₦airaland Forum

iknopro:
I have the video

Can you send me the link?

erico2k2:
I am not in the US so I cant argue on that one, but in the Uk its way different, But then again the killings you are talking about is gun and knife crimes, in Nigeria people die from Motor accident and Illness more than gun and knife crime

Big lie
If it is true than 50% would have been dead by illness by now.

erico2k2:
I disagree with you, the only reason you hear of killings is cos its recorded and documented,.In NIgeria no record, if not for social Meadie just now we nor go hear anything

You still can’t compare the killings in USA to Nigeria
Some state even have more killings and police brutality than Nigeria as a country

BigDawsNet:
2%

How many blacks are working there

MrsTwrite:
Why do most Nigerian women stigmatize those ladies that gave birth through CS?

Does it mean that because a woman gave birth through CS she's not a real woman?

If you mingle with the poor that the kind of stigmatization you will get .
My sis gave birth recently she spent over 14 hours in labor at the end she did CS. A rich lady who gave birth there to book CS.

BigDawsNet:
Hahahahah... wher you won make make 100m... for where...

Tho if you get in with a work permit and get a job as a Senior Doctor or top Software Engineer and work for probably for NaSa.. den you can make 100m in probably 3years

How many % of people have such opportunities to work in nasa? Or secured a top software engineer?

Prudency045:
And what is the percentage of Nigerians that will be able to save 1million naira before they die?

Even in the west, their citizens aren't rich in the context of their country but have access to credits and good quality of life.

It is not about money saved rather it is about the quality of life people can live with the money they earn.

You just should stop lying more than %50 can’t access credit or have a quality life. That why so state are passing law if you steal anything below $900 is not a crime.

Ajione:
Is not only money that make people japa, some issues are settled, like security good road getting values for your taxes and when children is involved, your children future are secured.
Anybody trying to japa and thinking of becoming a multi millionaire or billionaire Na big mistake. But am sure once you are not lazy you will leave a comfortable life.
With the present situation in this country things are hard, salary Na pie but.
If I come to you now and I said I need 50k will you give me?
I prefer leaving this country than leaving like a prisoner in my own country.

It’s so annoying when people think the only reason to japa is good road and security. Nowhere is safe dear they are more killing in USA than anywhere in the world .

Elvictor:
https://www.google.com/amp/s/punchng.com/breaking-gunmen-kill-rivers-dpo-amgbanshin/%3famp

Photo Credit: Barry Dumka (Facebook)

Just imagine this kind of thing happens in any eastern state

Truvelisback:
Most of them are occultists. Atleast 97% of them if not 💯.

Dumbest idea I ever seen on the internet.

Nemesis0147:
a senator or minister can Bleep up dangote even with all his wealth….that is power!!

No senator or minister can do anything can Bleep Dangote up. If they can in what way exactly?
Make I see if na the person want pass the law.

Truvelisback:
Good day, fellas. I just red on FP on a debate on Power vs Money 💰. In my own opinion, I will rather choose Power (Spiritual power)over money. Before you crucify me, let me give my reasons. Have you keenly asked yourself why people join the Occult? 🤔 1. For wealth 2. Power 3. For fame 4. For protection. Money 💰 is power, I agree. But Spiritual power supersedes all. Why? You can get or influence all these through spiritual means. Spiritual Powers don't only give you money, it gives you power, fame and protection.

So you mean the richest men in the world not Nigeria are all occultists men? Even Dangote ?
Lol
Poor men reasoning. When you have money you are untouchable just like Tinubu.

You can’t have power without money

First you make the money
Then you get the power
Then respect follows
That why some people have to do drugs to make money for themselves before going into politics.

Paid fake media
We all know how worst it is in this zoo . People are suffering and no hope .

Antiochus:
https://www.channelstv.com/2023/09/07/us-announces-1bn-aid-to-ukraine-as-russian-strike-kills-at-least-17/

Money laundering machine
Arm dealers all smiling while Ukraine 🇺🇦 are dying too bad only the poor people are suffering while the rich and their families are all in abroad.

We all know this will happen
Highest bidder will always win
Know this and know peace

Gerrard59:
In the US, this is very rampant. Second-generation Nigerian-Americans are enjoying the fruits of their parents' labour. As Americans and blacks, they enjoy lots of privileges. Access to loans to study (good a thing they study relevant courses), scholarships and job opportunities. In doing it for the children's future, I dare say first generation Nigerian-Americans have won it.

Also, as citizens, they get the first chance at attending good universities at low costs. A Nigerian from Nigeria would pay higher fees at the University of Texas. But a second generation would pay very low fees at the same university and is guaranteed automatic admission if s/he topped his/her high school graduating class in Texas.

