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AdeniyiAr9:
My relationship with my girlfriend is about 7 months old.
Early Las year, she had a little intimate session with a male friend of hers who they attend the same church. That was before we met. They never had sex, (I Know this cos I deflowered her). She told me about this from the outset cos we told each other our past.
She got close to the male friend through one of her besties, a childhood friend and a member of the same church.
Ever since we've been dating I noticed the closeness she still has with the guy. She claims he is just a friend, whereas the guy keeps calling her my love of which she sometimes does reciprocate.
The guy keep wanting to kiss her each time they meet. Infact, the guy wants to sleep with her despite her insistence that she has a boyfriend. The guy disturbance continued till like 2 weeks back after she left nysc camp.
Now this is the issue, last week, she found out that the guy wooed that her close friend and that one is hell bent on dating him. Infact, they are an item already.
From my own observation, the guy is a player. That my babe friend is quite close to me too.
The issue now is, should my babe tell her friend of her one time kissing and touching with the guy to warn her ahead?
I'm thinking the guy switched to the new girl after he failed to get my babe. We've had a big fight over this cos I wonder the secrecy in the first place. Both friends wanted the guy but couldn't tell each other. The guy would have had his way with my babe if I didn't come into her life. But am just worried for my babe's friend
Should she tell her the truth?

You have no business in their relationship...

Just perhaps...very soon, there might be no Nigerian to address if things continue this way

A wise man once told me, "At the long run, we are all dead"

Smokeybrain:
I got it in Kano. TSTV is okay. The only downside is there don't show EPL but shows La Liga....it's okay

La liga...!! That's all that matters to me as a Barcelona fan, I hardly watch EPL matches self, I will deal with Champions League matches at the cinema...But I don't think this increment will affects Onitsha axis...!!

This Iyaebe of a girl don dey get sense small small oO...!! There are atoms of truths littered all over the post because most times, heartbreaks has a direct relationship with hustling, you auto-become more focus in life in the name of moving on...

A wise man once told me : Young boys are getting broke because they keep playing the role of a husband in a relationship...!!

Anyways...A SIMPle man will always learn the hard way...!!

jawalis:
Everything is damn fake. How could your sister fight and have her way among seven men? Tell me. She be van-damn?
She used her to remove Bab wires, really?
Those guys now slept when they discovered she didn’t sleep, uncle easy now. Why will they sleep when their victim is not sleeping? Lots of lies not adding up

Lol... I just realized wonder woman is from Nigeria but the painful of all lies was that they safely put her in a taxi back to Awka...

Anyways....we will take the content and filter out the lies....!!

LordIsaac:
The teacher's knowledge of computation of result is flawed. He/she needs training. Go and complain.

He/she is not, her total scores was below 96/100 and they are all A and excellent...!! After all, she is only in nursery 2 where everyone seems bright

ufotunang:
...and the small boy is doing the threat to igbos from abroad... Finland... nawaoooo...let him come to the South East of nigeria and do the threat

E go collect naw...!!

The problem is that even if civil servants decides to move out on Mondays, Traders and customers will stay put due to fears of being attacked by hoodlums in the name of enforcing sit at home...

See the small boy that is even threatening millions of Igbo to sit at home every Monday...!! Kai, nawa oooO

matrixme:
If this story were any true, I'll advise you to cut off the friendship and move on. Perhaps they've told him that you and your cousins are leeches that are running down his business gradually and could one day launch a big bang. There is no way he's going to ever trust you again.
So for the sake of your sanity and peace of mind (if you value it, that is), cut him off and forget literally about him. Don't try to repair the friendship, unless of course, you are truly a leech. Emi laye mii, I will NEVER ever beg anybody for friendship. Nothing lasts forever.

spot on bro...!! OP, this should be your best bet...!!

Clitocurrency has more value than Cryptocurrency...!!

Bad news coming in from Kenya of recent but not as bad as this Country called Nigeria...!!

Try this one for Naija or my area...We will just get gas, kettle and ladder and make sure he sees when we boiling the hot water, the climb ladder small and pour the water on him and wait for reaction...!!

All this yarns ontop a wife that might likely still cheat on you or give you eternal stress until divorce...?? NooO!! we don't do that here

MGeey:
He is not even a football fan . Only watches if he sees it. He only watches discovery, inventions and documentaries

issorite...lucky you, because if I'm the one, we for get serious problem that Tuesday

siofra:
I just say make I tell una.

Never leave a good woman because she mistakenly slept with another man Thank you

I shaah know the reason the mod decided to push this trash to FP, so that you will chop enough insults and bashing...!!

MGeey:
My husband gave me 10k for DSTV subscription, I added 9k and paid for TSTV dish/decoder. Let me see how bad it is after installation.

Until your husband wants to watch Champions League matches on Tuesday but couldn't because you didn't sub... I just hope he's not a Chelsea fan tho

COMPAQ:
Are you daft? Whose fault is it that their is no electricity!? Dstv!? Instead of you to face your government that makes electricity impossible, you are blaming dstv.

Some peoples logic ehn

DSTV worker spotted

Omo no time... I boycott anything that exceeds my financial capabilities

Sweet...My club is making me proud in all ramifications

finson:
Good day all,

I was working in Lagos as expatriate. I am married and she was fully aware at the beginning of the relationship.

I had sex with my gf on the 6th day and I pulled out.

I told her that month that my contract has been terminated by my company and I have to go back to my country.

On 27th day I met her (5 days before leaving the country) and she asked me if I am sure that I pulled out on time when we had sex last time and I told her yes and she told me that she is asking the question because she has not seen her period.

