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valenu:
Fact¡! Nigeria and Nigerians do not deserve good people.

Are you saying he is a saint and isn't corrupt in anyway?

Injiggerwolf:
6 months might not completely prepare you though it depends on you.
I will advice you to try ”Data Analysis “. meaning you will able to learn Python Programming and R Programming (Basic).
There are high demand for such Skill here including other European countries.......and the average pay is $120,000 per annum.

Mind you, you don't need to be Computer Scientist, you only need to study on YouTube (subscribe to some channels), try some examples and solve some real case study problems.
Then you're good to go

What are the channels one can subscribe to

Inkling:
Las Las

Our tradition has been bastardise and relegated by our politicians.

If you can't act as their puppet you're a gooner

This month is specially meant for Osho and Sanusi travails.

Next on the line to be controlled by politicians are pastors & Imans.
If they are not already in payroll

Witcher:
Hahahaha.. he runs his mouth anyhow but i think it will be recall or something because he av many suppoters including the like of Dangote. Anyways he achieve his dream let him go back to the public that museum didn't suits him.... It's like the SSG announced the removal not the house of assembly so I don't think it will means much

But he speaks his truth and is widely supported by man.

medTechworld:
Woa! Wish him speedy recovery.

#ManchesterUnitedMyTeam

Come epp me solve my relationship problem

Buliwyf:
Yeah so he can say anything and do anything. But as long as he keeps mentioning Jesus you guys are fine with it. No wonder politicians rob you blind and still give testimonies of God's faithfulness in your churches.

He told you he masturbates to condition himself for the fight. Now you are claiming he doesnt actually do so because it wouldnt help your narrative. Modern Christianity is a religion of clowns and jesters. lol

By the way, if you must know that video was before the first fight that ended in a draw. lmao

Understand that his relationship with Jesus is personal. I don't know about it.
I know he mentioned that he can't lose cos he has Jesus.

I think that says alot about his faith and where he puts Jesus in his life.

As for me, I think he is bragging.
As for pastors and politicians.. that's cos the pastor's are loyal to money not God.

Righteousness89:
You are a Divinely Orchestrated Governor!

Like my Father in the LORD will say, "Life is not by Struggle", It is a GIFT FROM GOD!

Just Work with GOD who Orchestrated your position...

Deliver Democracy Dividends to the Bayelsa people..

Don't become Power Intoxicated!

Humble yourself before GOD!

You might Just be The Next " Goodluck Jonathan!

Person. That has already divert to his own mandate.
Borrowed over ₦2b to buy car.
Is that God's will?

SeunTheOwner:
You are not current in the news

Tyson Fury Masturbates 7 Times A Day As Part Of Wilder Rematch Preparations
https://www.nairaland.com/5631637/tyson-fury-masturbates-7-times

He said it doesn't mean he does it.

Fury talks a lot.
Its his brand and style.

Oluromantic:
That abortion is really an issue. We know God doesn't approve it but what does one do when the pregnancy is a threat to the carrier's life or it's a product of incest/bestiality or violation/rape that comes with psychic trauma at the site of the child.

I know a church(name withheld) that says wearing tight(female underwear in place of pant) is a sin. That anything that looks like knicker or trouser whether in or out is sinful for a woman to wear.

Another issue is sex. Dag heaward-mills(a popular American pastor) said in one of his books that it's not sinful for couples to engage in orall sex. But many other pastors condemn it

Another issue is divorce. A particular popular church in Nigeria with its head pastor now a divorcee is said to have the highest record of divorce within its members among xtain organizations in Nigeria. In d Western world, it's even a normal routine among xtains. Which does one believe?

Idea of MouthAction, anal sex, party etc are products of pornography.
Maybe that's why they are against them

SeunTheOwner:
Tyson Fury is a Backslider and a Chronic Mastubator that need to repent of his sin

You are in his house to know he masturbates and God that has judged him.
Weldon

Elsanchez:
Thank God you did the right thing

Why are you thanking him for doing the right thing?

What was he suppose to do?

Ibime:
Guy, this has been a problem since my first trip to Ariara in the early 90s

Sad

Disappointed with the government of the state. This situation has become a recurring problem

Bervelyhillz:
This is a bit long but please bear with me.

