₦airaland Forum

Cholls:
my sister look I don't know you from anywhere not until you came here with this story of your love life. so just accept my advice which ever way you like to see it good or bad............ back to the topic........one of the things I deduced from what you wrote is how proud and arrogant of a person you could be........thinking you're better than the lady cuz she couldn't speak English fluently.....and the one that annoyed me most was when the brother told you to move to Mowe with him you refused.......Damn! You are too proud for any man to marry.

what do you men actually want was she expected to leave her job and relocate all the way to mowe... if she had done that now you guys will still flood here and call her a low life, a gold digger, a woman with no values for leaving her life behind to follow a man, its not called pride my brother, its integrity. If the guy cared he would have allowed them to get to a point of compromise, 4 years no be beans... and pleeeaaaasseee about her feeling like she's better than the guy's wife, who wouldn't? its no hidden fact that we all feel really cool if our ex gets someone below us as the new bae, even you should be guilty of that too, so free the babe abeg

pinceprinz:
really? Nope, it's Matt Swash's brand I'm talking bout here lady... Maybe it's another manufacturer yo referring to? I can't be wrong!

then maybe its a different brand... there is a brand called swatch

Fadekebisola:
my boyfriend wanted us to have sex but i refused him that....i told him true love doesnt mean sex...

so who else refused his boo sex?

sweetheart this will only mean a thing if you have not had sex with him before... but you are a big Dundee if you screw him other days, probably on the 13th sef and denied him the sex on the 14th...

pinceprinz:
Swatch or Swash wristwatch bro? Got my Mom a customized one too lastyr on her bdy ... Hope it didn't eat too deep into your purse?

its swatch not swash... he got the spelling right

His nose though

guywitzerogal:
Dat girl s too young to make her go half nude oooooo abeg make dem treat her like an ambassador to odas kids

she is 27

you could ask her what she doesn't like about you and wants you to correct and then you in return will tell her what you want her to correct too... shikena... find how to input it in your discussion without it being suspicious

having sex with a staunch enemy of his and having the guy brag about it on a daily basis will hurt more.... friends will just laugh over it.... but why I think progressing more will be a better payback, she shouldn't forget that the Toto belongs to her and not the guy o

the way these celebrities use make up ehn... I assume they use expensive make ups and it never blends in their face whenever they take a picture, especially at night, they look like ojuju... does this mean that cheap make up is better cause I'm sure the price of my make up is not near theirs but no matter the time of the day I take a picture, I'll never look like an ojuju... their daytime picture sef na wahala, night na ojuju

killjoy:
maybe you're right. but I can't base my decision on the experience of my parents but my personal experience. may be they affected me like 0.0001% but the my decision is influenced chiefly by my own experience.

ok

masinga07:
#Why do you always use broom to sweep my room when you know i belong to PDP. ITS OVER

this got me cracking up

killjoy:
oh purrleeeasseeee..... don't come at me with this separation aftermath jorrr. do I look like a baby to cry when daddy and mummy are fighting? women experience the good side of marriage, men suffer the bad part. why do women go to lengths just to get married? what's in for them?

you would never know that you are affected by that cause you will be forming "I'm not a crybaby".... I'm a female, I never found marriage as an interesting thing and I still don't now... why mum and dad are separated, I grew up in an area filled with marital violence too, various couples hurting themselves. I've always envisioned myself living alone with a child probably and doing fine... why my psychology has been played with as a child. Not everyone finds marriage interesting and statistics have shown that it is common among kids from broken homes (Google it), if mumsy and popsy had the sweet kind of marriage, you would have been singing a different tune now.

Ewuro4:
Kontinue the rich men hunt and see if it won't hunt you, f00l like you end up in soakaways.

