₦airaland Forum

Twoclans:
Laugh wan give me bow leg,my dear life is not usually a straight line . While I was reading your comment I actually thought you will see the reason why the other lady was driven away but you allowed your ego to speak out more. My dear the possibility that any guy will drive a girl he has been nurturing and is yet to sleep with is a zero.I was a virgin then and he knew. After waiting for me to get matured he will throw everything away walahi na lie.


@ my dp she is one of my hottest models ,great body .

Hmmm...I now perfectly understood from his own perspective, because just like me, I don't break Virgins, but what u can't convince me or anyone is that he was loyal to you during ur r/ship....
#Goodluck tho in your current ship

Kingsley10000:
the guy don dey fuvk tey tey

Ah swear....

osamson:
I was a victim, I read my girlfriend's chat while she thought she was charging her phone.
Then I saw: 'one time sex isn't enough' on one of her chat contact - someone who she often told me was her cousin. I did a screenshots of the chats and sent it to my phone deleting it from hers.
I didn't say anything immediately, infact, I took her out the next day after I saw the chat. Then I waited two days after thinking about the whole issue whether to get my share and flee. But I opened up, she wanted to act smart but I had to let her know what's up, she later started crying and begging. Story cut short...
I just wanted to prove to her that my love for her was genuine, so I forgave her and we moved on.

Why won't you forgive her when u haven't collected (in your word) your own share

Twoclans:
@ OP the answer is yes ,I was dating one of the hottest guys on campus while I was at the university .The relationship was not a sexual one just normal hugs and sweet talks but yes I loved him to the moon and back .

He was a lectures kid and stayed in the parents boys quarters ,I am the type that when I date you I can count how many times I will ever come to your apartment I have that character up till tommorrow.This faithful day I just decided to go to his house ,I knocked and went in hmmmmmm my guy had imported chic for the night .I just drew a seat and sat down in my mind we die here today .After ten minutes he had to tell the lady to leave ,that girl hated me from the depth of her heart after that incidence. And i enjoyed myself for a long time with the plenty begging , petting and blackmail from my end.

Guss what?After that incidence we still went on to date for so long until destiny played a trick on us, we are still the best of friends .

UNN Bello Hall room 327 will never forget our love affair .

One thing u should understand about Men is that if you deny them sex, they will definitely get it somewhere else....lemme ask you this "If Sex is not Important in a Relationship, then why is Cheating Painful"?? U lucky he's not my kinda guy, I swear i would av chase u away from that room, You can't deny me of Sex and at the same time i will not also cheat in peace.... But on a second thought, you dated one of the Hottest guy on Campus without sex, my dear the unapologetic truth was that u were dating yourself....
#Nice DP tho

WriterX:
lol I understand you brother.

Don't mind me am sounding this way shaah, as innocent as my heart, na 2 babes take am do yeye, So i trained myself to expecting anything from any girl...

WriterX:
lol are you supposed to just walk up straight to a girl stranger and propose to her then , is marriage your criteria for cheating?

See ehh... I don't know how u see it, but i feel no one should be kept in bondage all in the name of a certain ship like GF/BF, u want her, then put a ring to that finger....If not u both are free to live your normal lives however u wants it

sochey:
Errr..... If you find out that he/she is cheating, you be patient. Ask questions why, everyone has reasons why he or she does anything. If the reasons doesn't add up, the ball is in your court.


Blimey!!

Every cheating relationship ends up in shackles...

Be patient abi & ask questions lwkm.... Guys go so use ur heart play golf bdat

As long as you ain't married to such person...Forget it, it ain't Cheating.....!!

TommyAnthem:
No worries, let them impliment it, soonest they will be out of government and the same law will be used against them, law of karma is a constant.

If this bill is implemented, just watch how transfer windows will open immediately....Almost all Polithiefians will divert to APC!!
But it's so heartbreaking that in a Country of so many worries & problems to tackle, the government are deliberating of hate speech which is the same chariot they rode on just to clinch power.....!!
This bill is to silent & suppress the masses, oppress the opposite parties and to weaponize power just because they are currently top of the food chain

So cute

lahizak:
Where you are wrong is that a school first and foremost supposed to protect the student and either you like it or not the girl is a victim. She may be stupid but she is a victim and as far as we are concerned, she did not break the rules of the school. Sex between adult outside a school is not a crime, is not like she steal or kill someone. A video meant for there eyes that got leaked is a violation of her privacy. And either you like it or not her action have no effect whatsoever on the school.
And how will you compare school institution, a place for teaching and learning to work place that pays you salary. So u saying if you and your guy have sex and stupidly make a video and it got leaked, ur office and any other association you know should disown u. Just 4 making a stupid mistake. Na wa oo

What is this one even saying, someone fvcked up big time, the school treated the fvck up accordingly and u are here wailing...
Anyways it's very simple, try it in your workplace and watch how they gonna kick ur fuvking ass out from that organization.... so for instance... instead of punishing Criminals, they should start going after those that reported the criminal abi....

armadeo:
Babcock is first and foremost a Christian school. Therefore Christian values are to be expected. Yes there is hypocrisy that's why I said rule 11 is important.