I’ve been married to my amazingly beautiful wife for 3 years. The problem is she is very shy around me but at the same time seems to try to secretly please me constantly. It leaves me feeling guilty and I’m not sure of what to do next.

Backstory:

I met her through my mom. My MIL and my mom are childhood friends who grew up together. I never met her at the time since I lived in the US while She was in Nigeria. When I was 20 I saw her in a family friend’s wedding album. I was floored and my eyes were watering. She was the most attractive girl I had ever seen.

I figured out her FB and messaged her since I didn't want to initiate contact through our moms. I struck up a conversation. I soon realized that my mom fed info about me to my MIL which in turn got fed to her , so she already knew a fair bit about me. We chatted constantly, met up on my vacation to Nigeria , and hung out together every day. I learn she is still a virgin saving herself for marriage. I was still one too, mostly because A) I was chubby most of my life and didn't dare go near girls in that state and B) when I did start getting more fit, I already fell in love with her and it felt wrong dating at the same time. So yeah we had that in common.

Skipping ahead again to three years ago when I graduated from grad school. We met up a handful of times more, and things were awesome. She was outgoing with me, giggling over almost nothing and general silliness. We never did anything sexual, but we were intimate enough and honestly seeing her gave me goosebumps, so it wasn't on my mind. On one visit to Nigeria, she brought up the topic of marriage in a joking manner, something about how our mom's always planned it. I jokingly replied that I would be happy to marry her, then she got all serious and asked if I was for real. I said yes and, well, the rest is history.

The problem:

We had our wedding in Nigeria and, after the papers got sorted, she moved to the US to live with me. The first few months were interesting. She knows English pretty well and she majored in her native language, so she looked for translation jobs. She never got replies from employers, so I was getting a little suspicious, especially since she was an honors student at a pretty high ranking international university. I found out that she wasn't actually sending the applications out. I bring this up gently with her, and she starts tearing a bit telling me she wants to be a stay at home wife and that she didn't think I would be proud of her if she didn't get a real job. She says she was going to tell me soon, which I believe because I found a recent word document in our computer that was basically a draft of the speech she was going to give me. I don't mind her staying at home as I bring in enough money for the both of us and she is a really good cook.

This prompted me to sit down with her and figure out where our communication is breaking down. After a bunch of long discussions about this, I felt we were on the same page. She was still growing more timid around me and didn't start conversations easily with me, but she always seemed happy. I stepped up my displays of affection, showering her with compliments, hugs, and kisses. I would often catch her staring at me (usually while we ate), to which she would get red-faced and look away quickly. It’s been 3 years now and still does the smiling stare, except now she doesn’t look away when I catch her. The conversation starting has gotten a bit better, but nowhere near pre-marriage. While she always had this quiet peacefulness to her, I noticed she is intentionally not doing things that might get me worked up. Examples being: discussing politics (we have the same views), discussing my work problems, discussing anything philosophical in nature, etc. She will respond if I start, but she doesn’t take the initiative like before. I really miss that.

The sex is...interesting? As I said before, I didn't have any prior experience so I can't judge her, but she just lays on the bed and doesn’t move until I suggest to. She never initiates but never declines. I try to make it about her more often than not, but if I’m looking for feedback she quietly agrees with whatever I'm doing. After we finish, she lays in the same position looking at me, sometimes smiling, sometimes teary-eyed. I take it she likes it, but then again she never likes to talk about sex. From what I gather in our pre-marriage talks, she doesn't have any negative views on it and it wasn't shunned by her parents, it's just that she is shy. She doesn't like me seeing her naked even though I do (ha ha...:/ ). She is…shy very well proportioned…and I tell her how it is so she shouldn’t feel self-conscious. But she still covers up outside of sex.

Another issue is fitness: I work out constantly at home or in the park (calisthenics) and I invite her to join but she politely declines. She runs almost every morning so I thought maybe she gets enough from that. But I have noticed that my weight backpack at home is sometimes at a different weight than when I left it. I have also noticed She has made some serious butt/thigh gains which really stand out on her thin frame. When I ask if she is doing anything differently, she says “maybe it’s the running” then changes the subject. I don’t understand why she is working out in secret. This is most likely my fault though since I used to try and tease her into working out with me; I made a silly remark about how squatting/ham-raises will put more meat on her legs.

