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Nothing wey Adele nogo see for the other side....

When illiterates are in charge of decision making, things like this are bound to happen....

robertmugabe:
No sir, I have not given up but everything revolves around "HOPE" which has been my therapy since 6 years ago and still counting...

Just believe bro... God will see you through
I suggest u relate this things with her, u may be marveled with the kinda ideas she might come up with just so u can grow financially....

robertmugabe:
Pls moderator, help a brother by pushing this to front page...thanks


I am writing this with sadness of mind and a sense of worthlessness. Standing tall to see my self as a loving man that lacks capacity to take care of his lovely woman by averagely acceptable standard continues to tie me to perpetual tragedy that can only be wiped out only, as of now, if miracle happens. This decision I am about to take is like committing suicide but at this point in time, it is worth taking, in the spirit of selflessness. I have a very beautiful girlfriend, so charming, respectful, well mannered, God-faring, submissive, caring to me like my mother would, not money freaked and above all, consistently committed to Gods things. I can boldly say, she is fit into the dream woman of any sensible man alive. I do love her dearly and in her I found a cushy and scenery environment that persistently dispense a fragrance of love comfort.

As it is, I am 32 years old, dangling in the middle of hopelessness of everyday living and meagre finance that hardly accommodate my personal feeding and support my struggling activities to make fortunes. I have been struggling and trying hard to hit the jackpot and yet to no meaningful results. You know life can be so brutally funny especially for those who comes from the lower cadre of the societal strata.

I can hardly point to anything tangible I have brought to the table since the inception of the relationship which is running to a year and four months now. This sometimes calls me to shame and constantly configure me to think of not worth the girl at all. Till today, some of my friends still they tell me say ah get luck with my babe. How else should I describe a babe who is in the middle of many compelling and intimidating options and yet still firmly stand by me.

As I am writing, I am planning to breakup with her for a number of reasons which are summarily analysed into two;

1) I can not afford her to be the first to breakup with me when the time to do so presents itself. Though I am not sure of this but I once had a dream in this regard.

2) Even if she decides to stay and marry me, I can not afford watching her living a tattered life which i can only afford for now. And if care is not taking and I insistently decide to take her under my roof, I may be forced to engage in illegality to scoop money that can take care of her soft textured skin and at least propel our union to standard.

Some may call my decision a product of inferiority complex but I call it an act of selflessness.

It is far from my wish and a sad one at it, to take this decision of alienating my self from someone after my heart, from someone that i think of almost at every idle moment and from someone who has seen my naked soul completely many times over. However, if I really do love her, then it is just doubtlessly and fundamentally worthwhile to take the decision to save someone I love and somebody's daughter from impending rough and emaciated household economy. I am not a pessimist though. I am just a realist. If ah eventually make ham and she is still available and I am still available as well, maybe we can still come back together, but if she is taken, then so be it, but I promise to stand firmly by her in any scheme outside her matrimonial relationship...

I LOVE MY OLUWATOSIN...

Pls how best can I breakup with her ?

Hmmm....So touching
Well most guys falls into this category, ain't easy losing a girl u love that loves you as well just because of circumstances....
But from your post, it seems you have given up on life already, well what you need is to focus, just a minute can turn things around for you....

Wetin i wan even type self....
Let me just wait for the elders to arrive.....

That point 3.... Doesn't apply in all cases, the way u react ain't the same way another lady will react to sex matters

They should just start another Premier league now, LiVARpool already won this one

mrpoul:
I'm Confused, I Don't Want To Lose Her

There is this girl that I met in lecture theater, we sat down together, we chatted but it was concerning the lecture.

After the lecture, I disappeared because I'm this kind of very shy person, I didn't know what to talk to her aside the lecture.

So I saw her on Facebook, I added her and chatted her, up. It happen that evening I wanted to go eat in a restaurant, I told her she can join me jokingly. Surprisingly, she came, we talked but it was mostly about me and herself. After, we finished eating, I told her to come and know my place, but when she came I was nervous and she did not stay up to 5 mins. I told her we need to go, that her roomie maybe worried about her. The next day when she saw me in school, she was excited to see me.

After then our communication sucks, I will call her and be asking all this boring questions, before I know it, sometimes she will see my chat and will not reply. Now I'm confuse, I don't know what to do again. I don't wanna lose her.

