Fountainofyouth:


Lol don't bother convincing me cos you and I know I don't believe you.

Experience speaks

Only if you can read all my message not only my first statement...

emmanuelpopson:


see reply..you want the bro hooked to her kos she is working in a reputable coy bi...what about his future and health?
will that cure the problems when its happen??

lereinter:

Std/sti all those are small thing

Fear HIV

Don't ever try it

Is HIV not a Sexual Transmitted Infection

Be ready to called "baby daddy"

Euphoria19:
Forget what people will always say, "I'm clean, trust me" all that is bullshit, the person saying that has probably never taken any HIV or STI test before because if you're so sure of yourself you should have the proof to back it up, and also someone who takes health serious will not be willing to dive skin deep into any guy that comes her way, since she's supposedly clean, don't even bother going for test, anyone that is will want to have sex without condom with someone dey barely know should not be taken serious

Take this lady's advice.
Forget the rests, please!

Nickisindigo:

what about if she want to turn him to a sperm donor

Exactly my thought

Benclever1:
Hello everyone.

So I met this girl through a mutual friend and we started bonding. Initially, I didn't take the friendship seriously because this lady is a little older than me and I do not see any future between us.

Now, things got more intense between us. She visited me one time, one thing leading to another, we were in bed, about to have sex and then I pulled out the condom but she refused, insisting that she doesn't enjoy sex with condom. I was very surprised to hear that, so I tried to make her see reasons why the condom is very necessary. She adamantly refused. We ended up not having the sex that day.

Just last week she visited again and we spent the night together. We tried to have sex again but the same issue came up again. She insisted I must not used condom. Now this got me upset. During the conversation that ensued, she made it very clear to me that she does not have any STD/STI so I should not be afraid. She however admitted that she was ovulating and that the chances of getting her pregnant was high, but that I should not worry that she'd take care of herself and the pregnancy, if it happens. She said that she would not force me to get involved with the baby if I don't want. However, she made very clear that she's not ready to get married. This got me confused.

I don't want to let my guards down by indulging in unprotected sex with someone I don't trust. I also do not want to hurt her feelings. So I plan to take her for medical tests next week and then we can kick it off from there.

What's your advise for me.

Thank you.

Take her for a HIV/Hepatitis B test in a general hospital. If she refuses to go, then avoid her like a plague

My brother, you better be wise. She is setting a big trap for you. Once you mistakenly sex her & she get's pregnant, then she will change her tune & force you to accept the baby & get married to her.She is only acting wise by deceiving you that she doesn't want pregnancy or get married.Abeg RUN bro.

Benclever1:
I don't want any child out of wedlockerself and the baby, unless I want to be involved. But she won't marry me.

Abeg run ooo, Once she get pregnant, her tone will change & u will surely be ready to cater for d baby & even get married to her.Stay wise Nigga

Benclever1:
Hello everyone.

So I week and then we can kick it off from there.

What's your advise for me.

Thank you.

You are reasonable with the lab test. The rest will be for historians to re-write. I wish you well.

guy... Na normal tin 4 some girls. they don't like condom no matter what .some it scratch them or 2 feel it very well @ that point use ur 3rd eye 2 reason d kind girl she be but it go better una 2 go 4 checkup

Femi316:
Bros, ask her one question..... after having unprotected sex with her will she take a drugs like postinior2 and ampiclox.. if she agree to your condition then give it to her....but ensure to give her the drugs after the movie oh....?

mumu advice

Benclever1:
Hello everyone.

So I met this girl through a mutual friend and we started bonding. Initially, I didn't take the friendship seriously because this lady is a little older than me and I do not see any future between us.

Now, things got more intense between us. She visited me one time, one thing leading to another, we were in bed, about to have sex and then I pulled out the condom but she refused, insisting that she doesn't enjoy sex with condom. I was very surprised to hear that, so I tried to make her see reasons why the condom is very necessary. She adamantly refused. We ended up not having the sex that day.

Just last week she visited again and we spent the night together. We tried to have sex again but the same issue came up again. She insisted I must not used condom. Now this got me upset. During the conversation that ensued, she made it very clear to me that she does not have any STD/STI so I should not be afraid. She however admitted that she was ovulating and that the chances of getting her pregnant was high, but that I should not worry that she'd take care of herself and the pregnancy, if it happens. She said that she would not force me to get involved with the baby if I don't want. However, she made very clear that she's not ready to get married. This got me confused.

I don't want to let my guards down by indulging in unprotected sex with someone I don't trust. I also do not want to hurt her feelings. So I plan to take her for medical tests next week and then we can kick it off from there.

