₦airaland Forum

Shegunsmart:
I thought Pius Obudu backed off though. What's happening in Edo Politics?

Election against or for God fatherism

dangotesmummy:
Even an old woman is not safe


Whether infant girl

Teenage girl

Religious girl

Home girl


They'll be lurking around to rape or harvest their parts....tufiaaaa African man has lost his dignity

No be today e loose e dignity.

Na same man e fore father's dey sell e fellow man as slave na

robosky02:
convert £10.5million to dollar


You have..

13,110,090.00 United States Dollar


Convert to naira


You have


5,080,159,875.00 Nigerian Naira

That's not his pay.

£6m is for the Chinese club then the rest is used for his weekly wages of 130k.

TONYE001:
Well, I imagine that this is just for a while... I expect this to be short-lived. The governor understands the economic situation of the masses. You'd be amazed that lots of folks are currently unable to afford transportation, food and shelter.

This isn't new, whether in Nigeria or elsewhere. Many years ago, as a secondary school student, I enjoyed the services of free school buses and trains. In the developed world, there are government-managed charities for the poor, the old, etc.

I understand that the Nigerian situation is unique.. I also know that if our resources were well managed, government could run and maintain charities even in larger scales.

Let's focus on long term solution than short term fix.

TONYE001:
Really doesn't matter. A good thing should be applauded...this would only encourage more good.

It does matter.
We can't run a welfare state when we are short of funds to fund our national budget

All this awoof this clueless governors and government officials are give the citizens is money for future generations.

Does it make sense to borrow money to do awoof?

TONYE001:
A very beautiful gesture!

The governor should be applauded on this one.

Who pays for this free service?

ogododo:
https://www.independent.ng/nigeria-yet-to-reach-peak-of-covid-19-cases-ptf/

And they are opening the economy.

They sha wan reach that peak at all cost

enitey:
Maybe

Which one be maybe now?

Did God create wealth on for the unbelievers.

After all he mad Solomon the richest in the world.

GOFRONT:
Where is Adesua??.....Come and see Regina of just yesterday. She is now heavily pregnant....

But I hope this Regina give us a boychild.......But not an Atutu Poyoyo like her Husband sha!!!

Leave adesua alone..

Focus on your life

TheRealProphet:
People dey ohh

E weak me

Which kind advise be that one..
Make she turn ashawo .

DominusPrime:
You cant just tell us this and expect us to know what you are to do. A lot must have happened for this to occur. Maybe you were rude to him, maybe he didn't like you, maybe he's a wicked man, maybe you are the wicked one etc...even if you tell your side, we still have to hear from both sides

Maybe it's a girl child, maybe e no like your family, maybe him and his son dey fight..
Alot of maybe

Make she talk complete story

afroxyz:
The black man proved himself while others were still scavenging. Its just that you refused to read

the last 3 centuries, what has the black man done collectively as a race.

We have decided to submit our will to the white/Asians while we kill and loot ourselves.

Which major human advancement has the black race pioneer?

Made4naijalove:
It’s high time that black voices got louder than the sirens since the low self esteem exhibited by the white supremacists can’t be curtailed

Racism will always be here.
Until the black man proves himself as a race.
The white. Asians will see us as a lower race.

Meaning black countries have to unite to develop and not continue this cycle of poverty they pass to generations.

charlesELIKIBA:
HELLP NAIRALANDERS

I will be brief with my writeup as much as possible so I can explain my connection with this lady.

My single mom gave me away at a tender age of 5 to her elder brother (financial difficulties i assume), this ''aunty'' happens to be the wife of this my mother's elder brother.

Aready they had 4 children, all boys.

The home was a tough upbringing with strict rules about socialising, we weren't allowed to bring friends home or go to friends places. It was pretty strict and my uncles wife i would say was the mastermind of it all, she was strict and mean maybe because it was a house of 5 boys.

Growing up in my uncles home, I wouldn't say I was treated diffrently because I always got matching outfits with my uncle's children during christmas, gifts during christmas, same portions of food BUT IN ALL I was always scared of doing somethings my cousins would do. I didn't feel free growing up, i felt diffrent from them. In some cases they attended the best schools than I (but I never attended a govt. school or a bad private school).

It's like if their school fees was 1m naira per term, mine would be 150,000 per term.

I lived with them until I was about 16 or 17 and one morning I woke up and they said i was going back to my mother at 15 or 16 like any kid, you would start to develop conscience (sense), maybe breaking some rules and being stubborn just like their own kids. This I assume was why they wanted to send me back to my mother OTHERWISE I CAN THINK OF NOTHING ELSE I DID WRONG OR DIFFRENT.

In all of these years living with them, I saw my mother as a strange person. I had no motherly connection with her. My anty to me, was my real mother. Whenever we went visiting my mother in very rare occasions, it was always awkward.

Well long story short, I found myself back in my mother's arms, to a new environment i knew nothing about and starting to learn to live with a woman called my mother. I was naive, had no choice but to accept realities on ground. Do you know that feeling of living in a pouch house and wake up next morning in a 1 room surrounded by thick bushes. Yes that was the change.

