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PropertiesRe: I Want To Buy A Land In Abuja But A Friend Is Advising I Wait After Election by sogud(m):
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Like i said before, call me if u truly u want to b a land/house owner

An estate land/house is secured dan buying an individual land...if u understand dis u wil know wat am talking about,...... fraud re everywhere.. an estate cnt fraud one pesin n sell it to anoda pesin witout sueing dem because u knw der location
PropertiesRe: I Want To Buy A Land In Abuja But A Friend Is Advising I Wait After Election by sogud(m):
Presently my company HomeLight Properties Limited in Abuja is doing promo on der estate land in Abuja whch people are rushing it.....I would love u to b a land owner before d land finish.

Is located at d bck of University of Abuja teaching hospital gwagwalada, good location, good access road n many more benefit... Prospect are rushing it because of its location.
The promo is still on..d estate land as certificate of occupancy dat covers all d building in d estate. It a genuine land

Wen u purchase urs, u wil b giving
Power of Anthony,
Letter offer
Building plan
Survey plan.

We ve branches in other states, headquarter at port Harcourt
U cn also buy our estate land/house n resell it at higher price if u want

If u re interested and want to b a land/house owner in abuja, call me let talk more on 08063588264, 09058573055
FamilyRe: Cheating With Pride. Wife Explains Why by sogud(m): 1:54pm On Nov 19, 2022
Chinny024:
Cheating is a sin,having a child along is another greater sin...

If you must cheat,cheat with sense...

Shalom!!!
Nothing like cheat wit sense..... cheating is stupidity
FamilyRe: Cheating With Pride. Wife Explains Why by sogud(m): 1:52pm On Nov 19, 2022
Madam u cheat n u re proud of it
On judgement day, tel God u cheat wit reason.....hell is nt far from u.....am ashamed of u.....u re a disappointment to married women

U commit an adultery whch is against God....wer is it written in d Bible dat married people should cheat wit reason
RomanceRe: Is Your Girlfriend Really Your Girlfriend? by sogud(m): 12:09pm On Oct 12, 2022
Wealthbrain22:
Have you people ever asked yourself that question sincerely? What’s so special about you that makes you think that your so called babe is dating just you? Is it your money or car or house or looks? Why are you special? You think you’re the only one with whatever qualities you think you have ? Bro trust me , 95% of you are in a relationship with yourself or best case scenario you are sharing one girl I'm with at least 5 other guys, take it or leave it.

As for me I have made my peace with this, I don’t expect loyalty anymore, I know that the only time I’m truly with someone is when I make it official between God and man and we get married, till then let the games begin. I never mean what I say to any girl, I don’t love anyone, I’m just flowing with the tides, and I know any girl talking to me now is definitely doing the same and it’s cool.

It’s when you start deceiving yourself that you have found your dream girl and she loves you, that’s when you become the clown. Whatever you have, there are 6 billion guys out there with more, so if that girl isn’t wearing your ring, bro you’re dating yourself or in a polygamous relationship with a girl who has other boyfriends too. Many of you won’t agree but deep down you know your babe has other babes.
I feel ur pain brother........is like many girls have masaka ur heart in brutal way....sorry bro

Stop giving wrong advise because of ur unhealed wound.......learn from dos dat re in gud, lasting n trust worthy relationship n ask dem qtion

Dnt bring ur broken heart here to spoil girl's name....ur research % is totally wrong
FamilyRe: This Is My Problem With My Wife by sogud(m): 9:38am On Oct 04, 2022
Rtk5:
I've been married to my wife for almost five years now. My major problem with her is that she lacks gratitude, she doesn't have the spirit and character of appreciation.

Infact even if you buy a private jet for her, she will be happy at the moment but after 5mins she will forget that you've ever done anything for her and if you don't do things for her, you will see her complaining more than the way Nigerians are complaining under buhari.

This her attitude is really becoming unbearable.
Didn't u see it wen dating each other.. y complaining nw....... medicine after death

Oga carry ur cross n accept it like dat
FamilyRe: Parents Who Share The Same Room With Their Kids, Do You Feel Okay? by sogud(m): 11:43am On Sep 30, 2022
ObamaMessi:
Do you think it's ok for parents to share same
bed room with their kids?

