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Give it to the fathers,it's their prerogative. However, the mother can name the child as well. I name mine because if I wait for my husband,the child will be 2yrs old without a name.

From what I have seen so far, I can only adopt a child that's less than 2yrs of age. Less than a year preferably so that I can mould the child like mine and bond properly with him/her. Anything more than this, count me out.

tolu4you:
but i knw her before marriage.. she is a frigid type...

So why are you complaining. Keep managing, you are doing well

phabulous88:
You guys don't get it, a research is an enquiry into the unknown. I didn't carry out the research, I'm only summarising and presenting its findings. By the way, the research was carried out on women like you and if 320 women agree to this, then its most likely true. 320 women cannot all be wrong.

Which research? What is the strength of the work? Which journal published it? What's the impact factor of the journal?What's the sample size? What sampling method was used? What statistical method was used? 320 women is it statistically significant for you to come to such conclusion. Pls make a thorough review of these 'your' researches b4 making a sweeping statement

phabulous88:
The research didn't say it wasn't painful but that women generally exaggerate the pain. By the way, is it not just about excreting something? What's the big deal?

What's the big deal? May God have mercy on you. I wish you will have an opportunity of going to labour room and just seeing with your eyes. I know you are not a father cos no father will yarn this dust that's coming out of your mouth.

OdenigboAroli:
NO,we are not saying the same thing,guy!
You are claiming Onicha and Bini came from the same BLOODLINE and I think that comment is very pathetic. The complete breakdown of Onicha culture as practiced in Issele Ukwu,Onicha Ugbo,Onicha Olona and Onicha Ukwu will reveal that Onicha were never BINI people at any point since their existence! You are not from Bini lineage! You are from the lineage of Ezechime who resided in Bini land but was never a BINI man. You have influence from Bini culture because of your proximity to Bini but thats all. Why is it that you Onicha people are so crazy about sharing ancestry with Bini who doesn't even recognize you? This is embarrassing and an insult to the great Igbo race!

Oh boy! I give up. So you are now an authority in onicha history. In fact, you know for certainty because you lived in Ezechime era abi? I truly give up

OdenigboAroli:
"Have u read the onitsha history as published from the Obi's palace? This is not to be argued nah! By the way if you are an onicha you will know this" by Soonest.

What else is there to tell about the history of Onicha...We know the Ezechime migrants,Igala migrants and the Ogboli-eke who are the landlords. Unless if you lot has added another lie. I even read one that says you are from Egypt....lol

aint we saying the same thing. Onitsha's are of igbo,bini and igala ancestry! Mind you I never said we weren't igbos. Wouldn't that be funny?

Deltagiant:
We have learnt through out history how human beings tend to associate with greatness. Though I haven’t read the Igwe Achebe’s, but wouldn’t be surprise if he towed the same unsubstantiated tiring line of the Benin Ezechima myth. Onicha and western Igbo history is replete with stories of some communities claiming ancestry to Benin or to their kings even though in most cases these kings were imposed on them long after their communities have been formed. (E. Isichei) This is regardless of whether there were existing primary, secondary and tertiary migrations.
Was Onicha or Nzam virgin lands when some folks from Benin and Idah arrived?
Therefore, it no longer matters what Igwe Achebe says as his chiefdom is geographically, linguistically and culturally Igbo. Otherwise, everyone came from somewhere but who you are today is what matters.
Wouldn't it be an act of aggression on the part of the descendants of Igbide community in Isoko land whose ancestors originated from Awka in Anambra state to claim aborigenship as Igbos in Isoko land? Is it ever possible? They could only claim that if they chose to relocate to Igboland. I hope you get my drift. That is what I believe OdenigboAroli was trying to let you know.

I get ur drift. We are all saying the same thing

Malawian:
if my onitsha guy catch you saying that, ula o ga ama gi eehn, uche ezuo gi oke

Lol at ula. Ur guy should go ask the elders.

