₦airaland Forum

IyaTola:
Womanizing

Kipaji:
aka masturbation

Persephone1:
Define the relationship

Build it

Keep no secrets

Forgive offences

Evaluate your relationship

Keep building

Exit if it gets abusive.

zomby:
There is no brutal truth about life after marriage if you’re determined to keep the fire burning.
It all depends on the 2 parties whether they want to make the best out of it.
Marriage is like a plant; you have to water it, nurture it and apply fertilizer from time to time.

Love and Respect each other… try not to stop what brings you guys together. Go on vacations, spend time together and enjoy each other as much as possible… laugh together.
Instead of talking at each other, trying to have a constructive discussions.
Marriage is not as bad as folks make it to be…It is actually a magnificent bond between 2 entities.

Olasyke:
Why are you scared of a hustling lady that has her own money? I mean, if she works, she has to have her apartment. Or do you want her to stay in her parent's house till someone comes to marry her?

I no get time for ya today, make I call candidlady, siofra and jeon.

Newusername:
Good-day everyone and @SMJay, please ANY part-time job will be duly appreciated.
I am an undergraduate student and I stay around Yaba. Thanks

mrphysics:
Of course something can be done. She need to pay through Direct Tax for 3 years, with that she can obtain a TCC within a day.

Rubyjade:

ausproxi:
Bsc / Electrical and Electronics Engineering

Computer Hardware Specialist with 3 years experience.

I'm opened to any job and also looking at the opportunity to learn new things and develop along the line.

ozil123:
LLb. Law
1 yr as a Legal associate and 6 months experience as a Research associate.

09050172347

Thank you soo much.

donttryme:
This is deep

Plutoman:
Will like to know if you have any in Sango and it's environs at the moment?

Lyn30:
Hello everyone, I have B.sc in Food science and technology, one year experience as a personal assistant/supervisor
my contact email - judylinks045@gmail.com
Please I will really appreciate the help as I have lost hope.

Threesha:
Kindly try again

tasmanedwara:
Nice one today for me

LeeSantos:
Una no get work

Rubyjade:
My Uncle who is landlord in Nigeria, japped they only gave him 2 month accommodation, his currently struggling to get an apartment as I type the cheapest is £900-1000 right now

For now, i personally do not want to japa.

This however, does not mean I have anything against those leaving the country for a better life.

Its okay to leave, especially if you have a strong conviction that leaving will be a gateway to a better life.

The truth is, not everybody who leaves will succeed and not everybody who stays will suffer.

Its all a function of what you do with the resources available to you. If you plan well and put your resources to good use, in Nigeria or outside Nigeria. You will succeed!! If you don't you will fail, even if you are outside Nigeria.

Not everybody will japa, for some of us who will remain here. The goal should be to plan well and put to good use all the resources available to us.

The grass is not always greener at the other side o. Even those wey japa dey hustle o....

No go japa without a proper plan!!!

Chris2863:
If your partner is not reciprocating the same energy you put in the relationship, dump the MF. Love is better expressed and not by shouting I love you up and down and lastly, make sure you have some standards/principles before entering into a relationship

Alliswell73:
Sir, do you have any job vacancy around Abeokuta? I'll be grateful for your response sir.

Thank you.

chrispapi11:
They are not standard org, you can always raise it with your HR or PENCOM. Penison is compusolry

Favy93:
Please I need know the name of the factory and location.
Which vacancies are available?

Olasyke:

This is 2022 bro.

Tegabadguy:
my is wen am drinking cold black bullet with Az

BluntTheApostle:
Life after wedding, not life after marriage.

Life after marriage means life after a divorce.

Life after wedding means marriage.

Now, what do you expect in a marriage?

It all depends on one thing -- YOUR SPOUSE.

Your spouse: your spouse can make or mar your married life. If your spouse is unwilling to grow, unwilling to be responsible, have unreasonable expectations of you or of the marriage, you are DOOMED.

As a former marriage counselor, I have heard many unreasonable expectations, especially from wives.

Remove that belief that there is a Zee World fairy tale marriage in reality. All those overdone love stories do not exist and cannot work in reality. You are only going to push your spouse to the wall.

Secondly, a spouse that is unwilling to grow will frustate the marriage. You can't enter into a marriage and still want to live like a single. Marriage is a life of compromises. It is not for those who are single at heart. This point goes well with responsibility. You now have a partner, and so you must always include them in many of your plans, unlike when you were single.

Some people will talk about money, and all that.

If you marry a bad spouse, money will not help you.

If your husband is richer than Dangote, that would not automatically make him a responsible man.

That is why marriages depend entirely on the type of partner you have.

MufasaLion:
If you're not financially buoyant, you will regret it.