I was shocked to my bone marrow when a little girl of eight was telling me of what happens between her parents at night simply because she share the same room with them.

I can't explain but I can assure parents that sharing the same bed room with their kids is not too good.
I


Wat is d essence of ur post wen u did nt say anything....re u ok
FamilyRe: Complex Marital Issue : Your Thoughts On This Please. by sogud(m): 4:07pm On Sep 29, 2022
[quote author=Meteoritey post=117108306]Due to work, my husband and I live in states, and my husband lives in Canada. 3 months ago we had some serious skirmishes during our phone conversation and in the heat of the argument, I told him that he does not appreciate the fact that I am raising the kids and doing everything alone.


To my disappointment, he told me that he is overworked more than me. This really angered me. This got me angry and I hung up. Although He tried to reach me for 4 days, and also sent me some messages, I cut him off without replying, about 9 weeks later, I sent him just a message on an unrelated issue, he ignored my message, after another month, I sent him another message, he also ignored. It has been 3 months now we have not spoken to each other.

Recently my brother had a baby, and he only called once to congratulate them. Moreover my younger sister got admission to a university to study the same course that my husband studied, so naturally, my sister contacted him. My sister said he advised her on what to do and what she should expect. This was about 2 months ago. I personally did not inform him about my sister’s admission myself.

After about one month, my sister also called him for more information, but he has not been picking my sister’s call.

My sisters fiancee also called him to inform him about their upcoming marriage (my same sister that got the admission) he only spoke with my sister and her fiancee once, he stopped further communication with them on both issues of admission and marriage, and that he only spoke with them the first time about the admission and the marriage out of the respect he has for them.

He gave my sister the excuse that it was not proper, for him to speak with her fiancee' because he said that I have not told him anything about the marriage, therefore he can not relate further with my sister as per the marriage. And that it was out of respect that he even called my sister initially to advice her.

What are you thoughts and opinion please.

Madam u really bleeped up, see wat anger cause

Both of u re passing alot wit individual work, is not easy......I will blame u for not telling ur husband abt d ur sister marriage.......women re the builder of home, if ur marriage scatter, u re d cause.

Continue calling ur husband to apologise before he will end up looking at anoda woman, such attitude can mek a man cheat
Pls act fast

Remember both of u re not staying in d same place
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Job Seeking by sogud(op): 9:59am On Sep 28, 2022
[quote author=sunnymighty post=117062246]Op what do you mean by wife will soon be pregnant? Incase she hasn't, why not focus on getting a job first.[/qiuote]

Am still searching for job......house rent will expire next month, how will i pay, food and d rest bill nko

I jst need someone that can help me urgently to secure a job.....I have alot of bills to pay dis year n no money on me
Jobs/VacanciesJob Seeking by sogud(op): 6:52pm On Sep 27, 2022
I will go straight to the point.....I was sacked two months to my wedding, even d salary am collecting is small, because transport alone finish 80% of d salary, bt because of d situation in dis country, no job, nothing nothing i decide to continue doing d job

I was shocked wen i was served sacked letter jst like dat, dis same management knew my wedding is in two months times....to cut d whole story short, God did it n d wedding hold wit the support of pipo

My challenge nw is dat no job yet, i need to take care of my wife, house rent will expire nxt month, Oda bills to pay dis year....wife will soon b pregnant whch i need to register her for anti-natal..... witout job n money how can i achieve all dis

Pls if any one can help me secure a job i will b d happiest person on Earth......am desperately in need of job right now

I base in Abuja
I studied public Administration
Dis my number 08063588264 ( also WhatsApp number)

Pls help a brother wit job so dat i can tek care of my family before depression finish me
RomanceRe: Uber And Bolt Drivers Are Harassing My Girlfriend by sogud(m): 8:49pm On Oct 08, 2021
[quote author=shortgun post=106555775]Can I report Uber and Bolt Drivers?
They keep harassing my girlfriend whenever I book a ride for her to come to my place, meet up with me or go back to her house.