What do you suggest I do from here? pardon my grammatical blunder.

It's very easy, 2 things are involved here
1. It's either you are still young, asin very young/over grown baby OR
2. Your head is blank....Asin it lacks basic ideas to flow in communication...

Just be yourself, na talk dey bring talk

The problem with people is that they have decided to personalize betting like an office job, check those lamenting about betting, they virtually fall into this category....
Take bet as fun and watch how ur earnings increase massively, fun in the sense that u already know the outcome of losing is 90% but yet u have hope in 10%...Fun in the sense that it isn't an operation I must win big this week....Fun in the sense that u don't have to borrow or sell your properties just to bet, Fun in the sense that u only use ur spare cash to bet, for instance I only spend like minimum of 2K for betting weekly( after all na money wey i for use take beer, so lemme see if i can invest) so win or lose am still satisfied because it won't take away anything from me at all, meanwhile that money will be replenish back to me even in my sleep...

So cool down & hustle, make sure u have something fetching u little income, then map out some percentage for betting and stick to it, u will be marveled...But i advice you leave betting completely if you are too emotional, Cos u go cry tire

zurielsam:
I started betting some months ago when i passed my JAMB with the hope that before i get admission i would have hit it big to be able to sponsor myself but reverse is the case because betting only took all the little money i have. Now have gotten admission but all i have is 10k even that 10k i have to keep it with someone in order not to use it to stake its not even enough for the acceptance of 20k now all what my family are saying is that i have to pay the acceptance and fee myself before they can support me. Right now i dont care if i forfeit the admission or not, all i want is a way to stop because it has gotten to the extent that any money i see i will stake with it no matter what. i often see how @ipobarecriminals try to discourage people from gambling guys the guy is saying the truth o. Those of you that are in my shoe before please tell me how you stop it.

Bros.... The best advise is the one you give to yourself
You can stop it if u want to....

Shey if they had stabbed him to death, it would be because of kpekus abi, Me fight over a girl as per say her kpekus na gold ni, Nonsense and they no break am well self....

It's well tho...If i talk now, they will say it is hate speech...
Lemme wait for the elders

laplace19:
Yes oo, I stopped keeping late nights so as not to fall into his hands and get my car snatched or robbed by him. Umuahia is not that big so one might be unlucky to meet him during his operations. I personally went to the state CID to see his dead body. Thousands of people in umuahia trooped in to confirm he's dead. The guy worry shaa

So u mean to tell me this small boy terrorize a whole state, the members of those community are aware of barbaric behavior yet "Una no give am community beating"?? Kai... Abia guys don fall my hand last last

namiji2598:
if u really think, you are educated, create a thread for debate between me and u and see how this aboki go beat u handsdown, stop being stupid and face ur hustle, northern universities are far ahead of southern universities when it comes to quality education, stop being a village champion that u ar, talk a walk around the country and see things for ya fucking self...idiot

A thread to debate on what exactly.... Please be specific, so we can drag that guy to come and finish what he has started....

zoghys:
A whole family you say, please don't sectionalize the corrupt leaders that have come to run this country overtime. Buhari is just taking over from the rot of sixteen wasted years of the opposition party. Virtually all of them who dine at the corridor of power have their wards in different schools around the world, while they milk the poor to fatten their family. Stop laying the blame squarely on the door step of buhari alone, previous administration has done unimaginable damages to the future if this country. The restructure of the country has been maligned to favour the rich and powerful and there is absolutely nothing we can do about it, until revolution is achieved, though it could take a more liberal form. Simply put until we reason beyond party affiliation, ethnic diversity, cultural difference and social status, nigeria will always maintain the status quo.

Is this the tactics u chose to come up with just to defend this nitwit administration?? Common!! u can do better, Quick reminder, most of this present APC members were formally members of PDP, so that makes ur point baseless and therefore inconsequential cos they are all dsame people....
Buhari came with a mantra "Change" but nothing has been done for the past 5yrs other than increment in almost every goods and services including suffering and hardship for the poor masses that sheepishly joined that bandwagon in glamouring for change & fortunately they got more than what they deserve because they forgot change can be either Negative or Positive....