Conclusion:

Guys and gals, I need help. I love my wife dearly. She is funnier than any comedian, more disciplined than any soldier, and more beautiful than any celebrity. But she is making me feel weird by trying to secretly improve herself based on my preferences. Her shyness around me is awkward and I want a return to the easy-going pre-marriage . Has anyone had experience with this?

Also: she has made many friends here and still is in contact with a few back home. However she doesn't seem excited to be around them as much as when I offer to go out with her. She's always offers to cancel plans to stay in with me or go for a walk. I thought she might be depressed, but she is super cheerful even when she doesn't know I'm around.

Oga you are lucky.
Enjoy your wife as she is
Pray and thank God for the peace in your home.

GOFRONT:
Chaiii....Wait oo.

Na human being they Wrap like goods wen Cargo plane wan carry??

Ordinary 20K casket, His football club can't afford for him??

Na wao......No respect for the dead anymore....

Did you read according to Islamic rite.
Na Islamic way be that.

Casalindaa:
Why do people feel threatened by me?? I’m not controversial, I’m not dramatic I just pretty.

I like challenges.

Reach me on rickiedominic@yahoo.com

Be warned.
Don't fall in love

Smartchoiice:
The problem is that people tend to think Mercedes Benz makes only cars like Toyota.... They forget that Marco Polo luxurious buses, trucks which are die hard vehicles and second to none in reliability are also signature makes of Mercedes Benz.


Even Lexus was a pure plagiarism of the Mercedes Benz.

Yes some brands of Mercedes Benz has issues....but true the Toyota Camry muscle is plagued with a factory error of oil consumption that is incurable!! The Camry muscle melting dashboards, the Camry muscle independent acceleration without the input of the driver....

I can go on and on... The Toyota Corolla is no match for the Mercedes Benz W202 C klasse... In any form..the W202 C klasse wins ...
A. Fuel economy tie.
B. Thieves follow the Toyota Corolla
C. Parts replacement is waayyy cheaper on the Mercedes W202...

No, Toyota is not better than Mercedes, and anyone who claims that is delusional.

Finally the Mercedes Benz Maybach is something no Toyota/Lexus can ever compete with in triple lifetimes!!


Mercedes= iPhone
Toyota=Tecno/Infinix

End of discussion.

Who offend you?
Why you come bring Infinix join this conversation?
No cool man

Smartchoiice:
The problem is that people tend to think Mercedes Benz makes only cars like Toyota.... They forget that Marco Polo luxurious buses, trucks which are die hard vehicles and second to none in reliability are also signature makes of Mercedes Benz.


Even Lexus was a pure plagiarism of the Mercedes Benz.

Yes some brands of Mercedes Benz has issues....but true the Toyota Camry muscle is plagued with a factory error of oil consumption that is incurable!! The Camry muscle melting dashboards, the Camry muscle independent acceleration without the input of the driver....

I can go on and on... The Toyota Corolla is no match for the Mercedes Benz W202 C klasse... In any form..the W202 C klasse wins ...
A. Fuel economy tie.
B. Thieves follow the Toyota Corolla
C. Parts replacement is waayyy cheaper on the Mercedes W202...

No, Toyota is not better than Mercedes, and anyone who claims that is delusional.

Finally the Mercedes Benz Maybach is something no Toyota/Lexus can ever compete with in triple lifetimes!!


Mercedes= iPhone
Toyota=Tecno/Infinix

End of discussion.

Who offend you?
Why you come bring Infinix join this conversation?
Not cool man

mkoabiola:
Very long and beautiful write up.

Educative and worth reading.

But d writer fail to point out on what d vovt can do to avert future occurrence

He was just telling us about the bridge.
Maybe he knows that government don't care so he didn't bother to suggest to them

Vortex369:
Boko Haram members, if they truly repent and have zero intention of furthering their criminal profession can be encouraged by such Ministry, just as militants were rehabilitated. It worked for Niger Delta, so I see no reason it will not work for the weaponized-amaljiri North.