I am busy most times and don't have the time to pick her up or drop her off.

She keep telling me of the harrasments and how she will prefer I pick her than book a ride.
I always overlook her complaints until yesterday a bolt driver who told her he's married came back to her house to look for her after a ride yesterday!!

The randy man picked her from my house, I spoke with him on the phone and she told him she's in a relationship but he still carry his poverty stricken blokkos to my girls house?
I tot guys that do uber are trying to make ends meet? I always tip them cos I tot they need help but this have shown me that they are just a bunch of unserious people.[/quote

Mr man, not all cap drivers re d same, dnt use one bad egg to jugde d remaining eggs, if u want to ctnue tipping cap drivers because u feel dey nid help financially ctnue doin so because of ur gud hrt..
Christianity EtcRe: I'm Seriously Sick & I'm Fasting. If I Use Drug, Is The Fasting Still Relevant? by sogud(m): 9:36am On Jun 13, 2021
Igbojihadist:
Good morning Nairalanders.

Please I need advice on this. I was given fasting and praying which is supposed to end today but yesterday night i was not feeling alright then I visited a doctor who gave me some medications and placed me on drug, I'm suppose to use some this morning but I'm afraid I might spoil my fasting.

PLS I NEED ADVICE

Una happy sunday
If u die, u n God will settle ur case......u wil tel God weda he advice u or put it in his book dat, whosever dat is sick should fast or cn fast......stop trying God power n miracle if u re sick n u stil embark on fasting.....If anything happen to u, na u do urself

U re sick n u re fasting..dnt b ignorant of sumtins.......God cannot b fooled
Jobs/VacanciesRe: I Need A Job Badly by sogud(op):
CsRockefeller:
You are too parochial.
Is nt easy d way u tink ..... I understand wat u re saying ma, bt if u re nt in some one shoe, u wont understand..... getting a job is nt easy, starting a business requires capital.

Hw re u goin to handle such situation, borrow me to start a business which u dnt ve anybody to borrow u or go to d bank to borrow money without collateral or sumtin to show to guarantee dem dat if u fail to pay bck wit interest dey sell such tin n recover der money.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: I Need A Job Badly by sogud(op): 9:48pm On Jun 11, 2021
Divoc19:
Your helper is on the way. But, why not create a job for yourself first? That will help you to meet more people and get the real job you search for.
Ok......to start or create any job requires money, whch i dnt ve start
Jobs/VacanciesI Need A Job Badly by sogud(op): 3:39pm On Jun 11, 2021
Am Gabriel by name , a graduate of ksu, were i studied Public Administration.
Am desperately in need of a job badly. I promise to put in my best. With the knowledge have acquired, i can handle and any administrative job and manage any organization to the maximum satisfaction. Pls contact me if u can help me, i need money to start up my wedding plans, without job money can't come out.....pls i need help.

Number 08063588264
FamilyRe: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by sogud(m): 9:08am On May 28, 2021
Jeferious:
Oga, na your opinion be that. For you, a lady's mind is similar to a child's. For me, a lady of 18 years and above is already aware of what's good and bad. She is capable of making responsible actions. It is this mentality that informs my potential response. I hate when people justify bad behaviour with silly excuses, as that is the perfect way to embolden a "terrorist".
Oga......wat am telling u is dat, cheating on ur wife because she's cheating on u won't solve anything, two wrong cannot make a right, u re d man, paying her bck by cheating on her also is immature n irresponsible...stand on ur ground,.give her conditions, if she cnt abide by ur rules n regulations is better u send her packing to her family or meet d pesin she's cheating on wit, dan for u to cheat also, claiming u re paying her bck............word of advice
FamilyRe: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by sogud(m): 3:16pm On May 27, 2021
Jeferious:
If you see as I just dey look you as you dey talk your "choose between husband or bestie" demand. Common husband grin grin Is he the only husband in the world? Abi he's the first husband ever? What is special about his own "husbandry"?