Ole.. Looking for a guy to give her comfortable life, how dumb can a whole human being be

at least I'm not as dumb as you are... jobless man, I now see the reason you can't hustle, you are on Nairaland 24/7

killjoy:
my view isn't biased but based on experience hence in touch with reality. if u don't believe single men hv as much fun as married men, tell me what they r missing.

the fact that you have experienced just the bad part of marriage doesn't mean there is no good side to it... there are two sides to every coin and if you had come up with the two sides, I would have taken your post more seriously. All I see is a child who has been badly affected by his parents separation, I do hope you heal though.

Ewuro4:
Go and quench missy, She ain't complaining so stop taking Advil for another's fever

P.S : Hit the gym and get those lazy hands of yours busy while at it... Yeye geh

original otondo

Ewuro4:
Yeye girl, so you knew Eve relieved Adam of his responsibilities at one point ? Hehe see person wey wan live for garden Eden.

So what if she was the breadwinner, Is that a taboo?? Continue wallowing in your f00lishnesss you hear... It's amusing there's still breed like you left on earth .


#busybody
#stoplookingforamantofeedyou #faceyourstudiesandbesomebody #beingawomanmeansgreatness #yourgenerationofshallowthinkersshouodbeflusheddownthedrain





otondo

I'm going for round 2 nap now

I only pity the woman that ends up with a sissy like you, she'll toil the ground until she bend...it's not my fault you were born as a man, today is Sunday, take your rants to God in prayer.

Ewuro4:
My mother's generation are made jackals via hard work and determination. They are threat to any man's wealth. When they (men) couldn't stand the heat, they got out of the damn kitchen. Shuo

He's not man enough? So financial strength depicts manliness in your opinion? Gosh, See what you're spewing , some women are fighting for your independence and freedom from oppression (rolls eyes) and here you are looking for a man to pick you up from the gutter and brush you up to his standards. When he starts to wire you with grave insults regarding how he bought and feeds your entire village altogether, you come on NL with alternate moniker and start wailing.

Kontinue.

by the way I never knew you were Alakija's son ooo @ they are a threat to any man's wealth... My friend go and sit down

Ewuro4:
My mother's generation are made jackals via hard work and determination. They are threat to any man's wealth. When they (men) couldn't stand the heat, they got out of the damn kitchen. Shuo

He's not man enough? So financial strength depicts manliness in your opinion? Gosh, See what you're spewing , some women are fighting for your independence and freedom from oppression (rolls eyes) and here you are looking for a man to pick you up from the gutter and brush you up to his standards. When he starts to wire you with grave insults regarding how he bought and feeds your entire village altogether, you come on NL with alternate moniker and start wailing.

Kontinue.

you have said it all, I now see where you draw your laziness from. According to your words not mine, your mother is the breadwinner of the family and when your father couldn't stand it, he gave up and allowed her rule... A lazy man can only bring forth another lazy man, I wonder how many guys are in your family. When a man allows his sons watch their mother feed the family he is only creating a big mess, not your fault dear, blame popsy.... If Adam wasn't sleeping or lazying around, Eve would not have been put in the position of fending for the family and we would all have been in the garden by now... Ogbeni free talk and #FeedYourWoman

oloyede252:
lols.so you came from a family of wailers.no wonder you are blaming society for your failure.ehya sorry

must you do this all this talk just because you were asked to man up... continue embarrassing yourself in public

Rochas is an asshole but I must commend him on this... He has done well

oloyede252:
please just stfu.too much nonsense in one post

I expected you to wail, if you don't wail, who will?

Ewuro4:
'Expected' by who?

This is one of the low-life excuses these lot carry around to save face and jump into marriage then cry foul when those men treat them like trash.

Who send them message? Don't they have brain of their own to make their own decisions??

Please stop preaching tu-sh, we don't want new generations thinking it's true.

your suggestion, your business... my suggestion, my business too... one of those lazy things with nothing in their pocket that will start crying foul the moment a girl demands they act like men... you and the op seem to be reasoning from the same place and I think I know why... ask your father questions, if he had your type of reasoning, he wouldn't have been able to wife your mother... man up and do the needful, stop attacking the female folks for your inability to be a man

Toks2008:
It is no longer a new thing that after graduation of a male child from a tertiary institution,there is so much expectation from him especially the one whose parents are from a very humble background and had to make huge financial sacrifices.