Now imagine a banker who is a fraudster will you keep your money there?

Imagine a fast food place that's gets tagged for bad food causing running stomach, will you eat there.

I remember one day on nairaland where someone posted about a charger he bought from one company and complained about it. That same day the company contacted him and replaced the charger with plenty photo shoot.

That is what branding means.

Babcock university cannot afford to sit on the fence on this one. A student was involved in some form of porn, a school whose core values is spirituality. How will you judge the school? As a failed entity, same way you will judge the bank as unsafe, same way you will avoid eating at a joint that gives everyone diarrhoea.. the brand name is smeared...


And they cannot afford that... the person or group who even suspended her might all have thier own sex tapes too but they've obeyed rule 11 for now.

God bless you bro for this comments, I wonder why fully grown adults will chose to condemn a school for expelling their own student for immoral activities that went viral, whether in school or outside the school premises....Maybe the school should have awarded her scholarship!!

studentofTruth:
You didn't show me what I asked for.

Weed smoking is a crime both within and outside the school premises. A private consexual sex is not a crime outside the school premises. It would be against the school's rules if done inside the school premises, but outside the school premises when the school is on break, a private consexual sex is not an issue.

Now, an irresponsible boyfriend leaked a private affair; he committed a crime against the girl. she's the victim here and not the offender. Instead of helping her seek justice, everyone is condemning — this is beyond hypocrisy, it's betrayal!

I can't stop laughing at this ur comment....
If only u applied knowledge in your reasoning, maybe your comment might as well made little sense....!!
So u expect the school authorities to remain silent over a viral video that has the university name attached to it irrespective of where and how the act was perpetuated...?? Nawa ooO!! And moreover the school has no part to play in seeking justice or investigating those that released the video because it's none of their business at all....

ursullalinda:
Ah.....expelling a girl because of sex is wrong.....that is a school not a church.....I'm just feeling for her parents

So u expect the school to pretend or play deaf ears to the viral video?? What should they have done?? give her scholarship for having sex on cam i guess.... The way we reason things in this Country shaah

Benclever1:
Hello everyone.

So I met this girl through a mutual friend and we started bonding. Initially, I didn't take the friendship seriously because this lady is a little older than me and I do not see any future between us.

Now, things got more intense between us. She visited me one time, one thing leading to another, we were in bed, about to have sex and then I pulled out the condom but she refused, insisting that she doesn't enjoy sex with condom. I was very surprised to hear that, so I tried to make her see reasons why the condom is very necessary. She adamantly refused. We ended up not having the sex that day.

Just last week she visited again and we spent the night together. We tried to have sex again but the same issue came up again. She insisted I must not used condom. Now this got me upset. During the conversation that ensued, she made it very clear to me that she does not have any STD/STI so I should not be afraid. She however admitted that she was ovulating and that the chances of getting her pregnant was high, but that I should not worry that she'd take care of herself and the pregnancy, if it happens. She said that she would not force me to get involved with the baby if I don't want. However, she made very clear that she's not ready to get married. This got me confused.

I don't want to let my guards down by indulging in unprotected sex with someone I don't trust. I also do not want to hurt her feelings. So I plan to take her for medical tests next week and then we can kick it off from there.

What's your advise for me.

Thank you.

Daughter's of mass destruction... Op if i should advise you, Japa oO, nobi every river them de swim this days...

Oshigun:
Please shut up and stop showing the world you are lawless and perhaps even a dishonest blogger or Yahooze. If you don't use social media fraudulently and are ready to stand accountable for what you put online, so far as it is not falsehood or overt manipulation of the truth for your own agenda, then you have nothing to worry about.

Don't come her talking as if only Politicians will benefit from this bill. It will protect more ordinary Nigerians in my opinion to include yourself. If someone puts your full name online claiming you robbed their shop, when this is a deliberate and malicious lie, should they not be punished for defaming your character and attracting negative reactions toward you?

I guess u are one of those that always tend to believe whatever this administration puts out....
As long as u are in power, there must be critics from opposition & masses especially when the government are failing woefully, the best you can do is to prove them wrong not by using your position in power as a weapon of suppression and oppression

DonFreshmoney:
When they will say dont go and fucck.. students would not hear word...