On a serious note, some people don't understand the gravity of their actions till you mirror them, or even get better than them in the act. If I'm in op's shoes, maka Chukwu, I no go complain even one thing. I'll even be acting as if I'm enjoying their conversations. But trust an educated Aba boy. I will definitely have my own bestie, who I will be inviting occasionally to the house. By then I've stop eating the silly girl's food, so that she will not poison me. Sex sessions...until further notice. Even if she initiates, I won't do it still. If she starts her own, no problem. I will go a notch higher. What I shaa know is that my madness must be higher than hers, whatever the case may be. grin grin. The worst that can happen is that the home will scatter, and I'm already comfortable with the idea. I no kukuma fancy marriage like that.

The point is this: TERRORISE THE TERRORIST without lifting a finger on her or saying a word. You will see the same "22 year old" girl everyone is regarding here as immature for marriage develop "Aristotelian" wisdom by herself. If person dey craze, I suppose craze pass am. No time for akukxo uwa
Bro i disagree with ur decision, ur idea is wrong, if u take such step, den u re nt acting mature.... bro, it ur house, she's ur wife.....if ur wife cheat on u or she's cheating on u, dat dos nt min u shld do d same.....act mature n fix ur home.... cheating on her also won't solve anything, rather ur home wil ctnue to scatter.

Bro act like a man, sit ur wife down n put sense in her head.......let her know ur real mind
FamilyRe: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by sogud(m): 8:40am On May 26, 2021
Nacoss25:
Good morning everyone. I am a young man newly married to a 22 yr old lady. our marriage is just 2 months old.

Before I met my wife in 2019, she has this male best friend who they have been best friends even before I met her though my wife is a social and jovial person always cheerful, she easily makes friends wherever she finds herself that's her nature and kind of personality.

Right now her friendship with that her male friend is what am becoming uncomfortable with right now because of the so much attention she is lavishing on him. I have complained to her that I am not comfortable with her closeness with the guy but she is seeing it that am trying to cut her off from her friends.

One interesting part of the whole thing is, since we got married the guy has been trying to distance himself from her a bit knowing too well that she is now married but my wife is even the one doing all she could to keep the friendship going the way it has been going. 2 days ago I and my wife were together she called the guy complaining bitterly how he has been distancing himself from her.

My people what do you think I should do to cut down that connection or will the friendship grow week by the day on it's own? My wife is refusing to understand that in marriage there are things u will have to let go.
Tel ur wife to choose btw her male bestie or her marriage.... simple question

because sum women re too stubborn to listen to der husband, give ur husband wat he want n let d marriage b in peace, except if der is sumtin btw she n dat bestie......der is no oda n better bestie dan ur partner, oda bestie cn go bt ur life time partner is ur better bestie...... caution ur wife n ask her to choose btw d male bestie or u... simple
RomanceRe: My Friend Is Blinded By Money And Gadgets In Her Relationship. by sogud(m): 3:18pm On May 04, 2021
Preciousjewel01:
There's a friend of mine who doesn't get enough attention from her man in her relationship. she's always complained but he gives her same excuse "he's hustling". This time things went outta hand,after series of complaint he gave her the most savage replies. Telling her " oh,you're an ingrate, you're mad, since its attention you want, you have lots of wooers, you can chat them up when I'm offline to keep you company, go and look for your Mr perfect". It ended that way, the guy asked for a break up. My friend came running to me explaining that she only complained that he's not giving her attention. But yet its break up he wants. I told my girl,this guy doesn't deserve you. or are you blind? There are things a guy can and cannot say to his loved ones even when angry. Forget the guy.

my girl didn't listen. she came to me again saying they've settled. That he's apologised.
how did he apologise? by saying "oya,I'll send you money in the morning" pls isn't that insult? But no,my girl was smiling when she received the msg. she also said, he wants to get her a new phone that's why he's been acting that way. Tried explaining to her that self respect isn't pride. Did I advice my friend wrongly ? she sees me like I hate her rn.
Oga mind ur bizness......do u tink is easy to fall inlove deeply wit sum1 n jst leave d pesin jst like dat because of statement..mayb d bf is frustrated dat y he utter dos statement bt he still love her.

ur advise to her is totally wrong.....no marriage or rltship is perfect, likewise nobody is perfect..

please learn to advise pipo rightly n nt just tell d person to quit d rltship quickly
RomanceRe: I Always Frown & Squeeze My Face When I Go Out by sogud(m): 12:13pm On Apr 01, 2021
Cerebrocrust:
How Do I Overcome This As A Lady?

