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Hello gurus in d house. I have a 2007 accord and just recently on d dashboard, the D3 is indicated while D blinks. Meanwhile d gear is in D. What can be the cause?

lachill: A parasite actually Entamoeba coli.

Pls don't repeat this elsewhere. It's Escherichia coli

jpphilips: Con ladies

U go about quoting everybody in this thread. The person my post was meant for took it in good faith. Now if u do hate virgins this passionately u don't go about singing it to high heavens. It's ur life,make ur choice. Everyone is entitled to his/her opinion n there's nothing u will say that will change that.

ephee: Read tru ur story and discovered I was also in the same boat as u but in my own case.my hubby made me stay away from my mum and family members which made me isolated and he reported evey misunderstanding to his mum and siblings who supported him. After d last incidence of his strangling me and got rescued by my neigbours Ifinally informed my mum tru d help of my boss.I packed all my stuffs and my baby's stuffs into a hired cab and left finally. My husband neva bothered to look for us coz he belived I wil run bak after a while not until it dawned on him that av left for real. Not even his family called.I am a happy single mum now and I belive God wil send me a helper to take care of my finances.my mum has relly been trying for me and baby.

U r really a strong lady. I believe if u have some education or acquired skills u can sail through and be financially independent. U don't really need a man as a helper in that regards. If love comes knocking again pls open ur heart but not necessarily because he's a helper. I do hope u will understand my post. Stay blessed

shizzleStar: Hopefully! even thou some will rather remain in abusive marriages

I just can't understand it.

cococandy: If you preach self respect and dignity to some women,they will be the first to turn on you and make you seem the destroyer who is out to make them lose what they cherish most in the world which is a man's approval.
There are plenty of them on this forum self. I've stopped bothering myself about it.

Yes o! Them full for NL. May be it's their upbringing

So very sad! I just hope more women can stand up for themselves and have self dignity to walk out from an abusive relationship.

RoyalRoy: Quality always supercedes Quantity

Now it's quality and not men are scarce. Smh. Please be consistent,d same thing u asked theLordreigns to do

RoyalRoy: You are not pure... not at all.
Yoruba adage says...." a. Gbo ejo enikan da agba osika ni'....meaning an adult who makes judgement on a one sided story is not a worthy elder.
You have "spammed" this thread with a loud "noise" of !leave him because of one slap in two years!!!."
The truth be told... I believe women like you are exactly the opposite of what you preach. If you follow your own rules according to the gospel you are preaching here... you sure will remain single till Jesus comes.
But then... everyone is entitled to their opinion. I Wish You well babe!!!

I don't doubt ur story one bit cos there's no 1 size that fits all. Life is a gamble. It paid well for her(ur wife) but for every 'her' that succeded there r a lot that regreted d decision to marry such a fellow

nairalife2013: hahahahaha. May god help u. Desperate. I wish u knew who she is. She had better suitors than me. And she was only abt 23yrs or so then. She loved me beyond words, she believe i love her also. She believe in her self and her ability to tame me and get what she want. To her, i had an edge above all other men, tho i was younger and more social and extrovert. She hard love for me and all d attributes i need in a lady and she was extremely hard working academically- with all those attributes she was sure with her discerning mind that all she needed to have a perfect home was just, she told me much later, was just respect for her man and humilty in his presence. Now she controls my empire, like jack sparrow controls ship of the carrebean seas! God help u. Just live as u wish.its only desperate women that are meek and limitlesly humble. Am smiling to my self, as i visualize your awestruck countenance if i tell u what she was then at abt 18rs and what she is now at 27. She was desperate indeed. Continue leading tha life. itz yur life. There are those that get what they want. There others that get what they deserve while others get nothing. Itz yur life.

RoyalRoy: Men are not scarce?

He he he... I pity you and anyone who believes in your statements

Tell that to desperate and insecure girls. I repeat MEN ARE NOT SCARCE! Go ahead and have a fit. I'm not here to stroke ur ego.

Blessedwhite: thanks can you be a little bit more clear in your point of view

Wots there to make clearer? Kanwulia has elaborated it.Answer cococandy's question! She has said it all.

kakakent: Aunty pls no insults intended but I think u re one of those furstrated women who out of shakara and over puffing of chest wasted away their marriage oppurtunity now u re bent on destroying young girls relationships so as to make them end up like you @ op 2 years relationship nd the guy hasn't hit u b/4? Well considering how women talk u might have said something bad sha if u like follow this home wreckers advise nd throw way ur 2yrs b/4 imara u go don reach 38 I jst dey advise oh

Is this kind of talk that get women into trouble. This is relationship o not marriage. If Op finally marries him n he continues slapping her,they will ask if she didnt see it b4 marrying him. If she's 38 and alive there's still hope than marrying at 20 and being in an abusive marriage or worse stil dead. Men are not that scarce that u will see danger and still plunge headlong.
He may or may not repeat it but d probability is higher on him repeating it

theLORDreigns: Where she goes is secondary... right now, the smart thing to do is to walk out.