Even with they citizenship they will still live the rest of they life paying student loan 💵 while parents who can afford it they kids won’t have to pay any student loan.

chiself:
That is the thing that the 99.9%ers do not understand. If you are well off in Nigeria, you can afford to send your kids to private primary and secondary school in Nigeria and they can do quite well like Kamsiyochukwu Umeh. If while they are in primary /secondary school you continue to progress in your career, by the time they finish secondary school , you should be able to afford to sponsor their university education abroad. That is how to do it but the 99.9%ers think that coming to UK, Canada, USA automatically mean their kids are getting the best education

Then again maybe like parent like children. The 99.9%ers are only looking to survive and not ambitious and so are content to see their kids attend University of Peckham and get their Micky Mouse degrees and get second class administrative job in some council, only to find their manager was the oyinbo girl who used to be in their class in Peckham Hill College but didn't progress to University. (The 99.9%ers will say, "it is still better than Nigeria )

I am on page 4 and everyone is saying age is just a number Why would they want to give a 40+ man a job when there are lots of 20 something also looking for jobs?

It’s so Annoying many Nigerians think once they move abroad they can afford to send their kids to better university , many of them end up in many useless colleges that can’t give you a nice paying job only paycheck to paycheck.
What’s the need living in Nigeria where you earn 1.1m and live comfortably than to move abroad and start living paycheck yo paycheck?

Usefulsense:
I earn a little less than, N1.1m monthly net.
I am a qualified accountant.

But you see, working for a private company in Nigeria, not easy bro.

I believe you are living like a king 👑 in Nigeria do you think you can live like that over there ?

Will you be able to send your kids to best school over there because I believe with your salary here you can afford to send your kids to best school in Nigeria.

gaby:
This is an opportunity to go get your life properly sorted and to secure your children's future.

Grab it like BAT would say and run away with it my friend.

Are you seriously asking this question considering the Nigeria that is starting you in the face?

My only advice for you will be to work on yourself as per our culture of "I am the head of the house in the African way" and you are good to go.

This is a lifetime opportunity on a platter, bro.

Run with it.

You people keep saying for the kid’s future how many African parents can send they kids to best schools or nice university abroad?

Kobojunkiee:
Most every one here does the same and there is something meaningful about doing that. Very fulfilling way of life knowing you are not just laboring for the heck of it.

What’s the difference?

So funny when Africans go to USA or Uk to work 10 times they have ever worked in they life in Africa before .

So humble right now

Islie:
The Director, Press and Public Relations of the National Youth Service Corps (NYSC), Eddy Megwa, has said that the Minister of Arts and Culture, Mrs…





https://dailytrust.com/its-wrong-to-be-minister-while-serving-nysc-tells-musawa/

A zoo where there’s no law you can do the way you like as long as you are not poor or any political enemy.

Anything tax is welcome in this zoo

addmole:
I and My wife have been married for 5 years. We are based here in Lagos. She's 35 years old. We are doing very okay and living comfortably. Since we got married, my wife hated sex so much. I am not even trying to sugarcoat this. She doesn't want to hear you talk about it or she does it. There's no one in the family that haven't tried to settle our differences since we got married. She was never like this when we were dating. It's been 1 issue to the other. She doesn't initiate sex, and when she does accept you to have sex, it's missionary style and it's just 1 round. Ah, me wey dey like knack wella. This woman begin change am for me. Lol. She doesn't want to hear you discuss sex.

Anyway sha, lets move on...

5 YEARS ago, her mum came to my house to kneel down and tell me I am stressing her daughter that I should not kill her with sex. Her then-unmarried sister then asked if I ama dog? Ah, insult. Anyway, I don forgive her. I spoke to my wife and told her what is the meaning of this? What kind of lies are you feeding your family with? This is the same person who happens to make just 1 round of sex. Just 1 round. She lies flat on her back. Once you are done, she quickly pushes you away if you stay on top of her for more than 10 to 15 minutes. There were times she would hit me if I try to initiate sex. I reported to her elder brother. He elder brother warned her. She stopped. She moved to kicking me anytime we initiate sex on bed, i reported to my pastor, he spoke to her and then, she stopped. My pastor told me i have to be patient with her. I said OK.

Omo...
The only time we make love is just 1 round, missionary style and that's it. She says she has pain on her stomach. I have been patient for 5 years with her. I told her anytime she's strong enough, we can make out. That there's no problem.

I have been pressured to cheat on her many times. i HAVE BEEN REALLY PRESSURED. Its just not easy. Her family have insulted me for demanding sex from her. Lol. The thing tire me. I see no where i am demanding. We don't do any other position apart from the missionary style. We do not even kiss. This is a woman that doesn't want you to kiss in in anyway. Even sometimes, she shouts at you when you try to be romantic to kiss her unexpectedly just to spies up our love life. She doesn't even want you to cuddle her on bed. She wants to be alone. Make money, attend to her business, vibes, laugh with friends and family and that's it. When it comes to sex, don't go there discussing that with her about making out.

I even had to retort to preparing her mind for sex by sending her a position we would try on WhatsApp, she would leave the message on read and not respond. When you talk to her about what you sent to her, she would just tell you, she's not strong to make love.