If Boko Haram can be defeated with Love since we can not defeat them in war, it is better. That way we dont keep getting defrauded by the Military Heads and their foreign arms-dealers counterparts who also supply arms to Boko Haram to create business opportunities.

Militants were aggrieved people who felt cheated on their resources.
Boko haram are people who are bigots and have no sense of reasoning and guided by religious beliefs to destroy people and western civilisation.

Note.
One is caused by hunger the other is by beliefs
There are two different things.
Love doesn't conquer all.

Awol1:
I'm beginning to suspect some political undertone in this guy's movements.

From sleeping on the floor for Buhari...

To registering for NIN and making videos of it...

And now this.

What is he up to?

He is proud of his root
Unlike our brothers that are in the country and abroad that can tear their passport at any given opportunity

zakim:
leader with poor vision...

No vision

Kpilo101:
Congratulations sire. You are role model to us. Cheers

Use the word me and not us
Dino is no fucking role model.
Cos he flaunts cars and climbs trees and jumps from moving van; that's what makes him your role model?

Dude, you need help and to understand that your approach to life is flawed and messed up.

Shalom

JasonScoolari:
I equally want to do same with my boss, but I am scared.... She lost her boyfriend recently to a ghastly motor accident, just wanna take her out tomorrow just to make her feel relaxed but...... Hmmmm!!!

Tell her.

iphi:
My boss posted on her WhatsApp story "Who will be my Val" and other series of messages concerning taking her out for Val.

I'm older than her and she respects me, deep down I really like her, I don't know if I should ask her playfully, we chat a lot. I tease her a little bit when she posts a picture that is not fine and we laugh over it.

I want to tell her if she is unsuccessful in her search for a date I can be her back up plan. I don't know if it's a good idea to tell her that. I need honest and matured opinions please.

Go ahead.
Just dont expect anything more if she finally agrees.

Okoroawusa:
These companies have shown readiness to set up diary farms

If you are correct.
Its a good thing.

hammerU:
[s][/s]


They are not just upgrading but building new Deep Seaport in the SS.



One in Bonny and the other in Warri, something GEJ could not do.
cc pazienza, lalasticlala

dingbang:
Just look at how sex has reduced this man go dust. Please if you wana die, die for something reasonable.

All die na die.
Sex isnt a bad way to go. Just death with olosho thats the problem according to society standard.

medTechworld:
okay..

i want to participate...

Are you not relationship coach and adviser? Havent you found love?
Or you want to use them as lab rat

coolitempa:
Says who? People have lived there for centuries without any problems I have been there with my guy many times. Issue is, who are these soldiers? Who sent them and where did they come from?

They are probably request not one politician that's trying to acquire the land

donbachi:
"GOD"...is the greatest physician...wen him wan form eve,na surgery him carry out and na blood from Adam em use form eve...make dem no dey deceive dem sef...how can I watch my child or wife die,cos my religion condemns blood transfusion...but will be shouting "blood of Jesus" everytime.

JW has passed a law that approves blood transfusion.
The parents don't know anything.
Sad, the child will grow to know his parents wanted him dead in name of religious belief

empirebosscrew:
Good day everybody. So I have lived with poliomelythis for more than two decades now. I have strived so much to achieve alot for myself because I never allowed my situation deter me from achieving my goals in life.

Everything has been going on smoothly: Education up to MSc level, a job, a car and things a man can acquire and say he has reached a level of comfort.

The one thing I'm yet to get is to be in a stable relationship. 99% of the girls I've dated never took me serious and we never lasted long. Some will even take advantage to chop my money and bail after a while. It got to a point I had a bitter negative stereotype thinking all women are mainly out there to exploit a man.

It wasnt until earlier this year when I met someone who changed the horoscope. Like she is so down to earth and actually loved me for me, without even looking at my paralysis. Things were going smoothly until she started becoming aggressive and emotional over little issues.

It took a while but she was able to open up to let me know how her family vehemently told her they dont want to see her with someone like me. They also threatened to disown her if she insisted on being with me.

Currently, we decided to stop seeing each other for the sake of peace to reign in her family. We do keep communication on a 100. We both love each other genuinely and we do not want us to split just like that.

What do we do?

Can you marry a disabled person or let your child marry one?