Last last we go get sense for this country

rexwalters:
Unless Ngige leaves Apc, He is your next Governor, Oshiomole, Amaechi, and Jagaban have assured Mr Minister of the Governorship, Obiano is about to jump ship, too much in fighting in Apga is about to destroy it.
Ngige's time has come, he is about to reclaim his unfinished mandate.

You are not far from been correct tho.... But i don't like the way Igbos are practicing partisan politics in Anambra state just because APGA is ojukwu's legacy

Kennyswagzz:
goan meet UN to grant you your request

The North are hating....
The hatred for Igbo's from the Western side is quad more than the Northern counterpart....
What we just need is MoU to dissolve this Country... E don tire everybody

Emedu:
APC will win if care is not taken

Even if care is taken... APC can never win in Anambra state... Jukwe se! !

[quote author=wwwihy post=84592891]Anambra has no billionaire. Stop using billionaire as cheap word.[/quote]The hate is just too much....
Keep on wailing....

The hate for Igbo's is just too much.... Yet I wonder why they have blatantly refuse to grant them their request.... Ndi ara Ndi ara.....!!

zibya:
Oga IPOB just made the biggest mistake of their lives and alot of innocent ibos will suffer the consequences

Which biggest mistake? FG already have Boko haram and Fulani headers to deal with, I just hope they don't add another sect....

Godiloveu:
That bribe award that he is collecting every year, Messi shud do something different for once n let's see how can achieve it without Barcelona or FIFA....anofia! Azuzu! Ole!

You people are just so amazing....
First it was Xavi helping him... Xavi left Messi still balling...
Next they said it was Iniesta... Iniesta left Messi still balling as usual...
Now it's the whole Barcelona team.... All of you are mad... Ndi ara Ndi ara

So Messi should leave FCB before he can prove to you & other morons he's the best abi...Una go wait tire

There is a saying "when u get to the TOP, u stay at the Top" Where was other clubs when Barcelona gave him the life & platform he's living, Most of them avoided him like plague even Arsene Wenger... until Rexach came into the picture....
Una go cry tire, as am typing this now, over 365 Geepee tanks (Biggest size) was filled with tears btw yesterday night and this evening, we still have about 500 more tanks to go, So make una continue dey Cry...!! Ndi ara Ndi ara!!

[quote author=Godiloveu post=84586232]That bribe award that he is collecting every year, Messi shud do something different for once n let's see how can achieve it without Barcelona or FIFA....anofia! Azuzu! Ole! [quote]

monkautos:
Ronaldo is the greatest player ever. Best player in England Best player in Spain Best player in Italy
Tell me who has ever done that..Ronaldo has conquered all Europe...
Greatest ever

Best player in which Spain and Italy.... E be like say Cobwebs don enter your brain abi....

Beverlyjean:
Which argument has ended ?? Someone that hasn't won anything for his nation or won CL in 5yrs .... Messi is a fraud and is like buhari and apc that is being favoured by the judges

You go cry tire....
Better go and face tele mundo

AlphaStyles:
u say benz no Dy exotic? Madam watin hit u for head this morning?

Don't mind that one, He/she think say benz automobiles finish for the usual one for their local street....

IdioticNLmods:
Don't act dumb.. Those doesn't count

Stop crying bro.... It changes nothing

UnitedNigeriaUN:
Shorop...

We'll be back next season...

Yea.... With the goal he defended yesterday, i think he should have won the award

Well deserved....

Offpoint:
Oh please, that guy's annoying...

I don't dislike cuz of the political party he affiliate himself with, I dislike him cuz COMMENTING 100 times on 1 thread and commenting on every thread... it's annoying as cow prick in soup.

Lol.... now i get

In this our era.... 2 seconds everywhere don burst!!

zicoraads:
He's an e-diot.

Core APC or not.

Lol.... One can easily agree with you on this when it comes to political matters, I still can't believe APC gat huge fan base with the current situations

Offpoint:
This annoying prick BBQ is back again, couple of days I didn't see IT on nairaland I thought IT was hit by a bus while delivering its dead beef to an innocent customer...


I honestly don't know why bus drivers are too careful these days.

op! on your predicament, I don't like typing epistle. just use your head.

Help Him get a better job, when they fired you were you are... Mr X will help you get a job at were you recommended him. it's a simple stuff.


Too much sense go finally kill me one day

But on a more serious note.... BBQ is a good person, his response on this forum are always top notch, his only crime is that he's a core APC fan