I'm a newbie here but, I'll like to drop this issue as it is getting me quite depressed lately.

I'm quite cute (average maybe) and I'm quite bashful as well. Whenever I go for an event, I developed this habit of frowning or squeezing my face to the dislike of the audience. On several occasions, I've seen guys pull over their car while trying to call my attention and I just snub or ignore them.

Even at a wedding party, most of the grooms men would want to approach me but, will back down really scared cause of my serious look.

I really don't know what to do as this is taking a toll on me.

Is there any possible way wherein I can practice to get my smiley face back or perhaps overcome this issue??

Please help.
call me or chat me on Whatsapp let discuss n find solution to it 08063588264
Christianity EtcRe: If Your Wife Sucks Your Manhood, You Are Gay - Apostle Sakordie by sogud(m): 6:57pm On Mar 12, 2021
Uteghe:
https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.ghbase.com/video-any-man-who-allows-his-wife-suck-his-joystick-is-an-automatic-gay-apostle-sarkodie/%3famp
u re talking nonsense...,ur wife own ur body, she cn do anything wit it...God sopot husband n wife should ve sex n do anything wit each oda, as long as u re nt suckin anoda man's dick Whch is fornication.

oga fake pastor please � stop misquoting d Bible
fake pastors every wer.....Kum n stop my wife frm suckin my dick n me sucking her pussy too.
RomanceRe: I Said No To My Girlfriend For The First Time And She Feels Like Dying by sogud(m): 8:43pm On Mar 02, 2021
Henrymorre:
I will try to make this story very short.

So I've always loved my babe, buy her stuffs, gives her money, takes her out, etc. So tomorrow is her birthday, and she has a very bad hair. We where talking over on phone yesterday, and she asked me to send her money to make her hair, plus she also said she doesn't have money to do her bday, and wants me to help her on it. Well, I wanted to help her do her bday shaa, just to make her happy, but I can't carry all the responsibilities alone, so I said no to her getting money to do her hair. I told her to make her hair by herself or wear a wig, since I will be ,

Paying for hotel
Buying the cakes
Buying the drinks
Buying the meat
Calling DJ to play song for her and her friends
Plus giving her a gift..

She started acting all up, that she will do the bday with her friends that she doesn't need me in it anymore, that her friend will make her hair for free blah blah, and she will sleep over at her friends place. Etc

So guys the question, is this lady really a wife material? Or someone who is just there to eat money and go?

Did I over react?
bro bro bro.....hw many times did i call u
ur babe is zero wife material.....wit d hardship in dis country, she stil want u to send her money to do her hair after u ve listed many tins u wil do for her .....if truely she's nt after ur money n a gud wife material, she wil advise u to save ur money for better tins or just take her out simple....I bet u if u marry her, b ready to buy anything she demand...her kind of type wil like competition btw her frnds to show wo spend pass.....bro wise up
FoodRe: As There Is No Meat In The Market, We Saw An Alternative by sogud(m): 8:37pm On Mar 02, 2021
Omoluabi1stborn:
As we didn't see meat in the market, I kukuma go and buy chicken.
We had to line up to buy chicken as there were many people on queue.


Date is there for confirmation.

Chicken the new bride in town.
Congratulations to South West Farmers.
Mynd44, order for yours cool
so y telling me.......is chicken not stil meat.

u said no meat bt u bought chicken, is chicken nt stil meat.
nxt time say , no beef(cow) meat in d market so u bought chicken meat..
RomanceRe: It's Not Easy Picking One Woman To Settle With. by sogud(m): 8:32pm On Mar 02, 2021
needanswer:
You are right, nobody is including myself but I am not asking for too much. Just dont be boring.