When I left the country 2 weeks later I chatted her and I asked if she is doing well. She told me that she is not fine. I asked "why ?" And she told me that she is pregnant. I was very surprised and I called her. That day she told me that she was just joking with me she is not pregrant and we talked about everything.

Last week she told me that she is pregnant. She shared with me a test results on a paper where the date of the pregnancy perfectly matches with the date we had sex.

She told me that if her family is aware of the situation they will disowned her and she immediately shared with me some requirements to apply for a job in UK where 2 million NGN are required and she asked me for support. She also deleted the image of the tests results.

When I asked her to share with me she told me that she does not want me to be in trouble if my wife see that document in my phone. I insisted to get a copy and I told her that she can be assured I will not keep it in my phone. She shared back the document after cropped the letterhead. I insisted to get the full copy and she sent another one after striketrhoughed on her name.

I told her that I don't think in Nigeria the only option available for a woman who gets pregnant is to travel to UK even if her family will disown her. I understand that the situation is not comfortable but there could be other options. Even this process to go to UK can be unsuccessful, and if it is the case, this amount of money would have been lost.

I am not from Nigeria and this story seems suspicious to me. I am currently abroad, there is no way I can verify what she is telling me. I don't also want to open it some of my friends there.

To be honest, I never planned after I left the country to cut communication with her or to support her. But I prefer to support her whenever I have the opportunity to do. I don't know now if this story about the pregnancy is true or not.

If you have any experience in this kind of situation please share with me. Any advice is also welcome.
Please don't judge me.

Tell her not to worry, that you have a doctor friend in Nigeria that will come pick her up and run a test on her...!! The observe how she will flare up...!!

I'm still trying to connect the correlation between pregnancy and travelling outside with 2m...!!

Guderian:
She got pregnant for you, the first thing for her was to check the requirement to go UK and work that is desperation. She is more desperate to go to uk more than anything. If it was a nigerian based guy that pregnanted her will she be requesting that
But you should also support her since you got her pregnant.

Next time keep your tin in ur pants

From the post that girl is not pregnant, na format to extort the guy...

achimendy:
Is like you don't know women. When dey do it the first time and it worked, they will keep on doing it , because they see it as means of controlling their man. Women know how to get the mind of some men.
How can someone who said she wont cook and she's not hungry finally decided to eat after watching movies. Which sane man will be happy with that?

Yea... that's a very much reason he should have given her a benefit of doubt...

Omo, I do it sometimes when the aroma of the food is just too much to ignore

TheOldGods:
We have been dating for a while now. Been coming to my house and my parents knows her. Normally she visits and sleeps over and ofcourse because she is my guest ,I'll have to give her food etc.


So today I decided to be different. I told her I was hungry and if she was, ofcourse she hurried and said yes, dresses up and jumped in my lexus. I just smiled, and started the car and we drove to a restaurant.

Before we got down from the car, I told her that I don't want to spend more than 3k on the meal between the both of us, and I told her to handle it, which she said fine, and split the fees to 1500 each. She got her food and a huge chicken which everything was 1500 naira on her end, and I got swallow which was about 1050 naira on my end. And the total money was 2550 naira. Then suddenly my girlfriend told me she also wants plantain, that the money is not yet upto 3k. That it must reach 3k. I was shocked because, if we were married then she can't help me save money when I tell her let's cut down cost. I thought she would even be happy that she saved me money and now we didn't send upto that 3k. But wow.

The waiter wanted to take the food and add the plantation of 450, but I refused and told her to collect her payment as we were done ordering.

My so called girlfriend then got angry and decided to seat somewhere far away from me, and we didn't see each other till I was done eating, although she waited for me. To my surprise she didn't eat that food, she packaged it back in a takeaway bag, and kept it for me. I asked her why she didn't eat the food she ordered by herself which was already 1500, as we agreed, and she said she won't eat it, and I took the food back. I ate the food myself with the chicken.

Right now, I don't want to take this relationship serious. Did I do the wrong thing by not allowing her spend the remaining money and making it 3k? Which ofcourse was the remaining money from my own food.?

Baba you did very well...!! Ignore those pvssy nigg*s saying otherwise, That's greediness mehn...!! She couldn't even support herself with common ordinary #450...

Truly: who no get girlfriend get peace of mind...

In as much as you wanna exercise your manly authority at home, you should have let her eat and let her conscience be the judge... Perhaps she might be having headache but you allowed your stomach and emotions to get the best outta you...

Invictuse:
But the Pandora criminal should not denounce his n apologize for his Pandora looting ba ? When they say many of Igbos are extremely foolish you are a typical example of the foolish one.

Over 60 people died and many injured but yet the Igbos are still your problem...!!

Sannisege:
I guess that you are one of the useless people

Actually, I'm not, but I can't say the same for you, because it's quite obvious your conscience lies with the useless Nigerians...!!

Viewing this thread made me realize inspite of the hardship and insecurities, we still have useless people littered all over Nigeria...!!

UYEMDO35:
you simply can't approach any lady that's the reason you still holding onto her because you just want to feel among those that has GF...

U see am talk well, I just wanna feel belong DAT is why am still with her.

bro I can relate, but it's crystal clear that girl is out to milk and manipulate you, end that ship before it consume you...

UYEMDO35:
It seems she using love portion on me, I just couldn't breakup with her.... She was here at my place and I couldn't say what is bothering me.

Oga keep kwayet, nothing like love portion, you simply can't approach any lady that's the reason you still holding onto her because you just want to feel among those that has GF...

I even found this laughable that you are even thinking of breaking up in a relationship you have been dating yourself for long now, you are just that simp helping out financially...

If they no value you, atleast value yourself...!!