I suspect the friend infact police must arrest the friend. He is guilty based on my investigation instinct

Bro i can vouch for that friend that he has nothing to do with their death apart from leasing out his room willingly....
I did my diploma in Okopoly those years before switching to a Uni,Bros ehh,they de Fuvk don't be silly for that school as if it's a course on it own, in fact guys even gat a favorite slangs like "men I get FUC 202 this evening oO, make i go do press up"

If the woman is financially stable, with thorough investigations, her son will be found, but if otherwise, Am sorry to say it's bye bye to her son, because Mr Abdul & his cohorts will always understand.... Such a cute son

Tulsaguy:
Jumia is an explosive fraud, I know it will soon explode. Jumia sold me a Snickers looking radiant and good online, only for me to receive rubber Snickers when I eventually got it..... Jumia na fraud.

Lwkm....!! chai.....!! if na me, na a whole community kings for separate our fight that day

NonFarmPayrol:
Things like shoes and clothes I cant just buy them online

I can't even patronize them anymore, like the whole Nigerians are complaining on their page on media and it's a dent on the business owners, i saw the complains o, still went ahead to order, then i remembered my of my hommie's quote "You won't know the effects, until it starts affecting you"

nedekid:
Its not their fault. It is that of the trader that advertised his substandard wares on their platform. Hope you returned it and got a refund.
Even with alliexpress, Amazon etc you have same issues hence jumia has to confirm from the buyer the product sold is as advertised before releasing payment to the seller.

If i got a refund, i wouldn't complain one bit naw, when the product was delivered to i complain bitterly, the agent started stating some refund policy that wasn't convenient with me, and i was supposed to leave town in 2days time, so i just accepted my fate...

ednut1:
same thing happened to me. I later dashed the shoe to my neighbors gateman. The business model is flawed. Spends too much on adverts but most of the products are low quality. Even leather belt i bought from iya risi since 2015 still dey intact . The one i got from jumai had lasted 6 months. Na the investors i pity . Their money is gone

Asin ehh....they thought they deceived me, they don't know they only succeeded in corrupting my mind for further transactions

Just take a look at the small boy that opened a very lucrative office ontop u and ur papa head, I don't know what u want nairalanders to do for u, shey na make we go fight Soldier between, better handle the case with care & avoid private meetings with him, Okwa maka Ndu gi oO

Why are u helping someone that choose to be silly to cover her face?? Anyways the video is all over my whatsApp status....

ogbuefi677:
Maybe he should've stood at attention.
Mumu blogger.

Lol.... asin eeh, the Lady 'Joi John' sounds dumb, their sitting arrangements shows they mayb watching something on the telli....!!

sssoulw:
u dey mad

Bro eh... U see this Messi vs Ronaldo arguments, it has no ending because no fan is willing to give up....
Lovers of good football will always prefer Messi who controls the tempo of the game, assist and score goals all by himself ....while Lovers of goals will always prefer CR7 who is ever waiting for Food is ready to tappin & take all the glory, to them after all, football is all about goals

oluwatosink:
If na to dribble player I give it to him

What about tappins??

The Real Goat...... Not one self acclaimed goat waiting 2yards at the goal post waiting for tappins

One can't disagree with her on this, Most Nigerians don't even know what they want...
In fact we are all mad in this Country....!!!

Na them sabi, after Jumia sold substandard shoes packaged as Original & Classy to me at costly price, Since that day, it occurred to me that i know the locations of different Boutiques & Markets around town....

adanny01:
I know you're a coolguy4christ but your bar has been set too high especially for this girl.

The fact that she broke off with you, hooked up with another and came back to you means she doesn't agree with your no sex relationship status. She was just putting up to you because she liked you and know you are a good guy.

2ndly, the reason there is a white or black lie is that some lies are important while others are not, you should be able to differentiate. This girl lies to you because of who you are. She has done things shes not proud of and she knows you will not like it. Yet, to prevent doing more bad things to you (keeping a secret), she came clean. As far as am concerned, she is a better person than you who "claim" to be self righteous but judge other peoples actions.

You set your own rules and its easy for you but you dont want to know how it is not easy for you partner. You will make a bad husband since you care only about yourself, your desires, your satisfaction and your religion.

Maybe she broke off with you because she needed sex which didnt give. You didn't give her sex and didn't know her problem or cared to find out and encourage her to remain celibated. You forced your lifestyle on her and expect her to suck it up.

Op, enough of the rules and being judgemental. She sounds like a stronger person than you give her credit. Work on yourself and help her become the person you want her to be. She knows you, she has put up with you, appreciate her and do the needful.

Bro u need an award for this statement.....!! You have said it all

coolguy4christ:
I did not sleep with another girl whilst we were apart, in fact since we got back, I have not slept with her. It's a no-sex relationship.

And this was where the issues began in your relationship.....