I was enrolled into a school, my uncle was repeatedly forced to send/ pay my schoolfees until i was in ss3 and i called him to inform him about waec enrolment. He told me on the phone ''all the exams i have been writing, how many have i passed'' and that was it. He never sent a dime anymore meanwhile at this point his children, my cousins were already miles ahead of me suddenly in education. When i left the home, the eldest son went to canada to school, the second who is my agemate was already in a private uni in Nigeria and the 3rd who i am senior to with a year is preparing to go to ukraine for school and years later the last born who i spoonfed and chewed meat for attended uni in Ghana.

Well long story short, since my uncle had failed me. My mother said it was time i go to my father. My father was old retired pensioner. My mother took me to him, as expected awkward encounter. I have never known this man, no memory of him. Well he said he would find my enrolment money and he did, he later passed on a year or two later.

I enrolled waec and pased in one sitting, thanks to miracle centres.

PS: i must say i was never an intelligent student. i wasn't even average but i wasn't the poorest and neither of my uncles children were better. We were all poor educationally.

Long story short another uncle sprang up and paid for my university diploma which i later acquiried.


YEARS LATER my uncle and aunty decided to move back to our home town, please note the home my mother stayed in was this my uncles home. It was the boy quarters, the main house was not even in sight as at the time i was returned to my mother. We did series of bush clearing and snakes killing lol. well my uncle returned home town after retirement and setup the main structure ( a 5 bed room duplex) and thats were they lived while i and my mother lived in the BQ.

I WAS very angry with myself that i happened to still live with them AGAIN, i needed to get out of their sight, my condition was bad. i was a mere teacher to some rickety school. In all of this my uncle's wife always ensured she knew what i was upto and she derived satisfaction when she knew i wasn't doing better than her kids who were all abroad. i turned to their errand boy again after years of neglect. i was very angry with myself and needed to save to get out of the house.

Well i did manage to save up and leave the house and i promised myself never to return to that house. i felt neglected, i felt they sent me away because the goodthings were coming and they couldn't bear to see me share in them because to me they were my parents.


YEARS LATER, my aunty was sick with cancer
please note before i left the home, my uncle and aunty always sent me to travel journeys to get them medicines from a monastry. i attended such trips severally and ran other seperate errands but i never dared to drive their car talkless ask for the key. i always washed their car in the mornings, i would never also dare to see myself in the living room of the duplex with the remote in hand. when they moved back to the hometown, that fear in my childhood started again but this time i was mature enough to know i would never m amount to anything in life if i continued this again hence the reason i needed to move out.

So my aunty sickness grew worse, the husband flew her to india and back but the sickness grew worse. in all of this cancer times i never went back to the house to see her. I only heard of her conditions from my siblings (my half siblings, my mother was married to 3 men in diffrent years and she had only me for my father, another for another man and 3 for another man, i was the lastborn of all).

Then my aunty died. The day she died, i saw her in my dreams and she was crying saying ''she forgave me''. A day or two later i went to my sisters store and she told me of my aunty death, i went to my rented apartment and cried profusely. i later summouned courage and maybe sympathy and went to my uncles house and i cried before my uncle and told him to forgive me too for all abandoning them all this while.

NOW ABOUT MY AUNTY SAYING SHE FORGAVE ME IN THE DREAM: i did not do her any wrong neither did i wish death on her. All her life her greatest fear was maybe i would become greater than her children. She loved these comparisms, i was never wicked to her, i never cursed her, i was never rude to her unless i some instances when she sends me errands and i tell her i have other things to do.... Otherwise i never was negative to her instead she is the one nobody likes, by nobody i mean my uncles family. Nobody talks good of her, they say she controls my uncle and also squandered his money but in all of this i never spoke of my experiences living with them and somethings they did wrong that made me feel diffrent, i did not even tell you guys neither have i told my mother ever. i don't see them as anything that would stop my growth in life. i hate to talk about the bad in people.

WELL BACK TO REASON THE TOPIC WAS CREATED, why do i keep repeatedly seeing her in my dreams even after her death and its always on a negative role. its either in the dream she still plays mother, or she is gossip about me in the dream or she is against me in the dream, just think of anything negative in a dream and she will be the mastermind. This is really beginning to worry me. Why is she still attached to me in the dreams?

After she died, her husband, my uncle started his own sickness but has been sick for years now, he is bed ridden. The family has repeatedly asked him if there is anything he and his late wife did in the past to amount such sickness were he is living in pain but refused to die and he would not answer. One time they said, he said ''it was out of ignorance'' and thats all he ever said about anything.

It will also be good to note that of all my 4 cousin brothers and i today, i am the most successful by far.

i just finished my house (a 3bedroom, 2 bedroom, 1 bedrrom bungalow)
january this year i bought my 3rd car.
i travel round the world effortlessly.
YES I DID TURN OUT FAR BETTER THAN MY COUSINS WHO YOU KNOW HAD THE BEST EDUCATION.

I don't want to talk of their conditions, lets concentrate on me.


So this is my much writeup... I had to skip many things so you can bear to read but please be free to ask me questions.