ANOTHER PART OF HER:
My wife is a very bitter person full of anger. If you try to tickle her when she's cooking in the kitchen to play with her, she gets angry and warns you not to try such. My wife doesn't want you to play with her. I am not writing all these to make it look I am a victim here. But all these are my experiences. I have to pour it out. I NEED SOME ADVICE.

There were many times, we agreed on separating. But we have already children and we used to think about these because the quarrels and the disrespect, sex and everything is causing a whole lot on us.

We do not have any form of healthy discussion very well. Before you know it, we are quarrelling over the place, she's shouting. There was a time we quarrelled that after throwing a Gotv remote at her, she fainted. She woke up before we got to the hospital. She almost died. I told her, she needs to stop her anger and control herself and enjoy her marriage. She just won't listen. She's an Edo woman.

I have tried many times to leave the marriage because it's affecting my mental health. Sometimes I regret about getting married to her. Sometimes, I just feel, maybe I CAN TRY MORE and give her a chance. When you call her to discuss our sex life, about her anger and bitterness, she doesn't apologise. She hardly apologise. Even when I get to explain her part on why she was wrong, she claims she's right until maybe someone hears us arguing before she would reluctantly apologise.

I have been battling a really starved sex life, full of a woman with bitterness, anger and pride who never apologise. She's quick to advice other women on Facebook, She would video call friends, give them advice and her family how they need to maintain peace with their relationship. But she never seem to give me respect in anyway in her own own. Hmmmm.

Recently, my wife brought out another timetable that she cannot cope making out with me the way she does. Which is 3 times a week. That she can only be available to make love 2 times a week. This 2 times is just 1 round each. This is how she wants it. I immediately responded to her that I feel her pain. I understand. She cannot be pressured just to make it look like she wants to please me that I would rather get a side chic. Yes, i know this was wrong to tell her, but i am frustrated. She disrespects me and starve me of sex and she's even bending the rules again. She responded that 'ok that I am free to do what i LIKE'.

i decided to bring this here to know the comments from people. I would like to get advice from persons who are going through similar things like this and advice me on what to do.

Some of you might say, call her and talk to her. I have done that several times since in the last 5years. I did it last night and twice today. I have spoken to her. She promised she would change, she would not only repeat the same thing but make things worst the next time.

She disrespects me a lot. I have sometimes left the house but come back after families get to call me. She would change for a week and return to her old self.

What do I DO? Please make your responses constructive enough.

Just forget about making out with her for long and watch her reaction.

WriterNig:
🇷🇺 ☠ Wagner boss Yevgeny Prigozhin has been killed in a plane crash in Russia, with nine other people on board also dead.

Russia's Federal Air Transport Agency has stated that Wagner head Yevgeny Prigozhin has died in the plane crash outside of Tver, Russia.

🇷🇺 Let's go back to June 24th.

All those who deliberately embarked on the path of betrayal will suffer inevitable punishment, Putin said. The Russian Armed Forces received the necessary order.

The only problem of Igbo are igbos themselves.

They should just leave female players for female coaches.

jaeyking:
Hmmmm

What about the guys

Why are they looked at as top guns but the ladies as a bad egg

Different scenarios prove that we are not equal before the law

A man with a high body count is given a high rep
A woman with a high body count is seen as a slut

A woman screams sexual molestation, quickly the man is manhandled and tried

A man screams sexual molestation, he is laughed upon but the society.

Imagine going to school and u were called that your 16yr old son is banging his hot class teacher, (iknow most of us guys will be extremely proud and happy)

Now look at it that you were called that a male teacher was banging your 16yr old doctor. The teacher has signed his death warrant.

So it's more or less what the society approves or see fit

But above all PLEASE BE MORALLY UPRIGHT

Whenever girls start paying for groom price we can discuss about this .

Ibrahimlagosian:
Hi guys,i'm an 18 year old medical student,
I'm about to get a car for myself but i fell in love with these two cars;a 2017 honda accord coupe and a 2015 honda crosstour.
From your experience which car do you think will serve me best in the university.My budget is 4.5 million.

Don’t allow anybody to deceive you about Honda is this or that , always go for what you want in this life it will always make you happy 😊 instead of listening to people and go for Camry.
When I wanted to buy my first car avalon 14 Dey were telling me to buy this buy that , that Avalon is too expensive to maintain big lie. I only service my car when due and change brake pad for two years I was enjoying the car.

So go for what you want, as for 18 years go for 2017 honda accord coupe because 2015 honda crosstour will be too big for you am not talking about maintenance oh. Too many eyes will be on you .

okeysoninv:
Absolutely, there is no way we can survive with out redenomination of naira. Once naira close the maximum threshold of #1000 per a dollar we can remove a zero . Making 100 naira equal to $1. As of 2013 rate.

So if you have 1,000,000 in your bank account so it will be 100,000?