She isn't, it was self-defence.



She isn't the abusive type...



Lol...stop being sarcastic!

Thank u for ur sincere answer. Some guys here are saying d Op is also abusive. Mtschewww! The Op slapping him back is in self defence. The natural thing that comes to mind when someone hits u is to hit back,be u a man or a woman.atimes it's even involuntary.
Now as for my opinion, Op, the likelihood that ur boyfriend will slap u again is very high. Once it starts it has started. A have a gut feeling u want to forgive him and u want supporters. Finally the decision is urs to take.

Cos it's a misnomer! The same way a man will complain if he starts running d home n caring for d kids. Hope u get me

jayseehe: funny, how can patients be paying for equipments in a federal hospital?
equipments bought with tax payer's
money..
only in Naija

Who says Igbobi doesn't have the drill. The doctor just cornered the patient for extra change. It happens

Lenzz: I mean at her rate, 5yrs from now assuming we get married like I intend to, there's a good chance one of us will be asleep while we're (eventually) having the 'almighty' sex. What's more? There's a good chance it will be in missionary position!

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Being a virgin is not that u want to get d best of all men or is it abt copying Mother Theresa, it's a matter of principle and choice. That she's a virgin doesn't mean she will be boring in bed when u guys marry! Dat she's boring now while u guys are trying to make out is because she doesn't want u guys to go too far in d act. Marry her first and u will see the tigress in her. She will be so willing to learn and please.

Sweetlemon: The summary of my sermon is this; whether you be Holy Mary, whether you be Mother Theresa, whether you be Kate Middleton, whether you be Patience Jonathan, whether you be Marilyn Monroe, the man that will love you will love you. The man that wants to marry you will marry you regardless.

I quite agree with u but good character will get u better n more suitors than bad character.(My observation though)

Well said! This summarizes it

nnewa: like d saying in political sphere 'to provide a level playing field' shld b guide in career advancement of diff players in d health industry but within legal and profession guidelines. have d health administrators and cmds been just and fair to all players, have there been lopsided treatment to any side,what brought about d reversal of headship of public hospitals during Ransome Kuti era as MOH. if there are clear cut roles for diff professional consultants, how is d patient care at risk. i do not think johesu is out t prove d indispensability of nma or otherwise bt t insist on growth & improvement of d sector for d betterment of d system. rather it is d nma using position inducement & intimidation in various hosps to puncture johesu strike. d cmd nma always com
mandeer emergency services in d interest of patient but either look d other way or turn incapable of replicating same whenever nma is on strike. indispensability !!! someone is insisting

Tallesty1: Good, what do feminists want

The last paragraph where I first quoted u

Judas2013: I have heard that billions of time

Ok sir! Cheers

njokusboy: I agree... Dat also gives us the liberty to dispose of her as we please, same way we get rid of any belonging we no longer want....

Mind you, am only following ur reasoning...

Lol! Yes I agree! If(I'm married sha) I'm married to a man that paid millions as bride price(bought me) and isn't interested in my penny and provides my all my needs,then I have no choice than to do my chores deligently n strive to please him so that he doesn't throw me out but if he paid 15naira/ nothing as bride price and I have to partner wit him in finance then he has to partner wit me in my traditional roles. It's give and take. Lol

cronsberg: Women: A demonic snake like creature that bleeds a whole week out of every month yet never dies

Jezz! Murder alert! If it were possible this guy will exterminate all women on earth! Do u really hate women this much? Please do me just one favour, don't marry a woman I beg u, her fate in ur hands gives me d shivers

Tallesty1: Can I ask you a question

Ask. If i know the answer I will give if I don't I will attempt anyways.

crackhaus: I edited my first post already...but here it is:



Let me add others:
What has sharing chores or cooking based on who first got home got to do with equality?

Why have African women converted the purpose of equality from being purely an economic and social movement which seeks equal opportunities and standing for both sexes into a fight for supremacy in the institution of marriage?

Was equality ever about marriage?