Why do I repeatedly see my aunty in my dreams.... just before this writeup, i had just woken up from another dream she was present in, she was whispering to the ears of a very good friend of mine and then the friends turned to me and was like '' ah cahrles na so you be''?...and i was angry and was like '' how can you believe something someone you just met told you against i your best friends word'' and minutes later dream ended and i woke up.

At this point i am thinking of going spiritual to know why this is happening but this will be a first in my life. There are two popular places i have never being in my life until lately last year... One is a shrine and the other is a police station. Last year was my first time to be in a police station.
I was driving my unregistered car. That was my offence.

Advice you reach out to your cousins.

Try to help them. Also reach out to your uncle.

Above all pray to whichever God you believe in..

CokeBar:
Go and do medical check up first before you tell him "thank you"

Thank me later.

Please explain. I don't understand

Necklace54:
Are the inmates innocent because I don't understand the motive behind such a gesture

2023

This is good.

Now States should fight for autonomy from from FG and decentralise the government.

mignone:
Don't mind Nigerians, we're never ourselves. Na so so copy copy.

They don't know their problem

RapistOnBail:


Sell rashford and recoup

It's pogba they should sell

TheEffective:


Those who are focused in life use that one year to acquire certifications(not NIM) that will define their advantage once they enter the job market but you are busy knacking away a valuable and most important phase of your life.

If you understand the competition for graduate jobs and the complexity of hiring, you would enter the NYSC gate like one going to battle.

By the time I was leaving NYSC, I had acquired three (3) badass certifications in my field. I came out with my head up high while my guys had their tails stuck between their butts. Two months after, three good jobs came calling. Empowerment is greater than 'knacking'.

No be who 1st start race dey finish 1st.

mignone:
She probably went to work in a casual wear&had to change for a prg without thinking that the camera would capture it all to dt extent.

She wants to be comfortable joor.

Wetin concern una.


If celebrity wear the combo it will trend.

Millenniumlady:
Nigerian men think dating white women is an accomplishment.......Mtcheeeeeeeeeeeeeeew




Modify

It will end in tears premium one for that matter.

Can you marry or date a white man?

Peace081:
Vanity upond Vanity

Make that kind money 1st before you talk say Na vanity

SIR0:
Noted
You're justified

I hope the FG would do the needful without any delay

When fg increase price, they don't hesitate to increase price pump price oh

Just a terrible system

seunlayi:
Quite a norm here, we call it "use and dump"

Pdp should shut up.

Is almajiri our problem in Nigeria

FOLLYVENTURES:
Ehem!! Ladies and Gents. What can I say, we Live in really uncertain and unprecedented times.

Stay Tuned as more companies Begin to Downsize in the coming Days/Weeks. As usual contract staffs are usually the Scape goats.



#THEREVOLUTIONWILLNOTBETELEVISED!

It's expected.
They merged with diamond.

If you check it, most of the branches I know there were formal diamond branches.

Chosen1984:
The Gospel has Gone Allover the Earth



Don't DECIEVE yourself! There is no Continent or Nation that does not have Gospel of JESUS CHRIST!

Na you carry am there bah

vikkeee:
As if the federal govt will even listen

They can't even..
Things they have sold to themselves.

ProfDview1:
There is this lady I like so much, even my friends know that I like her so much and will love to spend the rest of my life with her.

One day, I saw her with my friend and I later asked her why she is so close to my friend. She said they are dating each other, that she cannot marry me simply because I am tailor.

My friend is a yahoo boy, he doesn't have any work. The only way he eats is via internet scam. To be honest I was so pained, moreover she is not the only lady to have done this to me. Have met several ladies that told me that they can't marry a tailor and they end up dating yahoo Boys for my street.

They always tell me to leave my tailoring job and go hustle like my frnds to make cool money.

Guys, I am tired.. Should I leave the tailoring job and join my friends to do the yahoo stuff?

Girls keep rejecting me up and down and I am fed up.

Pls advise me

You repeated that he has no skill & cheats for a living & you considering it..

So if a girl tells you to join your friends that do rituals you will consider it?

Firstly, you need to change your circle if friends.
Gets friends that will improve your skill & market you.

The as for those girls, they can't add value to your life. Forget them.

NaijaOlosho:
Buhari relaxing lockdown in Abuja, Lagos and Ogun is a stupid decision.

It shows that the FG don't know what Virus we are dealing with.

I was thinking he is going share food and cash to Nigerians while lockdown continues

Nigeria will regret ever having a foolish dictator

It just showed that they never had a plan before the lock down.

They just copy oyinbo. There is no solution. What he is saying now is lagosians, you are on your own.

JAOS:
they are saying as if they would have done better,the president is doing a nice job,appreciate his efforts and stop complaining

What effort?

Please tell me?

Prince081:
Abaribe stands out. His only issue is that he has refused to be part of the rubber stamp, Oyes singers. We need more people with sound minds like him in the senate if this country must make progress.

Now he has sound mind?

Was he not there when GEJ & his people were milking nigeria? He was mute cos he was enjoying it.