As per the job, I dont have one to link you up with. But you can do high risk investments, all those 50% return on investment type, just pick one that will pay you and if you are wise about it , you make millions in a few months. Good luck.
tnx alot.......I knw of many 50% return investment
bro .....d issue is dat , i dnt even ve d money to invest on it , dat y i nid job to gather money n do business also..if ve d money i would ve invest in such investment, i know of genuine ones.

my situation is notin to talk abt...painful story. I only depend on God to send a destiny helper to me dat wil transform n change my life
RomanceRe: It's Not Easy Picking One Woman To Settle With. by sogud(m): 9:34am On Mar 02, 2021
needanswer:
Yeah, its hard o. All girls are the same to me (when I say all girls, I only mean gorgeous girls)

But beauty aside, most girls are the same. They are just in different packages but once I look past the beauty and into the person I get discouraged...nothing makes her special than the last or the next even my current girl.

Only one girl ever stood out, beautiful, emotional intelligent, charismatic, funny, homely, ****** and she was smart about alot of things, we both Learnt new stuffs talking with each other, things most girls normally dont like. She is a big GOT and Kdrama fan and because of her I looked into Korean movies and culture even wrote two novels based on kdrama that I published. But she could kill if she got angry, very violent. she spoilt my stuffs, na there matter spoil with her anger. If she had stayed maybe we would have killed each other, but if she wasn't violent she was a perfect fit. She has her own money (last born for that matter) and her family are well to do like mine, it would have been perfect.

I see my friends get married almost monthly but truth is their babes seem shallow to me, yes they are beautiful like mine but shallow. Me I cant cope o, after 1 months I will be bored of the entire marriage, if not for boredom I for dey with my babe and not here o grin

Guys how did you select your partner?

Me I am thinking this marriage is not for all o.
since u re nt ready n tink marriage is nt important to u.... will u give me money to do my marriage or connect me with sum1 dat can give me job so dat i cn gather money for my wedding.

dey re gud girls out der, nobody is perfect
CareerWealth Acquisition by sogud(op): 10:46am On Feb 13, 2021
Why is it dat it only nollywood actress dat re buying cars n build houses anyhw....wat abt d actors
it is dat actress collect more pay dan d actors, because i dnt understand nollywood actress again , buying cars n building Houses anyhw while d actors hadly buy cars n build houses ..........wat re d possible secret concerning our nollywood actress dat buys cars n build houses anyhw
BusinessWe Offer The Best by sogud(op): 10:54pm On Feb 12, 2021
Cheap and affordable wit best designs
FamilyRe: My Wife Has Been Wearing My Shirts by sogud(m): 8:53am On Feb 10, 2021
vybzkartel:
My wife has been wearing my shirts and I hate it it
I have warned her but she is not putting a stop
How do I stop her?
is she nt ur wife.....if ur wife dint wear ur shirt, wo wil.

u re a yeye husband
stupid qtion
PoliticsRe: Abubakar Malami: Criticise Buhari Again And Be Crucified - Islamic Cleric by sogud(m): 12:06pm On Jan 16, 2021
deantimes:
http://saharareporters.com/2021/01/15/sokoto-cleric-kukah-challenge-nigerian-government-and-we-will-crucify-you
he must b insane ,....kuka shld apologize to d entire Muslim for wat....our government is bad n bais .... nepotism every wer, if der religion criticize saying d truth, our religion gives us d right to freedom of speech if tins re nt right.


Boko Haram, bandit n shekao dat is Killin pipo nko, wat did d Muslim cleric do abt it... because a Christian man says his mind by telling d truth, dey re threatening him... hypocrisy dey worry una.
RomanceRe: Marriage by sogud(op): 9:23am On Jan 07, 2021
Offpoint1:
I'm willing to sponsor any guy here who's ready to get married.
Am ready oo.....oya sponsor me
RomanceRe: Marriage by sogud(op): 8:08pm On Jan 06, 2021
I wish i cn ve my way to go to Canada.....I won't tink twice

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