And if African women now want to make it about marriage, why are these women still collecting bride price on their heads for marriage, which essentially by all economic definitions is buying and selling (purchase)?
These women are paid for and want to come into the marriage with an air of wanting marital equality (which in essence is competitiveness) ....so what gives?

Who collects bride price? How much is this bride price sef that we will not hear word? Please if u buy her,provide all her needs and don't expect or put eye in her dime

Tallesty1: Ok....... But the problem African men have is not these women that clamour for equality. My wife is not my slave, she is my body and deserves every respect. Our real problem is feminism. I know it may sound funny to hear that I'm in for equality but against feminism, I ll explain. The people that clamour for equality want the same opportunities as men. They want equal pay to men. They want to walk alone and feel safe, they want to have a say. These are the things they want and men are ok with them but feminism but feminism operates under the assumption that simply because women's roles were considered "submissive," that they alone should be freed from gender roles.
Feminists tend to want equality only when it benefits them.

When challenged feminists do say they believe in equal rights for men as well and then they continue to support a movement who's stated aim is the destruction of men and family. Many women do not know these, even some nigerian feminists on nairaland do not know it.

The people that started the movement in the late sixties were violent, bitter, emotionally damaged lesbians who hated men and that is why most them on nland hate men. Those who ask for equal rights do not hate men but feminists do.

These man hating lesbians have been telling lies about men and vilifying us for several years. They say 1 in 4 women will be raped in her lifetime and that is a lie. They used to say that women earned less than men for the same work, that was a lie. They say that men are more violent than women, that is a lie, they say that women are living in bondage, that is a lie, and some other crazy lies like that, the biggest lie feminists have always told is that they support equal rights for women and men. That is not true.

Feminism is so deceptive and I believe is from the pit of hell. God outlines the roles of women and men as different but equally as important. He created us different physically emotionally, etc and that is the way it shall always be.

UPDATE: all yo feminists on nland that have been given a lot of misinformation, for all yo angry people that are intoxicated with hatred, believing that maleness is synonymous with violence.

To all of yo who think you can teach men how to treat a lady when you yourselves do not know what being a lady is all about in the first place.

To all yo that would never consider doing some certain works/things because they are men's work but want EQUALITY

To all of yo who claim that women arrested for domestic violence must have acted in self-defense

You have this from me: I don't care for feminism and what it has become, every man on his own, but you need to know that the law of equality states that we are created equal so no more fringe benefits because you are a lady The law also states that we all should be treated as human beings and should be held equally accountable for our actions so playing victim cards won't help

So u are now an authority on FEMINISM and its this ur version that is the real feminism? Pls all those things u mentioned as lies are not lies,do a thorough research and u will find out they are not lies.
For the records,Feminists are not men haters neither do they want to be men,all they seek is something close to equality and a reduction in d double standard in our society. Thank u

gan gan
*quickly climbs d fence to get a better view of the fighting arena*

Judas2013: Ipad/internet is much better than the Holy Spirit.

Pls be careful what u say

matify: Don't mind him, we know his type.

Medicine like they say is not made and cut-out for the brilliant but for the"
called".

Most people who have jumped into reading medicine on account of shear brilliance have been disappointed when they could not scale through pre-clinical school and it is this lot who went on to study allied courses like pharmacy that have gone rogue on doctors.

Pls who have u seen that failed out of medicine and went ahead to study pharmacy? I believe in stating d facts n nt just writing to win an argument.
Back to d topic, it is a known fact that doctors(MDCAN) first took JOHESU to court restraining all parties from going on strike only for NMA to embark on one.
Is it not a fact that NMA is not a trade union and dat it's illegal for them to embark on strike?

Fejiro thumbs up! You have said it all. A thousand likes for this brilliant write up. Pls keep educating the populace because all I see is these NMA people feeding the populace with lies and distorting facts

Ibnsultan: For every Action there will be an Opposite Reaction. Take Now. Bokoharam is our collective enemy #stopEthnicProfiling

It's unfortunate but who do we blame. They r only being security conscious! Do u blame them?

Ishilove: @Op, this story just dey pain my body. I have a friend who has a younger brother with these traits. The boy is full of wickedness and stubborness, and he has even raised a cutlass agains his own elder brother (my friend) and left a scar on his face. The boy's mother has taken him out for several deliverance sessions, but nothing yet. It has gotten so bad that whenever their mother is going out in the morning, she hides all sharp implements in the house so that she wouldn't come back from work to hear stories that leave the eyes misty.

Where do all these demonic children come from sef?

Your friends younger brother could hv mental illness. Pls tell them to take him to a psych hosp. It's not demonic