After graduation,this male child is expected to do his best as regards the ability to provide for himself,his aging parents and also prepare to start a family and we all know the financial demands that come with marriage ceremonies.

As if this is not enough for the male child,the female folks who have spent years in tertiary institutions to have a sound intellect and ought to be a succor in terms of encouragement and financial support have become an additional burden.

Please understand this...there is absolutely nothing bad for a lady be a graduate or not to want,hope or desire a rich or financially ok guy...which lady will not want that?

But it gets even crazier by the day cos most of those ladies who have no opportunity of bagging a degree are unbelievably hard working as we can see many of them doing one thing or the other legitimately to be financially independent while many acclaimed graduates just hope for one unfortunate maga to buy them..how sad.

Ok lets take a look at this..In Nigeria,both the male and the female child go to the same private or public schools right from nursery to tertiary levels,we had the same educational qualification because the last time i checked the University as well as polytechnic degrees are awarded to both male and female...

We go through NYSC together and start looking for jobs in the same labor market in the same country.It is even easier for a female graduate to get jobs compared to the male folks yet these same ladies expect these same guys to be "financially ok" enough to take care of them HABBA!

What happened to equal opportunity to be financially ok since we are faced with same economy conditions. What sought of magic are these ladies expecting the male folks to perform? It even becomes more unrealistic and wicked when ladies are looking for financially ok guys in their 20s and early 30s.


This has made me conclude that its gradually becoming a waste of money and resources for some parents to send their daughters to school since they are likely to come out and dump the zeal and qualification just to start scouting for "financially ok guys" before they can think of making a headway for themselves in life.

So if that is the case,there is no need to get a degree since they don't need that to get a rich guy as they can use their natural body degree to achieve that thereby saving the parents hundreds of thousands of naira.

So i am advising every Nigerian parent to ask their daughter this vital question before spending a dime on her tertiary education and beg her to tell them the truth...

"Are you ready to go to school and acquire a degree to become self reliant financially or are you nursing the thought of going to school and latter come out to start looking for a rich guy or financially ok guy"?


Be observant to the way she answers and make up your mind.

Odiegwu.

one answer to your question... ladies are expected to get married in their early twenties, once she clocks 25, the 'go and marry' crew will attack but a guy in his early twenties has little or no responsibility so what is stopping him from going out there to hustle and make a living for his future family... mind you, once the lady gets married, she is expected to start bearing children which might affect her future dreams... To all the ladies out there looking for a guy that can give you a comfortable life, you are not gold diggers at all, these guys are just getting too lazy these days.

one word... HORRIBLE

a broke state spent 600million naira on decorations #OwelleRideOn

@op its a pre wedding photo shoot, I've seen the picture before

sickstars:
AND UR GIRL WILL B HAPPY TO SEE DIS?

CAN U B BOLD ENOUGH TO SHOW HER DIS?

WHEN U CAN JUST WALK INTO A FERTILITY CLINIC ND GET UR FACTS ACCURATELY

U BUSY SHADING A TRUTHFUL GIRL AT HER BCK

SHE DOESNT DESERVE U

you can stop embarrassing yourself now, you have no point, quietly pack well and I'm sure you meant "he doesn't deserve her"

kayfra:
Thanks OBJ for the incubation
Thanks GEJ for the execution
Thanks Buhari for the actualization

thanks for the wisdom shown, let those olodos be fighting about who did it

kayfra:
Thanks OBJ for the incubation
Thanks GEJ for the execution
Thanks Buhari for the actualization

thanks for the wisdom shown, let those olodos be fighting for who did it

this guy resemble him wife sha ooo