OdenigboAroli:
You are very ignorant of Onicha history....Onicha are clearly Igbos with with cultural ties from Bini and some Igala migrants. Alot of Anambra town share cultural history with Igala and Bini...In Umuoji you will hear names like Okoye-Idu,Otuo n'Igala,Agaba-Idu,Omo-ohale,Iyasele. Its common in Anambra north. But Onicha are clearly Igbos. We dont need to argue that because I know my history.

Have u read the onitsha history as published from the Obi's palace? This is not to be argued nah! By the way if you are an onicha you will know this.

sigidporte:
Today marks the beginning of Ofala festival in the great city of Onitsha. The biggest festival in the south east. I celebrate with Obi Nnaemeka Achebe (Agbogidi 1), Onitsha people and Anambra state. God bless my home land.

I wish I could attend the Ofala if not for anythhing,enjoy the Obi and Ndi ichie dance to the rhythm of egwuota.

Tonylyte:
When i said d oda day that the onitsha peoples are not igbos, but originated from benin, some ignorant anambra indigienes went sentimental and started insulting me. They laid claims that the onitsha people speaks igbo and go by igbo names, what has dat got to do with the fact that they(onitsha people) are not igbos?

Says who? Onitshas are of mixed heritage comprising of Igbo,bini and igala. Fact

pickabeau1:
Woman..can u get the heck off my back...
Where did u come from


Just make your comments and move on...

I have no business with your back. Go and read your comment again. Have a nice day

pickabeau1:
Everyone here is blaming the man while few wants to tell u d truth. Only beevann did

And that seems to be your problem

It's a bit odd thinking about it but then life goes on after a divorce

Forgive, may be but Forget, never.

otukpo:
And more importantly, what he would have said to her.

How do I get this thought out of my head. This is one of the reasons why forgiveness wil be far fetched.

brito:
This is what many women are suffering in marriages today , anyone going into marriage should know that unclothedness is part of marriage. Pay attention to your spouse's feelings don't push them to the walls, sadly I'm going through same here. The best I can do for myself is to forget about it, I mean taking my mind off sexxxxx. pls no one should quote me

I'm sorry for quoting you but it's in good faith. How do you take your mind off sex? Have you tried making him realize how important it is to you? May be you guys can reach a compromise that's fair to u both.
@op,this applies to you as well

What do you think

pickabeau1:
ok.. are u happy now



soonest

pickabeau1:
Do u form a persona u r not online....

if not.. why bother..

if yes..hmmm

Stop generalizing simple. Do you know anyone offline to know the different persona being formed?

pickabeau1:
Why is it so difficult for u ladies.. always forming cynthia rothrock online

Stop generalizing

Enugu -onitsha road is a complete write off. Since 2008, they have been working on that road yet we don't get to see the result. Federal government has been very insensitive as regards that road. As it is right now I don't think that road can ever be completed or be a dual carriage road.

The gurus in the house, my accord's 6 loader CD has suddenly stopped working. It wouldn't even come on. However the radio still works. Pls, what could be the problem and solution? Thank you

Whatever she does with her food is her business. When we have meetings in the office and take away food is shared. I usually take mine home esply if I'm not hungry and we all share it.

I don't like the idea, seems desperate

pickabeau1:
And wat will be d result of d survey

Many of those things you wrote happening abroad are already happening in Nigeria

pickabeau1:
Yes i know its not in nigeria

I asked can it happen in the foreseeable future

We have guys who are getting disinterested in females

same with ladies who dont want to take on the mantle of marriage and be a wife

What do u think

did I hear you say not in Nigeria? Hmmh! U may need to take a survey. You will be shocked

tartar9:
the Shariah will be fully implemented not only in the North,but in everyother place in Nigeria whether you like it or not.

Unfortunately, these are only in ur dreams

superstar1:
Lol. Funny you.

It is easier for Netanyahu to become Iran President or Ahmadinejad to become Israel than for your shariah to set foot on yoruba soil.

You want shariah, relocate to caliphate of ISIS, Iran, Sambisa Forest, Afghanistan, Somalia, Yemen, Iraq, Syria, Lebanon, etc where beheading is a norm, defiling your girls is a norm and ruling in a barbaric 7th century leadership style is in vogue.

U dey mind am. Is either he's high on glue or has cerebral malaria