What's your advise for me.

Thank you.

Oh so you mean the old b.... Wants you as a sperm donor . and am sure she has STD.
You shouldnt worry abt the pregnancy. Ok do it first then you will see things to worry about. Wait I my the only one seeing everything wrong with this girl?

Leranzo:
Don't do it pls.....if she has STI....and within window period,....test might not pick it.....be careful dear

I never knew this one o

Charleys:
Let's help this guy...


Like for raw sex, share for condoms.

Quote for abstinence.

Bro it's obvious that it's a trap... A lady might tell u she prefer sex without condom but not at this level of urs. Act wise man

Take her for the test. She wants to have a child because she strongly believe no man will marry her. Thats y she said that.

i sware thz na big trap. if u try it,it wl ends in tearz, thnk guy, i hv said my own nd gud luck

its like she wan trap u with another man's pregnancy.be wise.

She obviously has STI/STD or she is already pregnant. Do not even try that stuff without your rain coat.

Fountainofyouth:


Lol don't bother convincing me cos you and I know I don't believe you.

U better believe him,dere are guys out dere no protection no sex...

Benclever1:
she said if she gets pregnant that she won't bother me for anything, unless I want to get involved with the baby. However, that she won't get married to me.

I don't usually like saying things like this but you just have to abandon ship and find somebody else....even if you examine her you can't tell what she is hiding

You can check up on her periodically and observe her movement but for now I suggest you suspend the relationship because what she is saying is not normal

At best she is just being adventurous and at worst she has come to throw your life into total disrepair

In fact your post is reminding me of one Chinua Achebe story where a man came home to find a mamiwater in his bed

Go ahead and have unprotected sex with her if you are 110% sure of her sexual history.

Don't do it. STI is real. Don't ruin your future because of 10mins pleasure.

Fountainofyouth:



It really beats me that a guy, at the climax of arousal and urge, would really not have the sex raw, no matter the consequences.

It has happened to me on many occasions and that was the decision I took. No matter what I can never have unprotected sex with any girl, I fear std, HIV and unwanted pregnancy.

Fountainofyouth:



It really beats me that a guy, at the climax of arousal and urge, would really not have the sex raw, no matter the consequences.

Nothing special about it girl... u must have a bodycount average of approx 30 to be able to exhibit restrain

teesquad007:
My brother, you better be wise. She is setting a big trap for you. Once you mistakenly sex her & she get's pregnant, then she will change her tune & force you to accept the baby & get married to her.She is only acting wise by deceiving you that she doesn't want pregnancy or get married.Abeg RUN bro.

Naxo e easy....calm down bro...u cannot force anybody to marry anybody...go ask women of old who followed this crooked path, most of them regretted their actions... Some ladies don't like condom & its a fact...lets get it straight... But as for the guy, its a matter of principle... No protection no sex...so let him stick to it...

Benclever1:
Hello everyone.

So I met this girl through a mutual friend and we started bonding. Initially, I didn't take the friendship seriously because this lady is a little older than me and I do not see any future between us.

Now, things got more intense between us. She visited me one time, one thing leading to another, we were in bed, about to have sex and then I pulled out the condom but she refused, insisting that she doesn't enjoy sex with condom. I was very surprised to hear that, so I tried to make her see reasons why the condom is very necessary. She adamantly refused. We ended up not having the sex that day.

Just last week she visited again and we spent the night together. We tried to have sex again but the same issue came up again. She insisted I must not used condom. Now this got me upset. During the conversation that ensued, she made it very clear to me that she does not have any STD/STI so I should not be afraid. She however admitted that she was ovulating and that the chances of getting her pregnant was high, but that I should not worry that she'd take care of herself and the pregnancy, if it happens. She said that she would not force me to get involved with the baby if I don't want. However, she made very clear that she's not ready to get married. This got me confused.

I don't want to let my guards down by indulging in unprotected sex with someone I don't trust. I also do not want to hurt her feelings. So I plan to take her for medical tests next week and then we can kick it off from there.

What's your advise for me.

Thank you.

Daughter's of mass destruction... Op if i should advise you, Japa oO, nobi every river them de swim this days...

bro your name go be daddy soon after you have sex with her o...

after the test, you can then kolombi her. anything you see after all the kolombi's, you see am alone ooo. at least you no invite us when you dey enjoy am.

Fountainofyouth:



It really beats me that a guy, at the climax of arousal and urge, would really not have the sex raw, no matter the consequences.