This comment above has fixed the car already. All possible cause and solutions are embedded here apart from village people

kingsolium:
Good morning house, pls I need your views and opinions on this subject matter.

Ok, I currently work with an FMCG Coy in Ibadan as an inventory officer where I earn N175k net on a monthly basis. It’s important to state here that I was living in Lagos prior to my getting this FMCG job.

So, I moved to Ibadan 2 months ago and currently put up with a friend in his apartment while I try to figure out how to move my stuffs to Ibadan on relocation basis. But along the line, I got a job with a big agricultural establishment affiliated to a multinational agricultural firm and I’m being offered N259k for a start excluding other benefits such as airtime(15k) which is different from my main salary.

Also note that the N259k is gross so my take home could be around N230k or thereabouts.

Now here’s the challenge. This new job is in Kaduna(the state capital) and I’ve not been to kaduna before. So, house what do you think about this. I need your candid, sincere and factual advice on this matter.

Thank you

if I were you, I will stay back in Ibadan, I have not stayed in kaduna either but believe me when I say these things. 1. 150k per month in Ibadan is =400k per month in Lagos. 2. If you are a Yoruba man, Ibadan should give you more job security environment than kaduna. 3. If you you already have family or intend to have soon, stay back in Ibadan, your children's future is secured in Ibadan than kaduna. 4. In case you want to start personal business or building project that will need your close monitoring plus peace of mind, consider Ibadan above kaduna.

THE VIDEO OF THE HUNT IS LIKE WATCHING RAMBO 1&2

MrWondah:
This is very mean of Kean.
He can never accomplish what our darling Arsenal accomplished in the past one month.
We lost to Chelsea twice, lost to Tottenham, Man City and thrashed Westbrom.

Now You are "meaner"

lalajnr:
Before you do that return the money you guys looted


Doctors are more important than this fool called leaders

corruption has got to the level where people defend corruption by before prefer to attack the people they hate. Shameless society.

We know CR7 to lack manners from his very first time as a footballer but his skills has always be louder than the bad manners

Please my people, I really want to give time to seeing movie now and I need to start downloading them afresh because I have non on my laptop. Kindly help me if you can

RapistOnBail:

Body go tell 95% of them after them graduate.


Una think say labour market na una mate!

Hmm!

95% of those students on that list are children of very rich people for them to pick covenant university as school of choice and belief me, Labour market struggle is not for most of them.

Airforce1:
Ok so I've been dating my baby mama for 2years and we cool and planning for the future till my father called to question my ability to impregnate a woman.

He went as far as saying if I can't impregnate the girl he always see me with that I should bring her to him to help me out ..

I was like what tha Bleep??

So after that day, tmy mindset changed and I started diving in improtected and that was how I became a baby daddy of 2 beautiful kids.

Your level of childishness is shameful. Even after two kids you have no sense of a dad. Spits